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samina_76 |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Jul 2007, 4:22pm |
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 My Husband Wants Sex All The Time: How Do I Make Him Cool?
DEAR SIR I AM MARRIED WOMEN HAVING KIDS, ALLHAM DILLILAH ALL NORMAL. BUT MY PROBLEM MY HUSBAND VERY HOT AND SEXY, HE ALWAYS ASK ME GIVE 10 MIN , I WANT TO MAKE LOVE WITH U. HOW I CAN MAKE HIM COOL. SOME TIME I WAS TIRED, I REFUSE HIM THEN HE GET ANGRY WITH ME. BUT I DONOT LIKE SEX ALL TIME . SOME TIME BUSY AND TIRED . TELL HOW I MAKE MY HUBBY HAPPY SHAMA
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2047 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2007, 3:12pm |
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1. shohar ko jetni dafa mubasrat ki khahis hogi, bivi ko otni dafa mubasrat karni hogi. agar shohar rozana mubasrat karna chahta hai tu phir ap ko bhi rozana mubasrat karni hogi.
2. agar ap husband se cooperate nahi kare gi tu woh doosri shadi ke bare mai sochne lage ga jo keh ap ke lia qabil-e-qabool nahi hoga.
3. agar shohr har waqt foreplay ki bat karta hai tu ap ko shohar ki bat man leni chahia. is mai harj hi kia hai.
4. agar shohar har waqt mubasrat ki bat karta hai tu phir bahimi mashwarah se mubasrat ki timing set karni chahia.
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tsalam |
Group: Experts Joined: 07th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2007, 4:52pm |
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I find the replies very harsh, as it often touches the issue from a male perspective. Dear sister Shama, I understand your problem. If you are not totally againt sex (which I assume you are not), by being a active partner during sex and satisfying yourself to the fullest, you will not only be satisfying yourself but you will satisfy yourself. I guess you do realize that sex is an important thread in marriage, and should not be ignored.
So, my suggestion is for you to be proactive, and not be the passive partner in fulfilling your husband's need. Try asking yourself from him and get pleasure from it. Having many kids does not prevent finding 10-30 minutes every day (we pray more than that each day), unless there is some other issues involved. Ask for 20 minutes of his time if he asks for 10 minutes, and try to send the message that sex feels better when it is done with a few days break with more time per encounter. But start with little steps, be active and demanding of him. He will love it and then you can reduce the frequency later once he knows that you also enjoy it and by reducing the frequency you want to enjoy it even more.
Hope this helps.
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tsalam |
Group: Experts Joined: 07th Jul, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Jul 2007, 4:54pm |
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Correction I find the replies very harsh, as it often touches the issue from a male perspective. Dear sister Shama, I understand your problem. If you are not totally againt sex (which I assume you are not), by being an active partner during sex and satisfying yourself to the fullest, you will not only be satisfying yourself but you will satisfy your husband I guess you do realize that sex is an important thread in marriage, and should not be ignored.
So, my suggestion is for you to be proactive, and not be the passive partner in fulfilling your husband's need. Try asking him to have sex with you and get pleasure from it. Having many kids does not prevent finding 10-30 minutes every day (we pray more than that each day), unless there is some other issues involved that is bothering you in having sex with him. Ask for 20 minutes of his time if he asks for 10 minutes, and try to send the message that sex feels better when it is done with a few days break with more time per encounter. But start with little steps, be active and demanding of him. He will love it and then you can reduce the frequency later once he knows that you also enjoy it and by reducing the frequency you just want to enjoy it even more.
Hope this helps. |
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Question1 |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Oct, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:8th Oct 2007, 10:53pm |
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 too much sex
hi saima 76
I have had the same problem with my hubby, he likes to have me atlest 3-4 times a day, and takes atlest 20-25 min each time, and I was not enjoying it too much sex, but after that I have learned to give him blow job and relax him or masterbates him couple of times a day when he asked for sex u can try doin it man wont say no to it . Sana |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Oct 2007, 4:16am |
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Question1 ? dono doctors nay bohat achay or detailed replies kiye hain and all females should read it.
Question1 muje bara afsos hua hai k mainay tumharay previous question par itna time waste kar k reply kia
Q:http://www.forum.noorclinic.com/thread.php?topic=4139
your profile says u are 27 years old unMarried girl, and you pretend that u are unMarrried girl in your previous post and now acting like a well experienced married orat.. Ramadan ka ehtaraam hai warna tumhe bohat kuchh kehnay ko dil chah raha hai,, so it is a request to you not to tell lies just for fun whatever you are. |
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