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Zooor |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2012, 11:20pm |
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 My Attitude Problem
Main ne ye apna personal mater pehly b discus kia tha, mgr kisi ka theek se reply nhe aya, plz mujhy btain main boht akaila hun.. Meri problem kuch ajeeb se hai may b ap sab frnds ko meri bat smaj ajay in fact, ye meri personal story hai jo main ne kbi bhi kisi se shair nhe ki (ham 7 behn bhai hain) main jab chota sa tha to meri aik sis jo muj se bari hai muj se boht pyar karti thi (abi bhi) to aik din meri sis mujy balon main kangi karty karty rony lagi. phr mujy hug kia khud he chup ho gai. main boht chotta tha mujy iss bat ki koi smaj nhe i. i thing i was in 3 class. wo aksar batin karti thi mujy us wakt kuch b smaj nhe ati thi phr aik din wo kehny lagi k hamari mom nhe hain. main ne ye bat ja kr dusry bhn bhaion ko bta di, k wo keh rhe hai hmari mom nhe hai (main sab se chotta tha) phr sab keny lagy k Q ni hai ye hmari he mom hain..jo hmary ghar main hain but ye bat mery Zehn main reh gai in short ye k mery father ki meri mom k sath second merrige thi, N meri mom real main nhe thin. she was dead even when i was jst 1.5 year old. phr jab main bara ho gya to meri step mom ka b behavior hmary sath step mom wala he tha jaisy k ap sab log stories main party ho aik step mom ka behavior kesa hota hai. mera sagga bhai koi nhe tha N sis 1 thi. meri step mom mujy step brothers k sath kam kam khailny daiti thi. or aisy boht se metter thy jo mere bachpan main guzar gay main mantaly boht disturb rha k aisa sab kuch mere sath he Q hota hai meri he maa Q nhe hai baQi sab ki to hai. mujy boht dukh hota tha even k main chup chup k (bistar main washroom) main rota rehta tha. problem ye b thi k hmary ghar main iss topic pe koi bat nhe karta tha. or meri sis hmaisha sad sad nazar ati thi, main or meri sis he sagy behn bhai thy baki sab hmary step bro & sis thy. prblm ye b tha k mujy meri step mom mery step brothrs k sath boht kam kam khailny diti thin. jis se main mentaly or b upset rehta tha. mostly akaila he khailta rehta tha. as result jab bara hua (in metric) to meri nature boht change ho gai mjy kisi bat pe rona ni ata tha mostly mere jitny guys school main jin baton pe roty thy. N further ye k main ab her kisi k sath school main school se bahir larny marny ko tayyar rehta tha. mujy koi b pasnd nhe tha meri apni life b ni. yun he time guzar gya main kbi kbi apni mom (died) ki sis or mom (meri nani) k han sal main ya 2 sal main aik bar zroor jata tha Coz there was a province distance bitween us.(continue)
metric k bad jab main whan gya to wo hamaisha ke trhan boht pyar se mily whan mri door ki aik cozn i hui thi jis ko main ne 1st time daikha tha wo mere sath rhi kuch din, meri care ki (pyasy ko khuwan mila, tarsy ko pyar mila) main first time kisi gair larki k itna kareeb aya tha so wo he hua jo aksar hojata hai. Mjhy us se shaded mohabbat ho gai or main jo bold b boht tha accept b kr lia us k samny. Main us age main tha k jis main insan insan kam or pagal zyada hota hai. Hath dho k pechy par gya tha ghar wapis aya man nhe laga study choor di. Sab kuch choor diya sirf us se milny k ley. wo to na mili mgr thokrain boht milin, phr boht c larkian aain mgr meri kismet main koi nhe. Jese k meri kismet main meri mom nhe. Boht se log hain frnds hain jin ki girlfrnds hain. Or boht hain, msgs krty hain calls karty hain magr main ne kbi b life main kisi larki se fon pe 10 minutes se zyada bat nhe ki jin se ki hai wo b relatives hain. ab jb k sab kuch normal hai aik chotti c govt job hai, Frnds hain, but still koi women nhe, koi pyar nhe koi pyar karny wli nhe, koi orat nhe mujhy aj kal after 10 or 12 years wese he rona ata hai apne ap pe jaisy bachpan main ata tha. Coz I m still alone... i m so tired |
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sweet_cute |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2012, 1:50pm |
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Aslam-o-Allaikum mere bhai, ap k story sun k mujhy dukha hua, lekin mere dost, life khatam nahi hui ap k....
Ap k ami k death hogae jo aik haqiqat hai jis ko na ap change kar sakte hain , na main, na hi is duniya main koi b insaan.... yeh ALLAH k taraf se hai and ALLAH se sawal poochna hamre bus main nahi....
ap ne life main shayad bht kuch saha is liye ap negative thinking main chale gae hain...
agar ap aj yehi kahte hain k still u r alone tu this is ur vegative thinking. only negative thinking....
GF hona life k kamiyabi nahi hai mere bhai... ap apni soch ko badalo, negative ko positive main badalo, phir dekhna k ap k pass kon c cheez k kami rahti hai ?
u r able, u r smart, u can do each and every thing, u r success.... aage barho life main himmat karo, with positive thinking, phir dekhna ap k kitne dost, milte hain ap ko....
koi b baat ho khul k share karna IN SHA ALLAH i ll help u |
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 25 Post: 1975 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2012, 2:08pm |
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Zooor ap ki puri story se aik hi nateeja nikla k ap is forum per kisi lerki ki talash main aai hain
ap ki itelaa k liyay araz hai k is forum per ais akuch nhn hota
is k ilawa ap ne kaha k ap sab se chotay hain aur ap se beri aik sisi thin is k sath hi ap ne kaha k step mom ne ap k sath step mom wala salook kiya ap k baqi behan bhai ap k sath sahi salook nhn kertay thay yani ap se baray thay ap ki is bat k hisab se
yani ap ki mom second wife thin ap k dad ki
ap ki sari story confusing aur un balanced mind ki takhleeq lagty hai
is k ilawa ager koi bhi lerki ya aurat ap k sath bat nhn kerti to yeh ap ki kamzori hai ap main kuch kamiyan hongi ap k behaviour main kamiyan hon gi
is liyay is terah TERLAY marnay ki bijaay khud ko is qabil banaain k lerki ap se khud bat keray
aisay ap ko hamderdi shayed mil jain mohabat nhn milay gi
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glamour |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 13 Post: 903 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jan 2012, 4:09am |
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 zoor bro
as salam oalikum
main nay apa ki pori post read nhi kai just kuch batain read k ihai or wehshi bro k ipost se andaza lagaya hai kay aap tanhai ka shikar hain apa ko kisi mukhlis sathi ki need hai to isk a ek simple solutin hai aap shadi kar lo ye shari tareka b hai apa k itanhai dor karnay ka or is tarha koi apa k idaikh bhal b kar lay ga ........aap ki age 25 hai graduate ho govt job hai to phir kai qabahat hai bismilah karain or shadi kar lain
thanks
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Zooor |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jan 2012, 10:18am |
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Please total read krain Thanx all of you friends!! Specially sweet cute nd aap logon ne boht pyar se kuch batin mujhy clear krin hain obvesly main boht akaila hun nd akaily pan ka he shekar hun lekin Wehshi bhai aap to is fourm k boht senior person ho, aap ko meri problem negative nhe lene chahiye, is forum main agr mujhy larkian patani hain to un se contact kese lunga ya ID kese shair krunga? aap khud batao kya ye possible hai, obvesly its impossible... coz main id ya contact jaisy he sheir krunga Admin wo remove kr de g nd may be mera account b block kr dy to aik samajdar insan kuch bolny se pehly atleast sochy to ke ye bat jo main ne is shaks se khi hai kya wo aisa karskta hai.. main aap k reply parta rehta hun, aap k reply as compare to other user achy or mosir hoty hain,, usi lehaz se main aap ki indirectly respect b krta hun bt ye reply kuch diffrent tha, ya shaid aap gussy main thy.. nd second ye k meri mother mery father ki second wife he thin, mery father ne kuch khandani maters ki waja se 2 shadian ki thin..unfortunatly the second one died after few years..aap dobara thread read krain sab balance ho jay ga. or is martaba becareful k koi mazak main b apni maa ko nhe marna chahta. any way aik bat to aapki bilkul theek hai k akila to main boht hun ik larki hoti to boht acha hota, koi gf coz mujhy jst batin share karni hotin hain or khush rehny ki zroorat hoti hai... nd glamour ne jaisy kha k shadi kar lo, to shadi wo kry na jisko partner chahiye mujhy to kuch nhe chaiye jst koi aisa ho jo muj se batin kary mujhy guide kary nd shadi b krunga jab wakt ayga, abi tak to aik choti moti gari b nhe hai jb aik status aik class develop kar lunga to shaddi b kar lunga.. or sweet cute" yar thank you so much main inshallah aap se boht c problem shair kya krunga aap ne jaisy mujhy kuch hosla dia nd jaisa behave kia mujhy bilkul aisi tawaka thi, magr wehshi bhai se. lekin yar aap keh rhy ho k GF hona life ki kamyabi nhe, i know that lekin aik larki aap ki life main must hai jo aap ko success karti hai, aap ne wo mhawra suna hai k har kamyab mard k pechy aik orat ka hat hai so mery bhai its true. aap azma lo, aap aik long period kisi girl se bilkul attach na rho kisi girl se dil ki bat na kho, kisi girl ko apna na daikho, koi aap ko adain na dikhay koi girl aap ko lift na karway to phir daikhna aap ko u lagy ga k aap bot salon se bot saddion se akaily ho, aap ka koi nhe hai sab apni apni dor main magan hai or aap ho k bas udass akaily daikhna aik din aap ko frustration hony lagy g.. aap khud se kho gy k mn kamyab hun main kya krun mere pass paisy hain to kya faida ye kisi k kam k nhe,, log Eid pe Valantine pe ya kisi b event pe apni wife ko apni GF ko gifting kar rhy hon gy kuch aap k samny samny, or kuch kharid kr un k ley le ja rhy hongy , phr aap socho aap k pass paisy hain aap hazar logon se nhe to 100 logon se acha gift kharid sakty ho, magr aap gift kharid kr kis ko do gy kis ko happy kro gy? kon aap k gift ka wait kr rha hai. aap ki job ka kya fida aap k paison ka kya faida, supoce aaj chand raat hai aaj sab khush hain kuch guzry pal ko soch kr kuch any waly pal ko, magr aap khush Q nhe hoty, kisi guzry pal se, ya kisi ane waly pal se iss ley k aap khush ho nhe sakty, aap ki kismat main aisi khushi nhe jo aap ko dil se khush kar dy.. batin boht c hain mery bhai jo main khun mery hath nhe thakain gy Q k jab dil jal rha ho kisi b jalan ka kisi thakan ka ahsas nhe hota,,bs agr dil jalta ho magr aap log bor ho jao gy may b aap ko kuch smaj he na aay magr ye batin sirf usko samaj aati hain jin pe betti hon...
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 25 Post: 1975 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Jan 2012, 2:51pm |
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zooor main ghussay main nhn tha jab ap ko reply kiya
lekin disection zaruri hai kisi bhi bat ko smajhnay k liyay
aap koi bachay nhn ho 25 saal m mature insan ho as per ur id yeh bat samjh s ebaher hai k koi lerki ap s ebat nhn kerti ya kuch arsa bad chor deti hai is main ap apna atitude dekhain
insan mushkilat main reh ker bhi insan hi rehta hai rudeness k us derja per jata k koi usay insan na smajay
is liyay ap ki jo problem hain us ka solution bhi ap k pas shi hai |
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1264 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 2:58am |
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Please issko bhee purs read karen
Aap ne jo likha kay
glamour ne jaisy kha k shadi kar lo, to shadi wo kry na jisko partner chahiye mujhy to kuch nhe chaiye jst koi aisa ho jo muj se batin kary mujhy guide kary nd shadi b krunga jab wakt ayga, abi tak to aik choti moti gari b nhe hai jb aik status aik class develop kar lunga to shaddi b kar lunga..
Huge Mistake in concept. I used to think of it that way too. Larki milegi tou kuch time k baad baki sab b chahye hoga. It takes time actually. insan time k sath badal jata hai.Let me tell you one thing clearly you are as normal as any other human. jeassy sab khana khatay hain sotay hain kam kerta hain aur ... obvioyusly sex kertay hain.... wessay hee aap bhee hain . just aap ko abhi recognise nahi ho ra k aapko iss ki need hai. Achi baat hai k nahi mehsus hua kiunkay essa hona unnecessary ha shadi se pehlay BUT jab larki k sath friendshio develop hogi slowly slowly aap uski taraf attarct ho hee jayengay ab sab different hota hain it may take years before this happens or may just take few months.
If you just want a friend go for a mle friend . If you are looking for female perspective in life the believe me koi b dusri larki aapki ammi ya behan ko replace nahi ker sakti.Tou easy and safe option is make a group of friends JUST friends jessy college uni ma hota hain Uskay beyond mat jayen ONE on ONE friendship is not good for you
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1117 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 5:06am |
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ur not alone aj se me apki sister ban jati ho & i agree wd glamour.
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1264 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 7:16am |
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I can be your sister too Althugh i can never be able to replace your blood relation i can try act like a big sis.You can tal to us about nething.
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Zooor |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 10:01am |
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Thanx u all my wish ha ha ha aap 40 main b play boy, yar main smajta tha k sab se pehly jahanum main mn jaunga coz i m in all 24 hours jst thinking about girls. lekin ab ye dar nhe coz jis jahanum mn main jaunga us whan aap he to mujhy welcome kro gy... nd girls kya ho gya hai aap logon ko kitna behn ban'ny ka shok hai aap jaoo mujhy koi behn wehn nhe chahiye, meri post complete read kro nd then tell me k main ne khan ye write kia hai k " logo sunoo koi behn farigh hai to plz ajay coz meri koi behn nhe" mn ne kha k kash ik larki frnd hoti jis k sath mn enjoy karta life k achy pal, events celebrate karta, kuch batin share karta nd boht khush rehta nd obvesly jb aik khubsurat chehra aap k pass ho to insan aadha vese he khushi se mar jata hai.. main to aisa he hun baki ka nhe pata nd jb aap ne clear cut explain kia hai to main b kardun k jab mujhy sex ki need hai to lazmi hai k main apni frnd k sath he krun? bahir kya kuch nhe milta? or aik chez shaid aap logon k knowldge main nhe ho k larky or larki ki thinking main 1 jaga boht bara diffrence hai wo ye k jab larki 1 larky ki dil se respect karti hai nd jan ki b Qurbani us k samny kuch nhe smajti, to it means k wo apna sab kuch us larky pe lutta skti hai usy de sakti hai.. or jab same situation ik larky ki kisi larki k ley hoti hai to wo b apni jan tak b nichawar kar sakta hai bt us se kuch nhe mangta na kuch leta hai... i thing u all got the point which i telling u. any way thanx all of u meri kisi b bat ka koi mind na kary plz..or jitni mohabbat se aap logon ne reply kia mery ley to ye b boht hai. thanx u all
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1117 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 10:18am |
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zoor wah jee wah ek to apko apna bhai kaha or upr se inti btmeezi salm krti ho
apko ek larki chahye wo ese ly ke ap jis k sath mn enjoy karo life k achy pal, events celebrate karo, kuch batin share karo nd boht khush reho.
ye to khulum khula behayai hai jo ap mang rahe ho itni glt soch are shadi q nhi krte ho jo rasta ap soch rahe ho wo apko jahnum me le jayga ok .ek batmeezi krke phr kahte ho mind mt krna koi bhi to me bhi yahi ho kahti ho ok.
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1117 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 10:25am |
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kham kha itni lambi post
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1264 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 11:19pm |
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Ok then mke me your friend I hope i am not too old for you bachha! lolzzzzz
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 1264 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Jan 2012, 11:21pm |
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Wessay real life friend koi agar banana chahtey ho to try karo tmaray interests us sy miltay houn this way aap logoun kay paas kuch share kernay k liye bohat see baatain hon gee.
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1117 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2012, 12:48am |
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maira sis apne thek se post read nhi ki kia wo kis tarh ki dost kah raha hai shyed ap smjhi nhi
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Diplomate |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 49 Post: 3158 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Jan 2012, 10:23am |
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 mairak male hay female nahi
mairak apni profile k hisab sy female bana howa hay laiken mairak ki apni post jo iss ny shaid yeh bhool kar likh di k yeh iss forum par female ki id sy hay ko read kar k main shak main parr geya hon :)
see his own post which is in this thread ,
to shadi wo kry na jisko partner chahiye mujhy to kuch nhe chaiye jst koi aisa ho jo muj se batin kary mujhy guide kary nd shadi b krunga jab wakt ayga, abi tak to aik choti moti gari b nhe hai jb aik status aik class develop kar lunga to shaddi b kar lunga..
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Zooor |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2012, 6:29am |
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Bharr main jaoo sary
sab ka boht shukria magar aik se khar dimagh log baithy haintyme zaya mat kro apny apny kam kro ja kar agr main tum logon ki insult karna chahun to sab k hosh thikany lga dun ghatia log/ infact ye b kam hai --Edited slang word-- han ye fit hai
Don't use slang wording Moderator
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sadheart |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Nov, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 136 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2012, 10:05am |
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zoor apko sharm bhi nhi ati ek sb se glt mashwara le rahe the jb apko acha sugg dia islami tor pr to sb ko galia di ghatiya kaha pahle bhai ap khud ke andar me dekho ktni kamiya hai shayd yehi apki saza hai alone boy .............or apki itni ukad nhi jo kisi ko hosh thikane laoge ok mind ur language......
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Nadeem.ifti |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Mar, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Mar 2012, 6:56pm |
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Soluti0n ye lo yr fatafat g0ogle par ja kar faceb0ok par id bannao or larki0n k0 request bjho or baat kar ke pata loo ! Thankx ! |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 50 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Mar 2012, 12:45am |
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Nadeem ifti aap apne walid Iftikhar ifti se pooche, ke kia unonaye bhi aap ki walda ko istrah pataya tha? Wo mashwara de, jho aap ap ne behen ya bhai ke liye pasand karenge! |
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