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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 2:41pm |
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 ma kyoo ilzam lagaoo ga?
ma jaha rehta hoo waha abi sham howi ha...ma ap koo marna nahi blkay jeenay ka hosla day raha hoo...kay zinda dil loog kiss tara jeetay ha..
ma tum per kooi ilzam nahi laga raha hoo??agar connected nahi hoo too achi bat ha...acha ha? |
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 576 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 2:47pm |
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Samja? Me almost 6 months sa ye website dekhti hun.aur mujhy khuda ra mazeed pareshn na karen wo kafi tez ha rabi muja pata ni tha post b ker degi kuch. me na usi ko dekh k himmat pakri.Me jo b ker ri hun masterbate ya marzi k sath sex ya jo b
Muja ya pata hai k muja problem ha koi.me normal hun khana aram se khati hun sans leti hun kam sab kerti hun per nind nai aati.aur mujhy farak b nai parta.Parhai ni ker pati ab na job.Muja apna chachu tak sa khof aata ha.halakey usna muja kuch ni kaha.
Mujhy us larka na insert tou kiya tha magar kitna hua jitna b hua wo meray liye be hadd painfull tha aur us din se pehla mujha kayee barr things insert ki gayee thee jis na first time kiya us na ye kya tha.muja muaf kerdain me na detail apni sharmindgi ki waja se ni btayee aap mera tmasha na bnayen
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 576 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 2:50pm |
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Aap kahan rehta ho bhai | goodman 's Profile |
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goodman |
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30 years |
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Male
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UnMarried |
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MSC |
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BUSINESS |
| City & Country |
LAHORE |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 2:51pm |
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tamasha na banoo? maira ap ka tamasha koon bana raha ha...ma to ka raha hoo ap apnay ghunahoo per parda daloo...aur serif ALLAH say mafi mangoo...
ap jitna scohoo gee us larkay kay baray may aur sex kay baray may problem may azafa ho ga..so ap serif namaz para karoo...
aur ap koo kassay pata ha rabi kafi taiz ha..... |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 2:52pm |
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mara phone no?? theek ha yahi profile ha ...is waqat ma europe may hoo..aur maray pass 7:52 pm time ha...ab mara phone no be chahay kiya? |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:03pm |
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sach ka samna? maira kiya europe ka sun ker sach ka samna nahi ho raha ha... |
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 576 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:13pm |
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de dou tmari rabi ko forward ker deti hun Me jo soch le k aaye thee muja aap he us se bhaga ray ho dur ker ray ho. Aapko bara Islam ka pata ha.Ye pata ha k Alah k rasool kafir ko bhee muslim kerna hota tou narmi sa kaam letay. Aapko lagta ha k me mann jaungii aap k tareeqay say? aur jo meray ghar walay kerta hain woi ap mujay yahan dikha ray ho. Me smjhi thee me hi jahiloun k ghar peda ho gaayee maagar ab paata chala ye dunyaa he essi ha.
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 576 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:15pm |
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waitng for genuine doctor Me wait ker ri hun goodman ki shakal me time pass acha mil gya ha
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:18pm |
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ma bewqoof nahi acha is ka matlab ha tumhay rabi ka pata ha..mujay islam ka kuch pata nahi ha..ma ap say narmi may he bat ker raha hoo...ma kyoo ap say ghussa may bat keroo ga...duniya reality koo face kerti ha...aur ap hoo kay reality say door bag rahi hoo...serif yahi problem ha...theek ha ma bawqoof hoo...chalay ap too aqal mand hoo na..
ma tumhay cell no is liyay nahi day sakta kay block na ho jaoo...wagrna ap koo yaqeen ho jata kay cell no europe ka hee ha |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:18pm |
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kuch too hoo chaloo acha ha time pass he sahi...kuch too hoo... |
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 576 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:19pm |
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Mujha aap se hmdardi ha Kiunkay kuch he din ma apka business thap ho jayega.Aap europe gaye itna laba kharcha hua hoga aur wahan bath k business client se meeting k bjaye sight seening ki bjayee aap noorclinic pa ho.wow tell iski b koi fb ki tara mobile application ha kya jo aap travel ma use ker ra ho?
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 576 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:21pm |
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Acha tou problem ye ha k kuch ho ni ra aap se google search ker lain bohat products mil jayengi.Haye bichari hmari bhabi.kahan phans gee aapka sath
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:22pm |
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Allah na karay hahahaha....mara business nahi thap hota...Allah na karay...Allah karay mara business may azafa hoo...ghar baith ho...aram kar raha hoo..is liyay noorclinic dekh raha hoo...ma laptop say noorclinic use ker raha hoo |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:23pm |
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products and bhabi koon see products...aur koon see bhabi? |
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 576 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:25pm |
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Baki hairat ha goodman Kya wqi aap incest ko itna jhut smajta hain mera bf k sath b huwa tha i mean incest to nai but child abuse
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:27pm |
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ghuna? joo bat jhoot ha woo jhoot ha...joo real ha woo real ha...yeah ap khud janti hoo ap nay kitna ghunna kiya ha? |
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000amna |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Sep, 2009 Topic: 42 Post: 252 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:28pm |
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ap namaz pare aur Quran majid start karde Inshallah sb kch khtm hojay ga aur app bilkul normal hojay gi 100% |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:31pm |
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amna?? amna ap koo kassay pata chala yeah sab?? |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 57 Post: 5771 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 3:54pm |
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new story soch rahi hoo maira? maira kiya kooi new story soch rahi hoo? |
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psychdoc |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Mar, 2011 Topic: 10 Post: 611 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 4:33pm |
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MairaK: Iss baat mein koi doubt nahin keh aap kaa life experience bohot kharab raha hai, and I feel sorry for you that you had to endure all that. Aap ka saath age 4 ya 5 say jo bhee bad experiences hoa unhon nay aap ke personality ko internally bohot zyada damage kiya hai, aur aap ko bohot zyada insecurity aur lack of trust ke feelings hain. Aap kay symptoms kaafi concerning hain, particularly self harm, anxiety( PTSD), most likely depression ( magar aap na iskaa baaray mein zyada nahin batay abtak) aur lack of sleep. Aap na bataya keh aap ka level of functioning bhee effected ho raha hai, inn sab baaton ke wajah say, jaisa aap na bataya keh aap ke job bhee effected ho rahi hai.
Mujha aap say kuch questions karna hain:
1). Kiya aap ko aksar crying episodes hota hain?
2). Aap ka energy level kaisa hai, kiya har waqt thakan aur tired feel kartee hain?
3). Kiya kabhee feelings of hopelessness, helplessness yaa worthlesnes mehsoos hoti hai?
4). Kabhe extreme guilt ka ihsaas hota hai?
5). Self harm kitna severe hai aur kis shakal mein haa( agar aap comfortable feel karain to bata dain, otherwise it's upto you)?
6). Self harm ka peechay aap kaa motive kiya hota hai, apna aap ko khatam karna yaa phir blood daikh kar aap behtar mehsso kartee hain?
7). Kiya kabhee aap ko flashbacks hota hain ( apna abuse say related mental images baar baar zehan mein repeat hona, like a movie ).
8). Aap ka apna future ka baaray mein kiya khayal hai, kiya aap samajhtee hain keh haalat behtar ho jain gay aap ka liya yaa phir aap future ke wajah say hopeless hain?
Aap nay yeh bhee poocha thaa keh mensis say pehla hymen hoti hai yaa nahin, to uska answer yeh hai keh jee haan hymen shorow say hee hoti hai ( except in rare cases). Aap ko age 4 ya 5 par bleeding kiyon nahin hoi, iska most likely explaination yeh hai keh insertion zyada deep nahin thee. Aap nay Hamoo ke post mein mention kiya thaa keh aap kaa boyfriend thaa jis nay aap ko chorr diya thaa yeh keh kar keh aap normal nahin hain. Kiya yeh wohi boyfriend hai jiska saath aap ab hain yaa yeh koi different person hai ( iss liya pooch raha hoon keh kiya yeh boyfriend aap say shadi karna kaa keh raha hai?).
MairaK, yeh fact hai keh aap kay saath bohot zulm ayr zyadtee hoi hai, magar iss waqt aap jo kar rahee hain woh aap ko sirf temporary relief day sakta hai, aap kay problem kaa solution nahin hai, balkeh in the long run, aap ke overall mushkilaat mein izaafa kar raha hai.Mein boyfriend situation kee baat kar raha hoon.
Aap ke sleep ka effected hona PTSD ka aik bohot common symptom hai. Aap say jo sawaal mein nay kiya haain ooper, unka jawab kaa baad mein aap ko zyada behtar bata sakta hoon keh aap kay liya kiya solution best hai. Magar at present mera yehi khayal hai keh aap ko psychiatric meds ke zarrorat hai. Modern psychiatric meds bohot effective hote hain PTSD, depression etc kay treatment ka liya aur jab aap ka PTSD symptoms aur depressive symptoms under control ho jaian gay to phir aap ke sleep khud hee regularize ho jae gee. Magar mein aap ko koi medicine prescribe nahin kar sakta, it's against forum policy.Mein nay jo questions poochay hain unka answer milna ka baad mein aap kee situation ko zyada behtar assess kar sakta haoon aur aap ko sahih direction mein point kar sakta hoon.
I agree with above recommendations from forum members keh aap ko Allah Taal kay qareeb aana chaye, aur namaz aur doorsay naik kaam karna chayain. Allah taala kay liya aap ke problem ko solve karna koi mushkil kaam nain.
Yeh decision aap ko khud laina hai keh aap apni life ko kis taraf lai jaana chahtee hain.
Yeh baat yaad rakhain keh aap kay saath past mein jo kuch hoa uss par aap ka control nahin thaa, aur aap pna past ko nahin change kar sakteen, magar future abhee bhee aap kay control mein hai, atleast kisi had tak. |
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