Foreplay mein sari attention iss cheez per ho kay aapko apni biwi ko jinsi khushiyan deyni hai. Agar aapko bhi foreplay mein en khushiyon ki zaroorat hai to yeh khushiyan aapko biwi deygi. Hum ney apni book "Azdawaji Khushiyan Khawateen Kay Liyei" mein details kay saath khawateen ko baataya hai kay woh apney mian ko foreplay mein kis tarhan ziyada sey ziyada khushi dey sakti hain.

Effective foreplay mein aurat ki faraj 10 to 30 sec mein geali hojati hai. Mard ki shahoot aur aurat ka geela pan aik jaisi cheezain hain. Agar aurat ki faraj mein lubricant naa ho to aurat amooman jismani aur naafsiyaati lehaz sey mubashrat (intercourse)  kay liye tayyar nahi hoti. Iss surat mein aurat ko mazeed foreplay ki zaroorat hoti hai. Iss lubricant ko finger sey check kara ja sakta hai. Baaz auqat taweel foreplay kay baad bhi aurat geli nahi hoti jabkay aurat mubashrat (intercourse)  kay liye tayyar hoti hai. Isski wajah medicine wagbaala hoti hai maslan birth control ki medicine ki wajah sey faraj mein lubricaation nahi hoti. Isskay elawa 20% khawateen ko lubricaation ka masla hota hai. Yani yeh khawateen lubrication kay bagbaal mubashrat (intercourse)  kay liye tayyar hojaati hain. Yeh masla amooman en aurton ko hota hai jinhunay hull hi mein bacha janaa ho, doodh pelanay wali aurtein aur burhapey aurtein jinkay haez (menses) band ho chukay hun. Iss surat mein achi qisim ki lubricant (Cold cream, baby lotion, olive oil) use kiya jaey. Yani baaz auqat faraj ki secretion kay bagbaal bhi aurat mubashrat (intercourse)  kay liye tayyar hojaati hai. Secretion ki mojodgi bhi lazman mubashrat (intercourse)  ki tayyari ki alamat nahi. Albatta tayyari mein aurat ka bazer (clitoris) akarr jata hai.