huda

starr

Thanks a lot

huda

Sister

no thanks starr apka dil halka hogya..its good for me too..

star

no thanks starr apka dil halka hogya..its good for me too..

Sir goodman

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ge thanks

Best way

Assl Allah Aap ki madadkare Ameen Summa AMEEN

I'm worried

starr9

ap ne to apna masla masla kashmeer bana diyahai

ap ko ap k cuzan k na pasandeeda honay ki wajah bhi likhni chahye takay samjh aa sakay  k problem kia hai

is k ilawa to ap kisi ko convince nhn ker sako gi

Sir WEHSHI

Starr9

Dear sis, is situation me still jo loag reliable hain oar jin say baat ki ja sakti he wo aap ki mom oar father hain, bhai aap k chotey hain abhi. Laiken aap kuch dair theher jain, abhi bat na karain . Abuu ka ghussa qadrey kam honey dain oar situation ko cool down honey dain. Us k bat tafseel say mind bana kar un say baat karain k asal situation kaya thi oar aap ki wo intentions nahi thin jo aap soach rahain hain oar jo aap kay chaccu keh rahey hain.Actually abhi aap k abhu ghusay me hain oar koi baat sunney ko tayar nahi, wo emotionnaly heart hoye hain. Abhi aap bat karain gi to mazeed tension paida ho gi oar mazeed arguments shoro ho jain gay. Aap k father bhi apni jaga thik hain k beti izzat ki alamat hoti hai oar har baap ye acknowledge karta he k us ki olad achi hai. Wo alag bat he k aap k chachu ne baat ko ghalat rang diya oar aap bhi is situation me ghabra gain oar sahi handle nahi kiya. Jo batain aap nay chacho k barey me batain us say lagta he k wo kuch kam zarf hain. Atleast mardon ko ye zeb nahi deta. Jab aap feel karain k abu ka ghussa qadrey kam ho gaya hai or situation normal hai tab apni mom ko saath le kar un say detail say sari baat batain oar un say kahain k ainda aisa nahi ho ga. Afteraal wo aap k father hain oar khoon ka rishta he, soft ho jain gay oar aap ki bat man lain gay.

Jo kuch hoa burra hoa laiken aap issey positively lain oar apni ghalti ko knowledge karain oar ainda kabi bhi aisa na karney ka mind banain. Ye sab kuch shadi k bad ya zindagi k kisi oar moqa per hota to haid ssituation is say bhi kaharb ho sakti thi. Aap is incident ko lesson k toar per lain. Aap k cousin ya koi oar shaks zindagi me qareeb aney ki koshis karey to ussey sakhti say mana kar dain. narm dili say kam na lain. Aap ne mention kiya k aap ne cousin say koi bat nahi ki oar is tarha us ka ana jana pasand bhi nahi laiken aap ne marrawat say usey bitha liya oar situation kaya hoi wo aap janti hain. Us ka to kuch nahi bigra, izzat hamesha females he ki kharab hoti hai.

Aap ne dreams oar ideal ka zikar bhi kiya . Zindag me ideals oar dream waghera ziada importance nahi rakhtey. Life is reality, is me kuch cheezain aap hasil kartey hain oar kuch per compromise karna parta hai. So please in cheezon say bahir a jain. jahan insane ki fate likhi hoti he wo issey mil jata hai.

Aap ne further education ka bhi batay. Mujhey bhi bohot shoak he higher education ka . Aap zaroor agaey study karain, abhi aap ki age kam hai aap atleast 25, 26 tak study kar sakti hain, even later on as well. Educion aap lo confidence oar empowerment deti hai. Jis tarha aap k chachu ne kaha k study band karo, ho sakta he might be jealous and narrow minded.

So jahan tak shadi k delay oar further education ki bat he to ye tabhi possible he k aap apney father say bat karain sahi waqt oar situation me. unhain convince karain, Omeed he wo zaroor man jain gay jab un ka ghussa kuch thanda ho ga. You also need to stay firm. apni mom say hamesha intouch rahain. Best of luck.

goodmorals

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Starr9

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