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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 8:48am |
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 My Problem
Ye ab say taqreeban 18 din pehlay ka waqia hai,it was 7th Oct.Men raat ko apni Presentation(Assignment)bna rai thi,us raat meray cozn nay hmaray ghar ana tha magar wo rat hua kafi late hogia aur raat ko 12 bjay tk pohncha,men tb jag rai thi kiun k men kaam kr rai thi apna,very next day meri presentation thi.Tb ghar main sb log so chukay thay,to wo taqreeban 12 bjay aia.Men nay door open kr k usay bitha dia.(Wo cozn mujay bachpan say like krta hai aur muj say shadi krna chahta hai,magar meray Abu ge wahan mera krnay k liay nai mantay thay.Hmesha say aik shakhs mera ideal hai,men uasy khwab main dekhti hun magar aj tk uasy kbi haqiqi zindagi main nai dekh pai hun aur mujay apni zindagi main us shakhs ki amad ka intizar hai.T mera ideal nai th aaur na men us say shadi krna chahti thi,magar wo muj say boht piar krta tha,Aur us nay muj say zid ki thi k men aj zroor aun ga rat tk,mujay tm say milna hai,tmen dekhna hai,
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 8:57am |
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Rest part of my problem aur men usay mana krti rai k T nai,aisay milna theek nai hai,ye ghalat hai.To us nay kaha k is main kia ghalat hai,hm konsa kuch ghalat kren gay jo ye theek nai.Aur meray mana krnay k bawajood wo agia tha,.Phr jb wo agia to men nay usay drawingroom main bithaia,hmara Laptop b wahin para hota hai aur men nay us say laptop main kuch settings waghaira b krwani thin.Tb drawingroom main light chal rai thi.Hmara joint family system hai aur chachu ki family sayh rehti hai.Meray chachu aik ajeeb shakhs hen,wo kisi b aam bat ka batangarr bna letay hen.Abi usay aey huay 10 min guzray thay,is doraan men nay usay pani la k dia aur wo muj say baten krna chahta tha magar main bilkul nai bol rai thi aur boht deri hui nethi thi,wo mujay keh raha tha k Farah please muj say koi bat to kro,aur men bs ye keh rai thi k T mujay boht der lag raha hai,agar chachu agaey to mera kia hoga,........
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:07am |
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acha tou...age kya hua...........????? |
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:12am |
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Rest part Phir By GOD usi lamhay upar say chachu agaey aur men nay foran der k maray pankha b band kr di aur light b,takay chahu yahan na ajaen.Ye meri pehli ghaalti thi.Chachu boht chalak hen,wo achanak drawingroom main agaey.Drawingroom k do darwazay hen,aik kitchen main khulta hai aur dusra sehan main.Chachu sehan walay drwazay say aey aur tb achanak men itna der gai k kuch samaj nai arha tha k ab kia krun,phir jaisay hi unhon nay darwaza khola,men foran kitchen walay darwazay say bhaag gai,meray peron main tb joota nai tha,bhagtay huay meray sar say dopata utar gia aur baal bikhar chukay thay.Men bilkul senseless ho chuki thi aur ja k men apnay bed pay gir gai,mujay apni zindagi khatm hoti hui nazar aria thi.Chachu nay puary ghar main aik kuhraam macha dia.Abu b uth gaey.ama jan b,meray dono chotay bhai b,T ko chachu bahar sehan main lay aey aur wahan Abu ge aur ama jan aur bhai ko b lay aey aur khoob insult ki T ki.
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:22am |
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rest part
Usi time chachu nay abu ge say kaha k iski parhai band krao,men FOOD SCIENCE AND TECH.mian Hons.kr rai hun,aur ye mera third smester hai,men boht achi student hun,hmesha top kia hai men nay aur men NUTRITION main PHD krna chahti hun.Abu ge nay ama jan say keh dia k ye kal say uni nai jaey gi.Har ana wala lamha muj pay kathin kr dia gia,T ko to usi time ghar say janay k liay keh dia gia.Wo to chla gia magar mujay hmesha k liay barbaad kr gia. Khuda gawah hai k men aik nihait sada,shareef aur masoom larki hun.Aj tk men nay kbi kisi ko hath nai laganay di akhud ko.Men nay apnay ap ko buray kamon say hmesha bacha k rakha hai,Allah nay muj main boht sharmo Haya rakhi hai.Abu ge ama ko ye kehtay thay k ye meray samnay na aey,warna men isay jan say mar dun ga.Phir is waqay k agalu roz men nay boht himat kr k aur duaen mang k abu ge say mafi mangi to wo mujay kehtay k men tmaray mernay ka intzar kr raha hun.
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:32am |
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rest part Abu ge k ye ilfaz meray mernay k liay kafi thay. men boht roi,men nay kaha k abu ge mujay maf kr den,ap jo kahen gay men waisa hi krun gi,abu ge kehtay k tm nay ghar say qadam bahar nai nikalna jb tk tmari muot na ho jaey ya tmari shadi na ho jaey.Ab halaat ye hen k men taqreeban adha din aur kbi pur din roti rehti hun.Men pagal ho rai hun.Meti salahiaten zaia ho rai hen,men parhna chahti hun.Magar ghar walay pichay paray huay hen k aj hi koi larka mil jaey aur hm iski shadi kr den.Ab men ye kehti hun k waqaeee ab meri shadi ho jaey.kiun k yehi aik opotion hai meray pas zinda rehnay k liay aur parhnay k liay.Aur aik aur gandi bat ye k chachu nay ye bat bna li k men nay aur T nay sex kr lia hai aur jb ye bat men nay suni ti men behosh hogai thi.Mana k men nay ghalati ki thi k usay bitha dia aur foran ja k bhai ko nai jagaia,magar aisa gunah krnay ka soch k hi meri rooh kaanp jati hai.
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:32am |
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starr starr dear..apne light off krk na ghalti kar di thi.... its sad..well..apko or apk cusion ko...bolna chaye tha..k ye baat hai ...or khuch b neh.... or age us day na bata ski tou next day zaror clear krti baat ko... but i can understand its really tough to explain but if parents are supportive then there is no problem..but in joint family system it doesn't happens.may be.... ya phir cusion ko he bolna chaye na tb.... wo b chup rha... well...ap pareshan na hun.."time is the best healing power indeed"...jab ap thek hun mashaa Allah..apne koi gunnah neh kya..tou koi aapka khuch beigar neh skta...Allah pak pa pora bharosa rakhen..apki paki or sucahi...sab k samne zaror aygyi..ik na ik din... is baat pa eman rakhen...inshaa Allah sab bhetar hojga... or..relax rehne ki try kya kren... nervousness ma thek kaam b kharab ho jaty hain...... |
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:37am |
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hmmm starr starr..thora sa stand len ...apne parents ko atleast trust ma lene ki try kren..k aapne khuch ghalat kaam neh kya hai..or apk chacho ko ehsas khyal hona chaye..aise he kisi ki beti pa baat neh bana lety..gunnah hai sab..unki aapni betian b hogi..neh b hai phir b... or ye zina ka tou yhan tak hai condition batai gyi hai jab tak aap apni akhno se actual na dekhe ap kisi pa baat neh kar skty...so sad... or..ma dua krti hun k ..Allah pak apki bht madad kre..or apk chaco ko or hume hidyaat de...or apki studies wala showk zaror pora ho...aameen...dont worry. plzz...namaz pharen or dua mange bht... |
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:40am |
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rest part Abu ge meray rishtay k liay Wazeefah krtay han magar koi rishta nai mil raha unhen,men chahti hun k ab mujay aisa life partner milay jo muj pay trust kray,meri izat kray,muj pay shak na kray,meri paakizgi ki gwahi day,education field main ho takay mujay parha skay jitna men parhna chahun.Meri zindagi khatm ho gai hai.Men nay in dinon main maut ki itni duaen mangi hen magar maut nai ati.Gham mujay andar hi anday khatm kr rhay hen.Men manti hun k men nay boht ziata bari ghalati ki hai uski bat man k,us pay bhrosa kr k.magar ki mujay maaf kiun nai krta?Ghalatian insanon say hi to hoti hen aur ghalation say hi insan seekhta hai,magar ya kiun nai samajtay?Allah to insan k itnay baray baray aibon ko chupata hai aur aonay abnday ko maaf kr deta hai magar ya maaf kiun nai krtay??
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:42am |
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rest part Abu ge meray rishtay k liay Wazeefah krtay han magar koi rishta nai mil raha unhen,men chahti hun k ab mujay aisa life partner milay jo muj pay trust kray,meri izat kray,muj pay shak na kray,meri paakizgi ki gwahi day,education field main ho takay mujay parha skay jitna men parhna chahun.Meri zindagi khatm ho gai hai.Men nay in dinon main maut ki itni duaen mangi hen magar maut nai ati.Gham mujay andar hi anday khatm kr rhay hen.Men manti hun k men nay boht ziata bari ghalati ki hai uski bat man k,us pay bhrosa kr k.magar ki mujay maaf kiun nai krta?Ghalatian insanon say hi to hoti hen aur ghalation say hi insan seekhta hai,magar ya kiun nai samajtay?Allah to insan k itnay baray baray aibon ko chupata hai aur aonay abnday ko maaf kr deta hai magar ya maaf kiun nai krtay??
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:47am |
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starr ohh...dear ...hosla karen..apki situation ko ma smjh rhe hun....... ye family ma akser..aise baaten aise caes ho jaty hain..aap sabar kren..Allah pak...gunnao ko mauf karne wala hai..... or... apko bht acha life partner mile ga...inshaa Allah...mjhe ik bat batyen..apne aabu ami ko bataya neh k..ye hua tha us rat???? asal baat neh batai ub tak k ne...??? |
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:50am |
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maut ki dua manga kufar hai starr.. aise situation ma marne ka he dil krta hai jab koi ghar ma yakeen na krha ho suchai ka....lekin.. ye maut ki dua phir b neh krty..kufar hai.. Allah pak QURAN ma fermata hai k... Allah ki rehmaton se mayoos na ho.. |
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:50am |
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Thanks a lot sister Men jis haal main b hun Allah ka shukr ada krti hun,Allah nay nay mujay hmesha buray kamon say bachaia hai,mera yehi sawal hai k kia insaan Khuda say b bara hogia hai k Allah to insaan k itnay baray baray gunah maaf kr deta hai aur ye meri itni ghalati ko maaf nai kr sktay?Aur ye sawal b hai k us shakhs(T) ka kia bigra,kuch b to nai,wo to apni life guzar raha hai aur meri zindagi khatam kr di gai hai ,KIUN??Kia mera jurm
itna bara tha jitni bari mujay saza di gai hai? Men ab kai krun?Meray daman par jo daagh lag chukka hai usay to shaid ab meri maut b nai dho skti.
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:53am |
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ge Men nay btaia tha siwaeu abu ge k aur chachu family k,ama jan aur bahi asal bat ko jantay hen.Abu ge say men nay dobara is topic pay bat nai ki.
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:53am |
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Thanks a lot sister Men jis haal main b hun Allah ka shukr ada krti hun,Allah nay nay mujay hmesha buray kamon say bachaia hai,mera yehi sawal hai k kia insaan Khuda say b bara hogia hai k Allah to insaan k itnay baray baray gunah maaf kr deta hai aur ye meri itni ghalati ko maaf nai kr sktay?Aur ye sawal b hai k us shakhs(T) ka kia bigra,kuch b to nai,wo to apni life guzar raha hai aur meri zindagi khatam kr di gai hai ,KIUN??Kia mera jurm
itna bara tha jitni bari mujay saza di gai hai? Men ab kai krun?Meray daman par jo daagh lag chukka hai usay to shaid ab meri maut b nai dho skti.
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:53am |
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rest part Abu ge meray rishtay k liay Wazeefah krtay han magar koi rishta nai mil raha unhen,men chahti hun k ab mujay aisa life partner milay jo muj pay trust kray,meri izat kray,muj pay shak na kray,meri paakizgi ki gwahi day,education field main ho takay mujay parha skay jitna men parhna chahun.Meri zindagi khatm ho gai hai.Men nay in dinon main maut ki itni duaen mangi hen magar maut nai ati.Gham mujay andar hi anday khatm kr rhay hen.Men manti hun k men nay boht ziata bari ghalati ki hai uski bat man k,us pay bhrosa kr k.magar ki mujay maaf kiun nai krta?Ghalatian insanon say hi to hoti hen aur ghalation say hi insan seekhta hai,magar ya kiun nai samajtay?Allah to insan k itnay baray baray aibon ko chupata hai aur aonay abnday ko maaf kr deta hai magar ya maaf kiun nai krtay??
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Starr9 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:54am |
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Usi time chachu nay abu ge say kaha k iski parhai band krao,men FOOD SCIENCE AND TECH.mian Hons.kr rai hun,aur ye mera third smester hai,men boht achi student hun,hmesha top kia hai men nay aur men NUTRITION main PHD krna chahti hun.Abu ge nay ama jan say keh dia k ye kal say uni nai jaey gi.Har ana wala lamha muj pay kathin kr dia gia,T ko to usi time ghar say janay k liay keh dia gia.Wo to chla gia magar mujay hmesha k liay barbaad kr gia. Khuda gawah hai k men aik nihait sada,shareef aur masoom larki hun.Aj tk men nay kbi kisi ko hath nai laganay di akhud ko.Men nay apnay ap ko buray kamon say hmesha bacha k rakha hai,Allah nay muj main boht sharmo Haya rakhi hai.Abu ge ama ko ye kehtay thay k ye meray samnay na aey,warna men isay jan say mar dun ga.Phir is waqay k agalu roz men nay boht himat kr k aur duaen mang k abu ge say mafi mangi to wo mujay kehtay k men tmaray mernay ka intzar kr raha hun.
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:56am |
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starr Allah sab se bara hai..Allah o akbar...insan ki soch bht choti hai... educated ho kar b khuch log illiterate rehty hain...or agr wo apka cusion apko like krta hota na tou sab ko suchai zaror bata na kar bhag jata ... or rhe baat ghalati ki maufi...ye sab temporary aggression hai...or khuch b neh...or ap pa jo ilzam laga hana..wo ap dekhna ik din zaror mity ga..phir..apk family apko khud shirmindagi hogi...ye true hai.. |
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:58am |
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dont worry namaz phar kar bht dua kren bht...k Allah pak sab ko dekha de apne khuch ghalat neh kya hai... |
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huda shah |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Aug, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 289 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Oct 2012, 9:59am |
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dont worry namaz phar kar bht dua kren bht...k Allah pak sab ko dekha de apne khuch ghalat neh kya hai... |
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