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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 53 Post: 187 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2011, 7:57am |
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 meray susraal walay meri wife ko misguide ker rahay hein
Hi everybody Mein ajj kal bohut ziada parehsaan hun. Bohut depressed hun mujhe samajh nahi araha mein kia keroon. Meri shaadi kol 3.5 saal ho chuke hain. Hamaray 2 bachay hein aik 2.5 aur aik 1.5 saal ka. Meri wife kai jo parents hein khaas kar meri saas aur meri saali who meri wife ko bohut misguide kertay hein. Pehlay kam kertay thay lekin ab bohut zaida kernay lag gaye hein. Meri wife last Tuesday ko apnay parents ki taraf gai.mein shaam ko lenay gia to mein nai suna keh meri saali keh rahi hai keh tum 1 din chor ker aya kkero. Phir Friday ko mein office mein tha to meri wife ka ph aya mein nai jana hai aur mein shaam ko 5 bajay a jaon gi. mein nai mana kia keh abhi Tuesday ko to tum ho ker ai ho. Kehti acha. Mein nai thori der baad phone kia to pata laga keh who to apnay parents ki taraf sai bol rahi hai mujhe bohut ghussa aya. unsay meri baat na maani. Aur chali gai mein nai kaha 5 bajay a jaana late nahi hona. Is per unsay ghusa kia. Jab mein ghar pohuncha to time 6 baj chuke thay lekin who nahi ai. Phir mein nai ph kia aur kaha keh mean tumhe kaha bhi tha keh 5 bajay a jana. Mein nai kaha ab kab ayo gi. Unsay baray ghussay sai kaha jab mera dil keray ga mein a jaoon gi. Mujhe phir hoa keh yeh kia ho raha hai. Mein nai kaha tum chahti kia ho bata do mujhe. Us nai apni ammie ko kaha ammie abu kahan hain keh raha hai tum chahti kia ho. Us ki ammie nai kaha us say pocho who kia chatah hai. Agar ana hai to saath apni ammie ko bhi lei ker aye. Saath hi us nai ph band ker dia. Mein apni ammie ko saath lai ker nahi gia keh who tension mein ajain gi. Mein nai bas itna batay mein jar raha hun meri wife sai larai ho gai hai. Ammie nai kaha kyon lertay ho. Mein phir a gia. Wahan mein nai apni wife sai baat ki. Pehlay to who maan hi nahi rahi thi phir who man gai keh mein saath chalti hun. Us nai apni ammie ko batay, to uski ammie nai kaha apnay abu sai pooch lo. Saath hi meri saali khari thi usko nahi pata tha mein bhi khera hun us nai kaha tumhara kerta to hai lekin koi zaroorat nahi hai jane ki. Meray agar bachay na hotay to mein aik minute bhi wahan na khera hota. Isi wajah sai who mujhe blackmale ker rahay hein keh bachon ki wajha sai yeh kuch nahi ker sakta. Is lai apni baat manwaoo. Phir uskay abu a gaye. Mein meri saas, meray susar, meri wife beth gaye. Phir meri saas nai baat shuru ki aur itni mujhe sunai keh jiska koi hisaaab nahi. Aur unki baton sai saaf zahir ho raha tha keh meri wife aik aik baat unko batati hai. Meri saali bhi bol rahi thi. Meri wife bhi unkay saath bol rahi thi keh yeh aisay yeh aisay.. agar mein bolta tha to kehntay thay tumhein baron kai saath baat kernay ki tameez nahi. Sirf aur sirf mein apnay bachon aur bivi kai liye wahan betha raha keh agar mein a gia to baat bohut barh jaye gi. Isi wajah sai who mujhe blackmale ker rahay hein keh yeh kuch nahi ker sakta. Unkay attitude sai yeh bhi mein nai andaza lagay hai keh agar hum mein alehdagi ho bhi jaye to unko is sai ferak nahi perta. Lekin mujhe pata hai meray bachon ka future tabah ho jayega. Phir pata nahi kia hoa meri wife nai achanak kaha acha chalo chalay. Phir sab khana kha kai jaye waghera waghera. Mera to aik nawala khnaya ko dil nahi ker raha tha. Tuesday ko jab mein leinay gia ton ham aik store per gaye, wahan aik bag tha 3000 ka meri wife nai kaha yeh lai den meiin nai kaha itna mehnga nahi lena. Is baat ka bhi tana meri saas nai dia keh tum nai isko lai ker nahi dia. mein Itni choti baat bhi meri wife nai unko batai. mein nai kaha app lai den. kehnay lagin keh acha mein lai doon gai jis din lai ker doon gi us din yeh a jai gi. jab sara end ho gia to phir araam sai bolnay lagin keh tumhe koi kuch kehta hai to hamare dil per lagti hai. na app log lera kero. khush khuish raha kero. choti si zindagi hai.
Ab meri samajh mein nahi a raha mein kia keron. Mein nai apnay dost sai bhi mashwara kia unsay kaha hai keh agar jaati hai to jane do kuch din baad khud hi a jaye gi. Koi bhi parents ziada der nahiu rakh saktay. Lekin mein nain andazaa lagaya hai unkay attitude sai keh agar a jaye gi to koi ferak nahi peray ga. Ghar akar meri wife phir meray peechay peechay thi. Mein nai usay nahi bulaya. Saari raat mein so nahi saka. Kabhi uth kai beth jaon kabhi lait jaon. Subah phir breakfast ko bhi dil nahi ker raha tha meri wife nai phir khud sandvich apnay haath saai khilaya. Aur mujhe kaha ab to muskuradein mein nai kaha ab kia muskuraana phir who munh basor kai beth gai. Meray dost nai yeh bhi kaha apni wife ko apnay hathon mein rakho phir baaki jo merzi keri jaye. Odher kam sai kam jane do. Kal phir mein nai usko kaha keh tumhe ehsaas nahi hoa keh tum nai or unhoon nai ghalat kia. Unsay kaha app ko bhi nahi hoa keh app nai ghalat kia mujhe rok ker. Mein nai phir thora sa samjhaya keh ferak mujhe tumhein aur hamare bachon ko pare ga aur kisi ko nahi parega waghera waghera. Ab mujhe app ki suggestion ki zaroorat hai mein kia keron. Ab agar phir aik do din mein unsay zid ki jane ki to kia usay wahi rehnay doon. Kia keron mein. Kia wakai us kay parents per koi bhaar nahi agar unki beti unkay ghar a ker beth jaye. aik aur baat batata chaloon shuru shuru mein meri wife nai kaha tha keh meray abu nai mujh sai kaha hai keh apni ammie (saas) kai kehnay per chalna. apni ammie aur behen kai kehnay per na chalna werna ghar kheraab ho ga.
Please guide mein in detail thanks
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 53 Post: 187 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2011, 8:10am |
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aik aur baat aik aur baat poochna chahoon ga keh kia mein us laari larai kai baray mein dobara apni wife sai zikar keron. keh unoon nai yeh keha yeh keha. yaan filhaal us per mitti daloon. agar dobara woh naraz ho ker jaati hai phir baat keroon.
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 10 Post: 1372 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2011, 11:36pm |
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new aik bat yad rakhin jb aisi situation ho to aurat black mail hoti hai merd nhn
ap aik akm kerain k apnay gher main sukoon se rahain aur apni bivi ko smajhain ager ainda woh aisa kerain to aap aik bar call kero aur ager ap ko dooseri teraf se phir wesay hi jawab milain to aap khamosh ho jao aur dobara koi contact na kero
with in 10 days sab k damagh seedhay ho jain gay
asal bat yeh hai k huamri socity mainakser aisa hota hai k shadi k baad lerki biwi to ban jati hai lekin bahu nhn ban pati kiun k jab tak woh apnay parents ki beti bani rahay gi bahu nhn ban sakay gi
jab woh apni sas ko apni maan samjhay gi to her problem unhain btaai gi na k apni maan ko
problem yehi hai k saas ko sirif husband ki maan samjha jata hai apni maa nhn jab k aisi lerkiayn apni bhabhi se umeed kerti hain k woh un ki maan ko maan samjhay
is liyay aap un k teer unhin per palta den
bachon ko bhi biwi k pas rehnay den jahan woh ap k bachay hain un k bhi hain
biwi k haqooq puray kerain biwi ko puri izzat den lekin ager woh ghalat keray to usay kuch din uski merzi k mutabiq rehnay den
yeh baat bhi check ekrain k aap k gher se to koi ziyadti nhn ho rahi
jahan tak main smajha hun ap k gher se un k sath koi ziyadati nhn kiun k ais ahota to ap ko us k baray bhi btaya jata lekina isa nhn hai
is liyay aap unhain kuch na kahain jab tak woh dobara ghalti na kerain ager dobara kerain to lernay ki zaruret nhn bas aik bar call kerain jo k ap ak feraq hai ager jawab sahi na milay to khamosh ho jain khud bakhud sab seedhay ho jain gay
ager un ki teraf se ziyadti ho aur aap khamosh hojain us k baad un ki call aai k aap aaker le jain to kahain k nhn abhi reh lo aik hi baar takay sab k shoq puray ho jain
us k baad ager un main zera bhi aqal ho gi to khud hi samjh jain gi
jahan tak sali ki bat hai mujhay shak hai k sali ki shadi ki age guzer rahi hai aur rishta nhn ho raha isi liyay ab woh behan k gehr main pather phaink rahi hain |
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Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 632 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2011, 2:15pm |
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 mis guide kon ho rha hai aap ya aap ki wife?
as salam oalikum
new bhai
aap kay halat jan kar ajeeb sa laga kay itna arsa guzarnay kay baad b aap ki wife aap ko or aap un k onahi samajh pahay ? main aap se kuch sawalon ka jawab janna chahon gi is kay baad hi apni rahay day sakon gi inshallah
1) aap ki wife ghar se farar ku chahti hain ? kia sas bahoo kay jhagray or joint family se nalan hain ?
2) un ki demands kia hain ? kia ghar kay kam kaj main interested hain ?
3) aap donon kay darmian kis baat p na chaki hoti hain ? kia is baat kay ilawab koi or issue hain ya bas yehi masla hai ?
4) kabhi aap nay mil baith kar means donon nay baat cheet kar kay is mamlay ko hal karnay ki koshish k iif yes to un ka point of view ya un ki kia demand samnay aahi ? if no to ku nahi ki?
5) aap ka bara bacha 2.5 ka hai means school going age mai nhai . kia un ko aap ki wife time daiti hain ya wo school jata hai ager haan to us ka lesson wagaira ko nkarata hai ?
umeed hai aap in baton kay jawabat dain gay or aap ka masla or b wazay ho jahay ga phir inshallah is p koi comment karnay ki koshish karon gi
thanks
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Oct 2011, 4:41pm |
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Begum k agay aap bheegi-billi bun kar agay peechay dolain gay tu yehi hoga aap k saath or hona bhi chaiyay. mature honay ki koshish kijiyay thora, aap Atthara saal k bhi nahi hain ab, shadi ko teesra din bhi nahi hay aaj, phir is tarah ka behaviour kyu.mari recently shadi hui hay thora arsa pehlay, jitni bhi bar mari wife apnay ghar gai hay mainay kabhi usay call nahi ki k kab aogi, ajao ab wagera wagera. darasal jab BV ko yeh maloom ho jai k aap us k baghair nahi reh saktay tu yehi situation hoti hay jo ho rahi hay is waqt ap k sath or is baat ka faida uthatay huay bv aap ko thora preshan kar dati hay.aap ki bv or aap ka susral week side per hain, aap nahi. ek baat yaad rakhiyay k Churri pattay per giray ya Patta churri per giray nuksan pattay ka hi hota hay dono surat main. yeh baat ap k susral ko bhi pata hay lakin aap ki bechargi dekh kar wo blackmel ka rrahay hain.abb ki bar jab ap ki wife jaingi apnay ghar tu call mat kijiyay ga, kuch dino k baad aap ki saas or susur khud aap ki wife ko chornay aingay. agar na ain tu mera naam badal dena.
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 53 Post: 187 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2011, 6:41am |
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reply pehlay to mein app sab ka shukar guzaar hun keh app nai mujhe guide kia. mein kaafi upset tha lekin ab relax feel ker raha hun.
hamari family joint hai. jis mein meray chacha ki family bhi hai unki 2 betiaan hain. lekin unka khana peena alehda hai. mein akela hi hun, meri 2 sisters hein, woh married aik r.pindi aur doosri uae mein hai. dono hamara bohut khial kerti hein. hamaray ghar mein saas baho wala mahol hi nahi hai. meri wife aur meri ammie mil juk ker rehti hein. kabhi kabhar thori bohut an ban ho jaati hai lekin phir theek ho jatin hein. jahan 2 aurtein rahain to thori bohut to ho hi jaati hai lekin ghar ka mahol theek hai. baaaki unkay dil mein kia hai woh mein nahi jaanta.
@Wehshi, bhai app ka andaza bilkul theek hai. meri saali ki age 28 ho gai hai aur abhi tak koi rishta nahi hai. aik friend hai uska lekin meray susraal walay nahi maantay. jab mein nai aitraaz kia keh woh kyon ata hai app kai ghar to ulta meray hi peechay per gayemein nai apni wife ko kaha bhi tha keh uska apna to hota nahi hai is lai woh tumhara ghar kheraab ker rahi hai. ekin meri wife is cheez per aati hi nahi keh woh mujhe missguide ker rahay hein. kehty hai koi nahi kerta mujhe missguide. akal hi ki to baat hai unko akal nahi hai. bohut jazbaati log hein. baat baat per larnay jhagarnay walay. aik misaal deta hun. keh agar bahir gaye hein to shopkeeper nai kaha keh yeh cheez nahi hai to us per ghusa aya to uski thukai shuru. ajeeb kisam kai log hein. ab app kahain gai keh shaadi sai pehlay dekhna tha to dekha tha lekin us wakt koi apna app zahir nahi kerta. kaha aik beta elect eng ker raha hai baad mein pata laga keh course/diploma ker raha tha woh bhi chor dia. aik ka kaha doc hai pata laga metric mein 3 dafa fail hoa aur phir homeo doc ban gia. jab rishta hota hai us wakt bohut si cheezein chupai jaati hein. rahi baat keh mein kyon blackmail hota hun to uski wajah yeh hai keh mujhe apni izat ka khial hai. sab log kahain gai keh dekho is ki bv ja ker beth gai hai etc etc. agay sai meri cousin ki next month shaadi bhi hai uski bhi tayyari kerni hai agar us wakt yeh na hoi to phir log batay banay gai. is lye mein ziada blackmail hota hun. lekin ab mein app kai mashwaray per amal kerun ga. shaid unhun nai jaan boojh ker mujhe dekhana chaha hai keh tum chor bhi do to koi baat nahi takeh mein dab jaon.
@glamour sis. itna arsa guzarnay kai baad bhi ham aik doosray ko nahi samajh sakay theek kaha app nai. lekin aurat ko samajhnay kai liye 100 saal bhi hon to banda use nahi samajh sakta. bohut hi complicated hai aurat.
app kai sawalaat ka jawab.
1) mujhe khud nahi pata keh kyon chati hai. saas bahu ka mein nai ooper bata dia hai keh koi itna khaas masla nahi hai. mujhe larai mein kaha keh mein us dabay mein band ho kar nahi reh sakti.
2) ghar ka kaam kaaj ka bhi meri saas nai kaha keh app log nokranion ki tarhaan is sai kam kerwatay ho. hala keh safai aur kapron ki washing kai liye aik kaam wali hai. kapray press kai lye doosri. aik din meri ammie cooking kerti hein to doosray din meri bv. phir to unko aisay nahi kehna chai tha.
3)) yeh issue ziada hai lekin aur batain bhi hein. jesa keh meray susraal walay agar koi na jaiz kam kerain to mein apni bv sai baat keron to us per bhi jhagra. jesa ooper batay keh saali kai friend ka kaha to ulta meray saath jhagra. unki koi bhi baat keron to meray saath jhagra hi kerti hai. aur sab batain meri saas nai mujhe taanay dai ker kahin keh tum nai yeh kaha meri beti ko yeh kaha. .
4) mil beth ker bhi baat ki hai. agay sai khamoosh rehti hai. aur pata lag raha hota hai keh bohut ghusaa char raha hai. end mein yahi kahay gi keh mein right per hun app wrong hein. shadded ghussay mein kahay gi. temper 1 sec mein loose kerti hai. demand yehi keh app meray ghar walon ko kuch na kaha kerain. mein nai kehta hun keh jo jaiz hai woh to mein kahoon ga hi.
5) mera bacha school nahi jata. ji meri wife usko time deti hein.
hamari hatalamkaan koshish hoti hai keh koi takleef na di jaye. mera susraal finamcially bohut week hai. 2 wakt ki roti hi mil jaye bohut hai. bohut hi buray halaat hein. hamaray ghar si koshish yehi hoti hai keh unkay ghar kam sai kam jaya jaye takeh un per bojh na banay. jahez bhi nahi lia. uska bhi tana dia keh jab hamara hath khulay ga woh bhi dai dein gai. kyon keh tumhari ammie nai kaha tha. hala keh baat is tarhaan hoi thi keh pehlay bachay ki defa delivery hamari taraf hi hoi thi to unhoon nai kaha keh kapray denay hein meri aammie nai kaha nahi app rehnay dein jab bhai kamany lgay gai woh khud hi dia kerain gai. meray samnay yeh baat hoi thi keh un per bojh na peray. us ka yeh bana lia keh tumhari ammie nai kaha keh bhai jab kamanay lagay gai to khud hi jahez dein gai. halan keh agar jahez lena hota to pehlay hi na maang letay ham. her tarhaan sai tawan kia. lekin unhoon nai ulta hi waar kia.
@ shoher ji. mein nai app ki saari baat perh li hai aur InshahAllah amal bhi keron ga. agar ulta per gia to plz apna naam change ker li jye ga shoher sai bv. hehehehehe.
awaiting suggestions. and thanks everybody
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 53 Post: 187 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2011, 7:19am |
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@glamour sis point no. 3 mein aik aur cheez add kerdon keh kharchay per bhi aitraaz hai. mujhe 6000 milta hai jis mei sai 2000 bv ko deta hun. ghar kai akhrajaat gaari driver sab business mein sai pay hota hai. halaat app sab ko pata hai keh itnay achay nahi sab kai ajj kal. lekin koshish hoti hai keh sab akhrajaat pooray hon. cousin ki shaadi kai liye meri ammie nai 10000 ka suit lai ker dia meri wife ko. ammie abu kaafi kherach kertay hein. kapray kabhi woh lai detay hein kabhi khud . mil jul ker khercha hota hai. kabhi bachon ko khud kapray lai diye kabhi ammie abu nai. agar susraal ki baat kero to meray bachon ko sirf 1 suit ab tak le ker dia hai. bas lekin phir bhi mein nai kabhi nahi kaha.
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glamour |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 632 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2011, 7:40am |
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new bhai
as salam oalikum
bhai main nay aap kay ans read kiye ......
or un say jo andazay lagahay main nahi janti kay kitni had tak aap un say mutafiq hotay hain ya hotay b hain ya nahi per jo main nay feel kia kay aap kay maslay ki waja kia hai wo ye hain
1) aap ka susrali mamlat main interfair. jaisay ka sali ka masla . is main aap ko nahi kehna chahyee tha ku kay aap ki apni wife se mutual understanding nahi hai to aap ko aaisa unhain nahi kehna chahye tha infact ager wo aap ki sis ( allah na karay ) kay un main ko iaaisi baat ho tab b aap ko moo p keh dain to aap ko b yakeenan bura lagay ga .chahay wo haqeqat ho tab b . ku kay ye khoni rishtay hotay hain in kay baray main aaisi baatain her koi nahi sun sakta .
2) aap ki wife se aap ki understanding ku nahi hai ? meri smj main ye nahi aata kay ye log ager kuch aacha nahi kar saktay to bura ku kartay hain ye kaisi advice hai kay b.v ko avoid kari ya aagay pechay na phiro ya us ko ziada ehmiat na do to wo line p rahay gi .is se to halat mazeed kharab hongay .aaisa kabi mat kujye ga . aap apni wife ko ye ehsas dilahain sab se pehlay kay aap un kay lihay hi hain or wo aap kay lihay bay had ehmiat rakhti hain is se aap chotay nahi ho jahay gay magar un ka dil jetna zarori hai .mashallah aap kay 2 kids hain 3.5 years shadi ho howay hain or itni jaldi 2 bachay b day diye allah nay to sirf jism ko to taskher karna mardangi nahi hai na . asal baat to tab hai jad dil ko taskheer kia jahay ....... ye kam to janwer b kar laitay hain or mard to khaleefa hai .jab wo hi taskher nahi kar ga dil apni b.v ka to kon karay ga is main sharam o jhijhak kaisi ........sab se pehlay un ka dil sa kijye sari badgumani ahista ahista khatam ho jahay gi .......... mard pyar daita hai or orat pyar laiti hai ye baat yaad rakhiye ga aap ka thora sa iltifat or tawaja or un ko ehsas dilana un k importance ka ye sab aap ki life main positive change zaror lahay ga inshallah
3) aap ko ye baat bht feel hoti hai kay aap ki b.v kam haisiat gharanay se hai or aap nay usay itni aasahishat se rakha hai to aap ka haq hai kay aap un p rok tok karain .aaisay nahi guzarti life .ager wo gareeb gharanay ki thi to wo past tha ab wo aap k izat hai aap ka to standered hai wohi is ka b hai us kay maa baap ko aap ku kamter samajhtay hain .ye soch badlain aap daikhye ga soch kay badalnay se hi kitnay maslay hal ho jahain gay .
4) ager aap nay un ko maid rakh kay di hai tab b koi ehsan nahi kia ku kay ye un ka haq hai or islam is ki ijazat daita hai
5) aakhri baat main ye kahon gi kay aap ki wife kids ko b time daiti hai aap ko b aacha satisfy kia tab hi aap kay 2 kids ki amma hai to kia aap apnay ghar ko bachanay kay lihay thra sa badlaho nahi la saktay ........ aap mard hai aap ka darja allah nay ziada rakh hai orat nisf behtar hai aadhi gawahi aadhi .wirasat main b aadha hisa .or jazbati or kam aqal b ( baaz baton main ) to kia aap ki samajhdari ka ye takaza nahi kay aap hikmat se kam lain or ghar ko bacha lain
ye mat samjye ga kay main aaisa keh rahi hon kay aap ki b. ka koi kasoor nahi per un ko koi advice daina meray bas main nahi ku kay swal aap nay kia tha to advice p aap ko hi di ja sakti hai maslay ka hal isi main hai
hope aap samajhdari se kam lain gay
thanks
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Oct, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2011, 11:48pm |
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Shohar is right bhai sahb shohar is right,,,,, yar dafa karo sb ko,,,, bas apnay bachay apnay he qabu me rakho,,, asal me apki bv achi hai lekin bewaquf hai,,, jo b aurat apni susral ki batain maa ko batati hai wo bewaquf he hoti hai,,,
u r on da stonger side,,, han ek kam zaror karo,,, apnay susar ko kaho k apki beti jo har baat aa kr yaha batati hai aur uski maa jo meri insult krti hai choti choti bato pe,,, aur un se mashwary leti hai ye apki beti ko he le doobay ge,,, mujay nahi,,, na he meray bacho ko,,, ap keh dein k wo achi hai lekin bewaquf hai,,,, so plz apni beti ko samjaye ta k us ka ghar basa rahay....
aur plz yar mard bano... attitude dhikao thora sa,,, teen age ka ashiq na bano,,, aur bed pe zyada time do bv ko aur tabiyat me sakhti lao,,, baat na many to 2, 3 thapar b laga dena,,, zarorat parhay to apni saas ko b sahi jawab dena mardo wala,,,
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Aug, 2011 Topic: 26 Post: 2987 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2011, 12:00pm |
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Well said Nazia (sister) re: "baat na many to 2, 3 thapar b laga dena,,," Oh my Allah ye kesa mashwara hain.... Dear members main hass raha hun..... hahe(etc) sister Ye kia kehdiya apne... Oh man, good one good one.. Wese toh mujhe itna appreciate nahin karna chahye.. lekin ek baat main bataata hun idher ke sakhti iss okay... to the point ke apki izat hon. Karwao app, sakhti zaroorat pare tooh uss waqt karon when necessary.. Lekin pitaye.. mere khayaal se zaroori nahin he aur na honi chahye. Baat karne ka, baat manwaane ke bohot tareeke he. Apse ek nahin sambhli ja rahi... app Islam ko kese Expand karenge.. Ek bivi ki training hoongi toh kahin jage... App islam ko bar haa ne main apna qirdaar ada karenge.
Allah Hafiz
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shoher |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2011, 12:17pm |
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ali raput
Is main itna hasnay muskuranay ki kya bat hay, nazia nay bilkul sahi tu kaha hay, k agar bv na samjhay tu do char thappar bhi raseed kar do, ho sakay tu us ki ammi ko bhi char-paanch Chammaat laganay chaiyay hain takay woh ainda na tu apni beti ka furure khatray main dalain or naa hi NEW member k ghar kay halat kharab karain. NEW member jo humaray bohat achay bhai hain darasal hum un ko sahi rah per lana chah rahay hain, kyu k unho nay humain apna samaj kar mashwara manga. main tu yehi kahunga k Agar bhabi dubara mekay jain tu aap un ko janay say pehlay ek martaba keh do k sham paanch bajay ajana, is doran phone karnay ki zaroorat nahi hay, panch bajay tak agar aap ki mohtarma na ain tu aap khud susral jo or Kaan say pakar kar lao. apnay bacho ko pyar kijiyay. mian bv main jab conflicts chal rahay hotay hain tu bacho ko amooman woh pyar nahi milta, ek din beth kar sochiay kya aap k bacho ko aap ka utna pyar mil raha hay jitna un ka hak hay, agar nahi tu aap ko iss ceehze ko serious lena hoga, aap ki saas ka bachpana tu guzer gya lakin yeh aap k bacho ka bachpan abhi chal raha hay they need u.
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raniarani0 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Oct, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Oct 2011, 3:02pm |
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kaha se mil gaye yeh log aap ko
aab ki wife pagaal hai kiyaa, uss ko apna ghar apne bache aziiz nahi hai kia ...aur uss ki ammaa bhan ... stupid ..
aik thapaar suhba aik shaam .. set rahe ghi yeh .... chugliyan lagati peerti hai hai aap ki ... |
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glamour |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 632 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 2:07am |
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i amaized
as salam oalikum
mujhay hairat hai itnay ir rationat or emotional replies per kay mamlay ko suljhanay ki bajahay mazeed uljhanay ka mashwara dia ja rha hai ......... or kisi b mard ko ya sohar ko koi haq nahi kay itni ki baat p ya kisi baat p is tarha mar peet karay ......... ye kaisa ahmakana mashwara hai !!!!!!
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2008 Topic: 53 Post: 187 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 7:22am |
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reply AOA
i am just getting relaxed and seeing what happens next. then i'll decide what to do.
glamour sis. app nai ulta mujhe hi moordaeilzaam thera dia. jo unhon nai kia woh bhi to bohut ghalat kia.
us din kai baad meri wife mein kaafi change ai hai behaviour mein. bas mein dekh raha hoon agay kia hota hai. abhi tak to demand nahi ai dobara jane ki. meri ammie person gir gai thin. to meri saas ka ph aya tha poochnay kai lye aur kal ana bhi tha lekin nahi a sakin to meray khiaal mein behaviour mein thora sa change to aya hai.
glamour sis app mujhe batain mein kis tarhaan dil jeet sakta hun. mein bilkul zero hun is cheez mein. mugje plz koi mashwaray dein.
thanks
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glamour |
Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 11 Post: 632 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 10:49am |
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how can u win your wife's heart
as salam o alikum
ye aachi baat hai kay halat kuch behtar hain pehlay ki nisbat....... sab se easy solution ye hai kay aap apni soch badlain .daikhain so insan kay dil main hota hai to us ka asar lazmi us ki life per parta hai means aap k isoch positive hogi to us ka psitive impact lami paray ga . apnay dil main ani wife ki izzat paida karain or un kay parents ki b .unhain aap ki wife ko ehsas dilahain kay aap un kay sath fair hain or un se muhabat kartay hain or jawab main us ki muhabat kay b talabgar hain ( us muhabat main , respect or care b shamil hain ) zahir hai jab wo is baat ki kahil ho jahay gi to dunia ki koi takat un ko aap kay khilaf nahi bharka sakti na hi un kay kan bhar sakti hai . ku ? ku kay un ka trust itna strong ho jahay ga aap per kay wo kisi ki sunahin gi hi nahi
dosri baat kay main nay aap ko morade ilzam nahi thahraya balkay aap meri post gor se read karain to wahan ye mantion hai kay galti sirf aap ki nahi un ki b ho sakti hai per main advice sir aap k oday sakti hon ku kay aap ki wife nay yahan nahi aana thread read karnay to is tarha passive ko advice daina fazol hain apnay words waste karna kay barabar hai . jo advise di ja skati thi wo aap ko hi di ja sakti thi na kay un ko
or sab se bari baat kay choti hoti baaton main aap paisaon ka hisab na rakhain ager dil hi jeetna hai to ku kay jahan mamla dil ka wo wahan ye calculation bht cheap lagti hai paisao ka tazkira kay itna kharch kia ye lay dia itni pocket money di itnay ka joota lay dia.ye sab galat hai bhai .aaisa karnay se aap ki value b kam ho gi or wo respect b nahi rahay gi aap ki .ager aap nay apni wife ko maid rakh kay di hai to is main ki ehsan nahi ye un ka haq hai ;-) jaisay aap ko apnay huqoq yaad hain waisay hi un kay huqoq b aap ko yaad honay chahye or isi tarha choti choti or b bht se batain hoti hain aap aahista aahista hi cange la saktay hain in main
thanks
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shoher |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 11:50pm |
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NEW Brother. NEw bhai aap meray bhai hain isi liay aap ko main mashwaray day raha hu werna zaati masail per bolna achi baat nahi hoti. Dekhiay aap is intizar main na bethay k sab kuch khud sahi ho jai, aap ko kuch actions lenay hongay. abb kal aap ka imtihaan hay, jab aap ki saas aingi tu yakeenan wo saaaali (wife ki sister) bhi aiegi, agar is martaba us nay aap ki wife ko bhekanay ki koshish ki tu aaap nay jo joota apni wife ko dilaya tha pichlay dino pehlay aap uss jootay ko paani main bhigona achi tarah or phir apni saali ki pitaai laga dena usi geelay jootay say us k hosh thikanay per ajaingay humesha k liay.
your question k wife ka dil kesay jeeta ja sakta hay ? dekho yar hakikat tu yeh hay k yeh aurat zaat Terri pasli ki peawar hay iss liay isay pyar say seedha karna parta hay jhatkay say karogay tu toot jaigi. aap apni wife ko pyar say hi samjhaya karain un say pyar nahi karain gay tu kis say karain gay zahiri baat hay. lakin agar woh aap ki baatian pyar say na samjhay ya aap k pyar ka najaiz faida uthai tu phir Do thappar subah nashtay k baad or do thappar raat ko sonay say pehlay, umeed hay afaqa ho ga.
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raniarani0 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Oct, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 12:56pm |
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funny shohar shohar
it was really funny .. do thapaar suhba aur do shaaam ko ...
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Diplomate |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 44 Post: 2747 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 1:04pm |
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 pur tashadad mashwary
re "Do thappar subah nashtay k baad or do thappar raat ko sonay say pehlay, umeed hay afaqa ho ga."
aaj kal forum par barry pur tashadad mashwary diye jaa rahy hain ...allah khair kary |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Aug, 2011 Topic: 26 Post: 2987 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 2:18pm |
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to my brother shoher
Re: "Do thappar subah nashtay k baad or do thappar raat ko sonay say pehlay, umeed hay afaqa ho ga." Dear Shoher.. apka mashwara jahaan acha hota hain wahaan waqaye acha hota hain. Lekin mere bhai app ko lagta nahin ye baat kuch zaada hi sakht hain.. plus islamic view point se iski ijazat kahan hain ke 2 tapar idher aur 2 udhar... I mean ye toh ghalat hain aur zulam karne wali baat he. App please soche zara ke sakhti ke begayr inka masla hal nahin honga, main samaj sakta hun lekin kia apni rishtey main waldaa (wife's mother) par haath uthana jaiz hain Islam main? Kia bivi ko TAPAR parna shakal pe jaiz hain? Shoher..andaz-e-guftago apka acha hain mere dost lekin alfaaz kaafi sakth hain, aur mashwara koshish kare ke islami hon take salaah ke saath saath sawaab bhi mile.
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shoher |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Aug, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Oct 2011, 5:43pm |
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Ali bro, main mafi chatha hu agar mari koi baat aap ko nagawar guzar gai.mera maksad sakhti ki janib nahi tha bilkul bhi. mari tu yehi koshish hay k kisi ka ghar taba honay say bach jai. darasal is kisam ki situation say bohat halat kharab ho jatay hain. main apni misal dun agar aap ko, mari wife jis din apnay ghar per sirf telephone karti hay us din us ka mizaj bohat different ho jata hay or humaray ghar ka mahol bhi kharab ho jata hay, khas tor say hum dono k darmaya thori conflict ho jati hay.
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