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Subahhh |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Sep, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Sep 2012, 11:24pm |
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 Please help me...
Salam to all
May last 6-7 years se relationship main hoon, main Pakistan, karachi se hoon and mairay lover America se hain. per un k relatives sab yahi karachi main he hain.. kafi achi hamari friendship and understanding rahi. unki family se bhi mairi achi baat cheet ha.. jab studies complete hoi or shadi ki taraf dehaan aya to un ki family karachi ai or hamaray gher rishta lay k ai. per mairay father ne milay bagahir he saaf inkaar kar dia k wo apni beti ka rishta pakistan main he karaingay.. mairay baray bhai, bhabi and mother jo unki family se milay sab ko wo larka and un k gher walay bohat pasand ayay, per mairay father milay bagahir he inkaar pay inkaar kie ja rahay hain.. gher walo ne abu ko bohat smajhaya per wo kisi b haal may mannay ko ready nai, or mairi family may father k faysle k agay kisi ki nai chalti.. larkay main bhi kisi qism ki koi kami nai, educated hain job b achi ha.. financially settle hain.. still ham log khmaosh ho gaye kay koch arsay baad dobara rishtay ki baat karaingay, ham dono ka aik dosray k bagahir rehne ka soch bhi nai saktay, or main yei sochti hoon kay sab gher walo ne yahi rehna ha sirf mughe is gher se ruksat kia jayga to wahan kio nai jahan meri kushi ho? now main din raat rooti hoi ALLAH kay samnay duwa mangti hon, mera filhal abhi koi as such khas proposal bhi nai aya, yahan just ye discuss karna chahti hoon k mughe koi aisa wazeefa wagira batayein k mere father is rishtay kay lie raazi ho jayein. mere pas koi 2nd choice ab nai bachi... bohat ziyada bechain rehne lag gai hoon, subah se sham tak sirf yei baat dimag main ati rehti ha k agay kia honay wala ha.. filhal studies complete ho gai ha or ab gher pay he hoti hoon.. please help me wat I should hv to do.. |
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munadi786 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jul, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 79 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Sep 2012, 1:17pm |
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 salam
ap just ALLAH se bohat dua kiya karein aur kasrat se darood sharif parha karein is se barh kr koi b wazifa nain. MAY GOD HELP YOU |
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Subahhh |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Sep, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Sep 2012, 1:44pm |
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munadi786
JAZAKALLAH.. duwa to main last 5-6 years se he kar rahi hoon.. bas ab right time ka wait ha :(Thanks for ur replyy...
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Subahhh |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Sep, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Sep 2012, 9:55am |
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hmmm itnay ziyada views and just 1 reply.. I think yahan sirf kharab questions kay he answer die jatay hain... |
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naddiabano |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Feb, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Sep 2012, 7:46pm |
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Re-Subahhh ap Allah se apny haq mein behtri ki dua mangen. aur agar ap k parents nahi manty to ap apnay parents ki bat manen aur un ki marzi se shadi kren specially apny father ki marzi se... bcz ap jis ko love karti ho ap ny us k sath aik din bhi nhi guzara abhi tk islye ap predict nhi kr skti k wo real mein bhi aisa hi hoga jesay wo ap ko nazar ata hai. lekin apny father k sath ap 25 saal se reh rahi ho, aur i think k tum un ki mohabbat pe shak nhi kar sako gi.... remember that k parents kbhi bhi apni olad k haq mein bura nhi sochtay.. aur unho ny dunya dekhi hoti hai jb k ap sirf jazbaat ki base pe bat kar rahi ho.. koi kisi k bgher nhi marta....
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2431 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Sep 2012, 3:53am |
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subahhh
ap ki age 25 saal hai islam k hisab se ap k father ka inkar sahi nhn hai bina kisi jaiz reason k ap k gher walay unhain samjhain lekin ager ap k father ki ek zid hai sirif to ap k bhai ap k wali ban kr ap ki shadi kr saktay hain maan baap ko bhi yeh chahye k fazool zid bazi yani khandan se baher nhn kernishadi, beraderi se baher nhn kerni shadi ya aisi zid k mulk se baher nhn kerni shadi ager ap ki qismat main mulk main rehna nhn to woh ap ki shadi na bhi kerain to bhi ap mulk se baher jain gi ye fazool zidain hoti hain apni ehmiyat jitanay k liye jahan tak wazeefay ki bat hai to meray khayal main hajat rawaai ka wazeefa to hai lekin aisa kuch kehna k love marriege k liye koi wazeefa ho to aisa kuch nhn aur shayed yeh sahi bhi nhn |
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Subahhh |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Sep, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2012, 10:35am |
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@naddiabano and WEHSHI hmm main apnay parents ki marzi k bagahir to koch b nai karongi.. lakin main zaberdasti kisi or kay sath life bhi nai guzarongi.. parents se kehti bhi hon kay aik burai bhi ap mughe us larkay ya unki family main dekha deingay to main peche hut jaongi, per koi is topic pay baat tak karne kay lie bhi ready nai.. filhal to namaz main roti hoon or bohat duwayein karti hoon.. lets see kismat mughe kahan lay kay jati ha.. Thanks for your comments |
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saeed_ahme |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2012, 1:26am |
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Prayer Madam app prayer or after nafal ada kai karay or darood sharif zaida si zaida read karay app ka masla allah kai karam si hal ho jay ga
saeed
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oldboy34 |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 64 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2012, 6:38am |
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subahhh g how r u? Allah ap ko asani ata farmye, ap ki problm parhi, wasy sb ny ap ko acha mashwara dia, ar plz ap roye na, Allah sa achi umeed rakhain, wasy ap ny ya ksi ar ny ap ky abu say waja poochi kh unho ny inkar q kia? ho skta hai wo ap sy bht pyar katy hon ar ap ko apny say bht dor na bhejna chaty hn,
ar plz be brave, is time ap ko shaid ye acha na lgy kh ap kahin ar shadi krain, lakin if u just trust Allah, its beter for u, wasy bhi ab ap bat man lain gi to ho skta hai kh bad main koi prblm ho ap ki tarf sy to kahain gy kh tum nay zid ki thi is leye ab tum khud bhugto etc. is leye agar ap ky parents ap ki shadi kahin ar kr dain to phr aoi prblm hoti hai to ap pr koi pressure nai ho ga, is leye be brave n be cool. thanx |
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