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alone11 |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Mar, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Mar 2012, 11:13pm |
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 mary masly ka kia hall hai?
mey apna maslaa khul ker bayan ker rahi hon yahn uar meri request hai koi Psychiatrist mujy mashwara dey k mey kia keron .her masail ka hall hota hai mey apni problems ko kasy solve keron?
mery gher waly meri sadhi kerna chaty hain kab say .mey hemesha mana ker deti hon uar sadhi say dor baghti hon..mujy both stress hota hai sadhi k name say hi .aur both parshan ho jati hon.mujy sadhi say gabhraaat hoti hai khud bakhud both zida aesa lagta hai sadhi k baad ki life both muskil hogi husband k lye khud ko change kerna hoga woh badal jaye ga sadhi k baad , susral ko khus rakhna hoga yani both muskhil life hogi .. mey sochti hon sadhi kabhi bhi na keron aik bachi adopt keron uar akely hi life jeo per yeh bhi sach hai kabhi kabhi both lonliness feel kerti hon..sadhi kerny mey bhi parshani hai na kerny mey bhi parhsani hai .
gher walo nay jo bhi risty dekhyee hain woh mary say 10 dus saal bary hoty hain meri age ka ya aik do sal bara rista un ko naih milta hai .mujy apny say bari umer k bandy say sadhi kerny say gabhraat hoti hai mujy lagta hai mey darr ker raho gi asye bandy k sath,gher waly jo bhi rista dhundty hain us k bary mey kathy hain yeh acha banda hai shareeef hai per mujy tenssion hoti hai kionky jo log rista bataye gay woh tu yahi kahy gay shareef hai.koi yeh thori kahye ga woh shareef nahi hai. us k ilwaha kuch nahi dekthy hain gher waly.meri nature gher walo ko pata hai k mey job kerti hon ghomna phirna pasand kerti hon per woh meri nature k type ka banda nahi dekhty hain .yani dermiana banda ki bajaye hemesha porani soch waly bandy hi milty hain jin ki yeh soch hai larki job na kary larki make up na kary .yeh chezy mujy stress deti hain.kionky her iak ki different nature hoti hai mey jasi hon mary type ka banda dhundy gay tu mey khus rahon gi uar us ko bhi khus rakhon gi per jo mey naih hon wasia banda dhundy gay tu na mey khus rahon gi na us ko khus rakh paon gi.kher gher waly jo bhi rista dekhaty hain mujy shadeed tenssion hoti hai both zida .mey both gabhara jati hon parshan ho jati hon disturb ho jati hon.yeh sab mary bas mey nahi hai.aur mey kathi hon mujy sadhi hi nahi kerna hai kionky mey stress mey ajati hon.mujy koi samjhta nahi hai k yeh easy nahi hai k mujy rista dekahya uar mey han ker don uar sadhi ker lon kisi say bhi sadhi kerny k lye agly mey thori si tu attraction feel ho, koi attract kary ga tu piar hoga sadhi hogi .mujy uaro ka pata nahi kasy log razi ho jaty hain per mujy attraction feel naih hoti hai, na zahn razi hota hai, uar khud ko zabardasti razi kerny lago tu zahni azeaat milti hai mujy..kionky zahn razi naih ho pah raha hota hai uar mey khud ko zabaardasti mananay ki koishsh ker rahi hoti hon
mara aik masla uar bhi hai woh yeh k mujy sadhi ki phali raat uar bachy dono say both darr lagta hai aik normal larki say kahi zida .mujy soch ker chakar any lagty hain kuch hony lagta hai khof say.mey school life mey thi tu mujy meri friend say pata chala tah k sadhi k baad aesa hota hai pain hota hai bleeding hoti hai phir isi tahra do thin kisy suny k larki ko both pain hoa us nay husband ko mara ya both rona ata hai taklif say itni taklif hoti hai .mey both zida darti hon yeh khof mary demag per sawar hai .aik mujy banda samjh nahi ata jis say sadhi keron ,dil ko koi attract nahi kerta uper say yeh darr ny mujy stress dia hoa hai .kia koi aesa hal hai jis say darr dor kia jaye??? kia mujy Psychiatrist k pass jana chiye kia koi tarika hall hai k dono khof mary demag say nikal jaye aur mey normal ho jaon..mey both dar pok hon mary say blood test bhi nahi hota hai mujy chakar any lagty hain..agar mary jany walo mey koi uarat pragnent ho tu us ko itni tenssion nahi hoti jitni mujy ho rahi hoti hai mey stress mey hoti hon .
meri ap logo say request hai k mujy koi hal ya ilaaj baataye agar Psychiatrist k pass jaon tu kia koi tarika ilaaj ya dawai ya aesa koi hall hai k mey normal ho jaon mary zahn say khof kahtam ho jaye.kionky khof mary zahn per sawar hai jis ki waajah say mey kafi taklif mey hon
plz koi mashwara dejye:( |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 185 Post: 6434 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Mar 2012, 12:20am |
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 Alone11
No Life without wife and Nolife without Husband
Aslamoalikom. Apki saari post purny kay bhad yeh puta luga hay kay ap Shadi kay bahd Ki zimadariyaan or Pabundiyaan nahi chahati hen or esky sath sath ap ko first sex pain say be dur lugta hay .
Ap kehti hen apko koi roky toky na jo ap ki murzi ho ap kurin, Life meah esaa Humsufar milna etna asaan ni , Shadi ek zimadari hay, Insan Mohashury ka ek Zimadar furd bunta hay, Bina Husband ek Lurki ek Orat ki life Entaahi moshkil life hoti hay, yeh zumana Jeena du bhur kur data hay ,
Ap nay sari batain bta de hen, ap yeh be keh ti hen apka Jeevan sathi ap say etna bura be na ho age meah,
5 to 7 years ka furq koi furq nahi hota, aghur apki age 22-20 ha or Lurky ki age 30 31 32 hay tu koi bat ni its oky, agur apki age 30 hay 31 hay or Lurky ki age 35 38 be hay koi bat ni
bun sunwar kur baher jana , Purda na kurna bot sary Men ko acha ni lughta , ek rotine ka bunnaa sunwarna achi bat hay lakin Etna Porkushish bun kur baher jana purda hijab niqaab na kurna shadi kay bahd thek ni , kai tura kay problem ap kay leyeh careats kur sukta hay,
Shadi kurna achi bat hay or wuqat ki zurorat hay, apko shadi kur lani chayeh, rahi bat wedding night sex ki tu koi lurki aaj tuk wedding night sex ay muri nahi , yeh bot he hulka sa pain hota etna he jetna Inj or threding say pain hota , ap purashan mut hon, Husband ek essaa Sayaa dar tree hota hay jo apko phul day na day saaya zuror data hay apko protection zuror data hay satisfiction zuror data hay baqi zimadariyaan huqooq or furayz tu zurori hen,
Life meah oroo ky leyeh jeena purta hay sub ko khosh rukhna hota hay just apni khoshi or apni khoshi kay leyeh kam kurnay ka koi fayda ni yeh zindghi say just furar hay,
Life ek Khuttun raasta hay jis mah kai nushayb o furaaz aty hen jis meah ek sathi ka hona zurori hay, sub koch mun chahaaa ni milta koch kumi zuroror rehti hay ess leyeh Qunahat pussund bunain or monasib rishta aany pur shaadi kur lain, logo ki bato pur mut jain
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alone11 |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Mar, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Mar 2012, 1:50pm |
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 thanks
AOA thanks ap nay itna time nikal ker itna bara jawaab dia.per kia mahir nafsiaat k pass is darr ka koi hall nahi ?kia mujy apna ilaaj kerana chiye kia us say darr wagara kam hoga?mey chati hon mary ander say her tahra k darr nikal jaye phir mey agy kadam bahraon kionky main masail tu darr hi hain. mey kafi sari bato say darti hon sochti hon sahyed mahir nafsiaat k pass koi ilaaj ho uar mery her tarha k darr katham ho jaye . mey bayaan nahi ker sakti khof mary demag per kis had tak sawaar hai:( kia ilaaj nahi hai is ka koi??? |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 185 Post: 6434 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Mar 2012, 12:01am |
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re
mery answer meah elaj hay ap ghor say purin .ap Mahir-a-Nufsiyat kay pass jana chahati hain zuror jain, Lakin jo batin meah nay apko btai hen onpur be aamal krin, Durna kasaa , jo dur ghiya woh mur ghiyaa,
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alone11 |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Mar, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Mar 2012, 1:09pm |
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thanks aoa
thanks .ap ki baty sahi hain .per baat yeh hai k mey apni zindagi mey kafi bato say darti hon had say zida. mujy unchai say bhi both dar lagta hai sheriyoo say nichy jab utarti hon tu paker ker kionky lagta hai mey gir jaon gi
isi thara escalator say nichy nahi jati yani use nahi kerti hon kionky dar lagta hai mey nay pao rakha tu gir jaon gi,
mey nay driving sikhi thi both muskil say us mey bhi darti thi kuch mahiny phaly mara accident hoa mey driving nahi ker rahi thi per mey sath wali seat per thi both bora hadsa tah us k baad yeh hoa aik do mahiny driving nahi ki ab kerti hon per jahn speed kam hoti hai whan drive kerti hon high way per nahi jati kionky dar bath gaya hai mary ander masla yeh hai k mujy shadeed tenssion hoti hai khof say mujy kuch hony lagta hai dil ki dharkan ajeeb hoti hai .ab ajkal drive ker rahi hon per kam kam mostly avoid kerti hon mujy pata hai yeh kafyat kion hai kionky accident hoa tah isley hai per mey chati hon mary ander yeh khof dor ho jaye in sab bato k hall dhunti hon
per baki darr both kion hain un ki kia reason hai samjh nahi ati .jasy mey swimming sikhna chati thi both soukh say... itny souk hony k baad bhi sikh nahi pai. mey chati hon mary charo taraf koi ho k mey dob na jaon uar khud say kuch nahi hota hai lagta hai dob jaon gi .yani soukh both hai per sikh nahi pa rahi hon:(
mujy apno k khony ka both dar lagta hai aksar darti hon khuda na khwasta mary close apny foth na ho jaye kabhi .. aesa lagta hai aesa kabhi hoa tu bardast nahi ker paon gi yeh cheez soch ker both up set hoti hon aksar aesa hota hai
mujy nahi pata mary masail kasy solve hongay per mey soch rahi thi kisi mahir e nafsiaat say baat keron sahyed woh ilaaj kary kia pata mary ander sab darr katham ho jaye..per samjh nahi ati kahan jaon kis say baat keron.. mey kisi k agy bolon k mujy dhund day tu sab hans dety hain mazak samjh ker.. mey nay apny janny waly family doctor say kah drive kerty hoye darr lagta hai mujy mahswara dey psychiatrist ka tu woh kahny lagy psychiatrist jo dawai dety hain us mey koi chez hoti hai jo sehat k lye sahi nahi hai isley ilaaj ka fadia nahi ..
mey nay socha yahn apna masla bayan keron gi sahyd koi psychiatrist sahi baat kary tu mujy samjh aye k mey wakai zahni bemar hon kia ?uar mara ilaaj ho sakta hai k nahi per ap nay tu maswarha dia uar kisi nay kuch nahi kah:(
chalye bas kerti hon both time lay lia mey nay
sorry itni lambhi baat ki uar thanks ap nay response dia
take care
Allah hafiz |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 185 Post: 6434 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Mar 2012, 12:29am |
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Alone11
JI meah apki bato ko sumaj raha hon meah nay ek bat apko btai jissy sara zumana janta hay kay jo dur ghiya woh mur ghiya
Confidence ki kumi hay , apko puta hona chayeh confidence he Power hay , Confidence he hota hay jisy hum bot sary kaam kur jaty hen or kamyaab hoty hen, Apni soch positive rukhin, ap nay jo batin share ki hen apko zuror Mahir-a-nufsiyat kay pas jana chayeh agur ap jana chahati hen,
Life ek bar milti hay or Murna be ek bar he hay or jo rat Qubar meah hay woh baher nahi hay , Durna chorain , Forum pur Medicine advise kurna muna hay ni tu meah apki koi help kurta abi ap kay pas du he options hen ya ap Kisi achy Homoeopathic doctor kay pass jain ya pher kisi achy Maahir-a- Nufsiyaat kay pass jain taa kay apka problem solve ho,
Ap agur ziyada time tunhaa rehti han tu behtur hay apny ap ko busy rukhin , job kurin , study kurin , library jain ya exercise kurin free mut chorin apny ap ko. wish you good luck
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Shahbaz hussain |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Mar 2012, 2:11am |
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Its simple To na kar shadi |
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Shahbaz hussain |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Mar 2012, 2:29am |
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Mera masla Yar mery apny masail bhe bahut ziada haiin
mera sb sy brha masla ye hi k mujhy is website py question karna nae aa raha plz help me |
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usmankhaan |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Jul, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Jul 2012, 1:21pm |
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same prob Alone 11 Mery sath be :( same prob ha :( har time dar laga rehta ha :( SOty waqt be ........ab to har time parishan rehta hn :) mgr Me shadi krna chata hn :) .. i am 21 year old :( |
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alone but happy |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Dec, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Feb 2013, 4:08pm |
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allone je meri bat man lo a.o.a .hw r u .meri shadi to nhi hui par phr b kuch keh deta hu agr ap ko acha lagy to
shadi b bhalA koi darny wali bat ha ap bus namaz parhA kro pAbandi se 5time or dua kia kro k bus ap ko koi acha husband mily jo apkA khyal rakha kry ap ki har jaiz khwahish ka khyal rakhy aj kal k doar ma zindgi gzarna wo b akely bht mushkil hA future bht khatrnak ha ap shadi kro or dua kro namaz k bad k koi acha husband mily jo apkA sath dy or tmhen khush rakhy phr dekhna tum kitni lucky samjo gi apny ap ko phr ap socha kro gi k lo ma b kesy dar rhi thi wo b fazool mA hi phr socha kro gi mai awin dar rhi thi halan k zindgi kitni hasseen ha 4din ki zindgi ha khush khush jia kro plz agr ap khud ko kamzor samjo logo ko to bhana chahie k baten krny agr ap khud apny ap ko kamzor kahi log to bila wja ki baten hi kryn apny Ap ko mazboot bnao or khuda py yakeen rakho yar zindgi bht haseen ha jo dar gia so mar gya awin tention leny ka koi faida na ha ALLAHhi ALLAH kia kro dukh na kisi ko dia kro free ma tention na lia kro theek ha na umeed ha ap aj k bad khush raha krogi or meri bat pe amal kro gi agr koi bat pasnd na ai ho meri to meko maf kr dena ok jee Ab hum chalty hen take care ALLAH HAFI"" |
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hasna |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1845 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Feb 2013, 3:05pm |
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alone11 apkis ab posts read ki hein meine....
apme confidence ki bht kmi hai aap job krti hein ya ghoomna phirna like krti hein laikin apme aitmaad ki bht ziada kmi hai ap apni zaat k ilawa kisi per bhrossa nhi krti... ap bss woh chahti hein jo apko acha aur sahi lgy apko yeh aitbar nahi k koi dosre b apkay liye acha soch sakty hein....
agur shadi k baad lurki ko change hona perta hai thora bht to lurkay b change hojaty hein kio k mard k ander b dil hota hai wo koi pthar nhi hota jo ahsassat se hali ho... :)
lurki ko zra jaldi change lana perta hai aur lurkay ko thora wqat lagta hai laikin ahista ahista sab fine hojata hai.husband wife k relation ki shurowaat dosti se b hosakti hai.... agur husband cooperate krne wala hoto yeh achi baat hai laikn agur nhi to bhi koi bat nhi.... jistrah aap sochti hein husband b aisay hi sochne wala hoga to bhi apky liye problm bn sakti hai... kio k do insano ki soch adtein pasand na pasand aik jaisi hogi to life bore hojayegy difference hona chiaye aap uskay liye jiye wo aky liye.... :)
abhi aap unmaaried hein apni zarort k liye job krti hein... ya phir shoq se???
kio k shadi k bad aurat ko job krne ki zaroot tb prti jb uski zaroote puri na horhi ho aur shadi k bad ap ghur k kamo ko apni job smjh laina husband k kaam krna khana bnana yeh sab b job hi hai.
agur husband apki zarooty nhi puri krsaky to ap usse pyar se ijazat lay kr job again start krsakti hein.laikin wqat se pehly hi bht dur ki sochna aur andazay lgana tention create krta hai....
simple yhi khugi aap job krti hen azad hyal hein laikin apme confidence ki bht kmi hai aur yhi waja hai k apko negtive bate ziada attract krti hein.... isliye dear ap hudko aisa bnaye k ap hur trah k mahool me adjust krsako lurki ka asal ghur shohr ka ghur hota hai maa bap ka ghur tb tk hota jb tk maa bap ho ajkal k wqat me sagy bhai behn sath chor jaty hein sab apni life me busy istrah ap akaili reh jaogi isliye ap shadi krlay.......
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