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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Oct 2013, 8:23am |
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 Kia 10-12 Sal Barri Larki Say Shadi Karna Thek Rhy Ga Ya Nahi?
Kia Age Difference Matter Krta Hay??? Agr Larki Ki Age 10-12 Sal Ziada Ho Larkay Say To Koi Problem To Nahi Ho Ga? |
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alone but happy
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Oct 2013, 11:14pm |
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ye islam mai jaiz hai us larky ki age kitni ha ? Or lrki ki age kitni ha? Islam mai age ki koi bandash nahi shart ye hai k wo baligh ho or apna acha bura samjti ho agr uska wali mtlb bap ya dada ya koi b jis ne pala ho usy wo ijazt de tab agr wo larki phly se shadi shuda thi mtlb talak ho gai thi or wo khud makhtar ho to wali ki ijazt ki zrort ni .t.c |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Oct 2013, 12:06pm |
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ISLAMIC VIEW SAY NAHI SOCIAL VIEW SAY Yr Larky Ki Age 19 Or Larki 30 Or ISLAM Me To Jayez Hai Lkn Social Problems Ya Marriage Life Me Prblms Wgera To Nahi Banyen Gay? Ya Understanding Ka Masla Wagera?? |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Oct 2013, 1:28pm |
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SENIOR MARRIED MEMBERS Agr Koi Senior Married Member Ans Day Sky To Ziada Behtar Rhy Ga? |
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alone but happy
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 14 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Oct 2013, 2:42pm |
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ok ok g |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Oct 2013, 12:11am |
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SENIOR MEMBERS??? Yar Reply Do |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 125 Post: 7411 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Oct 2013, 1:44am |
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it depends agar donouN ki chemistry aik hai...aik doosray k compatible haiN... donouN omar k iss faraq ko nazar andaaz karnay ko tayyar haiN... bilkhasoos laRki age maiN baRi honay k bawajood apnay say choTi age k husband ko respect denay aur bar banaa.ay ohdah, oski farmaaN.bardari ko tayyar ho, khood ko aqlay kull nah samjhay tab koi problem nahi hogi
agar aisa nahi hai to problem laazman hogi k rewayti taur par azal say abad tak dunyaa maiN har jagah shauher biwi say age maiN bara hi hota hai... aur laRkay /mard apni age say atleast 5-10 saal choTi laRki hi say shadi kartay haiN
lekin jab iss tradistion (jiski bahoot si hikmataiN aur fawaid saabit shudah haiN) k opposite koi kaam kia jayega to mushkilaat to pesh aayengi hi... its a natural |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Oct 2013, 1:56am |
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Thanks Mr Rizvi Jazzak ALLAH.
Agr Koi Married Woman Mashwra Day Sky To Or Bhi Acha Ho Ga |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Oct 2013, 11:33pm |
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ANY SENIOR MARRIED WOMEN Agr Koi Senior Women Member Ans. Day To Mehrbani Ho Gi
Shukria |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Oct 2013, 12:54pm |
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BARY KHUD GHARZ LOG HO YAR Banda Kisi Ko Guide To Kr Skta Hai. Koi To Bolo |
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saim1
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Group: Members Joined: 23rd May, 2008 Topic: 44 Post: 2202 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Oct 2013, 4:00pm |
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Bacha Log problem sirif yeh ho sakti hy ky aik 19 sal ka larka aur 30 sal ki larki ki soch mien bhut faraq hota hy. Larkiyan jaldi mature ho jati hain. iss waja sy bhut si baton pr iktelaf ho sakta hy. Jasey hamry yahan mostly husband dominant hota hy or sochta hy orat ussky under mien rahy. Lakin 30 sal ki mature larki appna acha bura khud samjh sakti hy. lakin agar dono iss age diffrence ko ignore kr ky mutual understanding sy sath rhty hain tou koi problem nahi honi chyea. |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2013, 1:45am |
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Any Female Married Member? Thanks Sam But Agr Koi 25 Ya 30 Se Above Women Is Ka Ans Day Skay K Us Larki Ki Kiya Feelings Ya Kia Soch Ho Gi Shadi K Bad To Shyd Prblm Kuch Hal Ho Sky |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 125 Post: 7411 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2013, 2:16am |
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bacha tou such much ka bacha lagta hai ... 19 saal ka nahi balkay 9 saal ka bacha lol
saim1 apki "matloobah" woman hi to haiN ... 35 ki haiN, married haiN aur khasi samajhdaar aur aqalmand aur yahaaN ki sr member ... ab agar ap inki reply say bhi satisfy nahi haiN to phir aap ossi khatoon say direct pooch laiN jiss say shadi karna chaah rahay haiN :) |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2013, 2:27am |
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LOL @myrizvi Hahaha |
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Bacha-Log
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Sep, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2013, 2:30am |
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Sorry Mujhy Ghalt Fehmi Hoi Me Ny Prfl Nahi Dekhi Thi Is Lye Unhe Women Ki Jga Man Smjha |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 125 Post: 7411 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2013, 12:06pm |
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saim man to nahi haiN lekin kissi man say kam bhi nahi haiN... agar yaqeen nah aa.ay to Mr. Saim say pooch laiN :) |
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 26 Post: 4564 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2013, 1:18pm |
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 social view
Saim man na huogayeN super.man hogayeN :)
agar laRki aur laRka kisi island pe rehtay haiN. jahaN aasay paasay koi baat karnay wala pinch karnay wala nahi, laRkay ki maaN bhi maujood nahi jo har waqt laRki ko buDhi honay k taanay day aur laRka bhi shadi k kuch saaloN k baad nai naweli kamsin laRki k khawaab na dekhnay lag jaye aur sochay k maine to bachpan maiN shadi kar li thi tab to pata hi nahi tha k shadi kiya hoti hae. to zaroor aise couples bhi manzr e aam pe anay lag jayeNgay.
jaise mardoN maiN yeh khaahish hoti hae k woh apni b.v ko handle karaiN aur b.v uss ki dependant ho . issi tarah aurat/ laRki bhi chahti hae k uss ka husband uski care karay usay handle karay aur pareshani maiN uss k liye saaibaan bhi sabit ho. rishtah joRtay huwe atleast aisi batoN ko maday nazar rakhna chahiye k rishta long lasting ho. baqi agar qismat maiN zyadah sath na likha ho to phir perfect matches bhi zyadah nahi chal patay |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 125 Post: 7411 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Oct 2013, 11:33pm |
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agreed with Maryam well explained... bahoot pahlay maiN apnay bhai k office maiN baiTha thaa k aik matured khatoon (koi 30/35 yrs) ki aik laRkay (teenager) k saath aayee. kissi property ki aik se doosray k naam transfer etc k silsilay maiN consult karnay... saari baat cheet khatoon karti rahi ... baat cheet k end par bhai nay poocha k kia yeh laRka apka beTa hai... khatoon nay jheenptay howay kahaa nahi yeh meray husband haiN...iskay baad khatoon oThkar fauran chali gayee aur ham hakka bakka rah gaye...
go shadi k liyeh islam nay koi age fixed nahi ki hai k laRki kiss age i ho, baRi ho ya choTi ho etc etc lekin yeh zaroor recommend kia hai shadi kafu /hampallah ho. iss liyeh k ghair.kafu /ghair hampallah shadi mushkil say nibhti hai...taaham exceptional cases maiN ghair ham pallah shadiyouN ki "zaroorat" paR jati hai, issi liyeh islam nay issay jaiz qarar dia hai, haram nahi
islamic teaching par amal kartay howay ... yaani haram say bachtay howay aur faraiz ko tark kiyeh beghair ... ham apnay apnay mahaul k motabiq shadi beyaah karsaktay haiN balkay karna chaahiyeh |
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saim1
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Group: Members Joined: 23rd May, 2008 Topic: 44 Post: 2202 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2013, 1:47am |
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myrizvi bhai and Maryam
Aik shadi shuda aurat ko super woman, super man, super mom sab banna parta hy.Wese myrizvi bhai agar yeh bacha yani bacha-log mujhy agar aik kaam sinn aur unmarried larki samjh rahy thy tou samjhy dety :))
Bacha-log
I agree with maryam and myrizvi. Yeh naa ho ky woh larka jazbat mien aa kr shadi kar raha ho ku ky iss age mien aksar asy jazbati fesly ho jaty hien. Aur ussy baud mien yeh khyal aii ky uss ny galti ki. Iss liya jo bhi fesla karien bhut soch samjh kar. Aur agar larka aur larki ko appas mien koi problem naah bhi ho tou logon ko bhut hoti hy.
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 125 Post: 7411 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Oct 2013, 2:36am |
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bacha ab acha ban :) sab k mashwarouN ko jamaa karkay apnay khandaan kay saray concerned baRay logouN ki roy lay aur phir inhi ki roy k motabiq faisla kar takay kal kalaaN ko koi naa.khush.gawar baat saamnay nah aa.ay
saim1: gaya waqt phir haath aata nahi :) ab jannat maiN entery ka intezaar karaiN wahaaN omar raseedah aur booRhay log bhi man pasand jawani maiN dakhil hongay insha Allah |
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