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The Girl I Love Is Forced To Marriage

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momin112 Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2012  Topic: 1  Post: 8  Age:  21  
Posted on:28th Jun 2012, 12:26am
 

The Girl I Love Is Forced To Marriage

dear friends and doctors

i am in immense tension right now , i am 20+ years old and would like to get married but the problem is that the girl i like was engaged not done nikkah.

she doesnt want to marry the boy her father choose for her and she has been agaisnt this for 3 years now. but her family is forcing ehr to marry him, she will do silly things like suicide or harm herself i am sure .

we both told our parents but her paretns seems not agreeeing .

PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO >? how to convince her parents >?

how she can tell them not to force her>?

its against islam also which i know, but they dont understand

please advice me i need ur help

Allah Hafiz

momin112 Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2012  Topic: 1  Post: 8  Age:  21  
Posted on:28th Jun 2012, 12:29am
 

re:please help

would it be better if she tell the boy she is assigned to marry about us ?
momin112 Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2012  Topic: 1  Post: 8  Age:  21  
Posted on:28th Jun 2012, 2:06am
 

Alirajput G

Ali g pleases can u comment on the above problem . i would be very grateful to you
momin112 Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2012  Topic: 1  Post: 8  Age:  21  
Posted on:28th Jun 2012, 4:08am
 

help karo pls

kon to reply kro pls .
momin112 Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2012  Topic: 1  Post: 8  Age:  21  
Posted on:28th Jun 2012, 4:08am
 

help karo pls

kon to reply kro pls .
greeny Group: Members  Joined: 29th Apr, 2012  Topic: 7  Post: 41  Age:  27  
Posted on:28th Jun 2012, 2:01pm
 

momin112

oh my God.

so many boys with the same problem. yar app log apna future banane ki bajae larkiun k chakar me kyun parte ho? Ho kia gya hai hmari nasal ko.

aur jo parents larki ki marzi k khilaf uski shadi krte hain wo intehai bhayanak galti krte hain. kyun k zabardasti to nikah hota hi nae.

suicide ki dhamki apne parents ko di ja sakti hai. magar ye intehai ahmaqana qadam hai. koi bhi problem ka hal zindagi ka khatma nae hai. ye to Allah tala ki sb se bari nemat ki nashukri hai.

wo larki sirf apne parents ko samjae k wo whan shadi nae krna chahti. aur in my opinion wo apne mangater ko b bata sakti hai agar wo sensible hua to zrur understand kre ga.

aur maybe wohi koi rasta nikal de matlab is shadi se mana kr de. After all koi mard asi aurat se shadi nae krna chahta jo kisi aur k khyal ko dil se laga kr bethi ho.

Allah app dono pr apni rehmat kre.

momin112 Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2012  Topic: 1  Post: 8  Age:  21  
Posted on:28th Jun 2012, 2:22pm
 

Thank you

Greeny G thank you very much or ur reply.
I would like to add that the reason "so many boys with the same problem. yar app log apna future banane ki bajae larkiun k chakar me kyun parte ho? Ho kia gya hai hmari nasal ko" this is different from people to people.

We just didn't wan to end up doin something wrong and want to avoid all the fitnas of this world.

Islam encourages marriage early also , it is the best way of going through life easily and safely but unfortunately we Pakistanis hav made th halal way hard and the haram way easy.

I don't see anything wrong in marriage at a young age and 20 is not young I guess.
But again Pakistani parents care too much about izzat and Zat etc

I hope they follow the true islamic way of life and make life easier for us.

I am very grateful for ur reply brother/sister and I understand ur feelings but not everyone has the wrong intentions right !
Thank you

momin112 Group: Members  Joined: 28th Jun, 2012  Topic: 1  Post: 8  Age:  21  
Posted on:29th Jun 2012, 1:38pm
 

Others

Any other comments ??
Please madat kary or apne opinions de
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