re: BeautyStar

reDr. khan

what yours opinion i think u people have experience about what women wants big penis small

   Plz read mr. najam's que again.  He is not even intending to ASK this ques to women.  He is asking males of the forum that what is their experience about WHAT WOMEN WANT

And instead of giving him answer or just ignoring his way of asking, since he is quite young and could be forgiven just for that, u are telling him that do not ask this que to the females.  U simply had not understand his que so that is that.

``````If u have some problem, ask it only. Don't ask people esp. women to give their comments on the size of penis as it is against our religious and social customs, also its very very unethical to ask such questions from females``````````

I have no doubt that u are a very wise and sensible doctor, since u always answer the que to the point and very wisely and with all the up-to-date knoweldge, really no doubt about it.    However, u either read this que, while u were not very attentive, or u simply could not understand his intentions. 

Anyway, this concern of ppl about yr posts also shows that how keenly we read them and since with yr wise and nice image we expect only  the most appropriate and best answer from u.  So if u slightly go out of way ppl start to get wooried about it just because no one can see yr answers less than perfect. 

So plz, keep it up and if u felt bad with my words, I appologise for that.

thank you

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Khan_80

My sincere appology for you if I hurt you...

I was joking only..sorry again

To: Respected Dr.Khan-80

As'salam - O - Aluikum ,

Respected Doctor , May ALLAH bless you and keep you hale and hearty ... I have read all the paragraphs of your post , if you are talking about ethicals and morals values then why you people put these pop-ups advertisement which goes against your reply.......

• Breast Enhancement
• Penis Enlargement

Is this ethical ? Will these things create a good image in the mind of the visistors and members .... ?
You always tell people that Penis Sinze does not matter ... Breast Size will increase ultimately after marriage ... Then why these ads or pop-up are there ??? Thats one of the point I already raised but Moderator denied to reply on it and said that we have to committment from our members about our Business Strategy and Planning , unfortunately that post have been deleted or bug out .... I will tell you doctor this will distract the member and visitors and create a negative impact on their minds ..... You all should look into the matters .

• Miss Pakistan (wearing just undergraments
• Miss Pakistan Bikini
• 13 Types of Girls should be avoided

What would you say about these things being a moderator ??? Is it something ethical ? having moral values ??? Nope , I don't think so !!!

People come here all oevr the world wither to seek knowledge or to give knowledge , and they use their PC at their homes , what would the kith & kin think about these sites after seeing someone with those ads ... ?

Being a Student of Accoutnacy , I know this fact that you need money to run this websites , you  have to cover all the functions of Costs to run this site , but why these ads? You can take advertisement from different industries of Condoms, Sex-Jells, Undergrament, Hair-Removing Creams ….. I assure one of them will definitely help you either or arrange funds for you .

This really create bad impact on the mind of the visitors , This site not only provide Sex-Education but also representing all of you on the Internet (All over the world) … People just close it after seeing these types of pop-up windows , etc. They think that this website is fake and just for earning money (e.g Visit per pay)… and nothing else.. Although I belive that this is the only platform in Pakistan where Sex-Education as well issues related to it can be discussed openly without any hesitation even Females are coming here either to seek or to give information and knowledge.

I will personally recommend you please reuest you Domain Host to delete such type of ads and put the ads of Real things which I have already mentioned above … It is not mentioned in any books of business strategy that you decrease your quality and increase you revenue subject to some extraordinary exceptional case.

I have many suggestion for this site , which I will discuss on right time , and hope this thinsg will improve tha quality of this website and there would be no hesitation in people’s mind to be member of this site.

Now , Regarding you moderatorship , personally today I came to know that … If you are a moderator too then please reply with the ID of Moderator because your this ID represents a Doctor not a Moderator and your role is totally become ambigious, which would again create negative image in people’s mind. I am amazed that despite knowing the clashes b/w Henry Fayol and Henry Mintberg Theories about Specialization and Multi-Skilling , you are mixing up it too … I think you have studied it in your MBA course … what about Role-Conflicts ? What about the Interest Conflicts ? What about the Team Identity and Individual Identity in Team’s Work …. Haven’t you read these things in your MBA course ….. Or it is just become impracticable on this site ???

Since literacy rate in pakistan is very low , so people don’t know even the appropriate way of asking questions , so ALLAH has gifted you knowledge then its your duty to spread it. The Question was not rubbish or foolish , it’s a valid question but the was he asked was slightly unappropriate and I agreed with it.

You remember that post of your student life ?? That girl incidence … Did you operate her or investiage her ? Obviously you and your team operated her because your duty is to operate not to investigate …. So, the same concept is applicable but scenario is different that is Mr.Najam is your patient and you have to treat him not to investigate him … Am I right doctor ?

Well , My post is becoming too much lengthy sorry for that. I hope you people won’t mind my this post and take it in a positive aspect , Thanks.

In my eyes , you are still the best member and doctor in this FORUM , you rating is number one doctor in the eyes of other members. You are an ideal for many people around here , if you react in that way then what about the remaining one because people get inspired by you.

If any of my single word hurt you and your team then I sincerely apologise for it because I don’t wanna hurt your people just wanna improve the quality of this FORUM , that’s it !

Take care ,

ALLAH Hafiz

sitaray

I am amazed that despite knowing the clashes b/w Henry Fayol and Henry Mintberg Theories about Specialization and Multi-Skilling , you are mixing up it too … I think you have studied it in your MBA course … what about Role-Conflicts ? What about the Interest Conflicts ? What about the Team Identity and Individual Identity in Team’s Work …. Haven’t you read these things in your MBA course

I am really surprised to find out that in pak they also teach such things in colleges.  Very good.  However I really wish they also add the sociology in regular B.A courses.  This will be really beneficial to know about the facts of society.

Thanks Phoppo Jaan :D

oyee kakay patakay

Waisey Pakistani Student itney bhi burey nahi hotey jitna app ne samajh rakha hai ABC se zayadah aatah hai unhain .. kiya samjhein

tu aap ka kia hayal hay main MARS say perh ker aai thi???phir paindu kahoun gi tu patta chalay ga janab ko.  Sherm kero batijay aik tu itni moti moti ankhain hay aap ki aur phir main nay kam say kam 50 dafa bataya hay kay main 8 saal pahlay US main aai thi.  Iss ka matlab yah banta hay kay jab main aai thi tu 23.1/2 saal ki thi.  Ab ager aap nay mairi age main say ratoun ko nikal dia hay tu aur baat hay.  werna main ab 31 saal ki hoon.  ratoun ko nikal ker waisay aap kay hisab say 15, 1/2 ki banti hoon.  chalo yah bhi acha hay, ainda main aap ko phoopa kaha lia keroun gi.   heheheeee

Kakay Pataky .... sounds good but not better than BeautyStar (lol)

"always think +"

i really impressed by mnadeen if u availabe at this site people will never become dissapointed i also advice to ather members be positive like mnadeem i m saying again that i was asking question from married men not from married womens if u look my topic i started it in married men category.
another thing i want to mention here is that mr khan was  saying that ask question directly i had tried it before but they r not taking any more question there if u have some way that i can ask question directly then tell me must.
another member was saying that i can't answer to mr najam because he is too young ,if u people will not guide any body how the awearness will come ?
in the last i m thankful to all members and especially mnadeem,pinky who take my question positive and i m terminating here with the saying
"be positive in your life if u want to progress"

Najam Mohammad

khan80

Return to Sender, step by step,

First thing First:

Needless to say that you have full rights to express your own personal thoughts here since it is an open forum, this was the point, I did my best to put in your head, and I am success full (Alhamdolillah).

In reply to para 2 of your post:

My point …………,  directly???

Your point is not yet clear that, for a member how short, brief, personal, and direct could be? Najam’s question was in two lines only. How did you sense that he is starting a poll or survey sort of questioning, do you wants that any questioner should ask to any individuals by name only?

Although any question automatically turned in to a kind of poll or survey by its importance or relation to current issues.

Though it make no sense that peoples may have interest in the size of penis of an unseen man like me. But if it suppose to be, then I am expert to answer the curious peoples very satisfactorily, keeping there intention of question and gender in my head, this is all my education taught me.

Directly asking the size of breast of a woman from our male member is not only embarrassing, even indirectly no body can be allowed for such personal question. But what is the relation of your given example with Najams question. He did not ask like this.

In reply to para 3 of your post:

The sender's question ,……., forum???

Do you think that this kind of question should be ask to unmarried but experienced peoples?

I assure you that you  never surprised, If you read my post with open eyes , my wording were “  So, on this forum women can talk regarding the actual feeling, experience and natural desire not as an individual woman test or prefab flavor but as collective opinion of her female social circle. “

Being a wife of most updated person of this country in regard of sex, no lady would have desire to express her thoughts on such forum. But for your satisfaction, I assume the situation of your imaginary example; I don’t think that an individual sex experience will give any pleasure or benefit to an individual listener. If you want to check my ego by this imaginary example, then I assure you that if my wife asked me to express her feeling on such forum then I will never resist her.

In reply to para 4 of your post:

ur post also ,…. , medically

I did not blame any doctor of this forum about sex teaching, I point only to you individually. And I have no objection on your openness, I also agreed that there is no social or religious issue, but it was your hypocrisy that you pretend your-self as religious scholar and social worker saying to Najam “  ….as it is against our religious and social customs… “. How can you say that it is against religious and social customs, did you ever read your Islamic scholar’s books of FATAWAS for example “ Fatawa-e-Almageeri” this book is full of this kind of self made questions for the explanation of religion in regard of sex.

 In reply to para 5 of your post:

And plz reply , ……. , isn't it???

Your suggestive question “ If a patient come to a doctor and ask that what is the penis size that satisfies a woman, tell me about individual experiences and opinions? “  If the doctor has enough sense, or his education has a little concern with psycho-sex therapy, then he/she should immediately understand that what is the problem with the patient. Every single word of this question is telling about the problem of the patient, and this is the basic education of a psycho-sex therapist to sense the actual problem of the patient, because in psycho trauma mostly patient do not know about their actual problem.

And what do you think that, patient should ask about doctor’s personal experience of sex instead of general people? Do such things ever happen in the medical field that a patient came to a doctor after paying the heavy amount of medical fee only listing the hot stories from a doctor? Sensing the patient problem doctor should send the patient to any psychiatrist or explain him briefly about the subject with good example of general peoples, as in the whole psychology patients are treated.

In reply to para 6 and 9 of your post:

(u have mentioned …. , this forum.) -&-  (Its not the ……, here also)

Once I asked to Mr. beautyStar about the different prefixes of IDs for example moderator, expert, members like that but since I heard from you that, you are the moderator, now, I  have no desire to know about moderator, but I would dare to ask you that, where you had been when Mr. beautyStar started a topic as SEX EDUCATION IN PAKISTAN - the post=5148 , and a lady pretender explain a very lavish SUHHAG RAAT story, the whole forum started to yelling except me, because I know the meaning of an open forum very clearly. Didn’t you sense that latter SUHHAG RAAT story will turned this forum in the porn literature website? This is not the only example, I have read to-many posts like this, isn’t it show the personal like and dis-like of the moderator for any post or member to block or deletion.

In reply to para 7 of your post:

im sorry ….., to urself.

Now you are blaming me that, I replied a post concerning to married peoples. Please go back and read the whole thread of that post, and show me that where did I dare to reply Najam since it was only for married people? But after reading his second post of his clarification and excuse, I wrote to you only. And after seeing the response of all educated members of this forum I just assure and advice to him that, I am already writing on this issue for a separate post and even I mentioned the posts topic number as well.

And as married member you have 100% right to answer the post but not insult the questioner.

 In reply to para 8 of your post:

 If u attack …….., ur mis-conceptions

The word “attack” is very offensive in reply to a correctional address, but anyway, I assure you that I have courage to face the realities that’s why I am on this forum.

If you are married, female, mbbs docs, then what should I do? I don’t understand your this explanation.

When I got problem with you, then I wrote that post, what is the other way to express my dis-agreeness?

It was not the attack on your personality, this is writing fashion to any pretender or false claimer, addressing him with his false and self impose characteristic as subject!

I have studied your approximately all posts and found no reflection of your age, sex, education and profession. With the help of internet a 10 years old child of either sex from my family can answer more appropriately then you, on this forum.

In reply to para 10 of your post:

Im really surprised…….

If you agree that every person has his/her own thinking then why are you dis-appointed and depressing?

Instead of surprising on the comments of mature and educated members, you should seriously think about your way of addressing to the members. Take some time for understanding the mature member’s opinion about you. Some members asked you for excuse not because of you are right, but expression of your disappointment and depresses.

Note:

Pinky and Beautystar

Dear beautyStar+Pinky

Asalam wa Alikom

beautyStar:

My dear brother I was not expecting such intelligent reply from you, especially the point you raise is very in time, about bewildering banners on this web site. I had been thinking about this matter when initially I join this forum but, I thought that it would be interference to point out that eyesoring banners. Anyway,

Once again I want to say to the whole forum about you that:

Wisdom has no relation with age, education, race, gender, country!

Thank you for a very positive contribution and reply!!!!!

Pinky:

Thank you very much for your reaction and response on my post. Being a member of this forum I am proud on you!

I have a surprise for you about Pakistani education syllabus of graduation level. That is, you may not believe that most of the books of general education and all of the books for technical education, teaching in Pakistani colleges and universities are from the most advance and modern country’s authors.

Do you know why? Because no Pakistani writers are available for that subjects.

Anyway once again thanks for your participation and concern.

Take care, both of you.

Nadeem

Mr.nadeem (neem hakeem)

tum un logon mai se ho jo jis thaali mai khate hain us mai hi cheed karte hain. jis country ne tum ko izzat, panah, zindagi aur rozgaar diya hai, us ki hi tazheek karte ho. shayad tum ko kabhi internet par beth kar hero banne se fursat hi nahi mili ke tum dekh sako ke Pakistan mai kitni maloomati aur world-standard ki books publish ho rahi hain. Har topic par pakistani writers ki books available hain, zara apni aankhon se western soch aur taqleed ki patti hata kar dekho to tum ko apne country ka talent nazar aaye.

Beautystar: tumhari to tareef ho gai, ab to tum neem hakeem ke khilaaf kabhi kuch nahi bol sakte b/c apni tareef to har kisi ko achi lagti hai(i think its a rishwat from neem hakeem).

Pinky: mera khyal hai ke aap ek sensible khatoon ho but aap ke khayalaat parh kar mujhe waqai bohot afsos howa. magar ab to aap ko bhi rishwat mil gai, so 2 votes in neem hakeem's account :(

neem hakeem: agar tum es country se etne hi frustrated ho (kabhi doctors se to kabhi educationists se,to kabhi writers se) to kahin migrate kiyu nahi karte ho? kitna bara ehsaan hoga tumhara Ham Pakistaniyon par.

khoobsoorat

    Aap ko sab say pahlay tu main yah kahoun gi kay naam khoobsoorat rakha hay tu LANGUAGE bhi zera khoobsoorti say istimaal kerna seekhlo. 

   Doosra yah kay aap ko sab say pahlay apni ignorance per afsoas kerna chahyay kay aap ko jis baat ka idea bhi nahi hay aap uss per baith ker lecture day rahi hain.  Mr. Mnadeem jin books ka ziker ker rahay hain wo aaam chapnay walay novel aur afsanay nahi hain.  Aap kay zehen main books ki baat kertay houay shayad Razia butt, say la ker Bano Qudsia aur Shafeequremaan say lay ker Naseem Hijazi aur iss type kay doosray writers hain jo Urdu Literature ki books lihtay hain, aur bohat achay pak writer hain.

   Aaap ko ager English main likhi hoi posts ki theek tara say samaj nahi aati tu plz un per apni la-ilmi ka thappa laga ker sab ko batanay ki koi zaroorat nahi hay.  ager pichli posts ko perhain tu main BeautyStar say SOCIOLOGY aur ECONOMICS kay topics per baat ker rahi hoon, yah doosri baat hay kay sociology kia hay aap ko patta bhi nahi ho ga. 

   Main pak say hi Masters ker kay aai thi yahan iss liay achi tara janti hoon kay wahan kia perhaya jata hay.  Main nay Bstar say wo sab iss liay kaha hay kay Pak main Aaam colleges main aisay subjects nahi perhay jatay aur sir haas kism kay colleges main hi hotay hain.  Jab kay yahan jab main nay college dobara say shuru kia tu phir mujay patta chala kay yahan kia kia perhatay hain jis ki pak main kitni zaroorat hay aur hamaray farsihtoun ko bhi inn sab ka pata nahi hay.

    MNadeem nay inn hi kitaboun ka ziker kia hay.  Psychology aur Sociology aur issi tara kay bay-shumaar subjects hain jin ki Alif - Bay bhi hamain nahi aati, aur wo jo Pak main perhaya jata hay sab aisi European aur American books ki translatiions hoti hain.

    App nay ager college attend kia ho kabhi tu aap nay daikha ho ga kay zida ter aisay subjects ki history aur FOUNDERS ki list main koi Pak naam nahi hota. 

Mnadeem

Thankyou for yr comments.  I guess some ppl including Beautystar have some wrong explanation about my qualification and I need to clarify that.  The thing is I am kind of confuse about writing that First I passed my M.As and the I started my F.A and B.a Again. hahhahaha

anayway, let me write it here. 

Ms.c Psychology(Punjab Uni)

M.A English(Pun Uni)

Associates in Arts Majoring in Psychology (HCCS)

Transferd and Continue the last two years (U of H)

    I never ever write here that I have done M.A english also. Why? because when I started college here, the very first day in English language class, my teacher pointed out more than 30 mistakes in my essay.  And she continued with that in the whole semester.  She was M.A. English also but the real one.hahahahahaa 

    The thing is that in Pak we only need 33% to pass the subject, however here in US we need minimum 70% for bachelors degree and minimum 80% for Masters degree.  so there u go.  Anyway,

Mnadeem,

  Thank u for yr time and I already know that we are not so advanced in such subjects.  I have never used just books in my life, I always had to prepare my own notes to remember everything.  SO I used to use other books also for that purpose, and I never ever found a single book written by our Paki authors on certain subjects.  There were always translated books there.  Still, one of my friend, a reknowned Psychologists in Pak, asked me to translate a spesific book for him and I even started that, but I just can not do that with all this busy life. 

Mnadeem + Pinky7861 + Khoobsurat

My Small Penis: Bivi Kia Kahe Gi?

Penis ki normal lamabai aur motai kia hai?:
aurat ki satisfaaction ka taluq penis ki lambai aur motai se nahi. kio keh aurat ko josh dilane wali nasai (nerve), andam-e-nahani (vagina) ke outr 1/3 area mai hoti hai. lehaza agar aik aadmi ka penis 1-3 inch ka hoga tab bhi woh vagina ke is sensitive area ko stimulate kar ke josh dila sakta hai.

isi tarah aurat ka vagina ka hole () jaisa nahi hota jaisa ke aam log samajhte hai, balkeh is ke wall apas mai mili hoti hai (aik doosre se chapki hui) aur ll tarah hota hai. lehaza vagina ki salahiat patli se patli cheezo ko bhi firmly grip karne ki hoti hai. aap vagina ke andar kuch bhi dale; machis ki patli tili se lekar baby ke head tak, yeh har cheez ko firmly grip kar le ga. isi vagina se delivery mai poora baby nikalta hai.

agar ap baby nikalne ke doran ka vagina zahan mai rakhe tu andaza ho ga keh penis ketn bhi mota ho, is size ke vagina mai swiming hi karta rahe ga. jabkeh haqeeqat mai aisa nahi hai. penis chahe patla ho ya mota, vagina ose har hal mai firmly grip mai rakhe ga.

Lamba aur mota penis kis ka hota hai:
kisi bhi cheez ki lambai aur motai aik relative term hai. ham kisi ko lamba aur mota doosre se muqabla ke baad batate hai. shaadi ke baad bivi jab apne shohar ka penis pahlli bar dekhti hai aur mubasrat ke doran apne vagina mai pahli bar feel karti hai tu woh nahi bata sakti keh yeh penis lamba hai keh chota, patla hai keh mota.

Aurat lamab/chota aur patla/mota ka kab faisla karti hai?
apne shohar ka penis dekhne ke baad yeh batana keh yeh penis patla hai ya mota, isi tarah lamba hai ke chota; is ka faisla woh tab hi karti hai jab os ne pahle bhi koi aur penis dekha ho aur apne vagina mai kisi aur ka penis bhi feel karne ka tajarba ho.

aisa tajarba bewa, mutlaqa aur awara aurat ko hota hai. bewa aur mutlaqa aurat ko shaadi ke baad pata chal jata hai keh os ke mojooda shohar ka penis previous shohar ke muqabla mai kaisa hai. lekin koi bhi bewa aur mutlaqa aurat apne sabqa shohar ke penis ka zikir apne mojooda shohar se nahi karti.

bilkul isi tarah agar bivi awara ho aur shohar ki ghair mojoodgi mai doosre mardo ke sath mubasrat karti ho, ose bhi maloom ho jata hai keh os ke mojooda shohar ka penis os ke boy friend ke muqabla mai kaisa hai. lekin awara bivi bhi apne shohar ko nahi batati keh os ka penis os ke boy friend ke muqabla mai chota aur patla hai.

Bivi pooche tu kia kahe ge?:
aap apni bivi ko itmenan se kah de keh aap ka penis bilkul normal hai. aur tamam logo ka penis jaisa hi hai. aap apni wife se kah sakte hai keh agar tumhari knowledge mai koi aisa penis hai jo keh mere penis se lamba aur mota hai tu batao.

agar woh kisi janne wale ka name leti hai tu aap foran os se sawal kare keh tumhai kaise maloom hua. matlab yeh keh aisa kah kar woh khood museebat mai phans jai gi.

ho sakta hai keh woh yeh kahe keh os ne Blue film mai dekha hai tu aap kah sakte hai keh jis tarah woh kisi film aur tv actress ki khoobsoorti aur fashion ka muqabla nahi kar sakti  isi tarah aap bhi tv aur film actor ka muqabla nahi kar sakte. kio keh actor aur actress normal people nahi hote balke lakho mai aik hote hai.

Conclusion:

1. penis size 1-3 inch bhi, bivi ko satisfy kar sakta hai. isi tarah patla se patla penis bhi aurat ko mutmain kar sakta hai.

2. koi bhi aurat apne shohar ke penis ki lambai aur motai par etraz nahi karti aur na hi kar sakti hai. agar khuda na khasta kare tu ap ulta os se pooch sakte hai keh ose yeh farq kaise pata chala?

chameekhoo

Jaisay ooper likha hay na waisay hi ker lia tha.  Hahahhahaa.  Batijay, aap ki moti ankhoun ko moti ainak bhi chahyay ab.  Aaap ko nazer nahi ayya kay pak main 33 number lay ker bhi paas ho jatay hain.  Bas samjo issi tara ker lia tha. hahaaaa. 

waisay yah Pak kay Masters in Enlish ki beri harabi hay kay aap phir bhi english main master nahi hotay, lamha-e-fikeria hay hamaray slabus kay liay, aur perhanay walay kay liay.

2 kali zuban