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sabrina1
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Mar 2013, 12:55pm |
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 Do i victim of aggressive emotional abuse?
In my previous thread u guys suggested me some good tips, thanks alot :)
A guy whom i was attached in last 3 years had "aggressive emotional
abuse" health problem. I am not in contact with him since few months.
Due
to his anxiety problem, he had put me down in all means. But i forget
and forgive his mistake because the matter was between us and i knew he
cannot take stress else he will mad.
However i am not able to
forget what his family said about me and my family and how they dropped
me and my family impression in his eyes and they make my life hell for
getting out of his life after 3 years. (They were trying since 2.5
years, but i could not understand them. We fight alot but never left
each other.)
I do pray for myself and ofcourse Allah saved me
before time. I don't think about past consciously but i still feel
stress or anxiety, pain when they hurt me. I do not know how to recover
from this situation please help and why am i so when i do not think
about him and i forgive him?
I was not sensitive but today i am
over sensitive and take stress easily. or i lost my self esteem. I was
not perfect but i am dying inside due to his family behavior and how
they spoil my life.
Do i victim of aggressive emotional abuse?
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JustFine
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Mar, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2013, 3:43am |
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 Advice
Yea its sad ...But forgive and forget....otherwise you might kill yourself for sake of your enemy .. |
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sabrina1
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2013, 4:05am |
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JustFine I do not think about past but i get stress suddenly not everyday and then my mind start running which i cannot control myself.
I want to get rid of this stress issue so i can build my self confidence which i lost.
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sabrina1
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2013, 4:07am |
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Do i victim of aggressive emotional abuse? How aggressive emotional abuse of him effects my mental condition?
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JustFine
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Mar, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2013, 7:17am |
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hmm Well some time we hurt so much by acts to whom we love.But You need to be strong......I passes through these faces as well.. When I feel stress , I straight way offer pray read Quran with Translation it gives hope for success at the end...so worries of this world looks so small.. hope you got my point .. Thanks |
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sabrina1
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Mar, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2013, 3:31pm |
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Do i victim of aggressive emotional abuse? What are the common reasons which make one self "aggressive emotional abuser" if he is not by birth.
I ask this general question for understanding human psychology.
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coolmanpak
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 9 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Apr 2013, 2:10am |
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hmmm same case with my wife.u have to compromise at all.girls should do first...when i fight with my wife.only for 5 or 10 minutes ..she went to her room.and when i enter her room after half an hours.i saw her sleeping ...with cute face ..like tears on her cheeks..then i feel shame .i close to her n kiss her on forehead n say sorry to her..becoz of her innocence |
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