Agar aap apni biwi kay saath sex kay mozou per khul kar guftugu nahi kar saktey to aap aik aur tariqey sey apni biwi ko apni jinsi zarooriyat sey agah kar saktey hain. Maslan sex mein jo cehzain aap ko kam mil rahi hain yeh nahi mil rahin en kay hawaley sey biwi ko aik khuab sunayn isey baatein ka aap nay khuab mein dekha jis mein biwi woh sab kuch kar rahi the jo aap chaatey hain. Isey tafseel kay saath baatein isey baatein ka iss sey aap ko bai pannaah lutf mila. Umeed hai ka iss guftogu kay baa dap ko woh sab kuch mil jaeyga.

    Biwi ko en cheezon kay barai mein bataein jo woh aap ko pehley hi dey rahi hai. Isey bataein kay yeh cheezain aap ko bey hud pasand hain. Aa'enda yeh cheezain aap ko ziyada mileyngi. Woh cheezain jo aap ko kam milti hain ya nahi miltiin inkay barai mein biwi sey iss tarhan baat karein kay woh cheezain aap ko pehley hi mil rahi hain. Maslan isey kahein kay mubashrat (intercourse)  mein iss ka aap kay khusyon ko chaernaa aap ko bey hud lutf deta hai (Halan kay iss ney shayad hi kabhi aisa kara ho) bohut had tak emkan hai kay aap yeh cheezain mustaqbil mein hasil kar sakayn gai.

    Aap likh kar bhi aik doosrey ko apni zarooriyat sey agah kar saktey hain. Iss kay mukhtalif tariqey ho saktey hain maslan:

    A.  Donon mein sey har aik paper per alaehda alaehda en cheezon ka khulasa tayyar karey jo isey jinsi zindagi mein sab sey ziyada pasand hain. Phir paper badal leyn. Iss tarhan dono aik doosrey ki pasand sey aagah hojaeyn gey.

    B.  Donon apni apni list tayyar karein jin mein en 5 cheezon ka wazeh zikar ho jo aap foreplay aur mubashrat (intercourse)  mein chaatey hain. Phir list badal leyn.