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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 7 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2012, 9:53am |
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 kia main ap ni future Wife par hath utahao?
aj kal kay dorr kay hisab say agar ap apni wife ko pardy ke talkeen karna chaho,,,aisa dress wo pehny jiss main uske body front or back show na hoon...simple dress....agr usay apny ghar main manna na kiya giya ho or ap dekh rahay hoon kay wo apkay ghar jab aiy ge to kaisy ussay iss roop main dahla jaiy...wo ye b na samjy kay mery opar pabandian laga raha hay mera husband mujh par trust nahi kar raha hay...agr piayr say na samjy...bar bar smajnay par be iss taraf na aiy to kia wife par hath utahana jaiz hoga?kia ussay samjany kay liay aise soort main sahti karni jaiz hay???agr nahi hay to kioon???coz main jald he INSHALLAH shaddi karny wala hoon orr hud meri fiance forward kisam ke hay mujhy na dressing pasand hay na aisa fashion...issi liay ye questions mery zehan main bar bar a rahy hain kaisy change kiya jaiy before marriage wali ko after marrige...ALL ARE INVITED TO GIVE SINCERE SUGGESTIONS
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Einstein |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Jul, 2012 Topic: 13 Post: 563 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2012, 11:05pm |
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Mr Sunny Mother,behan,beti aur bivi aik admi ki izzat hoti hain.aur in main sai kisi aik kai bhi bury kirdar sai badnam ho jata hai.yai be hayai wala fashion un logon ka kaam hota hai jo log akhrat per yaqeen naheen rakhty.apni aurton ko parda karwane kai liye sab sai pehly un ka aqeeda akhirat mazboot hona chahiye.ab maira aap sai yai sawal hai kai kia aap ki fiance apny wajibaat baqaidgi sai ada kerti hai.maslan namaz roza wagaira? |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Mar, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 553 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2012, 11:13pm |
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Marne ki ijazat bohot mukhtasir si he
Agar kuch aisa kare wo jis pe kaye baar mana kia hon, toh sar pe, ya shakal maiN marna nahiN chahye. Bohot hi slow, ahista aur samjhanaye ki niyat se, ungli ya haath pe halka sa hath markar kahaiN toh ye marna hon jaata he..... iss case maiN. Agar aap ko maluM he ke ap ki fiancee ki ye adaadth he toh plz unki zindagi barbaad na kare un se shadi kar ke. Mere nasdeeq ap ke liye koye gaO ki lekiN islamic larki behter rahenGi. |
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 7 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2012, 11:42pm |
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Both we love each other ap nay kaise bat kar de bahi abi shadi nazdeek hay INSHALLAH or hum dono aik doosry say love karty hain ...han nemaz ,rozay ke wo pakki hay...mera question teekh say samjy nahi ap kay KAISY changing lai ja sakti hain...future main ...or chorna to namumkin hay meri cousen mera piyar mera sab khuch hay wo wo to ap socho he nahi kay kaheen or shdai kar loon main uskay ilwa kissi ka sochna b gawara nahi karta na kissi or ke taraf dekhna... |
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hoshyar |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Dec, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2012, 6:23am |
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 hath nahi
tum apni wife ko uthha lo |
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Anjuman |
Group: Members Joined: 28th Nov, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2012, 10:36am |
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Hath nahi uthaty choti choti bato par AoA 1st agr aap un sy itna hi payr karty hoo k aap un k elawa kisi ko dekh bhi nahi sakty to aap ny us par hath uthany ka kasy soch liya or Islam main biwi par hath uthna mana hain hain agr biwi bhot galat hain pher aap usy mar sakty ho par aram sy. 2nd aap usy piyar sy samjho usy apni marzi sy kapry bana k do k asy kapry pehno usy ehsas delao k us k body sirf us ka shohar dekh sakta hain or pher usy thora time do q k apni hadat chorny main b thora time lagta hain or usy apni marzi bhi krny do us ki pasnd bhi jano k wo kia pehana chati hain phr thori us ki marzi or thori apni marzi k kapry usy la k do. Or baki piyar piyar sy usy samjhaty raho |
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Maham12345 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Sep, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 28 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2012, 8:46am |
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sorry to say sorry to say ... but mujhey aapki bat buhat hed tak ghatiya or jahilana lagi .........bivi bani nahi or marney ki batein ... ban jaigi to kya karogey ........
pehlei bat to ye hai k jab lerki k kaprey itney fashionable hain k wo berdasht k kabil nahi to aisi apne ya apki family ne apney liye pasand kyun ki ......??apko us se mangni hi nahi kerni chahiye.
n secondly...... kya aap k gher mein apki ammi behnain sab perda kerti hain ??? ager nahi to unhein pehley ekrwaein ....deykh kk usko khud samajh ajaiga k usey bhi kerna hai .....
kyua aap namazo ki pabandi kertey hein ??? wese apki soch se to nahilagta k sahi Islam aap jantey hein .... mager phir bhi apney aapko acha bana lein ... ahista ahista rehtey rehtey wo khud samajh jaigi ....
her cheez sikhaney ka ya koi b achi cheez sikhanay k do tareekey hotey hein aik ....zaban se naseehat kerna ..... doosra apney amal se btana ...... zaban se kehna buhat hi asan or amal se dikhana b7uhat hi mushkil hota hai .....
or doosra her cheez waqt leyti hai ......ya to aap us se mangni tor dein kyun k is se uski zindagi berbaad hi hogi ......... or ager rakhtey hein or shadi kertey hein to ussey kuch follow kerney ko na kahein ...... waqt dein ....... us k ander Allah ki muhabbat paida karein ...... or buhat waqt dein or apnay amaal achey rakhein ahista ahista khud behteri aigi . n one more thing .... kindly remember jitna Allah ne apko ikhtiyaar diya hai apki bivi per... us se kahi ziada ikhtiyaar Allah aap pe rakhta hai ....
is cheez se darain k Allah apko koi sahi cheez sikhaney or taleem deney k liye apko zaleel ker dey ya aapki pitai hojai ...
sorry for being harsh . |
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Maham12345 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Sep, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 28 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2012, 8:46am |
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sorry to say sorry to say ... but mujhey aapki bat buhat hed tak ghatiya or jahilana lagi .........bivi bani nahi or marney ki batein ... ban jaigi to kya karogey ........
pehlei bat to ye hai k jab lerki k kaprey itney fashionable hain k wo berdasht k kabil nahi to aisi apne ya apki family ne apney liye pasand kyun ki ......??apko us se mangni hi nahi kerni chahiye.
n secondly...... kya aap k gher mein apki ammi behnain sab perda kerti hain ??? ager nahi to unhein pehley ekrwaein ....deykh kk usko khud samajh ajaiga k usey bhi kerna hai .....
kyua aap namazo ki pabandi kertey hein ??? wese apki soch se to nahilagta k sahi Islam aap jantey hein .... mager phir bhi apney aapko acha bana lein ... ahista ahista rehtey rehtey wo khud samajh jaigi ....
her cheez sikhaney ka ya koi b achi cheez sikhanay k do tareekey hotey hein aik ....zaban se naseehat kerna ..... doosra apney amal se btana ...... zaban se kehna buhat hi asan or amal se dikhana b7uhat hi mushkil hota hai .....
or doosra her cheez waqt leyti hai ......ya to aap us se mangni tor dein kyun k is se uski zindagi berbaad hi hogi ......... or ager rakhtey hein or shadi kertey hein to ussey kuch follow kerney ko na kahein ...... waqt dein ....... us k ander Allah ki muhabbat paida karein ...... or buhat waqt dein or apnay amaal achey rakhein ahista ahista khud behteri aigi . n one more thing .... kindly remember jitna Allah ne apko ikhtiyaar diya hai apki bivi per... us se kahi ziada ikhtiyaar Allah aap pe rakhta hai ....
is cheez se darain k Allah apko koi sahi cheez sikhaney or taleem deney k liye apko zaleel ker dey ya aapki pitai hojai ...
sorry for being harsh . |
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 7 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Dec 2012, 3:27pm |
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 ***Miss Maham***
Main nay ye nahi kaha kay main maroon ga future main apni wife ko main nay 1 angle sy poocha hay bas kay kia aisa karna jaiz ho ga....or wo itni b fashionable nahi hayy jitna ap ny bana diya hay ....bas ye poocha kay kaisy uske routine change ke jaiy...yes...ap say iss bat par agreed hoon kay time diya jaiy or apny andar aise hoobian paida ke jain kay wo hud samj jaiy....orr haan ALLHAMDOLILAH main bajamat na sahi laikan tooti phooti 5 nemazain parhta hoon ALLAH kay karm say....12 umray b kar chuka hoon orr 1 hajj b kiya hay ALLAH kay fazal say....orr islam say b wakaf hoon ALLAHMDOLILAH....or meri ami ALLAH kay fazal say tahjudd guzar hain...sister 1 he hay jo married apny ghar main khush bash or pardy ke panband hay....2 saal main usky susral say abi tak aise koi bat hum nay nahi suni ALLHAMDOLILAH.....app ke bina sochy samjy likhi gai batain post karny ka bhuht bhuht shukria |
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greeny |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Apr, 2012 Topic: 12 Post: 91 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2012, 7:50am |
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sunny3 app ko apni future life ki dressing pasand nae iss liay app ko dar hain k kahen shadi k bad iss bat ko bunyad bna kr app dono me koi communication gap aa jata hai aur app ko uss pe hath uthana par sakta hai.
ok thats not a big deal. jb hm kisi ko apne rang me dalna chahte hain to iss k liay hmaray 2 tools hote hain. 1.hikmat 2. sabr in 2 tools ko istemal kr k ap iss bat ko sort out kr sakte hain. pyar to app ne kaha pehle hi mojud hai to phir aetmad b hona chaheay. k bhaee jb hm me pyar understanding aur trust hai. to hm aik dusre ko samjhen ge. ap unko btana k ap unko kese dakhna chahte hain
bivi wese hi dikhna pasand krti hain jese un k shohar unko dakhna chahte hain. kyun k ye rishta hi asa hai. app shuru me khud unk liay shopping krna. jis me app apni tarjeehat k izhaar kren ge. app unko btaen ge k in mukammal libas me wo kitni elegant gorgeous aur graceful lagti hain. to wo zrur iss cheez ko apnaen gi. force mat kijiay ga. sirf shoq zahir kijiay ga. force krne se wo zid me aa sakti hain jiska dono ko koi faeda nae ho ga.
ur ye sb shadi k bad kijiay ga. abhi se unk pichhe parne ki zrurat nae hai. iss se ap k love relation aur trust ko nuqsan ho sakta hai.
Allah App ko khush o khurram zindagi naseeb kre. Ameen |
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khansana |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2012, 9:21pm |
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sunny3 Being a girl myself i can tell you one thing k agar ap ne zabardasti ki ya un pe hath uthaya wo apki baat majboran maan tou jayengi and apni khushi say na sahi zabardasti hi woh kapray pehn lengi jo ap chahtay hain but ye apkay relationship k liye bilqul bhi acha nahi hoga. and agar ap nay unkay upar hath uthaya tou believe me this is something jo woh kabhi nahi bholegi and dilon mai farq bhi asakta hai (Allah na karay). Agar woh ap say muhabbat karti hain she will really want to wear the dress jis mai ap unko pasand karengay and agar woh kuch aur bhi pehnti hain tou unhe samjha dain, nahi samjha tou munsib had tak ijazat day dain k chalo bas ghar mai pehn lo, woh bhi nahi tou chalo sirf family mai pehn lo kyn k kuch bhi ho family mai koi unhe buri nazar say nahi dekhega. halkay halkay woh maan jayengi. Unhe mazhab k baray mai batain she will judge it herself. Phir bhi woh na manain tou hanlankay apko ijazat hai k ap sakhti karsaktay hain but if you love her and if you want a healthy relation with her i will NEVER EVER recommend you to beat her. This is v v lethal for a relationship. Unka shauq tou shayad khatam hojayega age k sath sath leken yeh baat woh kabhi nahi bholengi... Aurat kamzoor hoti hai and us pe hath uthana ek bht hi bura fail hai.. It doesnot suit real men. Baki you can judge better |
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 7 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2012, 12:54pm |
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 greeny & khansana
THX both of u ...ap dono ka bhuht bhuht shukira itni achi batin kahi ap dono nay...problem ye hay na kay meri fiancy govt.job b karti hay or uske mom bary fahar say batati hain mujhy kay wo apny dresses wohan say lati hay yahan local area kay nahi pehnti hay bachpan say pehnti a rahi hay or mujhy dil he dil main ye batin na teer ke tarah lagti hain kay dekho mujhy samja rahi hain or maheeny main 5,,7 dresses lay aina..jo pay ati hay usky dresses he lay laite hay .. main nay kaha faida kia hay iss job ka to jawab millay ga SHOKK hay job majboori nahi,,,or wakai hay b aisa he...jab main kahoon ga kay tum shaddi kay baad mery sath a jana mery pas iss country main to wo moonh bana laite hay kay nahi sirf vacations main baki yahan he rahoon ge.orr main chup kar jata hoon hans ky issi umeed par ky hay b ghar kay sath he ghar apna or cousen b opar say love +arrange....us din to main soch raha tha anny do issy attay he strictely loon ga 1 bar to hud samj jaiy ge...but now i have changed my mind really...i have decided to go on as both u suggest me...INSHALLAH |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Mar, 2012 Topic: 5 Post: 553 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2012, 1:45pm |
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 sunny3
reply to statement : "anny do issy attay he strictely loon ga 1 bar to hud samj jaiy ge...but " aap abhi se lene dene ki bataiN kar rahe he. Zindagi maiN ye shadi bayaa he hota he jho hamaye ek aur naye banday/bandi ke saath jor deta he. Ab zaroori nahiN ke aap iss rishtaye ke banaye se pehle hi aap na haath se unhe marnaye ke tayari maiN mentally masroof hon jaaye. Had hoti he wese. Shadi ka faida hi kia reh jaata he? Agar samjhanaa bhi marne se hi hooN. Agar aap kisi ki beti ko wo izat nahiN de saktay ya khush nahiN rakhe sakte uss ki marzi wali khushi toh aziyat se le janaaye ka kia haqq aap ko? Bohot khushi hongi agar aap iss larki ke saath ap ne nikah ke plans chor de, meri zaati raaye ap ke baraye maiN abhi bhi nahiN badli, yakeenan aap ne iss masoom ko shadi ke baad bhi pareshan karna he, aur yakeenan iss soorat maiN aap ko duaN ke aur baduaN zaada mila karengi, pir hongaye zindagi puri! |
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 7 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Dec 2012, 2:31pm |
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@alirajput nahi INSHALLAH aisa khuch b nahi karoon ga main compromise kar kay chaloon ga INSHALLAH... |
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greeny |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Apr, 2012 Topic: 12 Post: 91 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 12:28pm |
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sunny3 hmmm. me ne buhat chhote hote suna tha k billi kha jae gi panja mare gi. to me billi yani cat se khub darti the. aik din socha k ye to buhat buri hai mujhe maare gi to chalo iss ko pehle me hi marun. me ne cat ko dakha agay barhi. aur iss se pehle k me ussko marti wo darr k bhag gae.
mtlb kehne ka ye hai k baat reality me itni barri hoti nae hai jitni hmari perception ussko bna dati hai. sirf soch hi hai jo hme pareshan krti hai warna halat itne khrab nae hote.. Shadi k bad bnday ki habits change ho jati hain kyu k life aik aur bnday k sath jurr jati hai.
app iss sb ko abhi se mt socho. positive socho. ye socho k shadi kay bad appki life hamesha k apni beloved k sath jurrne wali hai. wow... thats awesome.
jo appki to be mother in law ka attitude hai wo hmare haan aksar paya jata hai. k shadi se pehle larkay walay larki walun k samnay aur larki walay larkay walu k samnae barri barri baten krte hain. k g hmara larka ye hamari larki wo. bri nazu me pali hoti hain sb ki betian. in batu ko seriousely mt lo. appka apni future wife k sath personal relation ho ga. iss me koi b dusra involve nae hona chaheay. sb rishtu ko apni jaga pe rehna chaheay. respect aur honour k sath
aur jhan tk swal hai app k sath rehne ka. app ki shadi ho jae to wife automatically app k pass rehna chahay gi. its reality. phir jb ho b love marriage. to husband wife lamba arsa door reh nae sakte. ye natural hai.
All the best. |
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sunny3 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st May, 2012 Topic: 7 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2013, 2:32pm |
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 Greeny u r Best
ap ka bhuht shukrguzar hoon ap bhuht achi batian karty hain...mera dil yee barra ho giya hay apke batoon say......haan sab aisa he hay jaisa ap ny kaha hay...orr INSHALLAH samjta hoon sab time to time after marriage he set ho jaiy ga INSHALLAH...ap sab ka bhuht bhuht shukria...thank u greeny again |
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rana saddam jeee |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Dec, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2013, 5:39pm |
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best greeny is the best . |
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im.perfect |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Mar, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 31 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2013, 8:41am |
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Sunny bhai. Mere hisaab se ladkiya or aurto ko izzat ki nazar se dekhna chahiye.aur in logo ko pyar se samjhana chahiye. Na ki maar kar bhale usko samjhne me time lag jaye.kyo ki in logo ko bahut takleef sehna padta hai,,inko apna ghar chodna padta hai,uske baat pehli mubashrat me takleef phir bacche ki paidaish me taleef.aur apna ghar chod kar tmhare sath chal deti hai sirf pyar ki ummeed me.isliye inko sirf pyar dena chahiye.. |
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neem garam |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Sep, 2011 Topic: 2 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2013, 2:38am |
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pyar karo hath kion uthana hai bhia aapko?
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