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pink_gloss |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 8:45am |
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 i dont think k aap k husband ko sex addiction hia
jin logon ko sex addiction hoti hai, woh bht selfish aur rude tarikay se intercourse kartay hian, jis k doran woh yeh nahi sochtay k unki wife par kia beet rahi hai.
aap k husband aap se har bar poochtay hian k apko kesa feel ho raha hai.. aap unka dil rakhnay k liay jo keh deti hain k apko enjoyment ho rahi hai tau yeh aap ki apni ghalti hai.. ho sakta hai k apkay husband aap se isliay bhi ziada sex kartay hon k woh apko ziada enjoy karwana chahtay hon, qk aap har bar unhay kehti hain k aap nay enjoy kia..
agar aap unhay piyar se samjha dain k aako pain hoti hai, aur aap comfortable nahi hian, tau aap k husband yakinan apko comfortable karnay ka sochain gy.
woh apka har tarhan se khiyal rakh rahay hian k apko weight gain kra kar pregnant karain, intercouse k bad apko achi diet dena waghera waghera.. tau aap umeed rakhain keh jab aap unhay asal baat batain gi tau woh tab bhi apko comfortable karnay ka sochain gy, aur sex karna bhi kam kar dain gy..ya phir kisi aesi position par karain gy jis aapko problem na ho |
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pink_gloss |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 8:49am |
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saman90 and mis saman apki last post main aap nay kaha k aap nay pain show ki tau husband nay sex nahi kia..
isi se sari baat clear ho jati hai k apkay husbnad kitnay loving caring insan hain. Aap apni yeh problem apnay husband se discuss karain, woh khush hongay k aap nay un par trust kia.. phir wohi apka best solution nikalain gy |
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Saman90 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 8:58am |
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pink gloss
thanks for ur guidance. Ye baat toh ha ke woh her baar sex ke baad mujh se pochte hain ke me satisfy hwi ya nhe... Aur me jab ye kehti hon ke mujhe boht maza aya, Toh un ke face per khushi aa jati ha, lekin asal mai me fedup aa gae hon everyday sex se. Me ne ye bhi note kiyaa ha ke during forplay jab me wet ho jati hon toh woh tab bhi khush ho rahe hote hain... Lekin jo again and again sex hota ha, uss se me bezaar aa jati hon. Unke face per jo satisfaction aur khushi aa jati ha, mere ye kehne se ke i enjoyed, sirf iss khushi ke liye me tolerate ker leti hon. |
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Saman90 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 9:02am |
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pink gloss
ab gradually me yehe karongi, vese aj raat se toh meri chutti ha. Periods start hain. So ab toh vese bhi, No sex. :) |
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pink_gloss |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 9:04am |
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thats very good to know tau bass phir apka problem koi bara problem nahi hia. aap ki shadi abhi kafi new hai, isliay aap ko yeh masla bht bara masla lag raha hai... aap mehsus karain gy k jesay jesay apki shadi ko time guzray ga, apka yeh problem fade hota jaey ga.
mujhay feel ho raha hai k apka asal problem yeh hai k aapko husbnad se yeh sab kehnay ki himmat nahi ho rahi, ya apko sharam ati hai, ya aap ko dar hai k husbnad hurt na ho jain.. yehi soch k aap unhay khush karnay lagi hui hain aur khud pain bardasht karti ja rahi hain.. ma koshish karti hun k aapo apkay husband se freely baat karnay ka tarika bataon, k apka communication gap khatam ho |
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pink_gloss |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 9:13am |
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saman90 sis sab se pehlay aap yeh sochain k Allah nay quran main husband wife ko aik dusray ka libas qarar dia hai.. aap dono husband wife masha Allah religious bhi hian tau yeh aur bhi achi baat hai. Allah nay husband wife k darmian koi pardah nahi rakha.. isliay aap apni private problem husband se discuss kartay huway sharam feel nahi kia karain..
aap aik baat samjah lain, k aap apni kisi bhi bedroom problem par husband se sharma kar kisi aur se discuss karain gi tau apko uska solution dhundnay main kafi problem hogi.. isliay bedroom problems ko sab se pehlay husband se discuss karain.. tab bhi solve na hon tab majboori k case main koi alternative solution karnay ki koshish karain.
aap ahista ahista apnay husband se intercourse discuss karain, aur ahista ahista apni problem ki taraf ain, aap k husband definitely aap ka problem solve karnay main aap ki bht help karain gy insha Allah |
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Saman90 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 9:18am |
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pink gloss
thankyou so much. I will try ur suggestion after my periods get over. :) |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 185 Post: 6437 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 10:08am |
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Pink Gloss Very Good reply , Meah nay be enko yeh he bola hay Kay enky Husband ki turaf say koi problem nahi hay ap nay Bahot acha enko abi Guide kur deya hay yeh he solution ahy ,
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lifestyle |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 133 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 10:56am |
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saman ap k feedback positive raha. Drasal ap ka masla ap k hath ma tha . Mera 2nd step per amal kya jo positive raha. Ab un say jub kahtin thin k maza aaya to wo khush ho ker or khush karna chahty thay. Ap nay takleef zahier ki jis say wo ruk gay. Ap husb say bilkul discuss na karain previous intercourse ka k app bar bar karty thay to ma bezar hogai thi wo disheart hon gay. Ap sir current or future ka discuss karain. Or kabhi kabhi khud start lain sex k lya is say wo 1 bar hi satisfyy hojain gay dobara nahi kahain gay.
Or jub wo pehal karain to kabhi ap khud 2nd sex k lya bolain. Is terha wo jub hi karain gay jub aap kahin gi ya wo ap say khud poochain gay.
Try it |
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RaJaSaIn07 |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Nov, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 12:31pm |
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 sanam90
aap lucky ho aap k husband aap ko satisfy krte hain aur bht ziada .....par aap ki nwely shadi hui he na tabi aap ko pain lag rha he par aage chal k aap ko bht maza ayega ....ho sakta he k aage aap ko sex addiction ho jaye....kyu k aap k hubby bht strong hain ......aap unko kabi mat bolo k aap bar bar sex se bezar ho jati ho ...phr wo mentally soch rah jati he .....k ziada nh krna he,,,,,
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Saman90 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 72 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 12:58pm |
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lifestyle and raja
ap dono ki baat sahi ha. Mujh mai itni himmat bhi nhe ha ke unko directly kahon ke me sex se bezaar hon... Ese kehne se woh hurt ho jaenge shayad... Me slowly sex kam kerwaongi... I will try ur suggestions. After my periods get over. Thanks |
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lifestyle |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 133 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 5:51pm |
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saman90 saman jee bezari ki to kabhi bat hi nahin kerna future ma bhi werna ap k husb app say door hotay chalay jain gay or app ko pata bhi nahin chaly ga. understanding k sath karain. wesay app dono 1 dosrya ka kitna khyal karty ho . ap ddono hamesha isi terha khush raho. app nay na chahty oy bhi 4 month say jo husb ki khushi ki khatir bardasht kia ap ko is ka sawab milay ga.
1 bat yad rakhya ga kabhi ap ka mood na ho or ap husb ko mana karain sex karnay ka or husb khushi khushi na manain to kabhi bhi naraz na karna or mana na karna q k jo orat apnay husb ko naraz karti hay or apnay pass aanay nahin deti hay to sarii rat farishty us orat per lanat bhejtay hain. |
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Gynec |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Jan, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 6:07pm |
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saman90 saman i am not disheart and thanks for ur prayers. actually bat yeh hei ke mei bi ap ko wo sab mashwary de sakti thi jo apko lifestyle ne ya aur kisi ne diye hein lekin mei ne apke ek do post se andaza lagaya ke jaise apne lifestyle ke kahne pe apne husband se kaha ke ap ko sar dard hei uno ne us din sex nei kiya lekin apko bi jhot bolna aur acting kerna acha nei laga. mei ne apki baton se andaza kiya ke ap ko jhot bol ker isy avoid kerna ya koi act kerna pasand nei hei tu isliye mei ne apko istarha ka koi bi idea nei diya aur mei ne try kiya ke kuch aisa ho ke jis se apke husband ka sex control ho jei aur ap ko jhot ya koi acting bi na kerna pare kyon ke yeh apko bi under se pasand nei hei isliye sirf mei ne aisa koi idea nei diya. aur rehi bat apki body ya health ka pochne ki wo pochna perta hei kuch unparh tabka isbat ko samajta nei hei doctor jo sahi hei wo kuch baton ka pochta bi hei aur mei apse yeh phir kahon gi ke ap apna blood pressure ke dehan kerain aur apna himoglobin check kere aur maintain rakhain aur iron bi check kerain aur istarha step by step apni health ko improve kerain. aur yeh tu mei ne apse kaha hua hei ke saman ager ap kuch try nei kerain gi tu nei hoga tu ap sab ab try ker rahi hein aur jis se apke problem ka solution niklta hei ap wo kerain aur yeh bi acha hei ke ap apne husband se bat kerain ek bar sex ke baad ap kahain ke ap ko pain hora hei and he cares than he will not do anymore. mei ne tu bas apki help kerna chahi thi ider yeh log mere pe hi kehne lag gei ke mei doctor hi nei koi anyways leave these people who have lack of knowledge. |
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Gynec |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Jan, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Feb 2013, 6:16pm |
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Lifestyle yeh ho sakta hei ke ap ider late ai thay aur apne kafi sary posts pare aur kuch idea hua ap ko lekin mei start mein ai thi aur muje itna idea bi nei tha isliye saman ne sawal kiye aur mei ker sakti hon sawal aur yeh wo wala masla bi nei hei jo ke apne kaha ke marez mar jei ga sawalon se aisa nei hei actually you are simply fledged in this. ap jab ai thay tu mei ne aur kuch logon ne saman se kafi kuch poch liya tha tu isliye ap kafi per ke ai ho so its not something ke mei ne wrong kiya mei ne sawal poche tu hi ap ko bi idea hua aur mei ne aur logon ke post pare bi nei thy mei ne khud direct saman se bat ki aur mei ne khud unse jo bi pocha wo pocha. aur rahi bat dubai wali tu ider bi wo koi bemari ka case nei tha us mein bi aur situation thi isliye muje un se bi pochna para i think ap ko kiya problem hei aur ek female doctor pe kyon istarha ap ko hei ap ka koi banta nei muje asy kehne ka. i think as a male ap ko boys aur men section mein jaky un ki help kerni chahye ap ider itna females topic mein kiya itna dil laga rahy hein thora uder bi jein. asal bat hei kisi ki help kerna na ke ek dusry ko galat aur sahhi kehna. lekin ap ki boys aur men ko bi zarort hei un ki bi help kerain. |
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lifestyle |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 133 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Feb 2013, 6:32pm |
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gynec aap nyy to itny sawal kr k bhi jawab nahi dia . hum sawal ki depth ma jaty hain or app ghoty khati rahti hain sawal hi nahi samjh aata . |
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Gynec |
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| Posted on:8th Feb 2013, 6:52pm |
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lifestyle tum bas ider competition kerne ai ho tumne bi koi hal nei kiya masla still i think u gave her wrong advice. |
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Sahil2003 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Feb, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Feb 2013, 11:33pm |
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Saman Pink_gloss and lifestyle's suggestion are almost enough for you to follow.
the more you will seek, the more you will get misunderstood by people life Gynec.
Kamray ki baat kamray tak rahay to acha hai, wapis mein understanding paida karien. Yahan par baat tab karien jab ap ke hubby understanding na ho, but mashaallah woh kafi kheyal rakhtay hien apka. phir apko kissi aur ke mashwaron ki zroorat nahi i guess.
apki khushiyon k liyay bahut si duaien.
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Doctr |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Feb, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2013, 12:22am |
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re its on upto saman she can decide and i think if any one talked to her with respect than their is no any problem |
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Perfc |
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2013, 12:27am |
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reply people should not criticise others i mean why i am reader of this forum since long time i notice some people just keep fighting here by saying you are wrong and i am right dr qasim and lifestyle did more than enough. and now sahil |
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lifestyle |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jan, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 133 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2013, 5:11am |
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admin yahan ma yahi kahoon ga perfc is gynec. Joined other id after block gynec. And support him in other topics |
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