Lost Sexual Desires

AOA, I am married since last 1 year no have no child. Mein ek bht bari problem mein hun or bht pareshan hun.
Mein jb bi akela hota hun to mere ander sex ki bht khuahish hoti hy, raat ko jb apni wife ke paas ata hun or sex start karta hun to ek dam sex ki khuahish khatam hojati hay, Penis to normal rehta hay magar is mein se Sakhti khatam hojati hay, mgr mein bht der tk apni wife ko foreplay dekar or thora sa intercourse kr ky fully satisfy kar deta hun, mgr is sary program mein mujhy bilkul bhi maza nahin ata ya kuch feel nahin hota.. Jo maza sex mein aana chahiye wo bilkul feel nehin hota,...

Pls advise mein....

AOA. I am married since last one year. I have o child till so far. I am in a problem and due to that remain tense. When I am alone I get sexual desire intensely. However once I reach to my wife and start the sex, I lose my all desires. I lose the erectile stiffness of penis at that time. I use to do fore play and a little bit sex with my wife in order to satisfy her but in all this program I don’t get any pleasure and I don’t get any feelings as well. I never get the pleasure that is achieved in doing sex.

re: Not Interested in Sex

yes

u need a complete sex education

us k liye ap is forum ki books ko achi tarahn read kijiye

baki rahi bat bachay ki to try kertey raheyn aur dua bhi kertey rahyen

ap k naseeb mein jo aulad hai wo ap ko zaroor miley gi

dont worry abt it

jitna ziada is cheez ko zheen per sawa keryen gay utni hi der hoti jaye gi

re: Lost Sexual Desires

There are certain reasons with which sexual desire is lost. Ask these qeustions by your self.

1 Are you depressed or anxious?

2. Have you lost interest in your wife sexually recently if yes then when and since after which occassion?

3. Have you not sinchronized with the body figure of your wife even after the passage of one year?

4. What is the age difference between you and your wife?

5 Do you have normal sleep erections of your penis?

6 Are you interested in any other women beside your wife?

7. Have you discussed this issue with your wife as well?

8. Do you feel tired when you want to start sex with your wife?

9. Does not your wife seduce you to do sexual play with her?

10. Have you stopped masturbation or not?

I will find the answers of these questions in your next post. Then any thing could be told to you in this regard.

VERY GOOD QUESTION

Answeres To Doc KK and Zeb

Dear Doctor K.K and Zeb,

Here is my answeres of the questions:

1. Are you depressed or anxious?      

Ans: I was a patient of depression & anxiety a year before, currently not..

2. Have you lost interest in your wife sexually recently if yes then when and since after which occasion?

Ans:     NO

3. Have you not synchronized with the body figure of your wife even after the passage of one year?

Ans:     NO, She is very attractive ans beautiful and loving

4. What is the age difference between you and your wife?

Ans: I am 27 and she is 23

5 Do you have normal sleep erections of your penis?

Ans: NO, i dont why...

6 Are you interested in any other women beside your wife?  

Ans: Sometimes

7. Have you discussed this issue with your wife as well?       

Ans: NO

8. Do you feel tired when you want to start sex with your wife?                   

Ans: NO

9. Does not your wife seduce you to do sexual play with her?                       

Ans: YES, she give me only kises, none of other...

10. Have you stopped masturbation or not?

Ans: Do Some time

zubimeh

yar tum to bilkul thek ho.  rahi aat sleep erection ki  if you dont do sex for a week... then you will start having your morning erection.... aur yeah koi zaroori bhi nahee hai ke sleep erection ho while you are married...

aur itna ziada forplay na karo ke tumhari desires hi wait ker ke khatam hojai... kuch arse ke wife satisfaction ko bhool jao...thora bhot forplay karo.. jab vagina wet ho jai to apna action start kardo.. i mean penis insert kardo... ahista ahista tum track per ajao ge... be happy...

@@@@zubimeh

agree with SYSTEM TOO

mujhe tmhara problem yeh b laghta hai k tumhari wife kisses k ilawa kch nahin kartein tum encourage karooo motivate karoo wife ko k wo b kiya karay sirf foreplay karna tmhara hi kaam nahin hai pyaar mohabbat se samjhaooo k hum donoo equal hain or donoo aisa khul kar karte tell her to put her shyness on side and show full of passion and maddness in love making after all iam ur husband and this is a only pleasure men and women can have once in a lifetime.....to sharmana kaisa aap baaton se motivate karooooo pyaar see INSHALLAH sab hojaaygaaaa

I have been to this situation..

Main khud bhee iss situation main rah chuka hoon. The best solution is not to feel forced to have sex. Very true wife ko satisfy karnay main lago gaay tu apna kam hojay gaa. As soon as she gets wet do ur work. Remember for fertility from 1 to 5 minutes of sex is good enough. Porno movies bhee kabhee self confidence ko khtam karte hain. So if u watch porno movies stop doing that. Try different positions for sex..keep ur sex interesting! Agar muslman hoo tu wife kaay pass janay saay pehlay 2 rakat namaz par liya karo and thank to God for giving u pretty wife. That will keep you away from bad thoughts..Keep urself happy and remember u have a beautiful and nice wife so be happy and enjoy ur life to the fullest!