sunhrijee

AOA,Hope you are fine.Ma pehaly he buhat uosat ho or ap k rply par kar or b ho gya.ap females hamesha apnay faiyday ki bat kue karti hein????????ap ko myri puri post may sirf jahaiz ki bat hi mili  bus baqi jo myri wife may buriiyia ha ap nay us pa khuch farman pasand nahi kiya kue??????us k jhot apnay shoar ki batein myray chotay bahai say or us k jhot.

2ndly sunhri jee jhaiz hum logo ko keh bi day k hum nahi chaey tha per wo bar khud hamaray ghjar phone kar k kue  kehtay hein k hum nay  aj,kal may bhejna ha jabk is bat ko 40 days ho gay hein.hum lalachi kha say howay saman larki nay khud use karna ha na k myray bahio or sister nay hud karti hein ap bi.ALLAH ka suksr ha her cheez ha myray room may ab tv say lay kar almari tak apni.or na he myri mama nay koi ya hum say kisi nay un ko tana diya ha.ap sirf itna batein shadi k klitany din pehlay ya bad may jahaiz bheja jata ha?????kahir ap agar myri post may baqi chezzo per khush kehna chahy to mujhay khushi ho gi.

3rdly,

form k baqi members insaf karay k kiya sunheri jee theak keh rahi hein ya myri soch galat ha????????

sunehri jee muaf karana agar khuch bura lga ho to

GOD bless you take care

dear ali

suave

AOA,KAisay ho yar???plz help me wo ya k jaisay ma nay pehlay bi btaya ha sunday walay din ma apni wife ko susral     chor k aya tha then mujahy gussha itna tha k na ma nay koi phone kiya na milnay gya 1 bar us k phone aya k dinner pa ayo ma nay phone attend nahi kiya or sister say kha k kho ma so raha ho.2nd jab us nay call ki to kha ap k ghar walo nay saman (Jahaiz) laynay say  inkar kar diya ha or myray mama papa ko ghar bulya ha.so i sd its not my matter.us k bad na us ki call ayi  na he ma nay suday say he us ko call ki jab uska 2nd fona aya to ma nay pocha ap nay myra hal kue nahi pocha to kehnay lagi ap nay kon sa mujay cell diya howa ha jo ma hall pocho halak un k ghar PTCL ha wha say b to kar sakti thi kahir.

2ndly, ya k pehaly 3 din to mujhay myri wife bilkul yad nahi ayi per wo lakh buri sahi per rat ma nay usay buhat miss kiya or rat sari nahi soya ma kya karo ap sub batein wo kiya soch rahi ho gi??????

3rdly,larki shadi k bad kitany din apnay ghar rehnay jati ha?????ma nay usay bhejtay waqat kha tha jitnay din marzi rehna as you like.bcz i love her LOt.

plz sub reply karay shaid ap k 1 reply myri zindgi barbad honay say bacha day.

suave

AOA,KAisay ho yar???plz help me wo ya k jaisay ma nay pehlay bi btaya ha sunday walay din ma apni wife ko susral     chor k aya tha then mujahy gussha itna tha k na ma nay koi phone kiya na milnay gya 1 bar us k phone aya k dinner pa ayo ma nay phone attend nahi kiya or sister say kha k kho ma so raha ho.2nd jab us nay call ki to kha ap k ghar walo nay saman (Jahaiz) laynay say  inkar kar diya ha or myray mama papa ko ghar bulya ha.so i sd its not my matter.us k bad na us ki call ayi  na he ma nay suday say he us ko call ki jab uska 2nd fona aya to ma nay pocha ap nay myra hal kue nahi pocha to kehnay lagi ap nay kon sa mujay cell diya howa ha jo ma hall pocho halak un k ghar PTCL ha wha say b to kar sakti thi kahir.

2ndly, ya k pehaly 3 din to mujhay myri wife bilkul yad nahi ayi per wo lakh buri sahi per rat ma nay usay buhat miss kiya or rat sari nahi soya ma kya karo ap sub batein wo kiya soch rahi ho gi??????

3rdly,larki shadi k bad kitany din apnay ghar rehnay jati ha?????ma nay usay bhejtay waqat kha tha jitnay din marzi rehna as you like.bcz i love her LOt.

plz sub reply karay shaid ap k 1 reply myri zindgi barbad honay say bacha day.

ali

jub aap ko malom tha ka us ke walda clever women hai toa phir woai es rishta per maan kisai ge ... aap ki 1st meeting larki sai kaha hoe thi.

mai hiraan hon ka log agar jahiz na be daye toa kam az kam bedroom ka saman shadi sai pehle he bhaijte hai ... kyon ka larki na zameen per ne sona hota.

behter hai ka aap biwi ko samjhawo miya biwi ki her baat kisi sai share kerne sai relation mai crack atya hai. wesai toa aap ki biwi kisi ulti khopre ki lag rahe hai jisia koi aqual ne ka miya biwi ka relation ko kis tarah manage kerna hai aur shadi ker ka baith ge hai. usaye kahna shaid fazol he ho ... what about ur father in law? If he is a nice person then talk with him

ur wife look like mama's girl

talaq ALLAH ka nazdik sub sai na pasandeda amal hai lakin haram ne. Biwi ko aram sai samajhwo aur agar us ki ammi ache ni toa baap sai baat kerwo. Log toa daughters ka ghar basane ka laye jahiz mai her woai cheez dayite hai ka jis sai baithi sokhi ho jaye ... khawa woai usaye umar bhar use be na keraye.

aap ka parents na jahiz layine sai inkar kyon kia ..

mera khial hai ka aik bar gossip ker laye jaye aur larki ka kisi aqual mand relative jisai father ko daal lia jaye aur usaye ghar laye unha cahaye ... aur samajhwo kuch days do agar ne mante toa usaye batawo ka sakhte be ker sakta hon agar phir be ne mante toa jazbat mai unhe sai pehle usaye inform ker do ka sepreation be ho sakte hai.

by the way us ki age kia hai? looking mama's girl

brother ali

aliraza

dear brother

aap ki saari baat main samaj chuka hoon, bilkul isi tarha ka case mere aankhon k saamne se guzar raha hai, aur mere andaze k mutabiq 4, ya 5 saal baad un k halaat qadre behter ho rahe hain. ab main jo aap ko batane ja raha hoon wo ghour se parho aur us ko bakhoobi samjo.

aap ki baaton se lagta hai k aap k susral walon ne shaadi k name par ek business kia hai, agar aap susral walon main se kisi ko b samjane ki koshish karoge wo fazool hoga. jahaiz aam tour par rukhsati se pehle bheja jata hai, aur ab jab k aap k parents ne inkar kia hai jahaiz lene se to suitalbe yahi tha k wo in alfaz main izhar karte,"jahaiz ko aap ki beti ne use karna hai, ham ne nahi, chahe jahaiz bhejo ya na bhejo es se hame koi lena dena nahi hai" mera matlab ye hai k saaf inkar nahi karna chahie tha, aur agar wo jahaiz na b bheje to us k lie un ko force b nahi kia ja sakta, ye to sirf parents ka beti k lie pyar hota hai, beti ka haq nahi hota.

ab sawal ye paida hota hai k ab kia kare?

to es ka solution ye hai, k aap kisi b tarha apni wife ko aitemad main lelo. us ko ye baat samjao k agar aise halaat rahe to donon ki zindagian barbaad ho sakti hai

us ko apne parents se jitna chahe door rakho, balke agar ho sake to apne family se b door rakho, kuch es tarha ka mahol paida karo jis main sirf wo aur tum ho, aur us ko agar pareshani hoti ho to us ko door karne k lie wo aap k elawa kisi ki b madad na le sake, aisi mahol main us ki jo ghalat fehmi hai wo door ho sakti hai, aur aap k susral wale kia chahte hain?, un ki b asliat saamne aa sakti hai. aur apni wife ko ye b ahsaas dilao k agar wo chahti hai k aap log khushi se aane wali zindagi guzare to unhe sab kuch chor kar aap ki family k saath rehna hoga q k shadi k baad un ka ghar susral hi hota hai. aur agar apni kartooton se baaz nahi aogi to aagey alaihidagi b ho sakti hai.

aur jahan tak main ne note kia hai ye baat ab pyar se samjane se rahi hai, aap ko sakhti karni paregi, lekin khayal rakhna k aisa karne main aap k parents invovle na ho, ye maamla sirf apne aur apni wife tak mehdood rakho.

Hello Maria SIS

AOA,Hope you are fine and doing well.yes she is mama's baby.hamri arrange marriage thi but khuch problem ayi hamri magni k bad to ma or wo mobile per diract bat karni shuru ho gay.us k ghar pata tha but myray ghar nahi.or shaid muri zindgi ki sub say bari galti yahi thi ma apnay parrnets ko cheat kar gya or direct ho gya.maria sis uno nay just bed or side table behja tha sahdi say 2 din pelhay then nothing.hum milay juice cornor may thy engagment k 5 month bad bus snaps may dailka tha. father in law ki nahi chalti sub khuch uski mother ha.maria abi to wo apnay ghar ha sunday say or wapis any ka nam he nahi lay rahi shadi k bad 1st time ghar gayi ha bus us k 2 phone aya jaisa ma nay apni last post may batay ha,kab tak w8 karo????????age us ki 24year ha.ma b 24 k hoon.

Suave:-uk mama papa ko bulaya tha myri mama nay tuesday ko but still uno nay na koi hamaray ghar phone kiya ha na milnay aya hein khuch samjh nahi a rha ya sub kiya ho rha ha,na he sunday say ma nay koi phone kiya ha bus us ki 1 call attend ki or us nay muj say myri mama ki compalin ki k wo jhaiz ab 40 din bad lynay say inkar kar rahy hein.ma nay kah its not my matter.or phone bund kar diya.soch rha ho aj sham un k ghar jao or sub batein is say or is ki mama papa say karo jo b problems hen. ya w8 karo sunday tak shaid is k mama papa hamaray ghar ayay bcz myri mama nay bulya howa ha.

sunny

aliraza

dear

jab wo sunday ko aane wale hain aap k ghar, to aap wait kar sakte hian, lekin aap apni mother ko convince karoge k wo aisi koi baat na kare jo Islamic point of view se hat kar ho. ab jab aap k susral wale aaienge to us ka nateeja kia hoga?

• pehle to jitni ghalat fehmian ho gaie hain donon khandaano k darmian (chahe initial ghalti kisi ki b ho) to us par kaafi behes hogi, jo k bekar hai.
• donon taraf se kuch demands hongi, k agar aisa howa to baat aagey barhegi warna nahi hogi. (ye b fazool behes hai mere khayal se)
• susraal wale es baat ko issue banayenge k 40 days k baad jahaiz lene se inkaar q kar dia gaia? aur esi point ko le kar wo apna case mazboot karne ki koshish karenge.
• aap ki mobile wali promise ko yaad dila kar kahenge k ab tak aap ne un ko mobile q nahi di hai
• aap, aur aap ki family ki taraf se b ye questions ho sakte hain k aap ki bivi apne deever se aap ki baatien q share karti hai waghaira waghaira,

aisi bohot si baatien ho sakti hain, aur jahan tak mera tajruba hai aisa hi hoga, jis se koie nateeja nahi niklega

Solution: es ka solution ye hai k ye sab kuch chor kar aap log wahi kare jo Allah aur us ka Rasool chahta hai, pir aap donon ki taraf se kisi ko b aitraz nahi hoga, aur ab tak jo too, too aur main, mian hoie hai us ko bhool jaie,

Jahaiz koi bari problem nahi hai, aap apne susral walon se kahie k agar aap apni beti ko kuch dena chahe to khushi k saath de sakte hain, warna hame koi zaroorat nahi.

jahan tak mobile ka taluq hai to agar ghar main alternate communication ka zariea hai to mobile ki koie zaroorat nahi hai, jo b zaroori baat ho wo mobile k baghair alternate way main b ho sakti hai, agar wo ye kahe k aap ki bv ki parents se personal batien ho sakti hain, to ye yaad rakhein k wo apne parents k saath aisa kuch b share nahi kar sakti jo aap se b ziada personal ho. aur aap ki wife k mother jaise parents se to bilkul b nahi karna chahie.

aap ye b note kar le k aap ki mother b kuch ulti seedhi baat na kare, aisa na ho k lene k dene par jaie.

Note: aap k susral aur aap ki family k darmian daraja bala batien hone ka imkan hai, aur ye likh le k un se koi b nateeja nahi niklega.

koi baap daughter ka ghar ne toraye ga

in the age of 24 she is mama's girl just due to her mother. mai na esa cases dekhe hai ka jin mai mother he sub hote hai aur baap ka koi role ne ... magar jaha baat atye hai daughter ka ghar ko tootne sai bachane ke toa i am sure ka koi baap ne cahaye ga ka shadi ka kuch months baad he daughter ka ghar tabah ho jaye ... so mera toa khial hai ka apni biwi ko pehle kahwo ka wapis aaye as soon as possible .. agar ne mante toa us ka father sai baat kerwo ka es ka ya attitude hai behter hai ka aap esai samajhwo

larki ki maa ko dalwo he maat apne father in law sai baat kerwo aur koshish kerna ka talaq ka word na he aaye.

so ya arrange marriage hai . then love.

ali

ali raza balke aap esa kerwo ka usaye kahwo mai tumhe sunday ko layine awo ga .. dekhwo kia kahte hai lakin ya maat show kerna ka aap us ka bagir mar rahaye ho werna us ki maa aur hawa be daye sakte hai.

tv mai aksar dekhate hai ka kis tarah maa na beti ka ghar ko 5 stars laga de es kisam ke harkat sai lakin phir be larkia blind ke blind he hai

aliraza

main ne Solution main jo batein likhi hain, aap ki problem ka soltion enhi baaton main hai.

agar es k bawajood aap k susral wale demand par demand karte chale jate rahe, to pir unhe saaf saaf keh dejie, k ab hamari itni taqat nahi k aap ki saari demands poori kar sake, es lie apni beti ko le jaie aur jab hamari istita'at hoie to ham us ko wapis le aaienge, aur agar istita'at na hoie to majbooran alaihdagi ikhtiar karne paregi,

pir aap apni khushi se doosri shadi kar sakte hain,

lekin ye baat sirf un ko ahsaas dilane k lie kar dena k wo ghalat kar rahe hain, q k Talaq ek bohot hi kamzor qadam hai, kosish karo k en baton ki zaroorat hi mehsoos na ho jaie

maria

dear

ek case ab b mere aankhon k saamne guzar rahi hai, jis main leki k mother se ziada larki ka father apni beti ki zingagi barbaad karne par tula howa hai.

dear!, es dunia main har tarha k log rehte hain, lekin aap ne jinhe dekha hai aap sirf us ki baat kar sakte hain auron k mutaliq aap yaqeen nahi karegi

ali k case main ya to larki ka father b es qism k halat paida karta hai, ya us ka apni wife k saamne chalti hi nahi.

ALI

mairy khayal sy Maria_z is right,,ap jaky apni wife ko lyana or samja dena  or ager wo nahi samjti hai tu phir ap ko apni father in law sy baat karny cahye ,

SUNNY & MARIA

Dear Ali

SUNNY & MARIA ne aap ko in haalat main bilkul thik mshwara dia hai.ap sabar se kam lain aur aap dobara kiun galti karne jarahe hain jab k aap khud keh rahe hain k ghar waloo ko btaey bageer phone pr baat karna aap ki bhool thi to phir jub aap k ghar walee keh rahe hain to un ko aik martaba bat kar ne din mere apne khyaal main agar aap sunday apne ghar waloon k baat krne se pehley khud koi qadaam uthainge to yeh aap ki galti hogi.

suave bhai

Ma aysi galti ab nahi karo ga.bus apnay dil ki bat sahre ki.baqi ap sub ka buhat sukriya ab ma ghar ja rha hoo myray liya dua karna ap sub.kal subha ma 11 bjay ayo ga then agar koi new update hoyi to zaror share karo ga.Take care all of you thank you very very much all of you for supporting may throughout the day or myray sath rhay myray gham may sharik howay specilly bobby,maria,and you,

Allah HAfiz

ali

ali apne parents sai pouchwo ka kia baat kerne hai unhe larki ka parents sai aur kub keraye gaye .. kitne din .. behter hai ka sunday tak ya sub solution ker lo .. deer be ache ni hoti .. jo kaam kerna he hai toa jaldi ker lo

behter hai usaye ghar la ker samajhiya jaye ka abh ya ne kerna, aur usaye time be do change hone mai. (bore adat asane sai ne jati)