plz koi meri help kar sakta hai kya? meri problem bari ajeb hai,,, ma fsd se hon or ma aik larki se behad pyar karta hu jo lahore se hai,,, hm dono aik dosre se itna pyar karte hain k ab hm aik dosre se mile bhair reh nai sakte,,, hamari age abi 18, 19 hai,, or hm ne ajtak aik dosre ko dekha tak nai hai,, or shadi ka faisla kar liya hai,, problem ye hai k larki ki mama larki ki shadi apni marzi se karna chahti hain,,, larki ne mere bare me apne ghar bta dia hai lekin us k ghar wale nai maan rahe,,, meri mama maan gain hain shadi k liye lekin jaiz tarike se,,, us k ghar wale nai maan rahe ab hamare pas sirf aik hi rasta hai k bhag k shadi karna,,, ma koi itna rich larka nai hon,, lekin ma us ko apne sath rakh sakta hon,,, mujhe us se kuch nai chahye,, mujhe sirf wo chahye hai,, or ab hamare pas sirf aik hi rasta bacha hai bhag k shadi karne ka,,, plzzzzz koi meri help kare koi acha sa mashwara de k hm ko kya karna chahye,,, zindgi or moot ka sawal hai agr hm aik dosre ko na mil sake to hm kuch kar lein gy,,, is liye hmara milna zrori hai,,,, or ab last try bhag k nikah karne ki hai,,, mere ghar wale b nai mane gy bhag k nikah karne par,,, or ab majbori hai k hm ko nikah ghar walo ko btae bgair karna hai,,, or ho sakta hai k hm wapis apne ghar b na jaein nikah k bad,,,, plzzz koi hmko mashwara de k hme kya karna chahye hm bohat pareshan hain hamare pas sirf 1 ya 2 weeks hain or is k bad hm ne bhag jana hai,,, hm ko to pori tarha se qanon ka b nai pta hai k nikah k liye kya reqirments hoti hain or bhag k shadi karna thek hai ya nahi,,, or qanon is ki ijazt deta hai kya? or ye sab kar k hamare ghar walo ki apas ma larai to nai ho jae gi na? plzzzzzz mujhe koi mashwara de hm bohat bari musibat mein hain,,, or agr hm bhagte hain to kya kya karna chahye ? nikah foran kar lena chahye? or hm ko kitne paiso ki zrort ho gi k hm kisi or city ma ja kar settle ho sakein? plzzzzzzz mujhe ye b btaein k islam is k bare ma kya kehta hai,,,, kya jo hm karne ja rahe hian thek hai k nahi? plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz koi hmari help kare
well.... dekho dear main samjh sakta hun ap k dil ka haal....
but sirf aik mashwara dunga, agar bura na lage tu.... (agar baat buri lage tu maaf kar dena)
dekhein dear ghar se bhag k shadi karna ap k masle ka hal nahi hai, ghar se bhag k shadi karna ap k zindagi main buht masle create karega.... jis ka ap ko zara b andaza nahi hai.... ap k age hi kiya hai just 19 ....
mere bhai ap bhag k shadi karoge, rahoge kahan p ? khaoge kiya ? khud kiya khaogeapni bv ko kiya khiulaoge ?
aj is mahngai main job and kamana itna asan nahi hai... and u k choti c age and tension jo ap k life main create hunge u ko is waqat us ka nadaza nahi hai...
and u dono k families k beech kiya kuch start hoga yeh tu ALLAH hi jane, bht sare cases main baat khoon kharabe tak aa puhnchi hai....
mere bhai main ap ko ghar se bag k shadi karne ka mashwara kabhi nahi dunga, kiyn k yeh piyar ap ko dono k liye musibat ka sabab banega...
koshish karein apne ghar walon ko manane k liye.... ap apne ghar walon ko un k ghar bejhe...
5 waqat namaz k panbadi karein, durrod pak qasarat se parhein... IN SHA ALLAH ap ka masla solve hojaega...
baki as bro yeh mashwara mera k aise ghalati mat karna....
well.... dekho dear main samjh sakta hun ap k dil ka haal....
but sirf aik mashwara dunga, agar bura na lage tu.... (agar baat buri lage tu maaf kar dena)
dekhein dear ghar se bhag k shadi karna ap k masle ka hal nahi hai, ghar se bhag k shadi karna ap k zindagi main buht masle create karega.... jis ka ap ko zara b andaza nahi hai.... ap k age hi kiya hai just 19 ....
mere bhai ap bhag k shadi karoge, rahoge kahan p ? khaoge kiya ? khud kiya khaogeapni bv ko kiya khiulaoge ?
aj is mahngai main job and kamana itna asan nahi hai... and u k choti c age and tension jo ap k life main create hunge u ko is waqat us ka nadaza nahi hai...
and u dono k families k beech kiya kuch start hoga yeh tu ALLAH hi jane, bht sare cases main baat khoon kharabe tak aa puhnchi hai....
mere bhai main ap ko ghar se bag k shadi karne ka mashwara kabhi nahi dunga, kiyn k yeh piyar ap ko dono k liye musibat ka sabab banega...
koshish karein apne ghar walon ko manane k liye.... ap apne ghar walon ko un k ghar bejhe...
5 waqat namaz k panbadi karein, durrod pak qasarat se parhein... IN SHA ALLAH ap ka masla solve hojaega...
baki as bro yeh mashwara mera k aise ghalati mat karna....
there is a possibility ke, they cant act as one of your sides and speak to the other side and bring them on the table, Dont Run. Running, Settling, costs allot more than some thousand ruppees, you need at times a few lakh to actually settle down.
Remember to love those parents and to heed their advice the ones, that gave you birth by Allah's will and brought you in to this world, do not punish their love and care for some love you found on the internet, 2 months ago.
h r u? love main bht bardasht ki zarurt hoti hai, aur lazmi nai kh har khwaish puri ho, aur bhag kar shadi jb ap karain gay to ap ko andaza nai kh us kay after afects kya hon gay. is leye be cool. dont be so emotionl. Yeh dunya bht buri hai. yeh aik insan kay sath kya kya karti hai insan soch bhi nai sakta. Thanx
pahli bat to ye hai shadi parenst ki marzi se krni chahye bhale larki apki hi q na pasnd ho ek to apki age boht kam hai agr ap emtional hoke shadi bhag ke krte bhi hai us ke bahd boht se masail paida ap dono ek sath to hoge pr har tarf dar khouf or kahi bhi sukoon nhi hoga or apke ghr wale us larki ko yehi tana sari umar milega ye ghr se bhagi hui larki hai is samaj me kahi izt nhi rahti log shadi to kr lete hai parents ke marzi ke khilaf pr jo musibate jo ati hai wo parents hi hote hai jo solve krte hai to ap dua karen khuda pak se or try krte rahe jb tk us larki ke parents man na jaye or larki se yeh kaho wo apne ghrwalo se yeh kahe agr meri shadi us larke se nhi karwai to then i will kill myself .kiya pta dar ke mare man jaye apke rishte ke ly .or 5time nimaz me dua kren kasrat se.
thanks brothers,,,, lekin ab larki ko kya karna chahye k us k ghar wale us mere ghar bhej dein mujhe us k ghar walo se kuch nai chahye,,, sirf apna pyar chahye hai
Asalam-o-Alikum
thanks bhaiyo ap ne bohat ache mashware diye i agree,,, but larki k ghar wale thora ulta sochte hain or wo larki ki marzi se koi kam nai karte,,, har bar apni marzi karte hain,,, or agr larki ghar walo ko ziada force kare gi k wo mere se hi shadi kare gi to us k ghar wale us se mob b chen lein gy or us ka ghar se nikalna b band kar dein gy or phr us ki shadi jaldi se kar dein gy,,, already us k czn k sath us ka rishta us ki mama ne paka b kar dia hai or larki nai maan rahi abi tak or phr bhagne ka faisla kiya hai ab sare raste band ho chuke hain,,, larki ne apne ghar walo ko kaha hai k agr us ne shadi karni hai to mere se hi ,, agr mere se shadi nai hoi to wo sach ma jaan de de gi,,, us ne ghar walo ko keh b dia hai lekin us k ghar walo pe koi asar nai hai,,, wo us ki shadi apni marzi se karwana chahte hain,,, wo nai samjhte k pyar kya hai,,, pta nai kyo ye ghar wale nai samjh sakte k pyar k liye insan kuch b kar sakta hai or wo larki hai b jazbati or agr us k ghar walo ne us ki shadi kahi or karwa di to wo sach ma jaan de de gi,,, or ma b nai reh sakta us k bina,,,, us k ghar wale us ki zara b nai sun rahe,,, kya aisa ho sakta hai k us k ghar wale is baat par maan jaein k us larki ka mere se nikah kar k mere sath mere ghar bhej dein? agr aisa ho sakta hai to phr kya karna chahye larki ko apne ghar walo k sath,,, kya larna chahye? agr larki apne ghar walo se lare gi to us k ghar wale us se mob chen lein gy or us ki shadi zabardasti jaldi karwa dein gy,,, or wo larki shadi se pehle hi kuch kar le gi,,, mujhe bohat dar lag raha hai,,, plzzzzz koi aisa maswra de jis se us k ghar wale us larki ko us k ghar se mere ghar bhej dein larki ki marzi pe,,,,, mujhe us k ghar walo se kuch nai chahye bs wo larki chahye hm aik dosre se bohat pyar karte hain,,, or mujhe mere ghar walo ki koi tension nai hai un ko ma handle kar lu ga,,, meri mama bohat achi hai,,,, lekin us k ghra wale maan jaein bs itna hi kar dein k us ko us k ghar se mere ghar bhej dein chahe us se rishta khatam kar dein,,,, or bad me koi problem b nai creat ho,,, plzzzzzzzz koi bhai aisa maswara de k hm jald az jald aik ho jaein or koi problem b na ho,,, us k ghar walo ka maanna thora mushkil hai,,, plzzzzzzz some body help,,, phr hm bhag k shadi karne wala cancel kar dete hain,,, koi or rasta ho?? or kya agr larki k ghar wale us ki marzi se bgair us ki shadi karein,,, to kya larki qanon se help le sakti hai kya? kya use qanon tahafuz deta hai us ki marzi pe?? plzzzzzz help hm bohat bari problem mein phans chuke hain,,, pyar k liye to insan kuch b kar leta hai,,,,
Mye dear yongdre brother meri kuch bate hamesha yad rakhna.,.
1.jis se insan haqiqi pyar krta he use apne lie hasil krne k lie musibat me nh dalta or na e ruswa krta he.., jo tm use bhaga kr musibat me b dalo ge or ruswa b kro ge pure khandan me.
2.jise insan pyar krta he srf uski khushi chahta he or agr uski khushi apk sath rehne me he to ap uski khushi k lie har posible koshish kro.
Apne bro ko btao k wo un k ghar jae or ap k bare me sb btae k ap bohat ache insan he ap me koe buri adte nhe apki fml b bohat achi he ap logo ka rozgar b Acha chal rha he unhe smjhane ki koshish kre k ye ek bohat munasib rishta he jis me larka or larki 2no ek dusre ko pasod krte he or larke me koe burai b nh dono ki jori b munasib he.
Phr ap dua kre Allah se or larki ko b samjhae k dekho me ne apk lie har mumkin koshish ki he lekin ab ye faisla Allah ne krna he k wo hame milate he ya nh agr mila dia to hum ek dusre ki khushyo me kho jae ge or agr khuda na kre k na milaya to hum ek dusre ki khushyo k lie dua kre ge.,
pyar ko khush dekhna e pyar ki jeet he . Sirf hasil krne se pyar ki jeet nh hoti. Or rahi bat apni jan dene ki bat ki he to jan Allah ki amanat he us me khyanat mat krna.shirak sb se bara gunah uski b mafi he q k uski mafi zindagi ki akhri sans me b mang skta he lekin khudkashi jb kr li to us k pas is haram kam krne ki mafi ki b mohlat nh hogi zaher he mara hua insan mafi kese mange ga...
Bs jo jaiz tareqa he wo koshish kro baqi Allah pe chor do.bye
thanks brothers,,,, lekin ab larki ko kya karna chahye k us k ghar wale us mere ghar bhej dein mujhe us k ghar walo se kuch nai chahye,,, sirf apna pyar chahye hai
Asalam-o-Alikum
thanks bhaiyo ap ne bohat ache mashware diye i agree,,, but larki k ghar wale thora ulta sochte hain or wo larki ki marzi se koi kam nai karte,,, har bar apni marzi karte hain,,, or agr larki ghar walo ko ziada force kare gi k wo mere se hi shadi kare gi to us k ghar wale us se mob b chen lein gy or us ka ghar se nikalna b band kar dein gy or phr us ki shadi jaldi se kar dein gy,,, already us k czn k sath us ka rishta us ki mama ne paka b kar dia hai or larki nai maan rahi abi tak or phr bhagne ka faisla kiya hai ab sare raste band ho chuke hain,,, larki ne apne ghar walo ko kaha hai k agr us ne shadi karni hai to mere se hi ,, agr mere se shadi nai hoi to wo sach ma jaan de de gi,,, us ne ghar walo ko keh b dia hai lekin us k ghar walo pe koi asar nai hai,,, wo us ki shadi apni marzi se karwana chahte hain,,, wo nai samjhte k pyar kya hai,,, pta nai kyo ye ghar wale nai samjh sakte k pyar k liye insan kuch b kar sakta hai or wo larki hai b jazbati or agr us k ghar walo ne us ki shadi kahi or karwa di to wo sach ma jaan de de gi,,, or ma b nai reh sakta us k bina,,,, us k ghar wale us ki zara b nai sun rahe,,, kya aisa ho sakta hai k us k ghar wale is baat par maan jaein k us larki ka mere se nikah kar k mere sath mere ghar bhej dein? agr aisa ho sakta hai to phr kya karna chahye larki ko apne ghar walo k sath,,, kya larna chahye? agr larki apne ghar walo se lare gi to us k ghar wale us se mob chen lein gy or us ki shadi zabardasti jaldi karwa dein gy,,, or wo larki shadi se pehle hi kuch kar le gi,,, mujhe bohat dar lag raha hai,,, plzzzzz koi aisa maswra de jis se us k ghar wale us larki ko us k ghar se mere ghar bhej dein larki ki marzi pe,,,,, mujhe us k ghar walo se kuch nai chahye bs wo larki chahye hm aik dosre se bohat pyar karte hain,,, or mujhe mere ghar walo ki koi tension nai hai un ko ma handle kar lu ga,,, meri mama bohat achi hai,,,, lekin us k ghra wale maan jaein bs itna hi kar dein k us ko us k ghar se mere ghar bhej dein chahe us se rishta khatam kar dein,,,, or bad me koi problem b nai creat ho,,, plzzzzzzzz koi bhai aisa maswara de k hm jald az jald aik ho jaein or koi problem b na ho,,, us k ghar walo ka maanna thora mushkil hai,,, plzzzzzzz some body help,,, phr hm bhag k shadi karne wala cancel kar dete hain,,, koi or rasta ho?? or kya agr larki k ghar wale us ki marzi se bgair us ki shadi karein,,, to kya larki qanon se help le sakti hai kya? kya use qanon tahafuz deta hai us ki marzi pe?? plzzzzzz help hm bohat bari problem mein phans chuke hain,,, pyar k liye to insan kuch b kar leta hai,,,,
bhai ap ne thek kaha k pyar ko khush dekhna hai lekin agr pyar ki khushi mere sath juri ho or mere bgair wo khush na reh sake to phr? ,,, or hm aik dosre ko bohat chahte hain even aik dosre k bgair reh b nai sakte to phr hm kaise aik dosre ko bhool sakte hain,,, us larki ki khushi mere sath hai,,, or hmara ye maqsad ban gya hai us ko pana,,, hmare me itni himat nai hai k hm aik dosre ko chor sakein,,, i know k marzi Allah ki zaat ki hoti hai,,, lekin insan ko khud b to struggle karni chahye na,,, agr us k ghar wale na mane to phr b hm dono aik dosre ko nai chor sakte,,, hamare ma understanding bohat barh chuki hai or hmara aik hona hai hamare future k liye better hai,, wese abi larki apne ghar ma baat to kar rahi hai,,, ab Age Allah ki marzi hai k kya ho ga? plz ap log dua kijeye ga,,
Bro me kaha to he agr uski khushi apk sath he to ap usk lie har mumkin koshish kro .me ne kb kaha sirf qismat pe chor do lekin sirf jaiz koshish..,
tmahara pyar us k ma bap or behan bhaiyo k us k sath pyar se zyada nh he. Khud socho agr tmahari sis k same position ho or wo bhag jae jb apk parensts nh mane uski pasand k rishte k lie to tum kya kro ge.
Khuda k lie bat ko samjo apni khudgarzi me q 2 khandano ko barbad krne ka soch rhe ho.just posibilities pe socho jo jaiz ho. Or rahi bat ap ek dusre k bina nh rh skte to jani jis Ma ka beta ya qatal ho jata he ya uska beta us re bicher jata he to kya wo b jena chor nh deti he wo apni dusri olad or apn husb k lie jeti he or tmhara pyar ma k pyar se zyada nh he k tm alag g na sako.
ek boy jo rat ke andhere me apni gf ko uske ghr se bhaga ke le jata hai dosri city me phr grl ke bhai chacha larki ko talsh me lage rahte hai or larke ke ghrwalo ko yeh dhamki dete hai agr humari larki ka pta nhi ptya ya nhi mili to sb ko kill kr doga phr bhi larke wale bt nhi mante akhr kar kch din bat larke ka bhai shop pr tha to uske larki ke bhai chacha ne shoot kr diya or wo mar gya .or phr larki walo ne dhamki di agr larki nhi mili to or lashe giregi akhr larka or larki wapas agy larki to le gaye pr larke ne apni bhai ki mout dekhi or sb dar padar hogye .
agr ap court marriage kr bhi lete ho or qanoon ka tahfuz bhi mile to kia larki ke ghrwale apki ya apke ghrwalo ko choregejo apki or apke ghrwalo ke ly museebaten paida karge ye dunia boht hi buri hai kia itna bada ap risk le paoge apne ly apne ghr ke ly koi nhi marta koi kisi ke ly sb jeete hai wo chahe majboori hi q na ho pr jeena parhta hai bhai jo parents apni ulad ki feeling khushi nhi smjhte wo apke ly boht si musibten paida karege bs ap puri koshish karen baki khuda pak pr choren i can undrstand ur feelings meri bhi ap dono ke ly dua .
thanks bhaiyo behno,,, Atif bhai apka b reply sun k acha laga,,,
bohat shukariya ap sab ka acha laga ap k replies dekh k ,,, ab hm hi kuch karte hain k us k ghar wale maan jaein,,, age Allah ki marzi kya ho ga,,,, Atif bhai ma full koshsh karo ga us ko pane ki,, or In Sha Allah ma use pa k hi raho ga,,,, abi hm bhagna cancel kar dete hain,, or har tarha se jaiz koshsh karte hain,,, Age phr khuda ki marzi k kya ho ga,,,
Akal kay andhey, mere bhai bhaag kar kabhi shadi na karna...
mere neighbors mey issi tarah aik larkey ney bhag kar kisi larki sey shadi ki thee... shadi karkey woh larka ghar nai aaya aur larki ko kahin aur lay gaya... magar larki kay ghar waaley larkey kay ghar aaey aur larkey ki maa ko uthaa kar lay gaey badla lainey kay liey, aur oos sey har woh ghalat kaam kia jo tum soch saktey ho.........!!!!! aur kuch din baad oos ki naak kaat kar wapis chor gaey...
beywakoof aadmi aik larki kay peechey q apney ghar waalo ki izat aur jaan ko daao per lagatey ho??? yeh izzat aur ghairat kay maamley bohut naazuk hotay hain..... zindagi maut ka maamla hota hai.... kabi na bhagana kabi kisi ko...
apna future, oos larki ka future, apney ghar waalo ka future.... yeh sab nazar mey rakh kar faisla karna koi bhi....
wife aur bhi mil jaey gee.... girl friend bi aur mil jaey gee.... pyar bhi aur mil jata hai..... iss waqt tumhey shayad meri baat samajh na aaey but future mey aaey gee kay mohabbat kaee baar ho sakti hai, its a fact.... but blood relations like mother n father phir kabhi nahi milein gey...
maa baap ka pyar jo kay bey-matlab hota hai, pure love... oos ki insult na karo, beykadri na karo.... apney maa baap ka naam roshan karo... niklo iss ishq kay chakar sey baahar...
agar larki waaley nahi maantey tou forget it!!!! never ever think of running with some girl...
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ghar se bhag kar shadi,,, plz help urgently,
AKAL KARO!!