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mischel |
Group: Members Joined: 14th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:14th May 2009, 11:43pm |
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 Have Lost Virginity: How To Gain Back?
Hi I am 25 years old im unmarried m question is that i love some one ...and i have done sex ...... nw im nt virgine so plz tel me that doctor jaisay like karti thi woh chohr chuka hai sooo jis se b shadi ho gee us ko pata chal jaye ga im not virgin coz bleeding ho chuki hai ist tme so plz tell me doctor koi aisi medcine jis se virginity again appear ho jae coz mjhy bht dar lagta hai ab galti ho gai hai bht tension hoti hai har waqat plz give a reply plz . I am 25
years old un- married. I have done sex with whom I loved and therefore I have
lost my virginity since bleeding has happened at the time of intercourse. He has
left me and now I am worried that how I will regain my virginity since the
bleeding has happened. And I would not get any problem in front of my husband. Is
there any medication for gaining back virginity?
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:14th May 2009, 1:31pm |
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michel whats the use crying over spilled milk. Michel therz no way u can b a virgin again, but one think i would like to make very clear that therz also no way to tell if a girl or a boy is a virgin or not, some girls bleed after their first intercourse, some do not it does not mean that they are not virgins so u dont have to worry about that. only illiterate people have this mentality that a girl has to bleed to prove her virginity, the presence of hymen can cause bleeding which can be ruptured during excercise in early ages or is flexible enuff not to break and also no hymen at all as all of it is natural n every human being is different.
Being a virgin is something very personel, even if there was a way dont u think its not fair i mean u knw that ur not a virgin but still u want to start ur life by decieving ur husband from the very first night. Aap daro nahi just relax apko apni ghulti ka ehsas hay ye achi bat hay koshish karo ke jiske sath apse ye ghulti hoi hay usi se shadi karo agar nahi tu please do not repeat this mistake. |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:14th May 2009, 3:52pm |
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 Mischel
Ager galti ka Ehsas ho gia hai to allah se toba karlo aur Allah se Dua karo.. Ager Allah ki nazar main achi ban gai to phir koi preshani ya museebat tum ko tang nahee kare ge inshallah ... Please ask forgivness from God... |
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suggetion |
Group: Members Joined: 07th May, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:14th May 2009, 5:59pm |
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nadaani ya shaitani i dont know it was your nadaani or shaitani but im sorry to say that according to my knowledge you can get your hymen back.
any how the only remedy is ASTAGHFAAR and pray ALLAH help you.
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mischel |
Group: Members Joined: 14th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 5:33am |
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thx 4 helpng me HI!
im very thk ful 2 u.....................acly mri us se shadi nae ho sakti cz cast pblm hai he belongs 2 shiya fmly mjhy phly nai pata tha after3 years ja k pata chal hai main din raat allah se mafi managti hun bht zyada k soch hai roww row k sab se chup chup ke tensn itni hoti hai bht ksi se discus b nai kar skti future kharb nazar ata hai.........plz ab us se nai ho skti to kia plbm ho gee jis kisi se b ho geee mjhy din raat nend nai ati dar lgta hai sb kehtein hain k tm itna chup q rehti ho aisi thi nae kiaho gaya hai. |
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mischel |
Group: Members Joined: 14th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 5:35am |
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thx Hi
galti ka ehsas bht zayda hai k koi soch b nai skta koi b nae bt dar lgta hai apni future ka soch kar ........................toba bht karti hon bt allah maaf karny wala hai bt phr b tensn hit hai
haad se zayad |
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mischel |
Group: Members Joined: 14th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 5:42am |
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itz was ma nadani. itz was ma nadani i was realy dun knw abt that i swear bt jab se sunti hun different question to dar bht lgta hai .......................plz pray 4 me ap sb jo is site pe ho meri life phly destroy ho gai hai ar ab allah se bht mafi b managti hun to allah inshallah mafi de ga mjhy umeed puri hai mai yeh galti kabi nae karon geee kbi nae
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 8:12am |
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mischel inshallah you will have very happpy life... ager allah per bharosa hai to preshan kyon ho... ok... dont be please .. you are very good person... mujh se to behtar ho ke apne kye per nadim ho.... Be happy now like you were berfore |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 11:17pm |
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MICHEL i dont understand ke cast prob se kya farq parta hay dono muslim hain bas kya hamare Nabi paak(SAW) ne mana fermaya tha, nahi na tu phir. apke liye best wohi hoga jis se shadi karke apko koi guilt nahi hoga, mere husband bhi shia hain n im sunni aur ALhamdolillah hamare beech koi probs nahi hain, ye sab logon ne batain banayi hoi hain, aik musalmaan ki doosre musalman se shadi hosakti hay |
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PK MAN |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Apr, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 23 Age:
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| Posted on:15th May 2009, 11:25pm |
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Re: Have Lost Virginity: How To Gain Back? Well sister I dont know how the virginity can be got back, but I feel there is no need for it. Neither you discuss this issue with any body nor hide it if it will be revealed. As far as forgiveness from Lord Almighty is concerned, I am writing here a hadith. May You find a good message from it.
A person came to Prophet Hazrat Muhammad PBUH and
asked his privicy to tell him some thing. All the other people by the order of
Prophet went out. Then the person told the story very embrassingly and
shamfulness. He told that he use to steal the coffins of deads in the grave
yard and sell them since he is an undertaker therfore he works there. Few days back he dug a grave and found a young beautiful
girl's dead body. He put out the coffin and seen the naked dead girl. Then he didnot
controlled his desires and committed Zina with that dead girl. After doing that
when he wanted to came out from there, that girl started to talk with him. She
told him that he had done very bad and asked God to punish him. When that
man came to his home he started to feel deeply guilty. He asked the Holy
Prophet that provide him forgiveness and ask God on his behalf for mercy since
he has realized his sin and decided not to do it again. The Holy Prophet then
become very very angry and asked that man to get out from there. He furtherly
told him that he will never be forgiven.
That man started to weep and then wondering in the
forest. He wept so much that he finally died there.
A Wahi descended on Holy Prophet and the God told
him that It is not you who can decide which will be forgiven or not. It will be
decided by me. And I have forgiven that man who has done TOBBA after that sin
and who have Wept so much and died in that condition ( May Allah forgive me for any un intentional mistake if I have done in it).
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 5:34am |
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dear jo hona tha wo to ho gya hai
ap apni virginity to loose ker hi chuki hain
ab behter hai k Allah se tauba keryen k ainda ksii boy frnd aur love shov k chakar emin nahi peryen gi aur na hi kabhi aisa ko illgeal kam keren gi
dua keryen k ap ki shadi naik insan se jaldi se ho ajye aur Allah ap ki is herkat ko kabhi kisi ko zahir na honey dey |
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