How Would I Talk To My Fiancee?

yeh ghalati nah karaiN

Allah par bharosa karaiN aur apnay parents par etbaar karaiN. apkay mangetar apkay qareebi azeez honay k bawajood kabhi apsay baat cheet nahi ki to yeh onki sharafat hai....... ab ap marriage say qabal tak ka period bhi issi tarah onsay gup shup kiyeh beghair guzaar laiN....... yaad rakhiye, shadi say qabal "understanding" kabhi ho hi nahi sakti..... aik martabah baat cheet ka dar khul gayaa aur onki /apki jhijak khatam hogayee to baat dooooooooor talak jaa sakti hai. lekin tab tak halaat etnay pecheedah hojayengay k ...

bus apnay susraal walouN say, jo apkay ghar aayaiN, achi tarah pesh ayaiN... indirectly onki pasand naa.pasand maloom karlaiN, aur bus shadi ki tayyari karaiN...achay achay books aur noorclinics ki books read karaiN... milnay milanay, baat cheet karnay aur qabl az shadi understanding develope karnay ki koshish /ghalati nah karaiN

Nice sister

Nicee

thanx a lottttt Rizvi & Parrot bhai , aap logon ne mujhy boht achy mashwary diay. agr wo sirf mery fiance hoty to main aisa kabhi bhi na chahti lakin mera on sy nikah ho chuka hyy r sharae lehaz sy yeh galat nahe hy. sab sy ehm baat yeh hy k hamary kuch family materz aisy hain jo hum agr pehly he discuss r clear kar lain to better hoga ... dats whyyyyyyyyyy main chahti hoon k woh mujh sy contact karain????

Kiya ab nikah k baad mera on sy baat karna galat hoga??????? plz mujhy guide karain main boht upset hoon.

culturally ghalat hai

re: "sharae lehaz sy yeh galat nahe hy."

ji haa sharee lehaz se ghalat nahi hai, lekin culturally ghalat hai. agar aap ke culture mai rukhsati se qabal milna julna baat cheek kerna sahi nahi samjha jaata tu aap ko rukhsati se qabal baat nahi kerni chahiye. culture ke rule ko violate kare gi tu gunah nahi ho ga, lekin mashwara yahi hai keh apne culture ke rule se baghawat na kare.