huda shah |
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Posted on:14th Oct 2012, 4:40am |
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thanks good man reality is reality...and we have to focus on it....simple.. |
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Posted on:14th Oct 2012, 4:54am |
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huda yeah of course...u r right |
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Posted on:18th Oct 2012, 3:41pm |
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han jee
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AZ_2718 |
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Posted on:19th Oct 2012, 1:01pm |
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advise for all women mera mshwara tu ya hy k agar husband sath na ho our koi man aisa herkat kary tu sedha sedha joota nikal ker ik do jooty mar leny chahy, aisy shakhs k sath yahee hona chahy, asal may ap auraton k khamoshi ny hee ny hee oun jaisy ghaita neech men ko haosla milta hain k aurat koch nahi kerhit apan ghatia pan kia karo, woo thek hy k aurat apni izat k khater nahi bolti some times, lakin i think aisy muqa per bolna chahyy, or thper or jooty gift may deny chahy |
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Posted on:19th Oct 2012, 5:51pm |
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BismaFA yar mare sath b asa kae dafa hoya hy jab ma ny sister ke shadi k shopping kerni the.lakin ab ma ny 3rd kalma perhna shoro ker dya hy ap b try kerin inshallah kuch nhe ho ga. |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 1:16am |
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MAree Yaar kiya kerain buss nikal jatay hain larka apna kaam ker ka.. Main try keron gee ap na jo kaha hay than.. ap ka sath kiya hova thaa? |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 3:56pm |
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BismaFA yar mare sath to asa bohat dafa hoya hy ab to dil hi nhe kerta jane ko market.ab age se bhai k shadi k shopping kerni hy ab tension lage hoi hy kase jaion ge apni mama ka sath.wase ma apni mama se kehti hon ap mare peche peche chalin.lakin wo bagarat pher b koi na koi harqat ker jate hain..ma shaam k time gher ane wale the to mama reeksha pakerne lage the to ma thora sa peche ra gai the is doran muje kuch touch feel hoya the hip pe ma ny ak dam zore se hand bag peche k taraf mara tha or agge mama k taraf bage the to koi bagarat ny peche se aa k zoore se peche hip pa touch kia tha.yar os din ma itna rooi the dil kerta tha abi mar jaion. abi tak mara dil kampta hy. ab ma koshch kerti hon 3rd kalma or ayat u korsi zaro parhon. ap b try karin allah se dua hy allah hamain apny hafzo eman ma rake aamin. |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 4:07pm |
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Mareee but why dont u snub those boys right at that place....agar ap log isse tarah khamosh rahein gi tow ....boys kow aur hosla ho ga....
and one thing more, there are few sprays which are avalable in the market. u can always use them in the eyes of such ppl. it can blind them temporarily....then tell others that this guys is teasing you.....ppl will take care of them
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maree |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 5:06pm |
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shahzaib81 Bhai asa nhe ho sakta sab ared gered k log tamasha dakte hain or maze se pochte hain kia hoya hy ap shat.hm apni izat k liye chup ker jate hain.
rhe bat spray k to wo harqat ker k baag jate hain. |
huda shah |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 5:10pm |
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maree preshan na hon..plz mere sath b bht bar ho chuka hai..ap bas.. bhai k sath jaya kro or bhai ko apne behind rakha kren bas..yhe hai or..good..ap Allah ka qalam pahrti hain... ..or maree itna dar lgta hana us time k bas.. |
huda shah |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 5:13pm |
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shazaib shazaib.ye baat hoti hai..us time khuch smjh neh aati jab koi stupid log aise harkat kar jaty hain... or sirf dar he dar lag rha hota hai... or jahan tak spray ki bat hai... tou iska kia faida..jitni dair ma spray bag se nikalna hana utni dair ma wo cheap log krk k chali b jaaty... fazool log .. |
maree |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 5:22pm |
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huda shah waqai yar bohat dar lagta hy.kia in k ghar ma maan bahan nhe hote on k shat b to asa ho sakta hy na? |
goodmorals |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 5:53pm |
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huda shah, BismaFA, maree listen
actually zamana bohot kharab ho chuka hai.... media, weak family system, mazhab sat doori, late marriage, in taman cheezon ki waja say logon me ab sharam o haya kam hoti ja rahi hai....... poverty and lack of education are also the reasons.....usually young, less educated oar chota mota kam karney waley bazari loag aisa kartey hain.
yahan aap logon ki zimedari bhi banti hai k ehtiat karain..... bazar dhila dhala khula burqa pehen kar niklain, ta ki jism kay ubhar visible na hon. borey loag har kisi ko tang kar saktey hain, laiken beherhal ye daikha gaya hai k jo ladies veil me hoti hain un k barey me mardon ki perception achi hoti he oar unhain usually kam tang kiya jata hai...... usually aisi ladies ko ziada tang kiya jata hai jo bazar me openly baghair pardey ghoomti hain oar apney aap ko expose karti hain ya fashionable consider karti hain.
zaroori nahi k aap loag burqa religious point of view say pehnain, bahir jatey waqt apni hifazat k liye bhi pehna ja sakta hai....... kuch ladies ko har waqt outing or shopping ka shoaq hota hai, is k ilawa saman waghera lana gharon me ladies ki routine me hota hai, isey bhi kam karain, ghar k mardon ko bhi thoda ehsas karna chahiye oar ghar say bahir k kam khud karney chahien.care is the best cure.
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huda shah |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 6:06pm |
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goodmorals kindly read once again what i have typed before..i put on a big veil .when i go outside..specially where crowd stays.. and ..it happend to me when i was in 5th class, 9th class.. how would u say think about it plz.. in 5th class a man squeezed my front upper part even i was kid..mjhe tou ye log koi animal lagty hain..jinhe..kisi cheez ka na khyal hai na ehsas... or aise he phir...girls ma ik fear develop ho jata hai..or mere ma aj tak..ma kaabi akele kehen jati he neh.. r..ye tou...bat alag hai...uni se arhe ho...tou..wahan ubi thory days phele ik car (corola )ma koi tha ..mjhe lift de rha..or ma jab ahesta ahesta chalne lagi tou..car b slo drive pa rakh di..or ma itna dari us din b..y sab kya hai phir.... or ma ghar aakr bht he roi phir.... or 3 4 days bad ik bike ma boy tha wo b..ajeeb harkat kar k gyaa... uff... Allah pak apne hifzo aman ma rakhe aameen....mjhe tou really...had se zada dar lgta hai...... kahan jayen ub........ |
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Posted on:20th Oct 2012, 9:31pm |
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huda bazar to aj jb bhi jayein apne saath koi male rakhein aur wo aap k pechay chalay ap pechay se bch jayein gay aur aagay waley jb dekhein gay k ap k saath male hai to wo bhi koi harkat nahi karein gay |
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Posted on:21st Oct 2012, 1:52am |
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Maree & Huda AP theek kah rahi hoo, spray wala chakar to door ki baat hay, vo bhag jatay hain ya kahin rush main mix ho jatay hain, or ya raksha wala scene bhi mera sath hova thaa kabhi rush tha market main or humary pass saman ziada thaa saman raksha main pahla rakh diya thaa main akhir main bethna lagi or left leg uper rakhi hay u know it hight, eik banda peecha say aya and hath phar ka chala gya and meri legs almost open the oper ki teraf and bus kuch na poocha almost touched inn, kuch na poocho 2 din to neend nai theek say aii ka dil ker rha thaa us say badla loon. :@ |
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Posted on:21st Oct 2012, 1:59am |
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bisma kuch loog hty hn aise |
goodmorals |
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Posted on:21st Oct 2012, 2:58am |
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huda shah kindly understand it once again, more better if u perceive. i meant to say the tendency of getting harassed of those girls who are not in veil is high as compare to those who are in veil :) :)
doosri bat aap ki post say lag raha hai k aap ko kuch ziada he tang kiya ja raha hai..... bat sirf burqey ki nahi hoti.... burqa pehen liya and thats it.....no, your attitude, attire, body language, way of talking, how often you come out from home...... etc everything does count........ such people judge you before harassing, itni himat nahi hoti kisi ki nahi hoti k jab chaha sab k samney cher diya . its ur job to protect your prestige.
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huda shah |
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Posted on:21st Oct 2012, 5:05am |
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goodmorals u couldnt get my point..pardon...its not only depend on girl or protection ...ap family k sath b ho tb b aisa hota hai...is ma girl ka kya kasoor... hmmm ur facial expression with fear or nervous might b cause of it...but i dont think so.....anyways... it happens in life..even ur with ur family etc... i have noticed it... |
huda shah |
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Posted on:21st Oct 2012, 5:09am |
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maree bisma marre bisma ye log mostly crowdy places pa hoty hain..or ma kaabi b isi lye alone kehen neh jati..lekin sometimes..mjhe koi ghar se pick krne wala neh hota uni point se tou mjhe taxi pa jana parta hai. akser or itni busy life hai sab ki k koi bhai b apki ful time duty neh de skta....tou..bht muskil se jati hun..sirf isi dar se k kehen koi khuch keh he na de...bas Allah pak apni hifazat ma rakhe..aameen..... |
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