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asalmualikum, mera masla yeh hain k mere maa bap nay mera nikah karwa dia hai mai is nikah se razi nhi thi par unho nay wasty day day k mjse han karwa di par abhi tak rukhsati nhi hui hai aur mai us ladky se bhut nafrat karti hun meny apny maa bap ko kaha hai k mujhy talaq chahy par un logo ko bas apni izat k hai mai din rat roti tarapti hun par unko ahsas nhi hai jab k islam mai bhi yahi hai k jab ladki nhi rehna chahti hai to talaq lay sakti hai ap plz mujhy btain k mai apny ghar walo ko kis tarah razi karun plzzz.

sfa2000

Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jul, 2012 Topic: 3 Post: 5 Age: 33

Posted on:28th Jul 2012, 8:21pm

honest advice

My dear sister

See honestly speaking, aap ko nikah say pehlay sochna chahiye tha. To be very frank, ab baat door nikal chuki hai. Par ab aap ko mentally prepared hona hoga. May be k aap nay os apnay husband ko jana na ho, may be k woh acha insan ho, aap allah ka shukar ada karen q k es daur may shadi ho jaye bari baat hai, boahat si bechari ya to rishtay na honay ki waja say kunwari rwh jati hain ya zalil larkay onhen kahen ka nahe chortay.

Allah pak ka shukar ada kijiye. Aur aglay ko samajhiye shayad woh thik ho. Koi bhe perfect nahe es dunya may. Na he kabhe life ideal ho sakti hai. Par yeh aap par hai k aap apni zindagi ko kaisay pur sukon banain.

Apnay dil may os k kiye etni nafrat na paida karen k bohat mushkil hojye dono k liye.

Huzur pak (pbuh) nay farmaya: k qayamat k din merey nazdeek woh loog hongay jo achay ikhlaq walay hongay.

So my advice for you is; always see worst case scenario in your life. Life may insan ko hamesha apnay say nichay dekhna chahiye na kay upar dekhen. Meri behan allah pak tumhen sabar, khushiyan or aqal e saleem day.

Ameen

WellKnOwN

Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 38 Post: 2987 Age: 24

Posted on:29th Jul 2012, 1:35am

extreme love

pehli baat to ye ke jab app razi nahe thi tho haa kiyo kardi,, kher ab hogaya hai, lekin apne parents ko zara kaho ke Islam mai agar larka ya larki nikah pe razi na ho to wo nikah forcefully samja jaega or nikah valid nahe hoga.

lekin doosri baat ye hai ke Insan ke sath kuch na kuch waqt burra hojata hai jiss se osko bohot dukh ho lekin osmai bi Allah ki shan hoti hai or ossi mai oske bhalai hotti hai to hosakta hai iss mai apki bhalai hoo.

so ab to nikaah hogaya hai to iss liye apne qareebi mufti/molvi se bi mashwara le lo kiyo ke app razi nahe thi tho nikaah nahe hota iss bare mai full detail se onse baat karlo or yaha par bi apko kuch seniors jawab denge...

myrizvi

Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 108 Post: 5935 Age: 53

Posted on:29th Jul 2012, 2:36am

wellknown bhai

yeh nikaah hogaya hai ... as she said k ....unho nay wasty day day k mjse han karwa di.... goya inhouN nay HaaN to kerdi, agar bah waqte nikaah bhi yaa Naa ho kahti aur tab bhi zabardasti nikaah kardia jata, tab nikaah nahi hota

xtremelove: safa ki advice par amal karo. ajkay ahad maiN rishtah mil jana bhi aikAllah ki neimat hai, kufraanay naimat mat karo.... agar tumnay kissi tarah iss sat talaq /khola lay bhi lia to ain mumkin hai k saza k taur par taqdeer tomhaiN koi doosra husband ataa hi nah karay... yaad rakho, aik survey report k motabiq karachi maiN females k moqaablay maiN one million laRkay kam haiN... lehaza kam az kam a million females ko kabhi bhi shauher nahi milega illa k woh kissi married person ko qabool kar laiN

agar tomhara kissi laRkay say chakkar waghairah hai to yaad rakho, talaaq k baad woh bhi tomhaiN ghaas nahi Daalega. parents ki roswayee aur aik bay qasoor insaan say nafrat ki saza to milegi hi naa

Allah say taubah karo aur hansi khushi rukhsati par razi hojaa'o. Allah tomhaiN mazeed aazmaishouN say mahfooz rakhay aur aqlay saleem ataa karay aameen

xtremelove

Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age: 24

Posted on:29th Jul 2012, 11:09pm

xtremelove

par wo ladka mujhy mar deny k dhamkiyan deta hai aur mjhse badla lena chahta hai usnay saf lafzo mai mjhy kaha hai yh. aur jab mai kisi aur ko like karti hun to mai isi k sath zindagi guzarny ka tasawer b nhi kar sakti aur jab bhi is ladky ka rishta ata tha mai man akarti thi.

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