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Group: Members Joined: 01st Jun, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Feb 2008, 4:05pm |
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 hmmm
try to increase the time of forplay ........ n i think there are some non co-ordination bitween u n ur huby ...... try to talk on thease prob like wht u like in sex..... how do u wanned to do ..... in which way u like ...... discuss thease things ....... and one thing u have to understand is ...... the more u give the more u get ...... most of the women of our muslim countries dont use to tell there huby that wht are there feelings ...... our womans are more sweeper then wife!..... they hasitate in all this .......and result in un satisfiction ............ i mean to say is that 1st try to satisfy ur huby,remember nuton 2nd law of motion ...... show some efforts ! best of luck !
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 96 Post: 4612 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Feb 2008, 7:03pm |
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rubi rubi
mai ap jaisi problems se bohat sal pehle guzar chuki hun,and there was some things jo (miss use)hone ki wajah se mere zehan me baith gayi thin,jiski wajah se mai enjoy nahi kar pati thi.
but ek waqt aya,jab maine ye bat realise ki,ke sari problem mere mind ki hai,
and mera khayal hai apka bhi kuch aisa hi massla hai,because u didnt feel anything,becuase ap masrtub bhi karti rahin hain,and u are exepting the same,but husband ke sath apko bohat time lage ga ke ap same enjoyment mehsoos kar sakain but u have work on it
so i can idvice u,plz try to keep ur mind free when u& ur husband are doing forplay. with you
us waqt ap kisi aur cheez ke bare me mat sochain,aur relax ho kar khud ko aur apne husband ko feel karne ki koshish karain,mai apko pehle hi bata deti hun ke isme apko bohat time lagega,islye ap plz ye na sochain ke 4-5 aisa try karne se farak na pada to ap chod dain,and shahid ap abhi apne husband se itni free ho nahi pa rahin ke ap unse keh sakain ke apko kya pasand hai aur kya nahi,lekin ap ishare se to unko bata sakti hain?hmmm...whatever, u have to do it , and try to response ur husband also,apko is me time lage ga par ahista ahista sab thik ho jayega.... and billi miaun ne jo points diye hain wo bhi ap zaroor try karain...it will help you also to be relax |
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paul conor |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Mar, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Mar 2008, 4:57pm |
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my openion i think its a physiological and psychological problem.as u did masturbation b4 marriage so u r used to it. and difference between masturbation and marital sex is that u reach orgasm very quickly in masturbation but not in marital sex.i think what u shuld do is,use sexy dress,watch romantic/sexy movies with ur husband,discuss ur husband's and urs body with him,do sex in mild light if possible,spend ur time on ur husband's body with free mind,try to get enjoyment from his sexual organs and do moderate foreplay.i hope that would help u. good luck. |
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sadiasgd |
Group: Members Joined: 08th May, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2008, 3:12am |
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not enjoying during sex i got married 6th month back...still am not enjoying sex
plz tell me how to enjoy in sex...jab intercourse kerty hain to pain bohat hoti hai..jab enter ho jata hia to pain khatam ho jati hai..is ki ek waja yeh bhi hai key main wet nahi hoti..ager wet ho bhi jaon to enjoy nahi kerti..main sex yeh soch k ker rahi hoti hon key may be is bar enjoy ker lon..per nahi kerti:(
forplay 15 sy 20 mint ka hota hai...aur mera dehan bhi sex ki taraf hota hai..per phir bhi samjh nahi ati..key kasy enjoy karon..hubby ko kehti hon key enjoy ker rahi hon..per ander sy kuch feel nahi ho raha hota..plz kuch mashwara dein |
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saeed54656 |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Nov, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2008, 4:03am |
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NO TASTE INSEX AOA....IN FORPLAY U UR HUSBAND SHOULD PLAY UR CLITOURS (CCHOLA) AND SUCK UR NIPPLE....ETC ALSO U TAKE SOME FEMALE HARMONES
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Aamir89 |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Sep, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2008, 6:52am |
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agreed with pinky Pinky you are absolutely correct. Actually rubi u r addicted of masturbation. to enjoy sex with husband u must leave this habit. this situation is very painful for ur husband. try this, first u do fore play then intercourse, after that ur husband rub ur clit to get u orgasm. i think it will work. never masturbate. this situation may ruin ur married life. |
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maham74 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Jul, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 12:17pm |
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 i am still 5 years married....no feelings for sex
hi....i was born in germany..parents r pakistani....well my problem is...my shaadi was love marriege...i married to a arab man,who also born here....we studied together in the same univercity......
everytime when he wants to sleep me...i dont want.....coz he make never forplay....just jump like a dog or animal and try to do his work.....i feel my self misused..no love no feelings no emotions.....i feel very sad.....i cried a lot after my shaadi....y the hell he is so....i told him many many times.....i need time to get intim with hi,,,,i need forplay etc etc....so now i have mashallah 2 sons....but still 5 months no sex....i hate sex with him.thats y he is very agressive to me....and he went to an other women...i was very hurtet,......
ALL MY LIFE....my parents told me sex before shaadi is haram.....so i was never intressted in those things......and then after shaadi suddenly it is allowed....this was too much for my mind....i feel always very dirty during sex.....i think i do sin...its gunnah.....i cannot be free in my mind....i never do oral sex or any other tyoes of sex....just simple 5 min sex.....he say i am a christain none....or i am fregedie....he say he needs sex...he is young and handsome....he can have anyone....so i say go and marry again....i cant sllep with u....i dont love u anymore....its a devil circle.----what can i do.---y i feel my self so bad during sex...i always cry after it.....i told him many dont touch me at start my vagina and my brust......but he dont understand....i need passion.....love,romantik....nuthing.....and he is doctor too.....
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maham74 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Jul, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 12:22pm |
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 yyyyyyy
i never mastubate or never do bad things in my life.....at start of my shaadi sex was so painfull.....but after time pain was less....but the way he do i never liked.....so plz help me
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maham74 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Jul, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 12:23pm |
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yyyyyyy
i never mastubate or never do bad things in my life.....at start of my shaadi sex was so painfull.....but after time pain was less....but the way he do i never liked.....so plz help me
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sunny007 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 4173 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 1:43pm |
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maham first of all set ur mind that sex is not a dirt act or its a sin... just wash away these thoughts.
2nd, women needs long foreplay to enjoy intercourse and get orgasm..... ask ur husband for long foreplay and convence him for this..... this is ur right to enjoy and this is ur husband's duty to make u satisfy. please read the books here and also teach them to ur husband. u will find some thing better insha Allah |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2259 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 2:44pm |
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 maham74
i feel sorry for you but same time i am laughing .... you know why.... who told you to marry an arab... well i am sorry if you dont like it... you desires are completely ok.. most womens are your type... they want all the forplay, ramance and sex... ask your husband needs sex education... and you mention he is a doctor... arabs never learn... maham if your husband does not want to read here then you are here already.. interept with married people here and read these posts about sex... actually you also need to learn some sex education ... how to get pleasure.... dont hesitate... ask and learn here... and once you know more about sex education .. then you can start first in sex with your hubby.. also you should try a position laik women on top .. this would give you some control.. and you would start liking sex.... by the way .. please start a new thread for yourself and you will get most Experts / people comments... |
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maham74 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Jul, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 5:42pm |
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i am so unhappy he is half german and half arab......
u r true he has no sence of romantik.....thats y we have so many many problems in our marriege life.....i am also thinking to divorce......coz i feel my self not happy with this person.....he is really smart,handsome and wow good looking....but his is a totally pokerface....i am so much depressed.....i have feelings.....i am a women in my best years......i look like 25......i know my value....but i am so much sincere and never cheat....and i am ALLAH WALI.....and educated too,...
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2259 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Jul 2009, 10:51pm |
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maham74 think about all the aspects before you take any step.. think ahead whats going to happen when you would be divorced or may not, what would happen to your kids.. it is going to effect almost each and every aspect of your life... i know this person might be ruined your life, jwani, happiness.. this is one big depressing part of your life.. also think of his qualities... get a paper and write down all the aspects will effect do the math... and if you think you can handle all the aspects and some body will be supporting you... then still is your decion... i will say think seriously not with heart but with mind and inshallah allah pak will help you ... also do ask again and again allah,s help and you will have the right decion... i will say you should try to teach him sex education do your best ... i think he can still learn and again ask allah help in each and every matter.. try to sqare him saying if you dont get better then we might have to seprate... stay your mom house for a month or so to push him on the edje..but dont let it break. |
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TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jul 2009, 5:49am |
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 @@@rubi
Zeb or aag se b agree karta hoon meee
lkn ho sakhta hia u r suffering from FRIGIDITY is mee women ko sex feeling nahin hoti hai is ka treatment hota hai or aik baat yeh b hoti hai k women jab khod se interest nahin leti to usko maza b nahin ahta hai feeling nahin ahti hai apki arrange marriage hai ya love marriage hai ????
arrange marriage me asa zada hota hai waseee |
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honest 83 |
Group: Members Joined: 25th May, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:26th May 2012, 2:56pm |
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dear rubi well i think this is a problem faced by many females but they are afraid to discuss with their husbands. or agar shadi ko ziyada time bhi na hoya ho to ofcourse shyness bhi hoti hai husband se discuss karne main. wase i think when u feel orgasm in masturbation then u are perfectly normal only problem is that ur husband is not giving u much time in foreplay and also afterplay... us ko khod aap se poochna chaye ke aap kis tarah comfortable feel karte hain or jub sex kar lye to bhi aap ko kuch time de ye nahi ke khod satisfy ho kar bivi ko ase he frustation main chor dey laken problem ye hai ke aap abhi apne husband se free ho kar discuss nahi kar sake gye due to shyness so i can just pray for u that ur husband starts to take care of ur sex feelings too .. all the best
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genetist |
Group: Members Joined: 11th May, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 130 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2012, 7:53am |
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rubi honest is saying right ....but i also think all this is due to masturbation...urs husband is also right...can u tell what is the size and girth of his penis....u should also say him to do sex in various styles
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genetist |
Group: Members Joined: 11th May, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 130 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2012, 7:54am |
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rubi honest is saying right ....but i also think all this is due to masturbation...urs husband is also right...can u tell what is the size and girth of his penis....u should also say him to do sex in various styles
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