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teena1 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 8:30am |
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 Husband Does Not Take Interest In Sex: What Is The Reason?
hi maery shaadi ko 4 saal ho gaye hain laiken mairy husband ko sex life or play karney main koi interest nahi aisa kyun hai . aur doosra aik do bar thorey deer kay laiyain karney per allah nay 2 daughters bi dee hai .but maery husband kakoi dil nahi karta kuch karney ko .ab mujay kiya karna chaiyain ,aur kiya mujay sabar karney per koi ajjar(sawab) bi melay ga ya nahi I got married four years back but my husband doesn’t have
any interest in doing sex and play. What is the reason for that? However; due
to occasional sex Allah has awarded us with two daughters. Would I get reward
on my patient?
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Seemi |
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 9:05am |
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Teena1 Aap ko sab se pehlay yeh pata karna chahiye k aap k husband ko sexual activities mein interest kyon nahin hai....
Is mein bura mannay ki baat nahin lekin ho sakta hai k aap k husband ilegal sexual activities mein mulawis hoon, jis ki waja se woh aap mein koi interest nahin letay.
Agar aisi koi baat nahin hai to aap k husband ko koi nafsiyati problem ho sakti hai jis ki proper counseling ki zaroorat hai.
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 9:24am |
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salam teena1 hi
hi.
maery shaadi ko 4 saal ho gaye hain laiken mairy husband ko sex life or play karney main koi interest nahi aisa kyun hai .
ans.app pleas un se kahen k wo ye read karen:Book for Married Men
aur doosra aik do bar thorey deer kay laiyain karney per allah nay 2 daughters bi dee hai .
ans.mubarak ho.
but maery husband kakoi dil nahi karta kuch karney ko .ab mujay kiya karna chaiyain ,
ans.ap unhen ouper d gy link zoroor read karayen q k aisa tb hota jb sex se proper maloomat na ho to behter hy k ap unhen 0ouper d gy link zoroor read karayen.
,aur kiya mujay sabar karney per koi ajjar(sawab) bi melay ga ya nahi
ans. g han bilkul bhut ajero swab bhut milegaa zoroor innshaALLAH. |
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Waterr |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Jul, 2009 Topic: 59 Post: 3787 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 10:05am |
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no interest in sex: everyone here has replied good...
but i want to add a thing
u must see are you a source of attraction for him....?
i mean to say make yourself more attarctive to him by following what he likes and dislikes...
you have been with him for so long now atleast you can judge which colour , type of clothes and meal and chit chat he likes and what he dislikes....
do not just pre-occupy yourself in kids tooo much and donot cut off his time....
do something new.... if you want the relations more often you just put your shyness aside for a while and initiate the first step yourself.......may it be a surprise for him...etc....
and just look out that are there any added financial or family problems that keep him occupied?...share those
plus yes inshallah you will be rewarded for ur sabar but its better to find the route cause and correct it... |
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 10:54am |
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 teena g
teena g aap apne husband k samnay kis holiya main athin hain ban than kar yeah asse hi ganday kapron main \
saj sawar kar apne husband k pass jayain or ek bahut khusbo dar ittar use karain jisse aap k husband aap ki taraf khichain gay
or khushih karain khubsurat lagay aap ki har cheez or ittar lazmi use karain or saj sawar kar hi apne husband k pass jayain isse aap ka husband ko kafi faraq paray ga
or pher un ko pyar se un k kaan main jaa kar bolain i love you meri jaan janu jo b un ko acha lagta ho
bas yehhi karain dekhte hain pher kya hota he
99% kam hojagye ga hehehehe |
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made4u |
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 12:42pm |
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re.. Agree with waterr |
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2009, 2:03pm |
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Re: Husband Does Not Take Interest In Sex: What Is The Reason?
Things that make husband empty-heartened:
A full chapter is available in the book on the forum on this subject
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teena1 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 6:30am |
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re. aap sub ka suggestion dainay ka shokriya.Mai acchay aur saaf kapron main hi rahtey ho .aur shakal surat ki bi bori nahi. but kuch bi kaam nahi aata,
mairey husband apni five time ki namazi aur Allah se darney waley hain iss laiye wo bi bahir ghalat kamoo main nahi ho saktay .sub kay saath achay say miltay hain aur maira bi dosray kamoo main help kartey hain laiken kabi bi mairey saath sex or play karney ko nahi importance daitey ,ya zaroori nahi smajtay kiyun? |
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waseem08 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Apr, 2009 Topic: 13 Post: 1304 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 8:17am |
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teena1 bhan salaam app please doctor kk ki d gy link or waseem08 ki d gy link read karen or apne husbend ko b krwaye INNSHAALAH sb behtr hogaa. |
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TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 8:34am |
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 @@@@teena1
waja kuch b hos akhi hai aapki lack of boldness......aap cooperate nahin kartein pyaar nahin kartein.................khul kar enjoy nahin kartein unke saath har qctivity me part nahin letein ahgay se ahgay kch nahin akrtein in sab baaton see mard moar hojate hian pir wo ghari aurtoon me interest lene lagte hain
har HUSBAND ko privacy k andar bold sexy romantic loving caring WIFE chaayee hoti hai or privacy see bahaar aik sharmoo hayaa rakhnee wali shareef wife jo k aik dum sahi baat hai or jaiz b
This has been very eloquently explained by Imam Muhammad al-Baqir when he said,
"The best woman among you is the one who discards the armor of shyness when she undresses for her husband, and puts on the armor of shyness when she dresses up again." (Wasa'il, vol. 14, p. 14-15) After all, modesty and chastity in public is the hallmark of a Muslim lady.
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teena1 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2009, 12:30pm |
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re main The Rock ki baat say agree nahi karti main piyar karti hou tu iss leiyain saath naba rahi hou ..warna ajkal ki duniya mein kiya............ nahi huta.
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teena1 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2009 Topic: 5 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2009, 8:30am |
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re how can u say this ,I don't love with my husband,i do thats why i am still living with him and i will be with him always.even he knows that how much i am loving and caring . |
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eagle fly |
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 2:55am |
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 teena sister
Sab nay achay replies diay hyn.
Teena sister apko jo link doctor.kk ny dia h yap usay zarur read karain,Inshallah apkay saray problems solve hojaengy.
Ap apnay pyaray husband sy khul kar is issue par baat karain k akhir wo kyun ap k sath khul kar sex aur foreplay nahi kartay?
Ap unsy complain kar sakti hyn ye apka haq hy.
Jaisa k dosray members ny apko advice di hy k ap khud initiative lyn khud start lyn aur boldness ka muzahira karian apnay husband k samnay.
Jab ap apnay closed room main apnay husband k samnay uskay sath foreplay start kardyngi to phir dekhiaga k wo kaisay sex main interest ni lytay. |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2267 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2009, 10:48am |
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 teena
husband ko achi food khilao ... specialy ..fish, dates, milk, fish twice a week khilain... milk main khajoor paka ker khilo.. hosakta hai keh app ke husband ki sex dr low ho.. garam chez khane se penis ziada jaldi erect hoga...
what is your husband age and how is health..?
does he have morning erection....?
Possibilities
ager app ke huband ko morning main erection hoti hai to iska matlab hai app ke husband app ke ilawa kissi aur se sex nahee kar rahe.. aur unki sex dr bhi high hai.. but ager penis erection nahee hai to both possibilities are there.. either ilegal sex OR unki sex dr low hai.. .. it also depend on age.. ager unki age 40 ya above hai to shaid morning erection na ho... explain more about your husband...?? aur jab woh sex karte hain to erection thek hoti hai... etc...etc.....
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2009, 11:39pm |
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Re: Husband Does Not Take Interest In Sex: What Is The Reason? ager app ke huband ko morning main erection hoti hai to iska matlab hai app ke husband app ke ilawa kissi aur se sex nahee kar rahe.. aur unki sex dr bhi high hai.. but ager penis erection nahee hai to both possibilities are there.. either ilegal sex OR unki sex dr low hai.. ..
Ans: There is no relation between morning erection, illegal sex and lack of sexual desire. Morning erection is a natural phenomenon and it happens irrespective of sexual desires etc. There is no sign of illegal sex in the man's body. |
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2009, 12:04pm |
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teena teeena g is main hum log kuch nahi kar sakte hain wo aap ko hi pata he aap k husband kaise hain 4 saal hogaye hain or abi taq aap un ko samji hain pata nahi kyun
shahid un ka etna dil nahi karta sex karne ka tu aap kya kar saktin hain is liye sabar karain bas yehhi acha he
sabar karain or yehhi aap k liye bether hai or apne husband ko feel karwayain un ko pyar karain ko feel karwadain assa un ko ehsas ho aap ko kis cheez ki zarorat he
ab feel tu karwana janti nahi hain yeah aap k husband ko feel kuch nahi hota is main hum kuch nahi kar sakte hain is liye ye topic ab close kardain ek had hoti he ek bat ki
kitne logon ne aap ko jawab diya bas b kardo achi bat nahi bar bar ek hi bat sab bolain
aap qismat main assa tha tu aap b kuch nahi kar saktin na hum bas dua kiya karo or ab ye topic close karo bas karo ye topic |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2267 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2009, 1:22pm |
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Doctor KK agreed that there is no sign of ilegal sex in men body
yes morning erection is a natural phenomenon... But if young man do not have sex for long long time then most of men will have morning erection..
what i said is possibilties... if you read the paragraph heading.. also in her situation if young man does not have sex for months and months then usually most men does have morning erections.. if a young married person does sex every night or 4 times a week then morning erection does not show up... at least this is what happen with me and also have enough discussion with married friends..... i did not say that if morning erection does not appear then definitely he is involved in ilegal sex... what i said is possible... i also said that husband might have low sex dr.. yeah mumkinat main se hai... if you read my whole post again you will understand... and thanks for reading my comments..
if you dont agree with my comments... then please explain what could be happening with her husband.. assume he is young.. about 30years or above a little.. I would like to learn more.. |
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Sep 2009, 4:17am |
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Re: Husband Does Not Take Interest In Sex: What Is The Reason? Well what I have observed and studied, morning erection would be more frequent when penis is being used. Means, masturbation, Night Fall and Intercourse. Therefore; I have given the above reply. |
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TheRock |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Sep 2009, 4:22am |
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@@@@teena1 Mera kehne ka matlab yeh nahin tha k u dont love him.......mera matlab thaaa k physcial relation aap khul kar nahin banaati hooo boldly frankly openly jo k har mard ko accha laghta hai or JOSH ahta hai issay agr partner b cooperate karay ahagy se ahgay is waja see unki shaid sex desire kum ho sakhti hain ...........or tum abi shaid physical relation banaane mee 100% frank nahin hoiii hoooo ab to ho jaana chaayeee agr waqaii u love him qk jissay love karte hian ussay frank hone k liyeee 2 ya 3 month hi bht hote hain or tmhari shaadi ko i think 4 years hogaye hain............. mene apne last reply me aik acchi baat bataiiii hai Aalim ki usko ghoor se parhoo or samjhoooo
BEST OF LUCK |
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System |
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| Posted on:24th Sep 2009, 8:23am |
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Doctor KK janab app ki study ko to hum challage nahee karsakte but han Observations different hosakti hain for each man.. |
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