Husband Wife Relationship: How To Improve?

lady bird

• ap onkaa mood jub acha ho tub on sy kisi bat ki furmaysh ya request keya kurin jub wo relax ho.
• comunication gap on husband wife meh hota hy ya tu age meah kafi furk ho ya pher wo friendly releation bnany meh nakaam ho
• some time kumelmi ki wuja sy murd essy layjy ko murdaangi sumajta hy k wife ko dubbaa k rukho wife ko wife ni sumajta , es meh os ki kumelmi or apny dosto k olty sedy mushwaray shamil hoty hen
• husband ko chaiye k wife ko mahaana ya rozana ya weekly khuch khurch dy ta k wo apni zroorat ki choti choti chezin khod sy lay suky ,,ya pher shoping k leye khod lay k jana chaieye.
• ap onky leye acha bun sunwar k raa kurin jub apny room meh ho rat ko,
• acha khanaa bnaaya kurin on ki mun pausand
• dresss achay press kur k onki hur chez onko times sy dayin.
• close hony k leye ye he hy rat ko jub room meh ho tu koi movi daykh leya kurin os py discuss keya krin koi topic,
• baki depent kurta hy ap k husband ka k wo jessy mahool meh rehty hen gur sy baher ,
• ya ap on sy request kur sukti hen k apko khuch khurcha day deya kurin ta k zrorat ki chezin ly sukin
• onki pussund na pussnd ka khiyaal rukhin
• acha dresss use kurin
• baki ap behtur janti hen ap k husband kesy hen so os hisaab sy deal kurin

ladybird bhan salaam

dear members my problem is that k meri shadi ko 4 years ho gaey hain.aik daughter bhi hay

mashaALLAH.

but problem ye hay k main apni koi bhi baat sahi un se share nahi ker sekti.wo bhot jaldi gusay main aajatay hain aur galat fahmi ka shikar ho jaatay hain

ans.ap unse bat q ny kr pati kia ap ye khena chati hy k wo ghusse ho jaten hen to phr iss me kis ki galati hy wo q ghusse hote hen kahin aap apni bat sai se samjha na pati ho or wo iss ki wajah se distrub ho jate ho or unka distrub hona apko ghussa to ny laghta agr aesa hy to phr problem aapme hy ap apni bat proper tareeqe se khaiye saf saf ghuma phera kr ny jo khena hy saf saf khiye bas.

mujhay ager kuch purchaze kerna ho to mujhay samajh main nahi aata k un se kaisay kahoon b coz mujhay der lagta hay k wo inkaar ker dain gain bel k mostly inkaar hi ker datay hain main financially totally un pe hi depend kerti hoon

ans.ap unse apna mahine ka kharach bandh len ye behtr hogaa or unke liye b acha hogaa k bar bar unhen dene ki zehmat na hogii or iss se apko unpr depanad hone ki b zaroorat ny hy.

but wo kharch kertay howy kanjoosi se kaam laiatay hain

ans.iss liye to apko mushwara dia jaraha hy k ap unse mahana kharach bandh len jis pr ap dono razi ho jao ye acha tareeqa hy ab bar bar ap unse mange gii to wo b kabi lakr den gii to kabi inkaar kr dengii.

aur mujhay baar baar maangna acha nahi lagta.

ans.g han ye izzate nafss ki baat ho jati hy.

main kia karoon kuch aisi tips batain k hum aik dooray k close ho jain

ans.bhan apko jo tips batayee hy uspr aamal kr k dekhen agr apko faida na ho to khena ye tajurbaa shuda tips hy.

aur wo mujh per aur bachi pe khoosh dili se kharch karain.

ans.iss k liye apko thura sa dimaagh lagana paregaa wo aese k apko ye hisaab lagana hogaa k apka or baby ka mahana kharch kitna hy jo munasib ho ye hisaam lagane k bad unse pyaar muhabbat se beth kr kisi ache se moqa pr ache moqa se yaad aaya k kahaa jata hy k aadmi k dil ka rasta uss k pait se jata hy to kisi roz unki pasand deedah koi dish bana len phr munasib moqa dekh kr pyaar se beth kr unse baat karen k apse baat krni hy k ap mujhe mahana kharach mera or baby ka itna de dia karen phr pore mahine me apse swaal ny karoongii pyaar se baat karengii to yaqeenan bhai sahab man jayengii innshaALLAH.

aur hum sub tarha ki batain aik doosray se share ker sakain .

ans.iss k liye to ap dono ko ek dosre k sat zyada se zyada wqtt guzaar ne ki zaroorat hy jitna wqtt zyada hogaa utna ek dosre ko samajh paogee.

thanks.

well come. 

thanks alot

ladybird

aap sab se pehle kuch sawalo ke jawab de.

aap k husband ki age kitni hai on ka star kon sa hai?aap k husband ki salary kitni hai aur woh kya kaam karte hain?

on ke kitney behan bhai hain.aur jis ghar mein aap log rehte hain wahan aur kon kon rehta hai.

aap ke husband gusey mein aa kar kya karte hain aap ko kya gusey mein sirf bolte hain ya galiya ya phir marte bhi hain?

pehle aap in baato ke jawab de phir he main aap ko munasib mashwara don ga.lekin star lazman batana.

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wo finance ki job kertay hain .ager office main koi problem ho to mujh pe sakht gusay hotay hain un ka bus nahi chalta k mujhay marain .main berdhasht ker laiti hoon.kahtay hain k meri wajha se hi to un ko itna hard work kerna perta hay.no doubt he is honest n hard working person n i really admire him.i love him so much main chati hoon k hamaray dermiayn understanding ho .friendship ho.mujhay batain main un ko kaisay deal karoon.

ladybird bhan salaam

we r living in uae n we hv to pay rent for flat.

ans.ok bhan abb samajh me aaya k apki problem ki wajah kia hy ap u.a.e me rehten hen or aaj k wqtt me emarat me rehna bhut bhut mushkil kaam hy ek aadmi ka guzara mushkil se hota hy to apto family ho or apki bachi mashaALLAH school b jati hy waseem08 khoob samajh sakta hy k apki problem kia hogii q k waseem08 dubai me hi paida howa hy or hamari family 45 saloon se yaheen hy abb emarat phele jesa na raha hy wahan abb pakistaan se zyada khrcha hogaya hy khaas kr k makaan ka karaya or school fees ab abto khene ki aashiya b din baa din barhti jarahi hy yaqeenan bhai saab ko waqiiyee bhut problem hoti hogii ye waseem08 jann sakta hy ap bura mat manna likin ye haqeeqat hy k ap ghr me beth ka bhar ki mushkil tareen dunia ko ny jaan sakti abb apko jo muswara de raha hon uss k begeir koi chara ny hy phr ye k yaa to aap mushware pr aamal karen yaa phr pakistaam shift ho jayen k jitne mushkil tareen wqqtt me ap u.a.e me reh rahi hy uss se kai km kharche me pakistan me aaraam se reh sakti ho pr pakistam me rehne ki surat me apko qurbani deni hogii or wo ap janti ho k saal k saal bhai aasakegii jesa k sab overseze pakistani bhar jakr mehnat krte hy or saal k saal aaten hen to mushwara ye hy k apko b job krni hogii agr ap kheti hy k wo ny manti  to yaqeenan wo emarat k mohool se drte hen jese k ap janti hy k yahaan kis kader uryaani or fuhaashi aam hy to aap unko razi karen or kisi school teacher ki job talaash karen k ye ek aesi job hy jis k liye shuhar mana ny krte baqi ALLAH ap pr reham frmaye hamari dua hy k ap mazeed khush haal ho jayen AAMEEN.

ladybird

virgo star ke log aksar wehmi aur kanjoos dekhe gaye hain.even yeh apni zaat par bhi kuch nehin lagate.

kisi insaan ko samujna ya os se dealing karni ho to sab se pehle os ki soch ko janna bhut zaroori hai.woh tabiyat ka kesa hai woh kya soch rakhta hai yeh sab baatein jaanna bhut zaroori hain.

aap k husband koi jaan booj kar esa nehin karte.on ki adat he esi hai on ki fitrat mein kanjoosi hai.lehaza woh kanjoos hain.

lekin kuch ese effect hain ke aap oney badal sakti hain.os ke liye kuch sabar aur kuch mehnat ki zaroorat hai.aap apne husband ko badal sakti hai.

aap rozana kuch na kuch paise saving karo.chahe kisi cheez mein se paise bacha kar 1 rupess bhi saving karo.jintey saving kar sakti ho utney saving karo lekin aap ke husband ko feel na ho ke paise kam huye hain.

os ke liye aap 2 rupess bhi kisi tarha jama kar le tab bhi kaam chal sakta hai.aap itney saving kar le k os se aap koi cheez khareed sakhe.jese ke koi shirt,pent,ya phir koi bhi acha sa gift.aap saving karte rahe jab tak paise kafi jama na ho jaye.

jab paise jama ho jaye tab aap apne husband se choori koi on ke liye gift khareed le.jo aap ko acha lage wohi le le.os gift ko apne husband ko achanak de ke main aap ke liye layi hon.

woh pareshan ho jaye ge.aur sab se pehle sawal yeh ho ga ke paise kahan se aye.tab aap onhey such bataye ke main ne 1,1rupess jama kar ke aap ke liye gift liya.kyun ke main aap se bhut pyar karti hon.

kafi dino se soch reho thi ke kuch aap ko don lekin paise nehin hote thay.main ne socha ke kyun na main paise jama karon aur sirf aap ke liye khud khareed kar gift don.

yeh baat on ke dil par lagi gi es baat ki main garantty deta hon.aur on ki kanjsoosi mein bhut farak pare ga.aap on se pyar karti hai lekin sab kuch aap k dil mein hai.koi esa kaam kare ke on ke hosh urr jaye.

pyar to har koi karta hai apni husband se kuch alag ho ga tab he ese mardo par asar ho ga.lehaza aap ko jo kaha hai pehle aap esa kare yeh method inshallah kamyaab ho ga.

ladybird

husband ap ki thoraaaa sa ghult kur ray hen onko ehsaaas hona chaiye . k wife ki b khuch apni zroortyin hoti hen , onko chaiye k bina mangy ap ko weekly ya monthly khurch dayin ya daily atleast 20 dhiram. wo ap ki murzi khurch kurin ya save kurin.