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boy-isloo |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2012, 2:01am |
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 Illegαl Sexuαl Imαginαtion About Wife: Is It Right?
aoa i am from islamabad i am married for almost 10 yrs we r a good luving cpl but for last 5 to 6 months i am facing this problem i actually imaging my wife having sex with some other guy , u can understand the pain i would be hiving..........i cant let it go i tried my best and it seems that i am helpless...........plz if any help i would be appreciate |
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goodman |
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2012, 3:54am |
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boy u must leave ur wife...i hope u will not bear further more your wife... |
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2012, 4:56am |
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imagination any specific reason for that stupid imagination? did u observe recently any change in her behavior or you started any relationship with any one else?
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alirajput |
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2012, 5:12pm |
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boy-isloo
It has come to my knowledge here in States of some couples experiencing what you are.. so your not alone. But, my question is one question only. In the past 10yrs have u had any child? children adopted or etc? Can she have kids and u cant? Can u have kids and she cant? Whats the case here? |
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AZ_2718 |
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| Posted on:30th Nov 2012, 12:24pm |
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Dont be stupid Boy isloo, dont be stupid, iss tarah k imaginations just ik sheetani khayaal hota hy, sheetan insan ko her waqat behkany k try kertya rehta hy, han agar ap ny koch aisa dekha ho means koi indication , tu ap oss ko follow kary tu bahtera rahy ga, baqi imaginations ya doubt k base per apny ap ko torture na karoo |
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boy-isloo |
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| Posted on:30th Nov 2012, 3:33pm |
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thx for replying yeah i have childeren 2 and i havent seen anything in her suspicious and i luv her so much and how i leave her............. |
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alirajput |
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| Posted on:30th Nov 2012, 7:35pm |
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Dont leave her
Be always for her, since you are her husband. But your relationship as husband and wife will be endangered if you let other men come close to her. Try to understand, though she may not agree, and if she does, that is not a sign of a loyal wife. I hope you understand. |
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boy-isloo |
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| Posted on:1st Dec 2012, 3:54am |
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i am trying
yeah ali thx i am trying my level best and for ur info. i have tried to stop myself not to share this filthy and stinking thinking of mine with her but i couldnt and i told her as she felt changes in me for last months ............we fought and fought and fought and more she fought more i imagine ..................i cant leave her and ali i am sincere believe me bcoz i am not thinking of any girl in my life i never .......i luv her........i luv my wife..........and i wana make her happy........nothing to share more..............i luv my kids.......... |
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alirajput |
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| Posted on:2nd Dec 2012, 1:14am |
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boy-isloo
there is nothing wrong about thinking of girls, when it comes to intention of re-marrying. but given the ideology behind your thoughts regarding your wife... i do want to remind you that there is no more need to fight. Equasion is solved, if u do this, you will loose her permanently... because this desire if had, does not stop at one person, but dear friend know, that u r not alone in such thoughts, but yes these thoughts are not normal and do know that! |
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boy-isloo |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Dec 2012, 7:06am |
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u r rite thx bro.
i know u r rite if it starts i cant stop it ........but how i stop thinking thatz the main ? bcoz wenever i get close to mine wife my thinking take to me in the world of fantasies........i told u we both love to each other so much.......so forget about loosing her.........but i will surely give another chance to me just to forget all and start again ............thx and will tell u about my condition....... |
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| Posted on:3rd Dec 2012, 8:34am |
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 boy-isloo
Relax man!! These are just random thoughts. Bit kinky, but still thoughts. Chill and love your wife. You told her about them, that was not a wise decision imho. But what is done is done. Here is my advice. Try to rebuild your relationship. Take a new start. Don't be what you were before. Reinvent yourself for the sake for your wife and your relationship. Surprise her. Hope you find peace of mind soon. :) |
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| Posted on:13th Dec 2012, 6:44am |
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boy-isloo
In this whole story i am not able to understand that what prompt you to immagnate about your wife like this. A normal man can not think about his wife without any sign related to this matter you mentioned. |
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