No matter how much we women try to kid ourselves and think that we’re all completely individual people and that there’s no way to really attract any woman, there are several things that never fail to attract us girls and get us interested in a given man out of all the other men in the bar / club / room. The following are the traits that appeal to and attract all women, regardless of looks, age, interests, etc.
Don’t dress like a bum - Although this might seem obvious to most and comical to some, a simple glance around any bar / club by any woman (trust me!), will reveal many completely clueless men dressed like crap. Now don’t get me wrong, this is not snobbery and the goal is not to attempt to look as rich or wealthy as possible - built simply to be well presented.
Girls go to great lengths to get ready to go out for a night on the town, for hours in advance. We lay out different outfits to decide what to wear, do our hair (often redo it several times), bathe, use creams and apply makeup, and much more - simply to get ready for an average night at a club. Now why would a girl that put in all that time and effort into looking good, go out to hook up with some guy in a dirty t-shirt and jeans with (oh what style) a baseball cap. Think again. If you look like you just fell out of bed, plan on going back there, alone. If you're serious enough to learn how to attract girls, you should at least be serious enough to take the time to look good, no exceptions!
Confidence - No matter what a girl tells you about the type of guys that she likes (“kind, sweet, thoughtful, etc.”), I’m going to let you in on the real secret of what women truly want in ANY man, and that’s confidence. It is without a doubt, the single most attractive thing to any and all women. Why do you think that so many smart, attractive and successful women go out with such jerks and put up with their lies, mistreatment, B.S. and drama? It’s not the fact that the guy’s a jerk that they like, it’s the simple fact that most jerks are confident. Being confident without being a jerk is the biggest turn on any woman could hope for.
Humor and Intrigue - All women love a mystery. This doesn’t mean you have to be aloof or rude, but at the same time realize that most guys talk way to much about themselves (and bore us to tears!). Just don’t give it all away at once, hold a few bits of information back (a cool hobby, an exciting vacation you took) and tell her at a later time. By remaining a bit mysterious you’ll not only be way ahead of the competition, you’ll also have a quality that fascinates most women.
Also, Humor is important. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “Keep her laughing and you‘ve got her” or something similar. Being spontaneous and funny is so sexy because you not only convey having a sense of humor, but also intelligence and confidence, all at the same time! If you’re naturally witty, this can be like Viagra to the right woman! Just remember not to go too overboard (you‘ll risk seeming “try hard”) and no joking about taboo subjects (like religion, politics, or rude humor).
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