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sarakaiser |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 2:42am |
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 foreplay.....
Assalam O alaikum......Mera Naam Sara Hai....meri recently shadi hui hai.....mere sath aik bohat ajeeb problem horahi hai......Mere husband forplay k doran mere private parts ko lick kartey hain......he said its part of the forplay....ab meri samaj nhi a raha hai k mein kya karo......plz guide me.....should i stop him...or allow him to do what he wants....except anal.....plz help.......
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sarakaiser |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 4:38am |
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plz help......!!!! plz somebody guide me............
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mualman009 |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 6:16am |
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plz explain plz phly explain kreen kn kn sy private parts??
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mualman009 |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 6:17am |
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?pussy lick agr wo app ki pussy lick krty jain tou ye to theek hy
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goodmorals |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 6:28am |
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sarakaiser, yes stop him sis, top ko aap k husband lick kar saktey hain laiken ehtiat k saath k breat feeding na ho jaye. but as for vagina and anal is concerned, never allow him to do so. these parts are for urine and stool, so this is not only unhygienic and filthy but very shameful act for a Muslim. bohot say loag muftian say is barey me poochtey hain un ka bhi kehna hai k wife husband aik doosrey k sexual parts k sath aisa nahi kar saktey. ye bohot bura kam hai.
so stop him gently with some counseling, ta k wo bura bhi na mana jain. your husband surely fulfill his sexual desire but such kind of lust is not right. if u will not stop him today, next time surely he will compel u u to do the same with him.
the reason behind y people develop such urge is increasing nudity in our society. access to pornography is also very common. people usually watch porn and learn such things. regards
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aamir.sidd |
Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 112 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 10:35am |
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sarakaiser dear sis,
he's saying right its a part of foreplay but mostly people doesn't like this and some people like its all depends on you and your partner breast and vagina can lick but remember it vagina is cleaned
also some people said its haram or makroh but there is no clear command in Qura'an and Hadith so we cant say its haram or makroh
as my opinion some side effects if you or your partner have diseases cause transferring the diseases through mouth, look i'm not a doctor |
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sarakaiser |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 11:04pm |
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Refernce
Thanks for the advice brothers.......when i asked my hubby not to repeat the act due to unhygeine of the vagina......he said that mouth contains more bacteria than the vagina....so we should not kiss as well......I am completely confused...By the way he is a medical docter by profession........can someone give me clear reference about avoidance of licking private parts according to Islam.......Its easy for me to give him refernce......and he doesn't force me to do the same on him.......Thank You..............
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2431 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 11:39pm |
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sara kaiser
ji nhn ye jaiz nhn hai becteria hon ya na hon asal bat ye hai k vigina ho ya penis dono hi urine k passage hain koi bhi i sbat ki aj tak guarenty nhn de saka is forum per k lick ua suck kertay huway urin k particulers nhn aain gay munh main is forum per berya beray JUGADRI hain oral sex k jo isay jaiz kehtay hain aur husband wife ka zati amsla biyan kertay hain sath sath wohi merdon ki merzi ki hadees k husband ka her hukam manana biwi per feraz hai lekin in sab k bawajood koi isay sabit nhn ker sak k ye jaiz hai zindagi k her muamlaat per sahaba ne sawal kiye aur Nabi SAW ne jawab diye lekin kisi bhi ek sahabi ka is ghalazat k baray koi sawal nhn tha is ka matlab ye hai k sab jantay thay k jab urine se bachnay ki itni sakhat hidayat hai to jahan s eurine nikalta hai wahan k choosnay ya chatnay ka kon sochay ga lekin aj kal ka PAKA AUR SACHA MUSALMAN to sab ilam rakhta hai sab janta hai woh to yeh bhi sabit ker deta hai k ye sab chun ke us waqat nhn tah to isi liye is ka ziker bhi nhn lekin is jahil musalman se ye koi nhn poochta k jo us waqat nhn tah aj kiun au rkesay huwaa? KUTTON ki terah aurton k sath salook kertay huway XXX movies dekh ke rhumaray nojawan samjhtay hain k aurat bs isi kam k liye hai jab k aisa nhn hai ap ka feraz hai k ap apnay husband ko rokain usi terah jis terah her musalman aurat ka apnay husband ko anal sex se ronka feraz hai
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sarakaiser |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Oct, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 11:57pm |
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@wehshi.... m new on this forum...I had read the previous posts regarding oral sex.....in this forum...THey are a bit confusing....half of them saying oral sex is ok and half saying [email protected] should i do if he doesnt stop doing this.....i am not is favour of licking and sucking vagina etc....but it gives me intense pleasure when my hubby do it.......Can you tell me why is that so..........thank You......
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goodmorals |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 93 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 11:57pm |
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what Quran and Hadith says
Sis, Yes it is prohibited In Islam as per Quran and Hadith. i came across different answers given by Islamic scholars aswell.
Some matters are clearly mentioned in the Quran and hadith
and there is no doubt regarding their prohibition, but some are not directly
mentioned like oral sex, but they have been declared prohibited on some other
rules and regulations which are clearly mentioned in Quran and Hadith.
1- It is clearly mentioned in Quran and Hdith about contaminant,
napak things not to take in mouth, sexual organs are the one.
2- Secondly Quran and Haduth repeatedly talk about sharm-o-
haya. This act is against that.
3- Moreover the purpose of mouth is to eat, drink, love, reciting
holy Quran etc, so it shouldn’t be used for such act.
Hazrat Muhammad (peace be upon him) and their Holy wives
(may God be pleased with them) never see each other’s organs in their entire life.
So just germs and disease are not the sole reason to refrain form oral sex.
Lust can not be fulfilled, today if your husband wants oral
sex, he will definitely demand something more in future. Regards Wehshi is right
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MairaKanwa |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 1:29pm |
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My View Yar tmy pasand nahi hai. That should be reason enough ab uss kop kya masla hai? Jo samanay poori ki poori nangi biwi pari hui hjai uss ki baat tou wo manta nahi. Na nazar aanay waklay khuda ki ehkamat ussko sunana essa hi hai jessay bhains k aagay been bjana.
Soo pehlay ussko ye kaho ka ulloooo k .... mujhy nahi pasand aur ab bas karo. I guess aqalmand hai man jayega.
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BismaFA |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 1:51pm |
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Sara Well I think ya Mian BV ka private mamla hay ap ko pasand hay to ap safai suthrai ka sath assa kero, taaka koi germ ya koi desese na ho sakay.. Or agar ap ko personally persand nai hay to i would say ka ussa no kah doo,, Main Islam ka ruuh say issi koi proper jawab nai daa pa rahi kiyo kaa Assa Yes ya No ka zikar kahin aata nai hay.. So its up to you..
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scientist1 |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 2:16pm |
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agreed agreed with goodmorals and wehshi.....
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aamir.sidd |
Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 112 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 2:24pm |
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dear all listen sab haram kaam mention kiye hue hai Quran and hadith
mein kuch aise hai jo related hai aisi koi chiz nahi jo mentioned nahi hai except oral sex ke so isko totally haram or makroh kehna asaan nahi okaccording to goodmorals 1- It is clearly mentioned in Quran and Hdith about contaminant, napak things not to take in mouth, sexual organs are the one. ..vagina is not napak dear.. like intercourse ke baad gusl ka kyoun kaha hai dono ko isliye ke mani discharge hota hai yeh aik napak fluid hai before discharge penis paak hi hota hai dear nahi hoga tou namaz keise hogi same applied for vagina think about it zaida details mein nahi jana chahta mein 2- Secondly Quran and Haduth repeatedly talk about sharm-o- haya. This act is against that
..sharm -o- haya se kia matlab ??? husband wife ko nude nahi dekhsakhta ??? let me tell u husband wife aik dosre ke lebaaz hai isko istarhan se dekho ke jab apna lebaaz change karte hoo tou kia khud ko nahi dekhte same applied for this..
but according to medical oral sex se diseases hosakhti hai so avoid from it plus humko 100% confirmed nahi yeh haram hai ya nahi aur jab tak 100% confimed naa hoo tou step nahi utha chahiye
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goodmorals |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 3:19pm |
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MairaKanwa firoan ko bhi khuda nazar nahi ata tha, laiken martey waqt a gya tha.... laiken us waqt koi faida bahi hota :) :)
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aamir.sidd |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 3:34pm |
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dear goodmorals firon ka chapter alag tha humara chapter alag hai aap muslim ko non-muslim se comparsion karahe hoo
aur regarding MairaKanwal
dear yeh mamla koi easy nahi hai Soo pehlay ussko ye kaho ka ulloooo k .... mujhy nahi pasand aur ab bas karo. I guess aqalmand hai man jayega .. yeh words apne husband ko bolke dekhna pehle then see woh kia karta hai .. aur uske actions yahan batana
To, Sara first aap usko samjhaye issey disease and problems create hosakhti hai plus bohot se Aalim is baat ko mana kia hai oral sex, evidence nahi hai Qura'an aur Hadith mein but phir bhi yeh bhi kehdo bas mera dil nahi maanta aur jis chiz mein dil naa mane nahi karna chahiye aur koi bhi sexual activity by force karna bhi mana kia gya hai islam mein bas yeh bata dein thats it |
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daffodil88 |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 5:33pm |
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Sara Hi Sara,
I am a married male, I like licking sometimes, it just gives you nice feeling. my wife stops me but she likes it. She stops me cos its dirty business and not allowed in islam.
Now its upto you k aap kaya kerna chahti hein. Ithink kabhi kabhar ker lenay dia karain like once in two months or something.
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Reh420 |
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| Posted on:28th Oct 2012, 9:56pm |
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Good For You Sara I think its good for you plz enjoy all
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