|
|
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 64 Post: 193 Age:
|
|
| Posted on:19th Jul 2007, 2:47am |
|
| |
 Is Bleeding Necessary When Virgin Girl Do Sex 1st Time?
I M ZESHAN 4M LONDON, I NEED ADVISE FROM DOCTORS AND FORAM TO TELL ME IN THE LIGHT OF ALL THE DETAILS I M GOING TO WRITE DOWN, THAT WHAT THEY THINK MY COUSION WAS VIRGIN R NOT SHE NEVER PALYED AND HARD SPORTS NEVER DID CYCLING R HOURSE RIDDING BUT WHEN V DID SEX SEX DID NOT BLEED?
LET ME START MY REAL STORY, I WAS I LOVE OF MY COUSION, I TOLED MY MOTHER, SHE WENT THHERE HOME AND ENGAGED HER 4 ME, BUT HER PARENTS NEVER ASKED HER 4 HER CHOISE, ONCE I ASKED 4M HER SHE REPLIED SHE DO NOT WANT 2 GET MARRY IN FAMILY, AND SHE DO NOT KNOW SHE LIKES ME R NOT, BUT VERY NEXT DAY SHE CALLED ME AND SAID SHE DO NOT HAVE ANY OBJECTION TO GET MARRY WITH ME SHE WERE JUST KIDDING I SAID OK, BUT AFTER ONE MONTHE HER COUSION TOLED ME THAT SHE CHAT SOME ONE ON PHONE, WHEN I ASKED SHE REPLIED THAT V R ONLY FRIENDS SO I BECOME COOL AND HAVE NOT SAID ANY THING TO HER, THREE MONTHS LATTER THEN THAT I CAME TO KNOW SHE ALSO USED TO GO OUT ON DATE WITH SOME BOYS WITH HER OTHER COLLEGE GIRLS, I BECOME SO ANGER, I ASKED WHATS THE MATTER, SO SHE START MAKING EXCUSES ............................................................. THAT TIME I SHOULD LIVE HER BUT I COULD NOT, BECAUSE I WAS IN LOVE AND SHE WERE GIVING ME PUNISHMENT FOR THAT, AFTER THAT I WAS PLAINING TO VISIT LAHORE, ONE DAY SHE TOLED ME SHE WANA DO SEX WITH ME WHEN I COME TO LAHORE, I SAID Y SHE SAID I WANT THAT, WHEN I ME LAHORE, V MEET SHE START KISSING ME AND UNFORTUNATLY V DID SEX, I DO NOT KNOW Y SHE SAID AND DID SEX WITH ME, BUT Y I DID? THE RESION WAS THAT I WERE NOT TRUSTING HER MORE I WANA SEE IS SHE DID ANY THING WRON OR NOT? I GET SURPRISED SHE DID NOT BLEED WHEN V DID SEX, SHE DID NOT FEEL TO MUCH PAIN, SHE DID NOT CRY R SHOUT, AND SHE SAID ME TO DO MORE MORE AND MORE? TELL ME IN THE LIGHT OF ALL WHAT HAPPEND CAN I TRUST HER? I SHOULD TRUST HER? IS SHE IS TRUST ABLE? IS BLEEDING IS NOT NECESSRY IN 1ST TIME SEX? IS PAIN IS NOT NECESSARY? IS GIRL WANT MORE MORE AND MORE ON 1ST TIME? ........................................................ I M CONFUSE, I M REALLY SAD, PLZ I NEED ADVISE, SPECIALLY 4M DOCTORES, ELDERS, AND 4M MARRIED PEOPLE, WAITING 4 UR NICE AND FRIENDLY ADVISE.
Moderator: Using ALL CAPITAL LETTERS in posts is difficult to read.
|
|
Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 249 Post: 4252 Age:
38
|
|
| Posted on:19th Jul 2007, 4:28am |
|
| |
re: bleeding during first sex ham intehai afsos ke sath kahte hai keh ap ki mangetar ka hymen pahle se rupture tha jis ki wajah se ose na bleeding hui aur na hi pain. ap ke sath sex karne se pahle aur sex ke doran jo guftagoo karti rahi hai wo is bat ka saboot hai keh os ne pahle bhi kai dafa sex kia hai balke woh mubasrat mai kafi trained hai. insan mubasrat mai trained aik dafa ki mubasrat se nahi balke kai dafa ki mubasrat se hota hai.
jis larki ka hymen rupture nahi hota hai woh kabhi bhi shadi se qabal sex ke lia tayar nahi hoti. hatta ke azad khial larki ki bhi koshish hoti hai keh sirf foreplay kar lia jai mubasrat na ki jai. ap ki mangeter ka hymen pahle se rupture tha aur woh is bat se bhi achchi tarah waqif thi isi lia os ne na sirf ap ko sex krne kaha balke sex mai bharpoor hissa lia.
ghalti aur jazbat mai bah kar agar koi larki pahli dafa mubasrat karti hai tu os ka andaz bilkul mukhtalif hota hai. woh kabhi bhi mubasrat karne ke lia khood nahi kahti. doran mubasrat bhi woh thora bahut resist karti rahti hai. os ke hymen rupture hone se bleeding aur pain bhi hota hai jis se woh enjoy karne ki bajai bahut ziadah pareshan ho jati hai.
hamai ap se shadeed hamdardi hai keh ap ke mangeter pahle se hi kai dafa sex ke maze le chuki hai.
|
|
shermili |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jul, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 33 Age:
32
|
|
| Posted on:19th Jul 2007, 5:06am |
|
| |
 Re:
dear zeeshan.....
1-first of all Bewakoof ki ek baat sahi hei k larki kabhi bhi sex k liey pehal nahi kerti chahey wo ap k pyaar mein andhi bhi ho to bhi man has to take initiative.....
2-jo guftogoo ap nein batyi us se bhi yehi lagta hei k she might have sex b4 lekin yahan ek baat noticable hei k may be she was forced to have sex b4 aur due to lost of her virginity she was afraid that u might notice it at your weding night......aur us nein us baat ko ap se chupaney k liey ap ko sex k liey kaha k agar kabhi ap us per shak bhi keryein tu wo ap ko yeh keh sakey k u had sex wid me...
3-i am not married and donot have n e kind of sex expereince....but information posted by on this site and other medical sites it is very much clear that in some women hymen is not present since her birth.... ya ho tu wazni cheez uthaney se ya kuch heavy kaam kerney se bhi rupture ho sakti hei....their are lots of possibilites in your case... dear
IN THE LAST being a lover my self... ek baat ap se kahon ge yahan k pyaar to deney ka naam hei.... agar us se past mein koi galti ho bhi gayi to ap usey maaf ker dena... aur ainda us ki izaat ki hifazat kereyin it is ur duty and responsibiltiy as a lover as a future husband.... chahey apko pata bhi chaley k wo larki galat sex relations rkhti hei tu usey sudhareyin.... KHUDA bhi un lgon ko pasand kerta jo maaf ker detey hein.... mein nein ek jaga irshad e rabani mein parha tha k kuch is tarahn likha tha " tum insaan ke aiboon pe perda daal mein terey gunahon pe perda daloon ga...."
no man in this whole universe is perfect.....hamri andar sab se bari burai yeh hei k hum hamesha acha honey ka dawa kertey hein aur galat ko galat hi chor detey hein ... jab k mein samjhti hun k ap ki achai tabhi achai hei k ap kisi burai ko achai mein badleyin kisi burey insaan ko sazaa deney k ilawah usey sahi ratsey per la ker apney kabil banaey ka socheyin werna toi jo bura hei wo bura hi rahey ga aur ap ki achai ka koi faida nahi....
so in conclusion just talk to her ask her about n e past relationships....ask her to 4get everythign and start a new life .... wish you all the best dear brother...
GOD BLESS U WID ALL THE HAPINESS AND COURAGE TO 4GIVE |
|
new_bye |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jun, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 9 Age:
34
|
|
| Posted on:19th Jul 2007, 6:20am |
|
| |
1. Jis Larki say ap sex khud kar shukay ho us kay baray main ap ye kaisay expect kar saktay ho k us nay kisi aur say nahi kia ho ga?
2. Kiya virginity/hymen he aisi chez hy jis kay peechay daura jaey? Hamara deen, hamari riwayaat, hamari aqdaar, kahan hain ye sab kuchh?
3. Us larki kay sath sex karnay k bad ab aap ye chahtay hain k agr wo kisi aur se bhi kar chuki hay to ap us say shadi na karen?? yehi naa?? Lekin koi aur us say shadi kioon karay? Wo to ap say sex kar chuki hay.. Ap khud ko us insaan ki jagah pe rakh kar kioon naheen sochtay jo aap k us ko chhor denay k nateejay main us say shadi karay ga? Insaan to sab equal hain naa? Agar aap pakeeqgi ka mutaliba kartay hain to wo bhi to kar sakta hay. Ye larki bechari kahaan jaey gi? Tawaaif ban k zindagi fuzaray gi???Zara sochiay? Hamaray forum ko sirf sex pe nahi sochna chahiay, society ko as a whole lena chahiay. Us ki behtari kay liay sochna chahiay.
4. Kia Pakeezgi, Haya, Sharafat jesi cheezain sirf larkion say demand ki jani chahian?? Larkon ko in ka khayaal nahi rakhna chahiay? Kia larki ko ye poochnay ka haq nahi hay k us ka shohar paakeeza zindagi basar karta raha hay ya naheen? Agar ap apni bv ko mukhlis dekhna chahtay hain to ap ko bhi mukhlis ban'na paray ga. Ban k dikhana para ga nahi balkey ban'na paray ga. Jis ka sirf Allah ko ilm ho ga. Ap ko sex kay waqt sochna chahiay tha k aap ghalat kar rahay hain.
|
|
Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 249 Post: 4252 Age:
38
|
|
| Posted on:20th Jul 2007, 11:58pm |
|
| |
Aik hi kashti mai sawar log apni girl friend ya mangeter se sex karte hai. bleeding nahi hone par kahte hai keh yeh larki badkar hai. apne gareban mai nahi jhankte ke woh khood bhi tu shadi se pahle sex kar ke badkari kar rahe hai.
allah tala ne kaha hai keh badkar ko badkar mia/bivi mile gi. lehaza mera mashwarah hai keh tum apni mangeter se shadi kar lo kio keh tum dono aik hi kashti mai sawar ho.
|
|
zaki_khan |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Feb, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 32 Age:
24
|
|
| Posted on:8th Oct 2009, 12:01pm |
|
| |
 zaki
i do agree with sharmilli,,,,,, she said true.... u should try to understand her and give her time to speak infront of u, give her love as much as u can, love can change everything, and itx not like that if she is not bleeding so itx mean she is not good, or if she is talking so she is not good, hymen can be break cox of so many things, so trust her and start a new life, shak ki waja se bht rishte toot jate hain, to koshish karo k ise apni life se kafi door hi rakho, or as we all know k koi bhi is duniya mein perfect nahi ha, if ur partner makes a mistake to ap usey smjhayien or maaf kerdein, aur usey ye ehsas dilayein k jo galat ha wo galat ha, i wish u all the best |
|
searider66 |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Jul, 2009 Topic: 28 Post: 43 Age:
32
|
|
| Posted on:8th Oct 2009, 12:14pm |
|
| |
sewa i agree with zaki |
|
TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
29
|
|
| Posted on:10th Oct 2009, 8:34am |
|
| |
@@@@@ LARKI FUNTER HAI YAAR SIMPLE CHOOR DOOO TUM USKOOO SEX GURU LAGHTI HAI WOO MUJHEE :p AAPNI LIFE BARBAAD NA KAROO USKE SAATH BOLD LARKIYAAN B SEX K LIYEE ITNA KHUL KAR NAHIN KEHTEIN K KAROOOOLKN TMHARI COUSIN TOO SARDAARNI HAI LEAVE HER AND 4GET HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE 4 THE BETTERMENT OF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE |
|
Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
|
|
| Posted on:10th Oct 2009, 1:07pm |
|
| |
re: I agree with the rock.
but thread 2 year pehle ka hai or unki profile bhi delete hochuki hai shayad.Wo yahan visit bhi nahi karte honge ab.
|
|
poor girl |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
22
|
|
| Posted on:28th Dec 2009, 4:00am |
|
| |
zeeshan bhai zeeshan bhia sun karabada afsoos hua ke ek ladki khud kaise kehsakti hai ke muje sex karo.......... bleeding hona zaroori nahi hai but it causes lots os pain........bura mat maniye ga but aap ki mangetar ache character ki ladki nahi hai.............mere khayaal se vo pehle bhi bahut baar sexkarchuki hai.......allah taala apki madad kare............
|
|
Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
|
|
| Posted on:29th Dec 2009, 4:12am |
|
| |
 zeeshan
Thread kaafi purana hai or questioner ki profile bhi delete hochuki hai lekin aisi situation main aik admi ko khuday main paun nahi dalna chaiye or larki ko chordena chaiye sab se best hai us k liye..... |
|
aye123 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Nov, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
20
|
|
| Posted on:29th Dec 2009, 9:00am |
|
| |
dont leave her i agree to shermili...zrori toh nhi woh larki hi buri hai...koi b reason ho skta hai...no one is perfect us se ghlti hvi app maff kerdoo....muhabbat isi ka naam hai mera bhai...app ne b toh sex kiya hai...agr app is koo chor do aur koi aur lrki se shadi kro...usay toh nhipata bt still ALlah toh janta haina...usay maaf ker k hasi khushi zindagi guzarnay mai hi behtari hai...
|
|
Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
|
|
| Posted on:29th Dec 2009, 2:50pm |
|
| |
zeeshan Main ne apko answer socially dekhte huay dia tha accept karna ya na karna apka decision hai.Aye ki baat books main likhi hui achi baat ki tarah hai,or forum par aise bohot se members hain jo sirf achi achi baatein karte hain forum par or reality ko undekha kartay hain.Ap ko or bhi achi larkian miljaingi INSHALLAH. |
|
asd_2007 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Sep, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 14 Age:
33
|
|
| Posted on:29th Dec 2009, 8:03pm |
|
| |
............ .................... |
|
aye123 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Nov, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
20
|
|
| Posted on:30th Dec 2009, 6:32am |
|
| |
... zrori nhi ar insan aik jaisa ho azfar-k sahab
|
|
Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
|
|
| Posted on:30th Dec 2009, 4:23pm |
|
| |
aye Forum par aisi situation main maaf karne ka kehna or falsafe sunna na asaan hai,Bohot se log forum par achi achi batein kartein hain aisi situation main lekin agar ye cheez un par betey to us waqt unka decision kuch or hota hai,reality kuch or hoti hai jo wo problems face karta hai wohi janta hai......Insaan ko hamesha dusre ka masla chotta or apna masla barra dikhta hai,or jo wo advise dusre ko karta hai jab wo us situation main parhta hai to kuch or hi karta hai....Soch kar dekhye ga is baat ko.Baqi inko or bhi koi achi larki mil gai hogi.
zrori nhi ar insan aik jaisa ho azfar-k sahab Sahi bat hai par sex k mamle main aj kal koi sochta nahi bus lust hai kahin se bhi miljaye kaise bhi,behtar hai k insaan khud dihaan rakhe or khudday(hole) main paon na dale...
|
|
aye123 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Nov, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
20
|
|
| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 8:44am |
|
| |
............... app ki baat durast hai..bt mai kisi aur ka nhi apnay app ka janti hoo...aur mai aisay ka nhi krti
|
|
chapman |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
24
|
|
| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 9:01am |
|
| |
You r risking ur self for HIV/STD Dear Before forgiving this kind of person. Don't forget whoever has a partner who goes out for wrong needs out of marriage can risk ur health for HIV/STD/Herpes. So it's not about forgiving some body it's abt taking care of ur good health too. Make sure u get urself checked as she's been to multiple partners she could have gotten any disease and already transfered to u |
|
chapman |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
24
|
|
| Posted on:5th Jan 2010, 9:05am |
|
| |
You r risking ur self for HIV/STD If you don't result positive for anything then u should deffinately lev her coz the more she goes out the more u r at risk so it's better if you just take care of ur own health and be safe with one woman. Don't be a sinner. It's illegal before marriage. u did wrong too. but look for wat I said
Dont do multiple posts.
Moderator
|
|