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komal40428 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jul 2012, 5:11pm |
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 worried plz help
Assalamualikum
i am 25 yrs , and before reading your forum i have no idea of sex . i dont know anything about it. from past 5 years after menses when i wash i use to clean that inner area with my finger. i dont even know that we dont have to insert our finger in that area, after reading posts in this forum i got this. i never feel pain in that. but as i said after mense when i take bath to clean that i use to do that, now i dont know that bleeding is of menses or what i m too much worried kindly tell me that does it have any effect on hymen ???
is it not permissible to clean that area with inserting finger. actually girls dont know such things and no one guide ,..plz plz answer my question i am worried.
I m very pious girl, recite quran , offer prayers 5 times . i have faith on Allah
he will help me INSHAALLAH
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EROS1 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Jul, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jul 2012, 5:40pm |
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dont worry Komal40428:
you no need to worry about you are a good muslim girl and Allah Help you. in my knowledge your hymen is safe. hymen is not a tissu paper that with a small touch broks .... furthur i am not a female to feel it but i am talking about what i have learned. Next time take care. Allah Hafiz Sociologist |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 108 Post: 5894 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jul 2012, 1:42am |
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komal walekum Assalam
iss maiN pareeshani wali koi baat nahi hai... private parts ki achi tarah cleaning k liyeh hands /fingers ka use karna koi ghalat baat nahi hai ... jab tak k aisaa sexual pleasure k liyeh, ghair zaroori taur par baar yaa zaroorat say zayad martabah aisaa nah kia jaa.ay.
aur aisaa kuch nahi hai k private parts ki cleaning purpose k liyeh fingering allowed nahi hai... aur jahaaN tak hymen ka talluq hai to iskay maujood honay ya break hojaanay say koi khaas faraq nahi paRta... mostly galz ki hymen normal bhaag dauR aur sports game ki bah daulat break hojati hai yaa baaz ki ibteda hi say hoti hi nahi hai... iss say girls ki jismani sehat, next marital life yaa virginity etc par koi positive ya negative asar nahi paRta...yeh sab soni sonayee stories haiN...nah hi husband ko 1st sex k waqt pata chalta hai k oski wife ka hymen maujood hai yaa nahi
so dont worry abt that. just avoid un.necessary use of hands n fingers to touch /massage private parts. aur iss taraf apni tawajjah bhi zeyadah mabzool nah karaiN...
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 40 Post: 2156 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jul 2012, 2:49am |
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myrizvi
well explained Jazak Allah |
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Sarasarf |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jul 2012, 3:17am |
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 U r fine!
Yes, you are fine. Dont worry Hymen is not a easy thing which can be break by finger touching. So. Dont worry and Stay Happy! |
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komal40428 |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jul 2012, 4:43am |
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JazakAllah Khair Every One JazakAllah Khair Every One for explaining me. Alhamdulillah i am happy now to hear this.
May Allah Bless You All for your help.
And May Allah help me as well.
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