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Bluestar91 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2012, 4:23pm |
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 Female Masturbation During Phone Sex By Husband
Assalamualikum,
I am new here and I hope I will get my answers.
Question 1: Mera abhi nikkah hua hai sirf or main or mere husband phone sex karte hain isse relevant mere kuch questions. Maine nikkah se pehle kabhi masturbation nahi ki hai lekin nikkah k bad main apne husband se baat karte huey karti hun..Lekin main paaki or namazo ka pora khayal rakhti hun. Kya ye jaiz hai?
Question 2: I know k during periods real main sex karna haram hai or iski sakht mumaniyat bhi hai. During periods like 3rd day or uske bad jab blood flow kam hojata hai to kia masturbation jaiz hai? Isske or koi side effects?
Question 3: Masturbation karne se jo weakness hojati hai girls or boys dono ko usko door karne k lie kia khana chahye?
Question 4: Main apne husband ko phone sex k lie kis tarha provoke karsakti hun? Sans lene or kapro k baray main pochne k ilawa ? kuch aisa batain jo bht dhaka chupa ho kyunke main or mere husband bht open conversation nahi kar patay bht sharam ati hai.
Question 5: Sex ki feelings ko kam karne k lie hum kia karsaktay rozay rakhne ka to mujhe pata hai jo k hadees main hai. iske ilawa koi herbal treatment?
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Dr.Gillani |
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2012, 8:02pm |
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Walaikum salam Bluestar91,
1) Nikaah mubarak apko boht! Husband se romantic sexy baatein karna phone pe ye bilkul jaez kaam hai, kisi or ko awazein nai aana chaiye bs is baat ka dhaiyaan rakhna. Masturbation karna bs aik medical standpoint se bilkul sahi hai. Jitna "nuqsan" log is kaam ka maante hain utna hi sex se hota hai, q k masturbation or sex aik hi baat hote hain medical view se. Islam k lehaz se husband k SAATH masturbation karna bilkul sahi hai, phone ka itna certain nahi hai, par mera view hai k ye sahi hai, zina se b bacha deta hai or tum shadi shuda ho mujhe zyada problem nazar nai aa ra yahan.
2) Jab tak period bilkul khatam nai hota koi sex ka sochna b nahi chaiye, ye nuqsan ki baat hai. Hamara nabi S.A.W. ne apni biwi se pyar bht karta tha periods mein, balke us ne neeche pe kuch nahi kiya, balke us ne pehnaya kapre usko neeche se. Baki sahi hai periods mein husband k sath karna.
3) Nuqsan nahi hota. Ye aik rumour hai bachon ko bachana masturbation se.
4) Usko bhtt kuch bta sakte hain kuch examples likh deta hu "mujhey bhtt germi lag rahi hai" "apki soch mein pagal ho rahi hu meray paas aao" "mera bht dil hai apke paas aane ka" "i love you so much" (ye thora provocative kahni pare gi apko....)
5) Apka husband masha Allah bht zyada lucky hai k uski biwi shy b hai or romantic b hai. Ap shayad aik ideal personality ki girl ho gi :) Sex k desire kam nahi karna ye buri baat hai, thora intezar karo, q k ye khane ki "desi" tareeqey bht mazboot or khatarnak b ho sakte hain phr tumhare jazbaaton khatam b ho sakte hain rukhsti k baad.
Or mera aik advise. Agar koi bta deta hai k "toba toba tumhari rukhsti se phle tum romantic baat karti rehti ho sharam karo" unko sunao k rukhsti aik Hindu custom hai islam mein bs Nikah zaroori hai or phr halal ho jate hain husband and wife aik dosre k liye.
Walaikum salam.
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Bluestar91 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2012, 8:40am |
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I have some more Questions Jazakallah khair.
1) Thank you. And alhumdulillah k ye jaiz hai warna husband se itni baat karne k bad bardasht karna behad mushkil kam hai,
2) G real main to bilkul mujhe ilm hai k ye haraam hai.Lekin kia unreal situation main b periods main masturbation haraam hai? Main apni pori koshish karungi control karne ki.
Asal main masla ye hai k 3rd day k bad bht ziada feelings ati hain pata nahi kyun. Shayad shaitan k behkanay se. Ap mujhe ye clear karen k Phone per periods main masturbation haraam hai ya nahi?
3) Nahi lekin maine mehsoos kia hai k mujhe bht weakness mehsoos hoti hai or veins main khinchao bht mehsoos horaha hai..
Ek or sawal zehen main aya hai wo ye k Jab humain ejaculation k ilawa day time main liquid ata hai jiske baray main maine parha hai k wuzu toot jata hai. Tou humain kese pata chalega k wo liquid leukoriya hai ya phir wo hai jisse wuzu toot jata hai? ya leukoriya se b toot jata hai?
4) Proactive to hai lekin mujhe lagta hai k wo kam romantic hain ya shayad ye mera weham hai. Ek 30 years old man ki requirement kitni hoti hai or uske moods k barey main kuch batain?
5) Alhumdulillah main ziada lucky hun k wo mere husband hain or bht Ba-haya shakhs hain. Larkian to phir mil jati hain lekin shy larkay milna bht bari baat hai.
Masla ye hai k mere husband ka apne business ki waja se bht tough routine hai to wo so jatay hain jaldi or utne romantic nahi hotay . tou main bht upset hojati hun. Or main ye bhi nahi chahti k meri wajase unko kisi bhi qisim ki thakan ya problem ho. Main waqqti tour se kam sochna chahti hun. or jabse shadi hue hai namazain bht kharab horahi hai. namazo k dauran bhi yehe khayalat atay rehte hain jisse mujhe bht sharmindgi hoti hai.
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 184 Post: 6350 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2012, 2:21pm |
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Bluestare91 Meah esky Huq meah nahi hon pakistan kay culture meah Nikah or rokhsati meah bot furq or fasila hay, Jub tuk Lurki Shadi kay bhad Husband kay room meah nahi chuli jati osko apny ap ko kunwara he rukhna chayeh. Phone sex , sex talk phone talk say avoid kurna chayeh ku kay bot sary logo ka nikah rokhsati say phely he Toot jata hy koch family problems ki bina pur or pher esi girls jo apny shohar say bot frank reh choki hoti hen or mobile sex or cam sex ki mortakib ho choki hoti hen onko bot sary musayil ka samna kurna purta hay, es leyeh nikah kay bhad fori shadi kur lana cahyeh ,
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Bluestar91 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Nov, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2012, 4:33pm |
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H/dr_Qasim
Assalamualikum Dr qasim,
pehle to main ye kehna chahungi k rishtay toottay or bantay ALLAH ki marzi se hain. 2nd thing ye k main or mere husband jaldi hi shadi karna chahtay they lekin kuch circumstances aise hogaye k humain time barhana para.
Meri family main sub hi ziada bahar shadi karte hain to nikkah hi pehle kia jata hai Alhumdulillah subko khuli azadi di jati hai ek dosre ko samajhne ki to ab tak koi buray effects nazar nahi ai nikkah pehle or rukhsati bad main karne k. Iski subse bari waja Educated husband or Understanding mama baap or In Laws hain.
Maine shadi se pehle bht control kia hai kabhi masturbation nahi ki. Or ab jab shauhar se bat karty hun to bardasht karna almost na mumkin hai..to isse better ye nahi k main apney shauhar hi k sath enjoy karun?
Wese 1 year eng rahi and half year nikkah ko hogaya hai per in 1.5 year main na unhe mujh main koi burai nazar ai na mujhe un main. we both're very happy alhumdulillah.
OR agar mere husband mere sath romance start karen or main avoid karne ki koshish karun to apke forum per is qisim k threads ainge "K Dr. sahab mera nikah hua hai meri bv mere sath pyar mohabbat nahi karti kahi wo kisi or ko to nahi chahti ya wo mujhse shadi hi na karna chahti ho".
Rishtay naseeb ka khail hain insan ki niyat sachi or paak or sirf apne shauhar se mansoob ho to ALLAH pak larkio ki pehli totne k bad dosri ko b successful bana deta hai. Han agar ek aurat khud ko itna haqeer samajti hai k ek shadi khuda na kare toot jaye to wo dosri k laiq na samjhay to ye uska apna fault hai. Aurat haqeer nahi hai. Shauhar ka haq bhi bataya hai sath main... Lekin khud ko mita dena or zindge enjoy na karna ye bewakofi hai.
Or agar insan ka 2nd shauhar itna dakyanoosi hai k wo ye b na samaj sakay k larki ek nikkah totne k bad uske hissay main ai hai to kuch na kuch to kia hoga na usne..To wo shauhar b is laik nahi k uske sath raha jaye.
ye us larkay ko samajhna chahye . Or jab zarf ho tab hi dosri shadi karni chahye. Aurat ko mard se kam sahi lekin uska b ek maqam hai.
Last thing.. Saray larkay masturbation kartay hain shadi se pehle kabhi kisi larkay ne socha hai k jo larki uski zindge main aigi usne aisa kabhi nahi kia hoga to usko kitni takleef hogi??????????? Lekin aurat karle to ghalat or mard karle to sahi. Or Larki to har Larkay ko itni paak chahye k usne khud ko bhi na chuwa ho.
2sri shadi b karsakti hai aurat is main koi burai nahi Dr.sahab. Lekin pehli poray khulos or sabr se nibhaye .
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4u4aver |
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2012, 5:53pm |
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Best way Assalamalakum Nice Replyyyyy Dr Gillani |
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H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2012, 7:05am |
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Bluestare91 Meah ki sub bato say agree kurta hon bus shadji jetna juldi ho kur lain it much better.
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Mr bajwa4u |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2012, 8:10am |
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@bluestar Warning: phone conservation is not a secret between u both only. every call is recorded and often listened by operators. so be careful.
2nd thing ap jo b kaho agr koi aesa wase mishap ho jy tu zyada aurat ko hi bhugtna parta ha chayh yh sahi h ya galat......
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Mr bajwa4u |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2012, 8:10am |
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@bluestar Warning: phone conservation is not a secret between u both only. every call is recorded and often listened by operators. so be careful.
2nd thing ap jo b kaho agr koi aesa wase mishap ho jy tu zyada aurat ko hi bhugtna parta ha chayh yh sahi h ya galat......
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aamir.sidd |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2012, 8:15am |
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to Bluestar91 and Dr.Gillani Answer 1. Islam mein phone sex allow nahi isliye ke koi 3rd person bhi suun sakhta hai, plus masturbation gunnah haiAnswer 2: During Periods sex haram hai Answer 3: masturbation se limited time weakness hoti hai like 3 to 4hours Answer 4: same as answer 1 Answer 5: busy rahe zaida se zaida |
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Bluestar91 |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2012, 2:30pm |
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aamir.sidd Mr. Bajwa wese itna time kisi k paas hoga nahi k poray skyp k netwrk per hamari hi conversation suni jaigi.
aamir.sidd Jazakallah for information. Kia apne bilkul confirm kia hai k husband k sath jaiz nahi hai??? Us zamanay main phone to they hi nahi phir?
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Bluestar91 |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2012, 2:44pm |
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Aamir,sidd The Messenger of Allah (saws) said, "Do everything (during the woman's menstruation) except intercourse." (Related by Muslim, Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood)
I have heard this hadis and according to this hadis masturbation kese haram hui? I never insert anything.
2nd thing ye k Husband Wife ka ek dosre ho masturbate karna jaiz hai ye to confrm hai lekin kahin ye mention nahi kia gaya k phone per allow nahi hai masturbate karna.. Main nikkah se pehle kabhi masturbation nahi ki . Lekin main is cheez ki taraf attract hi tabhi hoti hun jab apne husband se baat karti hun.
To ap mujhe koi authentic hawala dain jisse ye haram sabit ho please.
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2012, 7:26pm |
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blue star Blue star agar ap masturbation kerna chati ha too ap apni marzi say keray...wasay ap ka nikah ho chuka ha...ap ab apnay husband kay liyay Halal ha.. |
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| Posted on:25th Nov 2012, 12:18am |
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Blue star 1. telephone par miyaaN- biwi aik doosray ko masterbate nahi kartay balkay self-sex /apni masterbation kartay howay aik doosray ko dikhatay haiN. islam self sex /masterbate ko recommend nahi balkay condemn karta hai... taaham issay HARAM bhi nahi kaha gaya hai.
2. insaan ka tanha, apnay spouse k saamnay (aamnay saamnay yaa thru phone /net) masterbation karna go k HARAM nahi hai...lekin last item yaani thru phone /net aisaa karna sakht RISKY hai...kiyouNkay iss tarah koi teesra isay sun /dekh bhi sakta hai, record bhi karsakta hai aur baad azaan issay circulate bhi karsakta hai...go k aisaa honaa laazim nahi hai, lekin bahar haal imkaan to hai... lehaza agar kissi ko iss "khatray" ki koi parwah nahi hai to woh apnay risk par chahay to aisa kar sakta hai
wallaho aalam bisawab
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aamir.sidd |
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| Posted on:25th Nov 2012, 2:56am |
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Bluestar91 yup jaiz hai but own hands naa hooo like aapke husband ke hand use hoo masturbation mein tou jaiz hai other wise nahi hai |
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