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iaamir411 |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Feb, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 74 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Feb 2008, 7:09am |
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 Love Affair: How To Protect My Self?
man ik 25 year ka maried shaks hon.or man apni bivi se bohat piar karta hon lekin meri gali ki ik larki mujh men bohat interest lati ha she is 18 years old or wo bohat hi haseen bhi ha.man apni bivi ki waja se is se avoid kr raha hoon kion ke man apni wife ke saath bewafai nahi kr sakta.lekin man hoon to ik inssan jo galti ka putla hota ha ab mujhe bhi us se piar hone laga ha jo man nahi chahta.plz bataen man kese bach sakta hoon.kion ke man abhi tk avoid hi kr raha hoon.
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~~HITMAN~~ |
Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Feb 2008, 8:05am |
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iaamir App ko kesay pata k wo app main interest leti hai ?......... app uski taraf dekhtay kyun hain jab app ki shaadi hochuki hai ?
bhai seedha seedha usko ignore karain maamla khud hi hal hojaye ga .......app jitna usko dekhain gay utna hi uskay baray main soochain ,phir jitna uskay baray main soochain gay utna hi app ko us say mohabbat mehsoos hogi ,kyunkay app husn parast maloom hotay hai ..........
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seriously |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Dec, 2007 Topic: 24 Post: 313 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Feb 2008, 10:15am |
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agar aap gali main rahtay hain tow aap key amdani itni ziada nahi ho gee kah aap dosree shadi aur dosree biwi afford kar sakain. Islam main na mahram aurtoon say aik hee kisam ka mohabat wala taaluq ( relationship ) allowed hay , woh hay dosree , tesree aur chothee shadi.
Shadi kay baghair aap kisee na mahram aurat ya larkee say kisee qasam ka jasbatee relationship ( love/mohabat, girlfriend, rakhail ) nahi rakh saktay.
Yes aik na mahram aurat aap key teacher, aap key doctor , aap keey nurse , aap key parosan, aap key nokrani , aap key employee ,aap key boss ho saktee hay magar jaisa ka main nay kaha aap key girlfriend ya rakhail nahi ho saktee , yeh bohat bara gunha hay.
Tow ab aap kahain gay kay phir main kia karron ? Right ?
Jiasa ka main nay kaha agar aap dow(2) biwee rakhna afford kar saktay hain tow dosree shadee kar lain iss larkee kay sath. magar yaad rakhain Islam nay iss kay ley a bhee bohat baree shart rakhee hay. Insaaf karnay ke jo kah iss mahnga e kay dowr main koi bhee nahi kar sakta aur agar na kar sakay ga to jahanmi ho ga. Iss ley a iss dunia kay zara say mazay kay ley a aap dosree dunia kay hameesha kay azab ka khatra kion mole lay rahay hain ? |
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samaa |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Feb 2008, 1:07pm |
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waqti inspiration iss terha aap apni wife ke saath khiyanat ker rahey hain..... sochain ager yehi situation app ki wafe k saath ho to aap ki kiya condition ho gee..... kiyun aap apna ghar barbad kerney per tuley huye hain...... aaj kul teen ager arkiyaan bohut judldi mardon se inspire ho jaatee hain..... muger yeh mohubat nahi hotee hai..... sirf eik inspiration hotee hai ..... jo k juld hi khutam bhi ho jaatee hai..... aisey kisi waqti inspiration k liye apna ghar kharab mut karain..... or naa hi apni biwi ko dukh dain..... cuz ager eik dafah bhi aap ki biwi ka aitimaad aap per se uth gayaaa..... to saari zindagi woh aap per aitimaad nahi karey gee..... kiyun apni life mushkil main daal rahey hain. |
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iaamir411 |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Feb, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 74 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2008, 12:02am |
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HITMAN hitman bhai ap ki bat sun kr taujub huwa.ke mujhey kese pata chala ke wo mujh man interested ha ?.yeh to asi bat hui ke jese doctor mareez se pooche ke bhai tumen kese pata chala ke tumen bukhar ha? but ap ki doosri bat kuch theek lagti ha lekin mere bhai man esa hi to kr raha hon avoid hi to kr raha hoon or kia man us kul ki chokry ki waja se ghar chore ke chala jaon! |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2008, 12:06am |
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nawa chand bahi agar app kal kee chokry kee waja say ghar nahi choor saktay too pher us larki maa baap koo kahay kay us larki koo lagam dalay kahee yeah larki kooi naya chand hee na charr day.
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raazdaar |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Nov, 2007 Topic: 38 Post: 369 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2008, 1:17am |
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 Aik Hi Taraf Tawajo Do Bhayee
SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Yai case mairai saat bi hua ta.Lakin bhayee main nai waqt ko daik kar apnai qadam rook liyai.Aur phir app to shadi shuda hain.Waisai HITMAN bhayee ki baat teeq hai.Pyaar khabi bi aik side sai nahin hota na kai wo pyaar kaha jata hai.Q kai agar aisa ho bi jaisa kai app keh rahai hoo.To app larki to nahin kai apnai app ko nahin rook saktai.
Abi agar kuch karna hai to app nai hi karna hai.Bhayee zehan aik hi side pai rakoo.App kai pyaar par app ki bivi ka haq hai.Agar aik insaan sirf itna soochai kai Dil ki mohabat aik hi insaan sai honi chahiyai.Na kai is ko ham sabzi ki mandi banalai kai aik jayee dosra ayee.App khud behtar jantain hai kai app kai kuch karnai sai kya hoga aur na karnai sai kya hoga.
Bass baat abb yahi hai kai sahi rasta chono.Agar chai app na karna chahai to app par koyee nahin karsakta kuch.Us cheez ko tawajo na dai jo kai app ki tawajo ki layaq na hoo.Yai sab kuch kar kai shahid app ko jo karna hoga.Wo to app kar laingai.Lakin pachtana app hi ko parai ga......
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
TAKE CARE
ALLAH HAFIZ |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2008, 1:29am |
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iaamir dear....im agreed to allllllll
dekhyen ap usey avoid to ker rahey hain....lekin ap ka dil aur dimagh baaz nahi aa rha...shetaan ap ko us larki ki taraf dhakail rha hai....ap us larki ko avoid keryen...totally avoidddddd.....aur usey danten k tum mujhey kion dekhti ho...kia chahti ho.....ap k rude behavior ko dekh ker wo bhi ap se shayd nafrat karney lagaey aur khud bhi ap ko avoid kerney lag jaye....
lekin agar ap ye nahi kerna chahtay to phr ap us k parents se baat kereyn k wo apni beti ki shadi ker deyn.....
agar ap ki daant k bawajood wo larki ap ka peecha na choray to phir ap us k parents ko us ki shikayat keryen....
agar ye sub bhi ap nahi kerna chahtey to phr ap ko chahiye k apni life ko behter bananay k liye ap wo jaga chor deyn...means ghar change ker leyn...i know ye sub se mushkil kaam hai....but apki life se ziada importance nahi hai....apko apni life aur wife k sath relationship ko hamesha khushgawar rakhnayk liye kuch na kuch to kerna hi ho ga |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2008, 12:34am |
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iaamir ...................!!!!!!!! |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2008, 1:44am |
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amir - love affair after marriage wo larki tumhari gali mai rehti hai, to galion mai to log aik dosray k ghar aatay jatay hain,, to pehla kaam to ye karo k apni bv ko sari baat bata do,, phir bv ko unkay ghar bhaijo, kuch paka kar unhai denay chali jain, aur tumhari bv ja kar us larki say akailay mai baat karay aur usay mana karay aur kahay k agar tum baaz na aee to phir mai tumhari ammi ko bata dungi...
direct larki k ghar walon ko batana achi baat nai hai,, 18 years ki nasamajh bachi hai,, usay pehlay warning deni chahiye,, phir bi wo baz na aye to phir achay tareekay say uski mother say baat ki ja sakti hai jis say unko apni insult feel na ho....
is tara tumhara masla hal ho jaeyga agar tum hal karna chahtay ho, agar tumhari apni hi niyat mai fatoor hai to phir kuch nai ho sakta... |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2008, 3:38am |
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iaamir ap khud kahan ghayab hain
Josh ne bohat acha reply kia hai
ap in ki suggestions per sub se pehle amal kareyn...InshaAllah ap ki rpoblem isi se solve ho jaye gi |
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iaamir411 |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Feb, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 74 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2008, 7:50am |
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THANKS TO ALL tamam logon ki batoon ko parha or gor bhi kia .app logon ne ache mashware bhi die.kuch ne narmi se baat ki or kuch ne danta bhi.or kuch ne ziada hi dant dia kher koi batt nahi acha laga .app sb samajhdaar maloom hote han kion keh app man se aksar mujh se senior han.man app logon ko kuch tafseel se batana chahta hoon.
1.app man se aksar logon ne gali wali baat ko bara focus kia ha.darasal ham ik chote kasba numa city man rehte han.or mera ik khaate peete gharane se taluk ha.hamara rice ka biusiness ha.hamari apni ik bari rice factory ha.or is chote se shehar man khoobsoorat ghar ha.
2.mera yeh sb baten batane ka yeh matlub harguz nahi ha ke man app pr koi jhoota roub dal raha hoon.balke apna backgroun is lie bata raha hoon ta ke app ko meri suggestions solve karne man asani rahe.
3.woh larki mere ghar ke qareeb hi rehti ha. or woh bhi ache ghar ki larki ha.sb se important bat ke wo koi asi wesi larki bhi nahi.or yahi mera masla ha keh man kisi ko bata nahi sakta .kion ke koi yaqeen nahi kare ga.
4.ab app logon ke zehan man yeh baat aa rahi ho gi keh agar woh larki shareef bhi ha to phir woh asi harkat kion kr rahi ha. darasal wo larki meri wife ki friend ha.is lie us ka hamare ghar ana jana rehta ha.agar man apni wife ko us laki se milne se rokta hoon to wo mujh se waja pooche gi jo man nahi bata sakoon ga .kion ke wo use achi tarha janti ha ke wo asi larki nahi ha.yehi to mera masla ha.
5.akhri baat ke man ik smart shakseet ka malik hoon or allah ne mujhe asi shakal soorat di ha ke kio bhi larki mugh pe fida ho sakti ha.mumkin ha ke isi waja se wo meri taraf interested ha (man apni tareef nahi kr raha balke app ko sari soorat hal bata raha hon .
SAMMA BAJI app se ik bat kehna chahta hoon ke man apni bivi k sath koi dhoka nahi kr raha or na ho mera koi esa irada ha .or jise app wakti inspitation keh rahi han yahi to asal fasad ki jar ha .yahin se to asal fasad shuroo hota . teen ages ka yeh wakti shugal na jane kitni zindgian barbad kr chuka ha or kitne ghar ujar chuka ha . |
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samaa |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2008, 10:49am |
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eik or baat Arey bhaee jub aap khood yeh baat maantey hain k teenagers ki waqati inspiration ghar burbaad ker daitee hai..... to aap apney aap ko iss situation main involve honey se bachaain...... aap sumujhdaar hai..... maried hain....... bus apna focus apni wife.... ghar or business per rukhain...... or oos larki ko nazar andaaz ker dain..... you will be fine..... it will be tough in the start..... but you will overcome this situation. |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2008, 11:26pm |
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what is opinion about this advice mr ammir i am not married man and i do not know these all things.but i am feeling that ur wife praised and become smart in front of her friend.that is why she is involving with u.so u must advice ur wife that this lady is interested with me.so this way she can stop and this is better way.what is ur advice in this regards.
wait ur comments. |
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4638 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Mar 2008, 11:42pm |
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iaamir maine sab ke mashware read kiye hain aur sab ne ache mashware diye..
josh zeb hitman..sab ne achi bat kahi,
iamir apki ye last post bhi maine read ki hai abhi,aur ye ke wo apki wif eki Dost hain,...ek Hadees hai jisme ye kaha gaya hai ke ek biwi ko apne shohar ke samne bhi apni doston ki baton ka zikar nahi karna chahye aur tareef nahi karni chahye,kyunke is se wo apne shohar me uske lye tujajjus paida karegi aur mard uski taraf dheyan dega.
apne bataya ke wo apki wife ki dost hai aur ghar me ati jati hai,to mera khayal hai jab wo apke ghar ati hai to ap usko bilkul avoid kiya karain ghar se kahin chale jaya karain,ya kisi aur room me jayen jis se apka us se samna na ho sake,ap apni wife ko use milne ko bejh diya karain..lekin in sab ka faida bhi sirf tab hai,jab apne andar wali feelings ko marna chahte hain to.
apko bohat koshish karni hogi,aur ye sirf khuda ki madad se hi ho sakta hai,kyunke humain behkane wale shaitan hai,aur jab bhi apke dil me uske lye ghalat khayalat ayen to ap plz duen parha karain,surat fateha, yaqeenan apka dhehan us se hat jayega..use mukammal tor pe avoid karain,.
aur agar wo ladki zyada bat karne ki koshish karti hai to ap use kahain ke agar wo baz na ayi to ap apni wif eko bata denge,plz uski taraf dekh kar uska hossla na barhayen balke use ignore karain aur use ehsas dilaen ke ap usme interessted nahi hain..kyunke aurat mard ki nazar bohat jaldi pehchan leti hai ke wo kis nazar se dekh raha hai..
akhir me raazdar ne jo kaha,ke wo halat ko dekh kar khud ko sambhal sakta hai to ap kyun nahi??? so plz try ur best inshallah apki problem door ho jayegi |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Mar 2008, 1:16am |
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iaamir sub ne bohat achey reply kiye hain especially sunehri ne....
ap ko ab aisa kerna chahiye
- ap us larki ko totally avoid keryen
- jub wo ap k ghar aye to ap kahin bahar chaley jaya keryen....bus aisa ho k ap us k samnay na aya keryen
- agar kabhi iteefaq se samna ho bhi jaye to ap usey ignore kereyn...uski taraf bilkul na dekheyn
- agar wo koi ap se bat kerey to ap us ka rudely jawab deyn...balke jawab hi na deyn...bcoz pehle to ap us k samney hi na ayen
- apni wife ko samjhayen k islam mein hai k ghair mard k samnay ghair aurat ka aana mana hai....to isey tum yahan na anay diya kero, jub dil chahay khud ja k mil aya kero....
- kisi tarhan apni wife ko islamic tareekey se misaaleyn dey ker smjhao aur us larki ka apne ghar mein ana jana bund kero
- agar in sub tareekon se aur apki avoidance se bhi wo larki baaz na aye to usey daanto k agar tum baaz na ayi to main tumharay ghar walon ko bata dun ga
- agar wo baaz na aye to apni wife ko kaho k mera is larki ka yahan ana jana bilkul pasand nahi hai....aur ye sahi nai hai.....bcoz islam mein bhi hai k biwi ko pehle pyar se samjhaya jaye, agar wo na manay to phr sakhti ki jaye....to ap pehle biwi ko pyar se samjhayen k wo usey ap k ghar na anay diya kerey aur mana keryey.....lekin phir bhi agar apki biwi nai manti to ap sakhti se rude ho ker kaheyn k ainda wo yahan na aya karey....
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Mar 2008, 12:43am |
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iaamir where r u dear....
kuch samajh ayi k nai?
kia socha phir ap ne? |
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iaamir411 |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Feb, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 74 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Mar 2008, 2:47am |
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 ZEB
bhai khanks man app ki baton pr ghor kr raha hon or koshish kr raha hon k kisi tarha mera masla hal ho jae nai soorat hal se agah karon ga kisi or ke pass bhi koi hal ha to bata den itni ziada replies nahi aa rahi <lagta ha sb boor ho gai han. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Mar 2008, 2:52am |
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iaamir thanx dear for ur responce
hamen sath sath aagaah kertey rahiye ga...
InshaAllah apki problem jaldi solve ho jaye gi....hum sub ki yahi dua hai...AAmeen |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Mar 2008, 3:03am |
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amir love affair...... ziada choices hon to banda confuse ho jata hai k kia karon aur kia na karon,, is liye itnay par hi iktafa karo.... |
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