Importance Of Love Part 2

My previous post Improtance Of Love was about both men and women. Some ppl semm to have alot of isssues regarding that as my full topic was no posted. therefore ppl think k im biased which i am not and to prove k im not favouring any one side I am posting a topic that is for men or in men's favour.

choti choti cheezein jinko hum ignore ker detay hein aur sochte bhi nahin woh kabhi kabh i buhat baray baray faide dettti hein. some people might think k i m exaggerating per aisa nahin ha it is not too difficult and these little efforts can lead us to great happiness.

Jab ek shoher/husband shaam ko thkka hara ghar ataa hai sakoon ki talash mein aur atay he usska mood he khrab sa ho jata hai and he starts watching TV or doing something else...

Wife ko yehi lgta hai k he doesn't love me' issko mujh se ziyada Tv se aur tv wali larkiyon se pyara haim  per sochein k woh tv wali larkiyan tou faek hein j k make up ker k soi hoti hein.

I suggeste, Aap ghar ki safai ker k, apne husband ki psnd ka khana bana k tyar ho k achay kapray pehn k unnko surprise karein. jab unnko feel hoga k aap ne unnki khushi k liye kiya hai tou unnk dil mein apki jagha aur ziada ho jayege aur woh dosri aurton ki bijae aap se nazer hatta he nahin payein gay,,,

woh biwi ko  roz he puranay kapron jo k ammoman gnday he hotay hein, bikhray huay balon mein dekh k tngg aa jatay hein and tehy expect something fresh and new.

u can make ur relation fresh and young by doing these littlest things.

Refering to PROPHET MUHAMMAD PBUH, he said k apne husband k liye sajhna dhjna sawaab hai aur yeh aurat ka haq hai.

baki jo mein ne candle light dinner ka kaha woh bhibiwi k liye he tha per birthday wishing was for both. mjhe nahin lgta k yeh kuch itna mehnga ya mushkil kaam hai per iss se aapka rishta zaroor change ho ga and inshaAllah for good. do it regardless k celebrating birthday haram hai ya halal, kionk jo cheez aapk husband ka focus aapki trf krti hai unnko ghair aurton se dooorr rkhti hai aapko khushiyan detti hai aur apki married life ko strong bnati hai woh kabhi ghlt ho he nahin skti.

mein 4th time yeh post likh rahe hn kionk pehli kisi na kisi trha lost ho jati hai so i m so tired right now can't wrote anymore as it is 4:49 am here.

try it and let me knw hw it went........

MAY ALLAH BLESS US ALL, AMEEN SUM AMEEN

Regards,

Fakhra

fakhra ji ye dobara post kiya hai

fakhra,this part is already posted and u have posted it again.anyways...thanks.nice sharing.fakhra,actually u have misunderstood nobody accused u of being biased.we were joking and u were not anyone's target.anyways on this i will share with u one of sooth's(she is one of the senior female members of the forum)

Duties of Wife: Respect of Husband

by sooth

Respect ki desire inherent hoti hai,laikin her koi es ko dainay ke liay readily willing nahi hotta.aap ke husband jab pora din ghar se bahir hotay hen tu bahot saray logon se contact me hotay hen.un me se kuch impolite aur insulting hotay hen jo ke person ko eventually upset kertay hen.jaisay ke aap un ki wife han tu wo aap se ghar me respect aur encouragement expect kertay hen.es se un ki raise hoti hui ego ko khatum kerain.

Husband ki honor aur respect aap ki value ko kisi bhi tara kam nahi keray gi,laikin ye energy aur better life ki struggle ke liay tendency provide keray gi.aap ko humesha un ko milna chahiay aur humesha greeting me aap un ko bahot respect aur deep admiration dain.jab wo talk kerain tu dermayan me interrupt mat kerain.courteous aur polite hon jab aap un se baat ker rahay hon aur un per shouting mat kerain.jab aap kisi se milnay ja rahay hon tu un ko pelhay meeting me enter hoonay dain,doseroon ke aagay un ki tahreef kerain.apnay children se apnay husband ki respect kerwayain aur ager wo apnay father ki teruf discourteous hon tu un ko sumjhayain.guest ke aagay un ko respect dain aur guests ke saath un ki needs ki teruf bhi attentive rahain.jab wo door per knocking kerain tu aap smile se door open kerain aur happy expressions dain.ye happiness ka small act itna effect rakhta hai ke ye man ki tired spirits ko refresh ker daita hai.kuch women soochti hank e ye behaviour strange hai.imagine kerain apnay husband ki greeting ko jaisay ke wo aik guest hon.ye correct attitude nahi hai because man pora din family ke well-being ke liay stugle kerta hai tu uss ko kuch consideration aur respect chahiay jab wo ghar return hotta hai.ye first greeting big impression create kerti hai aur jo kuch guest ke liay good hai wo family members ke liay bhi good hai.

Nabi(sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne fermaya:'woman ki duty ye hai ke wo door per call ka answer day aur husband ko welcome keray.

Imam Sadiq(AS) fermatay hen ke'wo woman jo apnay husband ki respect kerti hai aur ussay harass nahi kerti,wo fortunate aur prosperous ho gi'.

Nabi(sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne fermaya:aik wife husband ke hands wash keranay ke liay basin aur towel ko arrange kernay ke liay duty bound hai."

Nabi(sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne irshaad fermaya."ke ager main kisi ko doseray ke liay sajda kernay ka hukam daita tu aurat ko hukam daita ke wo khawant ko sajda keray".

Nabi(sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne irshhaad fermaya ke 3 logon ki namaz qabool nahi hotti aur na koi naiki ooper uthti hai,faraar hoonay wala ghulaam yahaan tak ke wo wapis apnay malik ki teruf  lotay aur apna haath un ke haath me rakh day,wo aurat jis ka khawant uss se naraz ho aur nashay wala jab tak hoosh me na aye".

Careful rahain ke husband ko humiliate mat kerain,un se harshly baat na kerain,un ko abuse mat kerain,un ke liay inattentive mat hoon aur un ko kisi obscene title se call na kerain.ager aap unhain offend kerain gi tu wo in return aap ki insult kerain gay.eventually,love aur trust ki spirit khatum ho jaye gi.consequently,aap dono ke constant quarrels aur arguments hon gay jis se divorce ho sakti hai.even ager aap aik saath rahain gay bhi tu life bahot saray turbulent moments se fill ho jaye gi.antagonism aur psychological disturbance ki feelings se couple's life hazardous ho jati hai jo ke crime ki teruf lead kerti hai.folloing stories aisay hi kuch points ko illustrate kerti hai:

"aik 22 year old man ne apni 19 saal ki wife ko tab mar diya jab wo uss se abused hua.court me uss ne kahaa:meri shaadi uss aurat se aik saal pelhay hui thi.begining me meri wife meray se bahot pyar kerti thi.laikin zyada time nahi hua tha ke wo change ho gayi aur uss ne mujhe humiliate kerna start ker diya.uss ne her possible occasion aur her smallest issue me mujhe per abusive language use ki,aur mera mazaakh uurwaya,meri left eye me squint ki wajja se wo mujhe "blind ass" bulati.aik din uss ne mujhe aisay hi bulaya ke mujhe ghussa ah gaya aur mainay uss ko 15 bar knuif se mara."

"aik 71 year old man ne apni wife ko mar diya aur explain kiya:'uss ke manners meray liay suddenly change ho gaye thay aur uss ne mujhe ignore kerna start ker diya tha.aik bar uss ne mujhe intolerable man kahaa."mujhe realize hua ke wo meray se pyar nahi kerti,main uss per suspicious ho gaya aur ussay axe se kill ker diya",.

Rasool Allah(sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne fermaya:"meri ummat ki auratoon me sub se afzal wo hai jo apnay khawand ke saath husn-e-salook se paish aye aur apnay khawand ki khowaish ke motabik fermabardari kerti rahay,siwaye in qamoo ke jo gunnah ke han.tu aisi aurat ko raat aur din me aisay hazaar shaheedoon ka sawaab milta hai jo khuda ki rah me saber ke saath shaheed hotay hen aur es ajar ki tawaqa khuda se rakhtay han".

Naik aur fermaberdar bivi ke liay jannat ki basharat hai.

Nsbi(sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne fermaya"aurat jab paanch waqt namaz parhay,ramzan ke rozay rakhay,apni sharum gha ki hifazat keray aut apnay khawand ka hukam maay tu jannat ke jis derwazay se chahay ander dakhil ho".

Nabi(sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne fermaya jo aurat es haal me mar jay ke uss ka khawant uss se khush ho tu wo jannat me poonch gayi".

rE: Fakhra (bismillah hirrehman nirreheem 786)

fakhra

bohat achi hae good effort & keep it up:)

nice fakhra

marry

amahmood32

Thnx amahmood32

shadi mubarak in advance,

acha husband huhh, koi acha bacha he nai hai iss duniya mein :-((

Fakhra aunty

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