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Dear anari, I am amazed to see that you have lived up to her most expectations without she having to earn her respect, you gave her everything as if it was a golden spoon without her even trying to appease or please you in any way or sort.
this is your biggest down fall, if you would have balanced it out, then you would never have to make excuses to your innocent parents, and more over, they are your parents, when ever you do tell them something, stay assured that they do think of the truth and crisis at home that you must be going through and they continue to pray for you, since you wont let them in, they cant do anything in "actual".
1) Dont share with her brother first, ask him to come to the coordinated meeting. 2) let him know its about his sister's conduct at home and with family members. 3) Give love to kids, and tell them, that mom and dad are in between discussions.. 4) Tell your wife to zip it up and take husband life, kids life, seriously.
5) tell your wife your parents are your everything, and from now on, the kids will have to spend the weekends there. While she and you will be eating there, and will be taking turns sleeping at home *your home* then *parents home*
6) tell her, that you will listen to her suggestions regarding what she wants for the kids, but tell her, that u will remind her that these are only suggestions and last decision will be yours.
Take care brother. Sorry, in little response I can only do this. I cant spend more than 20mins on forum, i have wife kids of my own. |