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Muslima197 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jul, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2012, 4:08pm |
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 Ghusal after Kissing?
Assalamu Alaikum! I got married a few months ago. My husband and I
decided not to have sex yet because
we both are going to school, so we want to wait for few months. However,
he likes to kiss me alot like everyday. Whenever he kisses me, I always
get discharged. I am too shy to tell him about this. Do I need to
perform Ghusal every time? Sometimes, I just miss my salah because I am
afraid of taking bath multiple times in a day.. also the weather is
very cold here... Please suggest what is right according to Islam!
Thanks in advance!
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 6391 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2012, 4:40pm |
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yes yes of course u have to do ghusal each time.but when u discharge then ghussal is necessary. |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 103 Post: 5466 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jan 2012, 11:05pm |
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agreed with goodman during foreplay, if any any one is discharged, he /she needs to do ghusal, as it is compulsory.
but your policy to avoid sex is NOT a better idea. You must do sex, if you are living with each other. If you are living separately, then both of you should avoid to regular meeting before rukhsati (i.e. start to living along with husband). Present practice may harm to both of you.
If you decide to start sex with each other, then you can avoid to become pregnant due to your schooling etc. To know about methods of avoiding pregnancy, contact your family doctor.
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Muslima197 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Jul, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Jan 2012, 3:42pm |
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Hmm... Thanks Everyone for replying!
@myrizvi... we both live in the same house. our rukhsati has not happened yet. He is also my cousin and he has been living with my family since we both were children. However, we got married only three months ago. We will move to our own house when he gets the job in sha Allah.
My question was about Ghusal. If two people do not perform sexual intercourse and they only kiss or hug each other, and female gets vaginal discharge, will she have to perform ghusal or not? Someone told me that if a woman dischages vaginal fluid without reaching orgasm, the Ghusal is not fard. However, she will have to do wudhu because it invalidates the wudhu. I was reading stuff on this website. Please take a look at it! Tell me what you think! JazzakAllah Khair
http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?168434-Is-ghusl-necessary-in-this-situation
Re: Is ghusl necessary in this situation?
now read number 2 please!
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koojamunda |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Nov, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 182 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Jan 2012, 4:18pm |
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muslima Muslima ghusal is necessary...it is same a male discharge liquid due to masturbation or ehtlam...so u have to do ghusal |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 103 Post: 5466 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Jan 2012, 11:14pm |
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conditions for ghusle fard There are different Islamic rulings for different "types" of vaginal discharges.
1. If a female discharges during thinking, watching or listening sexual stuff, then she must need to do ghusal (ghusl e fard)
2. if a female discharges while masturbating herself (self sex), then ghusal is necessary / fard.
3. if she discharges due to foreplay with a male (kissing, hugging or just touching each other with sexual feelings), Ghusal will be fard.
4. But if she discharges without any one of the above reasons than she
only needs to clean private parts, change the dress and do wudhu. This
type of vaginal discharges might be due to any medical disturbance, any
physical abnormal movement or any cause other than sexual-pleasures.
in general, it is true to say that ....if a woman dischages vaginal fluid without reaching orgasm, the Ghusal is not fard....
now question is, what is the definition of "female orgasm"? it actually
means: vaginal discharging due to any sexual activity (like
masturbating, foreplay, thinking, watching, listening any sexual stuff
etc)
PS: ghusal is also necessary / fard when male part is penetrated into
female vagina (i.e. intercourse). In this case male's or female's
discharge is NOT considered as a condition for ghusale fard.
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