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djosernll |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Feb, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2013, 6:15pm |
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 help me please
aoa.
main ajj app say ik sawal poochna chaty hoon. please islam ki roshni main is ka jawab muj ko chahya.
ya mare dost ki zidagee kay bary main hy .wo mery pas hy uur muj ko bol rahy hy main us ka sawal ieder type kar rahy hoon.
ab mere dost ki zubani is ki kahani sonin.
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aoa. main bohat parshan hoon.mare shadi ko ik sal uur chan month howy hain. merah maslha ya hy kay mery shuher ny muj ko 3 dafa talak ka laf bolha hy woo
kis tarah bolha uur kiya soorty hall thy . main app ko bataty hoon..
howa yoon kay ik din main uur merah shuher bathy howy thy apny room main .uur merah shuher achanic took chook karny laghy.
main ik dam parshan hoo gee kay ya allha abhi ik mint phly tu theek thy uur ik mint baad kiya ho geeya hy.
woo apny gher walon say apna mutalbat manwany ki khater muj say nook chook shuroon kar de kay jab un kay gher waly ya sonin gy tu ander room
main ain gy .uu pher wo apny mutalbat manwany kay leeya khuch karin gy.howa yoon kay jasy .khuda khanjy ko naghen na dy.
woo awaz soon kar ander aa gy. uur poocha kay kiya soor kar rahy hoo. tu mery shuher ny apny father say batmeezy ki . uur pher jab main ny ya soona kay inno nay
batmeezi ki hy tu main ny shuher ko bolha batmeezy kion kar rahy ho bozorgoin say. sharam nahin aa rahy.pher is baat par mery shuher ny muj ko bhi gha ghundi kisam ki de.
uur pher mery susaer ny muj ko bolha chaloo baher aa jao ya paghul hoo geeya hy .jab is ka demagh theek hoo ga tu ander aa jana.tu mery shuher ny bolha
ya baher nahin jay ge. app loog jao.tu main ny shuher say bolha kay batmeezy na karin kiya hoo geeya hy hoosh karo. kion is tarah kar rahy hoo. meree saas ny bhi
bhi mery shuher ko danta kay kiya batmeezy hay. paghul tu nahin hoo gy hoo. pher mery shuher muj ko choor kar un say jaghrah karny lagy. uur pher main darmiyan main pees rahy thy.
ieeder uuder dono taraf say. isi kheecha tanni main mery shuher ny muj ko 2 baar talak bol deeya . uur pher jaghrah uur bar geeya muj ko bhi ghusa aa geeya kay merah kiya kasoor
hay muj ko beech main kion maar rahy hoo. muj ko kion nashana banaya jarah hy.pher main room say baher chali gee.pher mery husband room say baher aa gy uur ik baar
pher talak bool de.uur sath ya bolha kay ya loo 3 talakin hoo gee hain.pher main rony lagee .kay yaa allha mery sath ya kiya zulm howa hy. merha kiya kasoor hay muj ko kion
peech main peeswaya geeya hy.kiya ya in sab loogon ki sazish thy ya kay mery shuher ny muj ko use kiya hy.pher merah shuher gher say baher nekal geeya. uur main room
main ja kar apna saman dalny lagee kay main apny gher ja rahy hoon. pher mere saas ny muj ko bolha na karo asy maat jao. main ny bolha kay main haram hoo gee
hoon is bandy kay leeya app bolty ho na jao.pher main room main bohat rony lagee.zoor zoor say. kay mery sath ya kiya zulm kiya hy. abhi mere shadi ko ik saal bhi nahin howa tha. serf
6 month howy hain uur mery sath ya kiya drama kar deya hy. jis main merha koi kasoor nahin banta. pher bhi muj ko kis baat ki saza mil rahy hy.
pher mera husbandmery rony ki awaz soon kar ander aya uur meree saas ny us ko samjaya kay tom is say rooju kar loo dubarha. pher mery shuher ny muj ko bolha main roju karta hoon tom say.
uur pher dars main ham ny 1000 rupy ka fruit bhi deya tha. meree saas uur mery shuher ny.is kay baad sham ko merha shuher muj ko muree ly geeya thaa. uur dosry din ham wapas ay thy.
pher is kay baad main chand din un kay paas rahy thy pakistan main pher main baroony mulk chali gee thy.ya baat 2012 april ki hy.tab say ab tak main pakistan apny shuher kay pas nahin gee. is kay baad merha shuher ny boha
search ki hy kay hamare talak nahin hoi hy. khuch bolty hain hoi hy. laken ham ny mulana say nahin poocha proper tareeky say.merah shuher bolty hain kay]
uger ya position ho tu talak nahin hoty
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1. If a person utters the divorce in a fit of rage or fury whereby he may be technically considered temporarily insane, then such an utterance is not to count as a valid divorce
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laken main un say agree nahin hoon kay wo mulana nahin hain wo her jagha say hadeeshoon ko ly aa kar khud ko tasalli dy rahy hain kay talak nahin hoi.but 2012 say ham a
appas main batin abhi tak 2013 aaj kay din tak.kalen merah dil bohat udas her time rahny lagha hy. kay us din kay baad na un kay waldeen ny is taraf koi tuwajjo de hay is masly ki taraf . bus mere sas ny bolha rooju karo ham ny kar
leeya. but main bohat parshan hoon. kay hamarha rishta batel tu nahin hoo geeya. merah shuher rooz new hadees ghul kay batata hy kay nahin hoi. but main hadeesoon par
kasy yakeen karoon. jab tak koi mufty islam ki rooshni say na deghy. is masly ko. merah shuher bhi mufti say khuch nahin poochta darty howy kay woo ya na bol
dy kay talak hoo gee hy.laken main dar rahy hoon kay haam ik dosry kay leeya haram tu nahin hoo gy hain. merah minya pakistan main hy. main mulk say baher hoon. main pakistan aana chahty hoon but woo nahin aty dy rahy
muj ko bolty hain tom uder hi rahoo. uur muj ko bholao. laken main darty hoon kay kahin asa tu nahin hy kay hamara rishta haram hoo geeya hoo uur ham najaiz tareeky say rahny lagin. is leeya main ny apny shuher ko bolha tha kay main
pakistan aty hoon uur ham dono kisi mufty kay paas ja kar ya maslha poochty hain. uur uger koi ghurbhar hoi tu ham mufty say baat kar kay us ko door karin gy, but woo nahin manty. uur na hi muj ko pakistan anin deety hain.
main is wajha say stress main aa gee hoon uur bohat parshan hoon. main namz rooza ki paband hoon allha kay azab say darty hoon. kay allha na kary kay hamarha rishta najaiz tu nahin hoo geeya.
main apny shuher ko apny paas bholany say phly ya shur karna chaty hoon kay kiya hamarha rishta jaiz hay ya haram hoo geeya hy.
kiya talak banty hy ya nahin.
please main bohat parshan hoon meree madad in islam uur kanoon ki nazer n app muj ko is ka jawab dain jitna jalde ho sakty
kion kay main bohat zahni toor par stress main aa gee hoon.
fakat app ki bahen.dowa goo
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djosernll |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Feb, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2013, 6:21pm |
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 help me please
main janty hon mera sawal bohat big hy but tafseel say bataya hy main ny taky app sab ko koi faslha karny main parshani na hoo. main ny tafseel say ik ik baat bata de hy. muj ko please is ka jawab islani uur kanoni toor par deya jay. taky main ghuna say bach jaion. jaan jaion kay ya rishta halal hy ya batel hoo geya hy, please help me.koi sawal uger poochna hy tu app pooch sakty hain.
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-Faiza- |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Jan, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Feb 2013, 8:23am |
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 _Sister_
Assalamealikum, Sister aap ki story bohat bari thea per mane puri parhi. or m toh es bare m kuch nhe keh sakhti per mera aap ko ek mashwara hai ke aap itna pareshan hai musfti wagera ke bare me soch rhe hai aap Quran Pak khol ke dekhe ke Allah (swt) ne talak ke bare me kya farmaya hai. In Shaa Allah aap ko apna jawab ache se mil jaega or aap mutamin bhe hojaogi. JazaALLah khair |
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 49 Post: 3410 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Feb 2013, 8:47am |
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sister Your story is very big I reaad its first part..Apka talak hochuka hai or pir mia bivi ki ossi tarah jaldi nikah nahe hosakti or na hi wapas bolne par ek dosre par halaal hojate hai. iss liye wo apke liye na mahram hai. Iss maimor kuch nahe hosakta. App wapasy ke liye ek qaereebi molvi alim se contact kare |
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djosernll |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Feb, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Feb 2013, 3:15pm |
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 SISTER
FAIZA BIBI PLEASE MUJ KO BATIN NA KAY QURAN PAAK MAIN KIS JAGHA DEGHON JEEDER SAY MUJ KO MERY SAWAL KA JAWAB MIL JAY
WO ASY KON SI JAGHA HY JAHAN SAY MAIN DEGHON KAY ASA NAHIN HOWA.
NEKHA BATEL HOWA HY YA NAHIN PLEASE MUJ KO THEEK TARAH SAY ISLAM KI ROSHNI MAIN JANNA HY.FOZIA SISTER PLEASE MUJ KO BATAIN KAY MAIN QURAN PAAK KI KIS JAGHA SAY TALASH KARON KAY MERY SAWAL KA JAWAB MUJ KO MIL JAY.
PLESAE TEL ME
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djosernll |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Feb, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Feb 2013, 3:19pm |
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BROTHER BHAI APP NY MERE STOREE KA FIST PART REED KAR KAY MUJ KO KASY FATWAH DY SAKTY HAIN KAY TALAK HO GEE HAY.
MIAN BOHAT PARSHAN HOON UUR MAIN ISLAM KI ROSHNI MAIN AAP SAB SAY HELP MAANG RAHY HOON KAY UGER KOI BANDA ISLAMI ROO SAY KIYA JAWAB DY SAKTA HY. AKHER IS FURM PAR BANDY APPNY SAWAL LY KAR ATY HAIN . UUR MAIN BHI SAWAL LY KAR AI HOON . JIS KA JAWAB MAIN POOCH RAHY HOON.
MEREE STOREE KOI FILM KI KAHANI NAHIN HAY S KA FIRST PAR REED KAR KAY NATEEJHA NEKALIN GY .YA MEREE ZINDAGEE KA SAWAL HY. DEEN KA MASLHA HY. MAIN DEEN KI ROSHNI MAIN BAAT KARNA CHAHTY HOON. MUKAMMAL THOOS TAREEKY SAY.
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djosernll |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Feb, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2013, 2:20am |
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main ny sawal ko an kar de. main app ky leeya sawal asan kar dety hoon kay.
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uger koi ghusa main talak deta hy tu kiya talak ho jaty hy. uur gsa ki kon si halat asy hy jis maintalak nahin ho. 2 talak room main bath kar .uur 3sre baher aa kar ghary hoo kar de gee ho uger.. .chalo maan ly ty hain kay uger 2 lakin ghusy main de hain .laken 3sre us kay chand min baad normal halat main de gee ho tu pher is ka kiya matlab hy.
uur pher uger banda boly kay main ny ghusy main de hy muj ko pata nahin tha. main illam nahin raghta tha is cheez kay bary main tu pher kiya hy. uur er bandy boly kay mahaz main ny drany kay leeya lak de hy tu er is ka kiya matlab hy..
plab ya sawal amain ny asan kar de.
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djosernll |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Feb, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2013, 4:54pm |
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reply please
koi hy please cmer sawal ka jawab deny ky leeya yahan par
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-Faiza- |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Jan, 2013 Topic: 4 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Feb 2013, 10:57am |
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_Sister_ Assalamealikum, mane apni ami se es bare me pocha toh unho ne kaha ke (talak ho chuki hai) q ke islam me 3 bar kehne se talak ho jate hai agar admi apne hosho hawaz me ho. ap ke mashle me hasband jo hai unhone kohe sharab nhe pee thea jo hum kahe ke woh nashe me tha ose pata nhe tha Islam me agar kese ne nashe me talak de toh woh talak nhe hoti q ke ose kese baat ka hosh nhe rehta. ap ke maslle me husband guse me tha os ne talak di woh talak ho gae ab ap os k liye haram ho gae ho chahe woh ab maan jae ya kahe k mane guse me kaha ab aap maan jao or mujh se sulah kr loo ye najahiz hai islam hume es ki ejazat nhe deta k kab chahe talak do phr kaho ke mane ase he kehdya ye ek bht bara gunah hai bacho ka khel nhe hai jo galti hojae. agar aap apne husband se dubara shadi karna chahti ho toh esa bhe nhe hosakhta... apko pehle kise or mard se shadi krne hogi phr aap apne 2sre husband se talak leke ya osi ki razamandi se apne pehle husband se shadi kr sakhti ho phr ye islam me jahiz hai ose hilala kehte hai.
agr aap humare kese baat se mutamin nhe toh ap bata sakhti hai.
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djosernll |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Feb, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Feb 2013, 5:56pm |
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THANX LAKEN MUJ KO YA BATIN KAY JASY KAY MAIN NY BOLH ATHA KAY USI TIME RUJU KAR LEEYA THA. UUR TUBHA KAY NAFAL BHI UNO NY PARY THAY..UUR PHER KAFARHA BHI DEYA THA.
UUR HAM US KAY BAD 3 WEEKS SATH MAIN RAHY THY..LAKEN AB MERHA DIL MUTMEEN NAHIN HO RAHA KAY MAIN THEEK IS MASLHY KA HAL JANANA CHAHTY HOON.KAY YA JY BEECH MAIN POINT AA RAHY HAIN .
KIYA KARONK
ION KAY MAIN NY JASA KAY FAIBA BAHEN NY BATAYA THA KAY QUN PAAK MAIN REED KARO. TU MAIN NY SURA-E BAKRAH . UR SURHA. TALAK MAIN REED KIYA HY
KAY 3 MONTH HOTY HAIN. UR UGER EDAT KAY DARMIYAN UGER MIYAN BIVI APAS MAIN HAMBESTARE KAR LYTY HAIN TU WO TALAK NAHIN BANTY.
WIK TALAK KI KISAM BAN JATY HY .JY TALAKE IN HOTY HAY JANI US MAIN KAFARH ADEPAR.
KAFARAH 2 MONTH RZY. YA BAND KO GHANA.
TU IS LEEYA MAIN SOOCH MAIN PAR GEE HOON KAY YA ALL KIYA KARONQURAN PAAK MAIN HY URAAT 3 MONTH EDAT KAY HOTY HAIN UUR UGER 3 MNTH KAY DARMIYAN AS MAIN RABITA JOOR YTY HAIN KCH NAHIN HOTA PH KAFARHA DENA PARTA HY JYA ILZ NELKALHAIN.
LAKEN URAT UGER 3 MONTH TAK MINYAN Y RABITA NAHIN RAGHTY.UUR APNY GHER CHALI TY HAY TU EDDAT UZARNY KAY BAAD URAT SRE JAGHA EKKAR SAKTY HY.
YA MAIN NY REED KIYA HY
PATTA NAHIN KHUCH SAMAJ NAHIN AA RHA MUJ KO
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MAIN DEGH RAHI HON KAY IS FURM MAIN BOHAT SAY LOOG HAIN HAZARON BATIN KARTY HAIN .LAKEN KAM KI BAAT KOI NAHIN KARTA AB YA MAIN NY MASLHA MNY RAGHA HY .KOI NAHIN KHU BATA RAHA
WASY IEEDER UDER KI BATIN KARTY RAHTY HAIN.
JES KO APP CHATING TIME PAS KAR BOL SAKTY HAIN
IHARY KHYAL
KEN MAIN SAMAJTY THY KAY YAHANPAR MUJ KO KOI BAAT PATTA CHALY GE LAKEN10000 BANON MAIN SAY RF 2 BANDON NY IS BAAT PAR JAWAB DEYA HY
CHALO APP KO ALLHA PAAK JAZAY KHEER DY GA
.APP KA BOHAT BOHAT SUKRYA KAY APNY KM TME MAIN AY MERY LEEYA TIME KALHA HY.
ALLHA PAAK APP KO ER DY GA. DOION MAIN YAAD RAGHON GE
APP KI BAHEN
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