 Pain During Intercourse - Pain During Coitus
What could be the possible causes of pain on wedding night intercourse and thereafter? Painful Intercourse on Wedding Night – Painful Intercourse after Wedding Night - Vaginismus
- Thick and unbreakable hymen
- Psychological pain
- Penis hitting the cervix (neck of Uterus)
- Less lubrication of vagina while intercourse
- Heavy jerking that breaking the fragile walls of vagina
- intercourse beyond unsustainable extend
- Vaginal tightness that is present during the initial days of marriage
- Infection of vagina and pelvic organs
- Internal disease
Painful Intercourse on Wedding Night – Vaginismus Solution Usually due to fear and the misconceptions about the wedding night intercourse pain, brides develop Vaginismus and in that, the vaginal walls remains collapsed and they elicit pain even if a small pin would be inserted inside them. Therefore; the girls or brides get a lot of pain while intercourse. This pain further enhances their fear and they become unable to perform intercourse. The solution for this situation is that, husband should proceed more gently. He would explain to her about the process and try to get rid of her anxiety and fear. It might take some time even days but finally the husband would be succeeded. It is better if the husband would insert his little finger in her vagina and then take it out. Then he do this things many times while foreplay and don't approach for intercourse. After doing this thing with little, then index, then index, and ring finger both for few days, he would insert his penis gently inside the vagina. Again, he doesn't push it fully and take it out after little insertion. After doing this exercise for few days, he would be successful to get full penetration of penis and then becomes able for intercourse. Patience is the key of success in this situation.
Painful Intercourse Wedding Night: Thick Unbreakable Hymen - Solution Hymen, layer present at the midway in vagina, some times remains unbreakable due to thickness. Therefore; it creates a lot of problem while intercourse and make it impossible if it is heavily thickened. Even some times it needs minor surgery and hence the passage would be opened up for intercourse. When the intercourse remains unbearable for wife and she continuously would have pain then she should be consulted with gynecologist who after examination of her may find out the root cause of her problem and if it is due to thickened un-ruptured hymen then she torn it up via minor operation.
Painful Intercourse Wedding Night – Psychological Pain – Solution Usually the brides remain frightened to have a lot of pain while intercourse as they have been wrongly educated by their friends or they know these wrong realities via unauthentic literature. Hence, they remain in distress wrongly. On wedding night and thereafter; either they don't allow their husband to perform this act or they feel unnecessarily heavy pain. This heavy psychological pain neither possess any root cause nor does it needs more struggle to be resolved. Husband would explain again in a better way to his wife in this regard. By doing appropriate foreplay and gentle intercourse he would liberate this anxiety pain easily.
Painful Intercourse On Wedding Night: Penis Hitting Cervix – solution There are two conditions in that penis could hit the cervix and hence would create painful intercourse for a woman. - Penis could hit the cervix during heavy and deep penetration.
- If penis is unusually more larger than normal
If penis is more than 6 inches long then during tight erection, deep, and forceful penetration it may hit the cervix and hence could be the cause of painful intercourse for a woman. If husband does have such a long penis then he should avoid deep penetration and initially just after marriage, every husband no matter whether they have long or normal penis should avoid heavy jerks during intercourse. Sexual positions also play key role during deep penetrations. Like during Queen's method or when the feet of wife are on the shoulder of husband during King's method, the deep penetration is achieved. If husband senses that his wife is getting pain while deep penetration then the best thing is to avoid heavy and deep jerks and such positions mentioned above.
Painful Intercourse Wedding Night – Lubrication Problem - Solution Some times less lubrication generation inside the vagina would create discomfort during intercourse. The generation of lubrication inside the vagina depends upon the activation and stimulation of higher centers in brain. A husband would also increase the vaginal lubrication by stimulating the sensitive parts of wife during foreplay. Like finger stimulation of her clitoris, vagina, breast licking etc. If the lubrication remains less even after many days of wedding night then a good and natural lubricant usage during intercourse would a smart choice. Olive oil or any other natural lubricant should be in hands and promptly used during penetration and heavy strokes.
Painful Intercourse - Heavy Jerks lethal to Fragile Vaginal Walls There are many cases recorded in that internal injury and some times lethal injury has happened due to rough ride by the husband. This thing usually happens during the initial episodes of intercourse and could not happen after that. Heavy jerking are usually done by those men who takes sex enhancing tablets, medication, and try to impose on their wife that they are so much powerful. As they have got this idea from Medicasters that, the wives worship those husbands who are able to perform hard sex with them. Remember; penis is made in order to penetrate the delicate vagina not to make hole in the wall. There is no need to have too much hard penis. The erection is sufficient if it is able to enter the penis inside the vagina. Husbands should do the things as much gently as possible and avoid heavy jerks during intercourse. Once after the confidence of wife would be established on his husband after weeks and few months, then husband would be allowed to make heavy jerks. In that instance, the chances of injury would not be high. In common with, sex pleasure is not a single night chance. One should be patient since he would do intercourse up till his life and don't try to engulf the pleasure at a single occasion.
Intercourse Beyond Unsustainable Extend – Cause of Painful Intercourse Those who in fond of showing extreme sex power to their wives keep on continuing sexual activity after taking different Herb-medications and Allopathic medications bring their wives at the door of painful sexual activity. They keep on continuing the intercourse for more duration with the heavy jerks. Intercourse for a woman is sustainable only for 30 minutes and after that, she would start to get pain. Either the husband should do intercourse intermittently during a single sexual activity or he should avoid to do jerks more than 30 minutes. Majority of the people get discharged earlier than that, however; in some exceptional cases, they keep on trying hard with the vagina of their wives and may some times develop the cause of internal injury. If semen is not discharged beyond the extent of intercourse then it could be pour out via masturbation without leaving the wife at the cost of pain if she is experiencing this bad event.
Vaginal Tightness – Cause of Painful Intercourse This thing might happen during the initial days that the vagina would not open up easily. Hence, the penetration would be difficult and some times painful for the wife. The important thing to note is that beside this pain that she could experience while penetration, she would also get pleasure as well. The pain would settles after few days and then she would start to get pleasure more and more. The best way to tackle this situation is again the use of good lubrication and gentleness while intercourse. Proper foreplay up to 30 to 45 minutes also gives good lubrication in vagina. In the meanwhile. Using a lubricating agent mentioned above and using the fingers initially before penis penetration would be worth full.
Infection of Vagina, Pelvic Organ and any Other Illness – Causes of Painful Intercourse If any of the above cause is not there in case of painful intercourse then definitely the woman should reach to the lady-doctor or Gynecologist. Any infection inside the vagina or pelvic organs, any engorgement, inflammation etc should be sought either on examination externally or internally. Different blood tests or swab tests could be sent in search of root cause of the problem. Any internal illness like growth in uterus or cervix could also be the cause in this instance. However; in majority of cases, the problem is tackled tactfully and success rate remains high unless if there is any tumor (malignancy) is not found.
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