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pikky81 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 10:16am |
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 No Intercourse Till So Far: My Husband Hesitates
A-O-A, meri shaadi ko kareeb 7 months hone wale hain aur hum ne aaj tak aapis main intercourse nahi kiya. is sab se bari reason yeh hai k main apne husband se umar main 6 saal bari houn. hum dono cousins hain aur shaadi se pehle woh mujh ko bilkul apni bari sis ka darja deta tha. hum logon ki shaadi parents ki marzi ki wajah se hui hai. shaadi se pehle hum log apas main bilkul normal the but after marriage woh mujh se kaafi jhijhakta hai. i mean k mujh se sharmata hai. shoroo shoroo main to bohat hi sharmata tha. baat tak karne se ghabrata tha. first nite us ne hardly mujh se salam kia aur bus dour ja k so gaya. main to us se zara bhi nai sharmati but woh bohat sharmata hai. main ne bohat try ki us ko sexually attract karne ki but nakaami hui. kaafi research ki aur fir aakhir aaj yahan apna masla bayan kar rahi houn. umeed hai aap log meri zaroor help karo ge. I got
married seven months before. We haven’t done intercourse till so far. And for
that the basic reason is my husband is six years younger then me. This marriage has been held on the will of our parents. Before marriage he behaves with me
like an elder sister since we both are cousins as well. We were normal with
each other before marriage. Since after marriage he hesitate with me .
On the
wedding night, after greeting he has slept and done nothing. I have tried so
much to attract him sexually but I did not get success. Kindly let me know what
should I do?
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dom_man |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2009 Topic: 75 Post: 1315 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 10:31am |
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talk to him aap un se is topic per khul ker baat karain.islam mein sirf haqeeqi bhai behen ka tasawer hai. Humain apni taraf se rishtay ko mukhtalif naam dainay chahyee. Ye tau Allah ke Qanoon ke saath sara se baghawat hai.
humaira haan yehi masla hai, cousins apnay male cousins ko bhia keh ker pukarna shorroh ker daiti hain aur ye samjhti hain ke ab un mein koi immoral baat ka khatra nahin, ye sara ser bewaqoofi hai, jab nikah ho gaya tau her baat jayez ho gaye.
hatakay bhai behen kee shaadi ko bhee hum sirf iseeliye ghalat samjhtay hain ke Allah ne mana kiya hai, agar Allah is keee ijazat daita tau ye bhee jaiz hota.
aap unse baat karain, aur unhain baatain aap sharee aur islami taur per unki biwi hain, aur unka farz hai ke aap se sexual contact banayen.
aap un se khul ker baat karain, yehi maslay ka hal hai. |
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pikky81 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 10:36am |
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dom bhai un se kaafi baat ki. i mean koshish ki. but pata nai kyun woh bohat sharmata hai. jab bhi is topic per baat karti houn ya chooti houn to us k paseene choot jaate hain aur shakal se lagta hai jaise woh sakht ghabrahat feel kar raha ho. fir khudi mujhe us p guilti feel hota hai aur main hat jaati houn. even woh mere samne apni shirt change karne se bhi sharmata hai aur osote hue bhi. woh sota bhi alag se hai.
mujhe yeh samajh main nai ata k main us k andar se ye jhijhak kese nikaloun? |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 1:14pm |
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Try to Hi
Try to be friends and talk more free with each other, don,t ask him for sex give him sometime, he will be okziyada bateen kare aur hosaki to baher jaya kare shoping lunch ya dinner pe baher jai....... agar woh sharmati hai to app on ki sharam ko ahista ahista dor karen.
He will be ok just give him sometime. deri deri sab tek hojaiga.
ek sharat ki baat karo agar woh alag sota hai to app bhi ja kar os ki sath sojai, jab woh nend mein ho.... ;-)
I hope he won,t mind it.
God Bless U |
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dom_man |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2009 Topic: 75 Post: 1315 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 1:35pm |
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agreed with shirmilly waisay, aap filhal kuchh arsay ke liye sex ko bhool jayen, aur shirmilly kee baat ko bhool jayen, wo sex se nahin sharmaatay bulkay aap ke saath new rishtay ko accept nahin ker sak rahay, aap at the same time friendship bhee paida karain laikin thora sa un se aik wife kee tarah baat karain, ta ke unhay new rishtay ka ahsaas ho.
men love food. Cook some nice food for him. share some ur life experiences. laikin yaad rahay, jaisay mein ne kaha aap ka style friendly honay ke saath aik traditional wife waala bhee ho, ta ke wo aap ko aik husband kee nazar se daikhna shorooh karain.
kabhee raat ko aisay zaahir karain jaisay aapko bohat dar lag raha hai, unhay kahain ke aap unkay saath sauna chahti hain etc.ye ajeeb lagta hai laikin believe me, mard ko darpok aurat per jitna piyar aata hai aap soch nahin saktin.laikin ye sab thora smart tareeqay se karain, aur is ko apnay liye challlange bhee banain aur fun bhee.
be fresh and wear feminine and traditional wifely style dresses.
Be well. |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 1:47pm |
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dom_man
kabhee raat ko aisay zaahir karain jaisay aapko bohat dar lag raha hai, unhay kahain ke aap unkay saath sauna chahti hain etc.ye ajeeb lagta hai laikin believe me, mard ko darpok aurat per jitna piyar aata hai aap soch nahin saktin.
Idea to kamal ka hai, ehehhehe |
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dom_man |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2009 Topic: 75 Post: 1315 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 1:53pm |
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sharmilly Idea to kamal ka hai, ehehhehe )))
kis ke liye???LOL |
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 2:29pm |
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re: intercourse failure ji haa aap ke problem ki asal wajah age difference hai. age difference se bhi bari wajah yeh hai keh woh aap ki respect big sister ki tarah kerta tha.
iss ka hal yahi hai keh aap ose yeh ehsaas dilaye keh aap os ki sister nahi hai, balkeh bivi hai. kisi tarah os ke zehan se sister wali feeling khatam kare.
aap khilwat mai os ke saath sexy dress mai rahe, aur foreplay ker ke ose stimulate kare. waise tu sex mai active part husband ko play kerna perta hai, lekin yaha per majboori hai, active part aap ko play kerna hoga.
jab tak os ki jhajhak khatam nahi hogi os waqt tak yeh problem mojood rahe ga, jhajahak kab khatam hogi os ka inhesar aap per hai, keh aap kis tarah ose free keti hai. aap boldly os ke saath foreplay kare, agar kabhi woh etraz kare tu ose samjhaye keh yeh kaam tu mardo ka hai, lekin chukeh woh himmat nahi ker raha hai, iss liye aap ko boldly yeh kaam kerna per raha hai.
jab woh aap se sex ke maamle mai free ho ga tu mubashrat kerne mai bhi kamyab ho jaaye ga. aap mubashrat ki bajaye foreplay per ziadah zor de.
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 2:32pm |
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dom_man Idea to kamal ka hai, ehehhehe )))
kis ke liye???LOL
Pikky ki liye
humari to darne ke bagher hi gadi ek dam fast full speed se chalti hai...lol |
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dom_man |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2009 Topic: 75 Post: 1315 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 3:57pm |
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hehehe. sharmilly jo gaadi full speed se chalti hai wo manzil per bhee jaldi pauhanch jaati hai, aur insaan safar ka lutaf nahin le sakta. isliyee kehtay hain;
chlay tau kut hee jeye ga safar Aahista Aahista.LOL |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 4:21pm |
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 OMG Dom-man
app har baat ko sex ki sath kiyon relate karti ho ghabrani ki zarorat nahin hai luckly meri hubby ki friend doctor hai onse kafe advice le hai onho ne... i meant piyar karna..... love is not always intercourse :........;-) |
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TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 4:33am |
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 @@@pikky81
aaj kal k duar me asi shaadi karna ajeeb baat hai dekhaa na kia hogayaaa majboori me shaadi karne see do loog ki life barbaad ho jaati hai islyeee majboori me shaadi nahin karne chaayee jab apka dil hi na maan raha hooo.............wo bichaara banda b apni jagaa theik hai jo larki ussay 6 saal bari hoo ussay sister jaisa maanta hoo wo kaisee sex karygaaaa yaar wo b 6 year bari women see hadh hogaiii aaj kal k parents sochte samjhte nahin hain or shaadi kardii layker ab indonoo k beach dil ka rishtaa to banta nazer nahin araha hai or sex se rishtaa start karnaaa bht hi ajeeb hoogaaa sex k liyee dil ka rishta banana bht zarori hai............wse aap husband ko seduce karna chaati hoo to wear sexy dresses and nighties bra or panty me room me rahoo raat me ya naked b jab bath lene jaooo attach bath hai too gate pora bund na karooo attract karoo k ksi tarhan wo tumhe dekhne aayee bath lete hooee seduce hoo unko yoon mjse bra ka hook nahin lagraha hai help karoo lagaane mee kabi mazaak me hi penis pakar loo uskaa ya hath lagaa do or aisa feel karooo k accidently hoaa or bht sari acticities hoti hain sexual wo karooo zaror sudeuce hooga apka husband.........u know women k pas har wo cheez hai jissay ksi b husband ko wo seduce kar sakhti hai attract kar sakhti hai remember ok
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ahgadit |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 4:54am |
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Early Ejection I am married and When I start intercourse and inser the penis. Within no time - just say 2 - 3 seconds I discharge. Only once or twice in my marriage life I discharge after 2 or 3 minutes.
After discharge the penis stands for half a minute or so but my wife push me and the penis is out. Please let me know how to solve this problem |
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pikky81 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 5:26am |
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Not worked friends aap log kya samajhte ho main ne us ko seduce karne ki koshish nai kii. pichle kuch hi dinon ki baat hai k hum log ghar main bilkul akele the. raat k time main ne us ko kaafi attract karne ki koshish ki but woh utna hi door bhaga. phir main ne kaha ke kyun na main hi pehla kadam uthaoun. main ne us ko hug kar liya aur us k galon p aur gardan p kiss kiya. i think so mard yahan toot jaata hai aur beqaboo ho jata hai. main itni pagal ho gayee k uski shirt tak phaar di.. woh hot ho gaya aur us ka pennis bhi buri tareeqe se errect ho gaya magar aur us ka chehra ajeeb hi ho gaya.
us k paseene choot gaye aur woh bohat ghabraya dikhne laga. ajeeb si sansein lene laga. pehle to kuch der bilkul sakin raha lekin phir churana shuroo kar diya. phir kehne laga k for god sake mujhe chor dain. pagal ho gayin hain kya. hosh main aaen. yeh ghalat hai. main aisa nai kar sakta. aap mujhe hurt kar rahi ho. pls stop. mujhe aisa laga k jaise i am raping him. main ne chor dia aur us ne sorry keh dia.phir saari raat us ne jaag ker smoke karte guzaar di.
mujhe kabhi kabhi aisa feel hota hai k he dnt love me at all. woh kisi aur main intrusted to nai tha?
pls kuch acha sa idea do take main us ko apne saath frank kar sakoon. |
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Roshni |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Mar, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 63 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 6:33am |
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pikky81 Ap ko unk sath ye sab nahe krna chaiy tha
i know its difficult k apka husband apko avoid kary
lykn filhal ap unse sex k about bilkul bhi bat na kary
balkeh just bat chet kry isi tara ahista ahista frank ness barhy ge
agar ap esa he krti rahi tou apse dor bhagy gay or kabhi josh ma aa k kuch kar bhi diya tou bad ma usko ghalti samjhy gay
is waqt sex ki nahe franknes barhany ki zarort hai dear
or frank wo apse esy he ho gay k wo apse dor bhagna kam kar de
or ap unk sath normal daily rotine pe bat kary, khany ma kya pasnd hai ye jany or idhr udhr ki baty kry
or sab se zarori bat ALLAH se her waqt madad mangay
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 7:00am |
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pikky81 honey miene app ko kaha ki osi abhi time do directly sex ki appeal mat karoooo, osi time chahye yeh es rishte ko accept karne ki.... everything will be ok..... |
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 8:15am |
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My advise May be my advice is different from others peoples but may be you try
take any good erection medicne available in market i.e PENEGRA and given to your husband pees ker doodh may mila ker dey deen phir after one hour this medicne can woked then you trying to seduce your husband .this is up to you how can you do it , aap kaprey autar sakti heen us ko pyar ker sakti heen apney soher k penis ko by hand sehla sakti heen phir un k saath aach sa sex kareen .
ager aap k husband thora rode hoon to aap kheen k may aap ki bivi hoon aur aap mery husband hum doono ek doosrey ka libas heen .Hamarey pyarey Hazoor Akram Muhammed (peace be upon him) nay bhee apney say zada umer ki ladies say nikkah kya tha who bhee sub bivioon k haqooq poorey kerty they to aap q preshan hootey heen Allah ney hum doono ko jora banaya ha hum ko yee fesla acchi tara say qabool kerna chayee.
Umeed ha k aap ki problem door ho jayee gi AMEEN
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pikky81 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 10:51am |
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Friendship 1st is rite dosto aap ka mashfwarah k pehle friendship ki jae zyada behtaar aur mosar hai. aj main ne apna attitude thora friendly kia aur us ko yehi feel kraya k m not ur wife m ur friend. waisi hi us k saath loud music enjoy kia jaise woh ghar aa k karta hai aur us k saath dance aur masti aur uchal kood main saath dia. us k chehre se lag aha tha k woh is tapdeeli par heraan tha but khush bhi tha. us ko acha laga aur shaadi k baad pehli dafa aaj woh mere saath kuch hansa khela hai. thanks 2 u. iwill keep u updating and u guys keep on commenting n advising. |
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H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 1:40pm |
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falow this aslamoalikum sister
ap cousin ty or wo ap ko sister sumajta taa abi sister sumajta ni osy puta hy k ap oski wife ho abi esi leye wo dour duor rehta hy or ap b dour rehny meh oske help kur rhi ho ku k ap osy alag sony dyti ho
ap sub sy phyly ek sath ek bed py sona shorao kuro
agur wo ehtraz kury tu osy kahyn k meh gyr ni bevi ho abi so meh sath e soonge,
jub sath soyin gy tu jesy kali ny ap ko btaya hy ap ny esy kurna hy khod ko active rukhna hy yani osky kureeb ap ny hona hy or phyl ap ny kurni hy,
ek sath soyn or pher syesta ayesta kureeb ho or jub dono pas byty ho tu koi achi romaintic indian movi luga lyni dykin
acha dresss phynin
rat ko husband k samny dress budlyn
abi guram mosam hy gurmi ka bahana kur k undress ho k sleep kurin or jub ek sat sleep kurin gy tu moka pa k tu romaince shoro kurin
aapus meh dosti kurin
osy pochin keya khana hy aj wo bano
osy kahyn tbao kon sa dress phyno
ye chez mery sath kesy lug rhi hy
mushwara kurin
oske zurooriyaat ka khyyaal kurin
ayesta ayesta ap dykin gy ye shuram o jigjuk ke dewar rayt ke dewar ke tura gyr jay ge
wish you good luck |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 4:29pm |
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wow great news wow nice keep it up woh den dor nahin ki app apni maqsad mien kamyab ho
Best of luck |
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