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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Aug 2009, 12:33am |
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thanks system..... i had my first xperience of this type .... so had no idea... bt i really appreciate ur comment |
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System |
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| Posted on:12th Aug 2009, 8:31am |
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 Waterr
You are always welcome dear.. |
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PakBrain |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Jun, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 38 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Sep 2009, 1:23pm |
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re: masturbation masturbation is not good, whether it is medically allowed or not. |
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Sep 2009, 8:11pm |
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pak brain thanks a lot for ur comments ... i appreciate them...........though after this thread discuusion my brain was juiced out................but still i believe my hardwork has not gone into vain.....
Bewaqoof this thread is not on again ... so plz dont check it.... |
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doctorpk |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 25 Post: 593 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Sep 2009, 9:05pm |
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masturbation Agree with Waterr and PakBrain, we should discourage masturbation. |
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:5th Sep 2009, 9:47pm |
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doctorpk kufr TooTaa khodaa khodaa karkay.....
teri awaaz makkay aur madeenay......
jazak Allah doctorpk k bil.aakhir apnay bhi yeh tasleem kar hi lia k ....we should discourage masterbation.... warnah ab tak to NC pay officially /unofficially amalan yehi dars dia jata raha hai k ... aaiyyeh ham sab .....
Allah talaa Dr. Waterr pay laakhouN rahmataiN naazil karay aur onkay qalam ko mazeed tawanaa karay takay woh issi tarah awaam ka jismaani o roohani fitree elaaj karti rahaiN. aameen summa aameen |
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searcherr |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Sep 2009, 11:30pm |
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help me First of All its a serious and personal problem
I use to mistrubition and I want to prevent it. As you when Doctor dignos a problem he actually get know about symtoms and history of problem.That why I want to tell you my history.
Come to the issu...
I've been mistrubiting for 10 years in other words I used to mistrubition when I became Adult. In start I never know about Its good or bad fects I just did what my mind wants. After two years My friends discuss about mistrubition in their opinion Mistrubition is worse for health. I was worried about health I wanted to know whats was happend in two years but haven any way to get help becoz in that time I was a shy person and thought I shouldn't disscuss about some kind of sex thats bad thing for disscussion(even today's period there are much people in our socity who cant disscuss about sex). I decided to get knowladge about my problem on my own behalf. Unfortunently I choose the wrong way for it, incase I feltdown in sicological problems(wehem). I beleived that I got worse deceises coz of mistrubition. I did feel weakness and pain in my body after 2 or 3 years I got some right ways to solve my problem but thay were not enough for solution like I improve my health to use that knowladge but couldn't prevent mistroubition. Infect I was that mistrubition is a great sin (Gunah e Qabira). then i was started to search what is the Islamic point of view. Unfortunently in our socity there is no common way to spread knowlage about sex in Islam in current period. Ullama Avoid to discuss in debates (Khitaab). I started to get help from liberaries and couple of years I leared about sex, marriedlife, and islamic point of view, even I got as much knowlage about sex as any commen person doesn't in his whole life. and all this knowlage says only one solution about it that is fast(roza). in that period I was a vagler(you can say). and I decided to leave every thing which coz to irritate me for sex. Now I keep fast, say prayers, and avoid all meterial which coz for inhance sexuall irritation. I protect myself from bad socities and avoid girls, and every kind of sexuall meterial like media, internet, music, casual chatting forums. even I dont look at them, I get busy myself in my works, i do exercise and socialworks. BUT I STILL USE MISTRUBITION FOR SETIFY MY SEXUALL NEED. Phisically I m a slim person. but healthy man I havent any common deceise or sexuall infection. Sexually I am a strong person. I get nightfall(Ehtalaam) in 15 to 20 days. but I feel sexuall need everyday even the next day of nightfall and after one week I am unable to control myself. I cant get married coz of finencial problem...
I want to prevent myself from mistrubition even I know its not dangerus for my health.
Sercherr
(this time I wrote it on note pad and then copy paste on the forum) |
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Sep 2009, 12:05pm |
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searcherr first i want u to read my this post first page thoroughly and again....
i wont be discussing medical aspect here as there has been a very long discussion sort of fight here on this thread.....
this site purpose is that people can talk openly about their issues which they cant even with parents or friends....plus things are a social tabooo.....plus the very wrong education of reproductive health in our society as given by the peers,friends , media is the source of all these things....
Leaving masturbation requires a strong will power....some people leave things the very day they have decided to leave them....some people gradually leave it by decreasing t he frequency.......
i personally believe if a thing has to be left it be left the very next moment but its difficult dont bother if u cant do this...
u have a regular night fall after 15 day or so so it is good that ur natural method of semen release is good...
u really need to not to be alone at any time...
plus where u masturbate if its a particular area or room just avoid that place totally...u wont be comfortable at a new place.....
just try to be mixed up with family....sleep with a family member tooo.
read this
CONTROL ON MASTURBATION
try to get married......
if faniancial problems..........then remember Allah Pak ne Quran mai farmaya he k Tum nikkah karo aur tangdasti ke kayal se mat choro k Allah tum ko gani kar dey ga....nikkah ke bohot fazeelat he... |
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 185 Post: 6464 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Sep 2009, 12:52pm |
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masturbation sub sy bura noksaan eska ap apna confidence kho dyty hen jis k kurny k bahd ap k under ye ehsaas payda hota hy k ap weak ho ry hen ya ap meh wo errection or wo taqat ni rhi ,,,,,, esy apka face apki study apki soch apki body direct motasir hoti hy on logo ki jin ke ye aaddut bun jati hy wesy tu 99.9% kunwaary masturbation kurty hen jo kehty hen ni kurty joot bolty hen. |
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searcherr |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Sep 2009, 2:16pm |
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waterr I told you thats all kind of knowladge I allready have. I've been properly stop my problem for 2 or 3 years. in starting I was succeded to decreasing it rete but know its now still and stable like a old habbit. I live with my family. before that I lived in my seperate room. if this is open discussion point then I should told you clearly I mistrubate normally in early morning and in bathroom(cheap words). and early morning is that time when I have to go bathroom and take a bath(Ghusal) for prayer. and about marrige! you know our societies and our culture there is no option for marrige... elas! |
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Sep 2009, 2:33pm |
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New thread or post Ap new thread kar lain kunke yahan apko tu shaid kuch na kahen k ap new membr han modratr ne mujhko baher phaink dena ha ... Searcher listen, i mean read, ye jo apne kaha ha na u do always early morng ye apke habit bun chuke ha ye need nahe ha blv me on ths for a moment, iss ke leye will power improve karain , ap aj soch lain aur kal mat karain chahey jitna bhe mushkil ho , sara din apko itna acha feel hoga k maine aj apne ap ko control keya , aik din subha bath na lain aur kisi open area jaisey baher ja kar wudu karain ya dosri option ha k jb bath etc laitey han uss time par zara morng walk kar k ayen baad mai wo tym guzar jaye tu kisi aur bath mai jayen usual mai nahe aur wudu etc karain , ap baqe sub kar rahey han namaz etc thori will improv karain Allah se duwa karain , routine change karain, agar dobara karain tu ye na sochan k mai nai chor sakta |
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myrizvi |
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| Posted on:27th Mar 2012, 4:49am |
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masterbation yeh thread on logouN k liyeh hai, jo abhi tak iss baray maiN confusion ka shikaar haiN k iss unnatural act ka koi nuqasan hai bhi yaa nahi
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pious_soul |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Aug 2012, 3:52am |
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 thnx dear...
Mein b apne side se aik information share karna chahta hu. Ppl use to say k wife ke sath intercourse karne Se b to semen release hota. so musturbation is also safe. bt its wrong. aik bar musturbation karna 9 girls ke sath zina karne jitna power waste karta hai men ka. So now u can conclude a result for urself. |
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 49 Post: 3414 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Aug 2012, 3:58am |
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Pious Bhai har cheez mai difference hoti hai. Shadi ke baad larki intercourse karna sunnat tareeqa hai or shadi se pehle larki se intercourse karna zinna hota hai. Iss tarah ye bi hai. |
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 49 Post: 3414 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Aug 2012, 3:59am |
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Pious Bhai har cheez mai difference hoti hai. Shadi ke baad larki intercourse karna sunnat tareeqa hai or shadi se pehle larki se intercourse karna zinna hota hai. Iss tarah ye bi hai. |
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