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aleeshy |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Mar, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 11:14pm |
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 Painful Intercourse: Please Help Us?
I and my husband are in trouble, we have been trying to do sex many times but we were failed I always feel pain and push away him, I always say him just make me unconscious & then did it I cant tolerate this pain, we are very worried, plz give me suggestion to solve this, I will b thankful to u.
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Mar 2007, 11:44pm |
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dont worry.
- just relax.
- be comfortable.
- positioning is very very important.
- place 1-2 cushions under ur back for support.
- ask ur husband for a long foreplay
- during foreplay, don't think "what is going to happen"
- donot think that intercourse is very painful.
- during foreplay, participate actively.
- the key point is ''THINK SEXUALLY"
- ask ur husband to do the things which give u intense pleasure.
- during penetration, attain a comfortable position.
- ask ur husband to be gentle.
- do it slowly.
- bear a liitle pain. u r married now....be brave.....every woman has to pass through this phase.
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khansaab |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 84 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Mar 2007, 9:13am |
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It's right! The Steps told by Khan_80 are quite right.
I think you are having pain due to 2 reasons.
1) You are psychologically assuming that you may feel intense pain during intercourse.So you dominated these thoughts on your mind and when it comes practically you start feeling pain.*****(Solution)*****You can solve this problem just by thinking intercourse has a highly pleasureful job.Ask your husband to stimulate your clitoris and breasts before straight intercourse.When you are highly aroused ask him to penetrate slowly and gently.In this way you might feel no pain.
2) The other reason of this thing is that your vagina might not getting naturally lubricated during intercourse.For this reason ask your husband to lubricate your vagina with a water based lubricant (Honey Lotion , Cleansing Milk etc) before intercourse.
3) For instance and further improvement read the books by Dr.Rizwan @ www.noorclinic.com
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usdesi |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Mar, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Mar 2007, 12:04am |
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 hey
use lubricant that will reduce the pain and increase the pleasure....i hope u will find it somewhere.... |
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greatvirgo |
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| Posted on:7th May 2009, 7:43am |
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same problem i have also the same problem, i have love marriage and cant enjoy full sex life because when my husband put his penis my muscles are tight we do sex but like simple like he lying on me and put hi penis in the opening of vigina and discharge semen on it but i want full insertion bc i want to be pregnent and i think with full insertion it might be possible, so plz give tips to me that this process should success. i am six month married women |
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love bird |
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| Posted on:9th May 2009, 8:39am |
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Great virgo Hi
no problem ,its lack of confidence of your husband ,may be he was in pressure so relax him and give him long foreplay just do love and play with his penis then he will feel more confidence and when you feel it is too hard then ask to put in your vigina.
Dont give him water /tea or any liquid before doing sex
Also give good foods then you will get more wet he will easilly put penis.
ok
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sakhtmaza |
Group: Members Joined: 11th May, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:11th May 2009, 4:56am |
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 many reasons
It is suggested that
there are many reasons
- vaginal problem/infection (Main reason why one feels severe pain during sex)
- lubrication problem
- not doing it correctly
- mental
so many other reasons
Most of these problems can be solved/fixed depending upon what is the exact problem
Regards,
Umair
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:11th May 2009, 3:11pm |
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aleeshy n virgo first n foremost stop worrying about it this is a natural phenomena u have to let go of yourself feel romantic forget about the pain.
Longer foreplay could be ur solution or you could ask your husband to take you to the climax stimulating your genitals this way the vaginal muscles would contract n relax opening the entrance to a certain bit easing insertion. You could use vaseline for further lubrication.
If the problem stays consult a gyno |
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dom_man |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2009 Topic: 68 Post: 1275 Age:
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| Posted on:11th May 2009, 3:30pm |
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pain is a helpfull enemy we cant learn without pain.Aristotle.
pain is a very important and in fact a pleasurable part of female sexuality.before marriage gals think about pain without sexual feelings thats why they r afraid of it.
in female psychology,pain is a pleasurable thing.U feel the pleasure of pain and pain of pleasure.women are naturally masochistic(who like yo have pain) provided they are properly stimulated before sex.after some time of first intercourse,most women "miss" that pain and desire harder strokes from husband.that is why its always helpfull to spank woman during intercourse.she would love it. |
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TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:17th May 2009, 6:16pm |
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 @@@aleeshy
pain ki waja hai tmhara wehan sex aik natural cheez hai sab karte hain duniyaa hai just relax and enjoy pain islye hota hai qk u r not taking interest in sex and making love with ur husband ok,,,,,if u fully interested in ur husband and truly love him then u will lost in his love during foreplay and u will not feel any kinda pain ok BEST OF LUCK and enjoy ur married life :) |
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kitchen |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Jun, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jun 2010, 5:50am |
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sex dr sb mari shahdi howay 4 month howa ha lakin mara husband muj sa bohot kuch demad karta ha, jis sa ma bohot tung hoo, osay kah b ani sakti. plz muja koi tareka bahtaha ta ka hum aik achi life ghuzaar sahkay. |
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kitchen |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Jun, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Jun 2010, 5:52am |
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problem mara husband muja apna penis suck karwata ha, muja bahtah ma kia karoo?
plz |
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sochta |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Dec 2010, 8:33am |
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kitchen mai ALLAH guide ur hubby ,,,,,
cause wife is a partner nt a slave,,,,,, |
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guljee |
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| Posted on:25th Feb 2011, 7:41am |
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bleeding
meri sis ki shadi ko 1 month hoa he.jub b sex kerte he bohat shadeed pain plus bleeding hoti he.har bar bleeding aur pain q hota he
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