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zhalay |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 4:55pm |
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 mentally sick susar
Hi doctor, mera masla please hal kar dain.meri 2 saal pehlay shadi hui...husband achay hain lekin meray father in law psycho hain.aur ghar mai mojood har insan un say tang hai.unko sab par nazar rakhnay ki sab ki khabar rakhnay ki orton say free honay ki aur apnay ap ko acha zahir karnay ki gandi adatain hain.mujhe shayed unki adaton say kuch farq nahi parta agar main in cheezon ka shikaar na hoti.mujhe to wo aisay treat kartay hain jaisay mai unki zar khareed ghulam hoon aur unhon ne betay ki shadi unkay liye nahi apnay liye ki ho.har 2 din baad un say phone par baat na ho to tanz kartay hain k baat q nahi karti ho boht masroof ho kya?unki waja say mai ne mobile nahi liya ta k wo mujhe contact na kar sakain ap batayein main aisay ghatiya susar ka kya karun? |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6467 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Dec 2012, 11:47pm |
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Allah ka shukar ada karaiN k ap aisay susar k sath onkay ghar maiN nahi rahteeN... zara imagine karaiN k tab apka kia haal hota.
bus onhaiN gradually ignore karaiN... phone par baat karnay ka duration baRha daiN...jab baat karni paray to jald az jald koi bahanah karkay phone band kardaiN... aisay "mareezouN" ko ignore karna hi onka wahid solution hai
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zhalay |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2012, 12:49am |
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rizvi ap ki baat sahi hai.lekin ap meri jagah hotay to ap ko ehsas hota k wo kis tarah say tang kartay hain.meri un say baat na ho to tanz kartay hain yahan tak k mera operation hua mai hospital mai thi meri susar say baat nahi ho saki q k doctors dekhnay atay thay aur wo is baat par ghusa thay k ye baat q nahi karti to meri saas jo meray liye ayi thein doosray sheher say....meray susar ne unko mana kar dia k wo hospital meray pas na ayein.....mai ne unko ignore b kia hai bahanay b banayein hain wo itnay be haya aur bey sharam hain k meray munh par boltay hain k bhagti q ho hum say baat q nahi karti.....mai agay say sakht jawab deti hoon to boltay hain mai to mazaak kar raha tha unko sab ko control mai rakhnay ki adat hai.meray husband ki chutti hoti hai to pooray din mai 5 dafa bahanay bahanay say phone kartay hain ta k unko pata chal sakay k hum kahi ghoomnay to nahi gaye......mujhe aisa raasta koi bataye k mai unko sabaq sikha sakoon |
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Zooor |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 4:53am |
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Zhalay Zhalay then ap apny Husband se discus krain or unko unko yad dilain k ap nuki wife hain un k father ki nhe...or agr ap k husband thory daru type hn means wo apny father se darty hain to phir ap as a straight fwd behave krein jst like jaisy ap k father InLaw ap se bat kar rhy hon to unko bta dain k ap itni farigh nhe hain k sara din un se gapain marain....,, |
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zhalay |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2012, 11:15pm |
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zooor meray husband baqol un k apnay father ki izzat kartay hain aur ye baat un k psycho father ko pata hai wo is baat ka hamesha ghalat fayeda uthatay hain mai shayed yahi karti jo ap ne bola hai agar mujhe anjaam ka pata na hota meri jithani straight forward un say baat karti hain meray father in law sab k samnay unki naqal kartay hain.peeth peechay aisi batain kartay hain k jo sunnay ayeq nahi hoti.unki jithani say b is liye nahi banti q k wo b meri tarha in say baat karnay say katraati hain....wo nafsiati mareez hain aur nafsiati mareez kisi ko b nahi bakhshta.ap meri jagah hotay to kya kartay? |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 184 Post: 6344 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2012, 12:59pm |
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Zhalay
First of all ap sosrar kay samny Hejaab meah rhaa kurin Hejaab yani apki zab o zeenat suway face kay osy koch nuzur nahi aayr.
Dosri baat aap on say Moskuraa kur bat mut kurin
Jub bat kurin tu jesy myrizvi nay bola bat ka doraaniya kuk kur dain onki bato ko essy lain jesy apko awaz ni arhi , signal kharab hen etc kur kay call bund kur dain.
ap roz Husband ko btaya kurin ono ny ketni bar call ki or keya keya pocha bat ki
Or Husband ko bolain k meah onki Teeh dil say apny parents ki turah ezzut kurti hon or meah es rishty ka Tuqudoss qaym rukhna chahati hon, Sosar sahab rishty k Taqados ka khiyal nahi kur ray essy undaz meah bat kurin kay apky btay bina apka husband apki baat sumaj jay , duby lufzo meah btauin,
apka qurb bujaa hy, essy ensan say hoshiyar rehna chayeh or ziyada bat jeet say avoide krin tunhai meah jub kay apky husbnad ap k pas ni , husband k samny onki sosar sas k nathy achi khidmat kurin ,
baki Papurda rayiin,
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 111 Post: 6467 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2012, 1:23am |
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jazak Allah Dr Qasim well said
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 184 Post: 6344 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2012, 1:38am |
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One idea Aap essa kurin kay ek esaaa cell phone Khureedain jis meah call record ho suky aap apny sosar ki kalain record keya kurin or jub kafi sara muwaad ap kay pas jumaa ho jay ap apny husband ko woh call record sona dain ek suboot k tor pur esy apko ek acha suboot Hasil ho jay ga or husband b qayil ho jay gah wesy bat kurny say shaid woh yuqeen na kurin ess leyeh voice call record kurin or pher husbnad ko btain k apko essa onka mizaaj bilkol pussand nahi hy meah onki bahooo bati hon or meah onki ezzut kurti hon mera muqsad serf apky gosh gozaar kurna hay esky elawa or koi muqsad nahi hay abi ap mujy eskaa hul btain......... yeh sub ap apny husbnad ko call record sonany ky bhad bolain
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Zooor |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2012, 1:55am |
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Zhalay to phir ap apni jithani G se mashwara kijey k kya karna chahiye or un se puchiye k jaisy ap k susar ap k sath behave krty hain kya un k sath b aisy hain means k wo fon pe bat krny ko force karna wagaira nd most important ye hai k pehly ap ye batao k wo jo zar kharid gullam wala behavior hai wo kis kism ka means aik hota hai na Ba Roob rehna nd sb ko dara kr rakhna jo k har ghar k sarbara main hota hai second aik chez hoti hai champion ban'na means k larkian patany k ley larky champion ban'ny ki koshish krty hain unko impress karny k ley ye chez kisi aged nd mature insan main ho to smjho sidha sidha k tharki hai hai orton ka or kuch b nhe hai na psycho na mentaly sick.
or ap se ye puchna tha ap apny husband ko bata chuki hain ye sb phir b wo koi action nhe le rhy means k aisa pehly b hota rha hai nd he knows his father's nature or may b aisa pehly b hota rha ho ap ka susar pehly b jawan larkion pe line marta pakra gya ho or may b ap k husband nd un k bhai ne hands up kr dey k bs ham se nhe hoga aba nhe sudhry ga... aisy he chalao jaisy taisy kr k. |
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Zooor |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2012, 2:12am |
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Zhalay one more Zhalay aik bat or ye kehna thi k agr ap ki J thani G unko jutty ki nok pe rakhti hain or ghass nhe daltin to best karti hainor wo unki naklain utarty hain ya whatever jo b karty hain us se koi fark nhe parta coz ghatia inan se or kis kism ki umeed ki jasakti hai
kam az kam wo apny dil k bharas to nikal leti hain na or unko bat karty huy ya koi ghatia farmaish karny se pehly ap ka susar soo bar sochy ga ... wo ap jaisi nhe hain k bad main baith kr dil jalain wo jo kar rhi hain at the spot or danky ki choot pe.. that is absolutely write and you should falow him...specially agr shohar ko ahsas nhe ho rha too.. or ap k sussar ki shan main kch kalmat main bta dun ye aisa shaks hai jisko apni biwi k elawa sab ortain pasnd hongi or ye 24 ghanty orton k ghurmat main rehna pasnd krta hai isko har chez main nukta cheni ki adat hai jharoo bartan se le kr khana pakany tak isko orton k kam karty huy un main ghusna sar pe khary hona or instruction karna kisi bari chowhdrani g (chowdhri's wife) ki trhan..or boht c or b cheep haktain hain jin ki detail boht lambi hai.. kya ye sab theek kaha main ne? |
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