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imran4 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Feb, 2007 Topic: 10 Post: 81 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2007, 11:32pm |
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 Wedding Night Fun Vs Wedding Night Fear
after visiting this forum i have seen that most of the femlaes are afraid and getting fear from first wedding night in spite of having fun in their first wedding night? what r the reasons? few reasons which i have notice:
1- they are get fear on wedding night from the pain due to rapture of hymen. 2- their hymen is already raptured. whatever reason for fear on wedding night they have? 3- 3rd one example of fear on wedding night and there after which is based upon my perosnal experience my wife don't want to do intercourse coz she was afraid that what their inlaws will think. 4- Wedding night bedsheets wagirah ko notice kerna and fear of women for challenge of her modesty on wedding night 5- pregnency kakhuf. Usually this fear remains persistent thereafter the wedding night so lets share how we can remove these fears from our society .
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needo |
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2007, 11:43pm |
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 Wedding Night Fears: Reasons Of Wedding Night Fear
There is no need to remove that hesitation due to the fear on wedding night. because its all due to their shyness(sharam and haya),And I think to noble man will want to decrease that haya from their wife.
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2007, 12:24pm |
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 first Wedding Night Fear: Shyness Main Reason
Girls are worried and anxious just because of shyness and fear of pain on wedding night in spite of getting fun on wedding night. It can only be decreased after marriage by showing care, love and understanding to the wife. be polite and gentle to the wife and win her confidence before making sexual relationship. shadi is much more than just sexual relationship. its a very noble relation and needs care, respect and love. Wedding night could be the beginning of such relations and fear should be minimized by offering fun to her.
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:8th Apr 2007, 2:31pm |
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Wedding Night Fear - Husband Creates Wedding Night Fear
aurat wedding night main fear ful nahi hoti hai aur na hi darti hai balke mard aurat ko drata hai. tum ko mere ma bap ki bat manni hai. inko naraza nahi karna hai. mere ma bap bhai bahan mere lia bahut kuch hai. agar tumhari in se nahi bane gi tu samajh lo keh mujh se bhi nahi bane gi. suhag raat ko mard sirf drate hai. warnah aurat ko darne ki koi zaroorat nahi. Wedding night ko pyar aur mohabbat ka rawaya biwi kai fear ko kam kersakta hai. aur wedding night main fun paida kersakta hai.
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kools |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Apr, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 49 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Apr 2007, 1:17am |
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Wedding Night Fear - Wedding Night Stories To Be Blamed
Girls are worried anxious and get fear on wedding night just because of shyness and fear of pain and stories they hear from other married ladies that it pains like hell n bla bla .. so they become confused n afraid. and lack fun on wedding night.
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imran4 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Feb, 2007 Topic: 10 Post: 81 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Apr 2007, 2:56am |
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Wedding Night Fun Can Overcome Wedding Night Fear
I am totally against what has been said by Kali Zuban about wedding night fear and lack of wedding night fun. This mess is not created by husband. Wife should not get fear on wedding night and must co-operate with husband.
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Seemi |
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| Posted on:19th Jul 2008, 1:19am |
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Wedding Night Fun Vs Wedding Night Fear
agree with khan_80 n Kali Zuban baji
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shizi |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2008 Topic: 13 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Jul 2008, 4:21pm |
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 Wedding Night Fun Is Better Than Wedding Night Fear
so u guys think dat on 1st night boys can do everything wid gurls??? Well i think here in our society gurls do PARDA, so its realy disgusting for em if sum1 get close to em, u can jus talk and jus try to knw her personality and let her knw urs, pori life love nd sex her karna so why 1st night? Be relax on wedding night and get fun as much as possible by foreplay. Fear may not be originated with such a good start
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beautiful_ |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Nov, 2008 Topic: 8 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 3:34am |
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 Wedding Night Fear - Hymen Ruptured With Hand Practice
Asalamo alikum doctor sab how are you? i want to ask u 2 questions 1st is this ke mujhe kesi ne kaha tha k jab tak finger vegina main inter kar k wuzoo na kiya jaiye tu namaz nahin hoti na wuzoo ho paye ga tu maine tab se finger inter kar k wuzoo karna shuro kar diya takreeban kuch 5 years se or mujhe kabhi pain nahin feel hua tha na beeliding hoi ab is baat ko 5 years ho gaiye mujhe maloom nahin tha ALLAH knows maine kabhi bhi apni life main koi galat kaam nahin kiya or na galat baat keliye finger enter ki thi bass kesi k kehne main akar aisa kiya so aab last month main jab wuzo karne lagi t o maine finger enter ki to mujhe aisa laga meri finger ja kar kesi cheez se lagi mujhe pain hua bohat tu nahin but hua zaroor tha liken beelding nahin hoi tu is ka kiya matlab hymen. raputure ho gai beelding zarah bhi nahin hoi thi phir maine ek 2 friends se pocha k tum loog wuzzo kaise karti hon tu unoon ne kaha waise hi bahir se finger enter karna tu bohat galat yeh tumein kess ne keh dia tha aisa karne se wuzzoo hota dear friends n DR ab main bohat parishaan hon kahi hymen raputure to nahin ho gia meri jiss larki se shaadi hogi woh bohat cleaver larka hai and he knows every thing that what happens on first wedding night or beelding ka bhi aab kiya hoga mera????????????main daar rahi hon kasam ALLAH pak ki maine galat istemal keliye finger eneter nahin ki thi, please DR & friends mujhe batiye mera hymen raputure tu nahin hua
Aur agar hoyi to kia mujhe wedding night koi masala to nahi hoga, I am in too fear! please help.
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 1:40pm |
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Wedding Night Fun Fear - Wife Should Get Fun
to khan80 and kali zuban you are right kali zuban ke first night ko shohar aise fazool soch rakh ker yeah batin karay... Larki ko shareek-e-hayat samajna chaheye na ke First wedding ngiht ko soda kia jai in shrait per... Wife has full rights to celebrate fun aur apni khushian manane ke ... Abhe gher ke kissi fard se jhagra bhe naheen aur soch pehle hi agai... aisi soch wrong aur negative! uf... Hamesha allah pak se achi ummed rakhni chahe jo aur positive soch bhi... i had enough of this cuase i watched a program Shadi on line on Geo tv... is program main her larke ne yahi kaha ke larki mere ghar walon ke izzat kare ghul mil jai.... hum khosh ho ker shadi bhe nahen karsakte aur no wife ko khus rehne dete..... Give each person a respect in house .. whatever they deserve...
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Nov 2008, 6:30pm |
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 Wedding Night Fun - Modesty Makes Fun Difficult
kali zuban is right about giving fear rather than fun by husband to wife specially in our society and the second thing is Sharm o Haya, App khod soch lo jis larki ko kabhi kisi mard ne touch nahin kia ho i mean her private parts, to how she would be ready to get fun on wedding night kuch sehni ki liye tayar hojai, obviously she is nervous and in fear and she will think how she will manage doning intercourse......... aur es ko hum remove nahin karsakti its a natural thing es ka khauf on larkiyon ko nahin hota jinke pehly se boyfriend ho aur ya per sharm o haya ki kami ho,
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Dec 2008, 10:26am |
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First Wedding Night Fun - Time Required For Making Fun Actually girls have fear of whole future life. Near the marriage day, i think most of the girls forget about sex and all that, they are more anxious about the relationship with a new family, new enviornment and most of all, leaving their parents and loved ones, going to explore a new life with strange feelings and quite fearful thoughts. sex is only remembered (rather reminded) after reaching the bedroom, sitting alone, waiting for the dulha to come. At that time taking fun becomes difficult for a bride due to this anxiety. However; with the passage of time and days on behalf of mutual understanding, wife start to take more and more fun during love making activity.
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Dec 2008, 10:57am |
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Wedding Night: Fear Can Be Changed In To Fun
aesa nervous aur fear kafi kam ho jata hai jab dulhan ke gher ke koi samjhdar aurat dulhan ko sex ki inofrmation de de to.. Aur dulhan sochti hai ke sab ke sath hota hai. aur yeah must hona chahe shadi ke baad dolha saheb ko khosh karne ke lea.. aisi soch se larki ko 50% hosla mil jata hai. Baqi ager dolah saheb samjhdar ho aur loving ho... Sex karne se pehle discuss kare to baqi 50% bhi cover ho jata hai.. aur bride ka fear fun main badal sakta hai meri arrange marriage this laiken meri wife mujh se bhut pyar karti thi shadi se pehle ... you know mangni aur marriage ke waqfe main larki apne future shohar ke bare main bhut socti hai.. so i did not have any problems..
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Dec 2008, 12:02pm |
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 Wedding Night - Fun With Foreplay - Fun With Sex
Fear kam nahin hojata its very difficult to manage although i know very much about these things i have read in books and even asked the doctor about it, but still its not easy, it is easy later but not at first wedding night well that bride would start to have fun. Fun with foreplay or Fun with sex But Thanks God ki fiance who is going to be my hubby buhut hi loving and caring hai, otherwise ghar bar to hogi hi:-((
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wajee |
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| Posted on:17th Mar 2009, 3:33pm |
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Wedding Night Fun Vs Wedding Night Fear
mee too agreed with kali zaban.lakin definetly kuch batein apney barey mein ki jatee hie kuch larki k barey mein ki jatee hien.aab yei tou nahi naa kei 1st night room mein jatey hee sex start kar dien.lakin unn sab batoon ki bhi ik limit honee chahyei hei actually husband or wife phaley understanding honee chahye automatically sub kuch theek hou jattaa hie.or aaj kaal media itna fast hou gia hie yaar koun hou gi aisee larki jiss kou na malloom hou first night kou kia hona hie.u know bulkey shaid aap kou na pata hou larki kou shaid zyada mallom hou.lolzzzzzzzz
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mirfazal69 |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Apr, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Apr 2009, 6:16am |
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Not Agree IT IS UPTO HUSBAND WO DULHAN KOO SAMJAHI KAAY KUCH NAHEE HOGA |
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tauruskn |
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| Posted on:4th Aug 2009, 1:01am |
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What is masturbation? masturbation kya hy. |
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zeb |
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| Posted on:4th Aug 2009, 4:10am |
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tauras yar read the books
read the topic of masturbation |
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:4th Aug 2009, 6:40am |
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TO BEAUTIFUL Dont worry beautiful i think your hymen jo ha wo moojod ha preshan hooney ki koi zarooret nahee ha aap bus finger vagina may enter kerna stop ker deen ,wesay bhee islam may self mastaburation mana ha
Aur zaroori nahe ha k her girl ko intercourse k waqt bleeding ho baz k hymen hota he nahee aur baz ka khoon buth he kem nikalta ha aur baz girls ka hymen sports wegera ki activities ki waja say khood ba khood break ho jata ha
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paki1986 |
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| Posted on:28th Aug 2009, 10:56pm |
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suhaagrat A.O.A
Doctor sab average penis ka size kia hai aur agar ye chota hai ya buhat bara hai tu kia kuch medicine leni chaheye ya nahi aur hand paractice karna theak hai sehat ke liye ya nahi agar hai to plz batain average kitney din baad karni chahye. shukriya
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