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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:19th May 2009, 5:34am |
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 Birth Control. How Do I Escape From Pregnancy?
Salam!
my question is dat am gona get merried soon, n i dont wana get pregnent for 1 year due to my healt which iz so down, plus am a depression patient due to sum domestic probs dats y i dont wana have baby for a year to get out of it, but my husb wana have it even he knws every thing, kindly suggest me any "daisi totka/tareqa" to not to get pregnent for a year, plz any "nuskha" aor sumthing, am extremely worried n having muscular pain due to exsisive thinking evryting on it.
thank u.
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:19th May 2009, 9:11am |
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Re: Birth Control. How Do I Escape From Pregnancy? Dear sister by law and ethics, both husband and wife must be agreed if they want birth control. Since in this co-operation of both of them is required. |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:19th May 2009, 11:35pm |
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pome pome ur not married yet isliye abhi is bat ko chor dain jab apki shadi hojaye aur apko lagey ke u dont want a baby for a year tu apne husband se bat karen agar wo bhi razi hon tu buhut se tareekey hain contraception ke, desi totkon aur koi bhi fuzool cheez khanay se guraiz kijiye ga. Condom can be used without consultation wheras diaphram, pills, IUD's keliye apko gyno se consult karna parega. Lekin mera mashwara yehi hay ke shaadi hojanay ka intezar karen aur mutual understanding se decide karen |
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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:20th May 2009, 3:53am |
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ma behad-o-hesab preshan hon, plz help me doctor KK apka bht shukerya apna wakt nekal k mujha reply keya, ma behad tensed hon, mery hony waly husband mere problems nhe samajh rahy hyn, ma keya kern kanhan jaun kuch samajh nhe ata, ma already depression patient hon, ma na so parahe hon na kha parahe hon ise tention ma, baraey meherbani mujha koe tareqa bataden nhe to ill colaps, ma behad-o-hesab preshan hon, plzzzzz mere madad kern,
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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:20th May 2009, 3:57am |
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koyal sis plz ap b mere mad kern sister plz mere madad kern ma behad-o-hisab preshan hon. ma kha pe nhe parahe, am already depression patient, plz mere madad kern, wo mere bat nhe samajh rahy, ma forced pregnancy nhe chate na afford kerskti hon, Allah k leay mere madad kern, pills wagera sy body expend hojate hy bht, aur kisi method ka mujha pata nhe hy jo safe ho n body expend na ho, sewaet condom k jo k wo kerny py nhe manty, koe hakeeni totka ho to mujha bataden plzz. ma yahe soch soch k mer jaungi. plz help me
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goodman |
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| Posted on:20th May 2009, 5:54am |
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ok pome kiya bat ha ap shadi say phlay itna tense hoo..........to shadi kay bad jab pregnent ho jaoo ge to pher kitna thumhay tensa hoo ga..........is kay baray may be soch loo...............abi say............. |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:20th May 2009, 1:22pm |
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POME Pome I understand ur under depression aur ap forced pregnancy nahi chahteen lekin aik bat dil se thandey dimagh se socho ke apko kesa lagey ga jab apke wajood se aik naya wajood janam lega jo apka hissa hoga apka apna jisey ap apna khoon apni sari tawanayi do gi tu kya wo apko is depression se bahar nahi le aaye ga aulad itni bari khushi hay ke specially maan ko sab kuch bhula deti hay aap yakeen jano jab aap pregnant hogi tu apke dil-o-dimagh main sirf apne bachey ka khayal hoga aur wo 9 mahiney wo sirf apka hoga jis main kisi ki sharakat nahi hogi. Ap ye socho kitney hi log hain jo aulad keliye tarastey hain, aulad paaney keliye wo apna sab kuch luta saktey hain tu aap ye socho ke aap qudrak ke against kyun jana chahti ho agar Allah ko manzoor hay tu us jaan ko anay se koi nahi rok sakta.
Aap kyun abhi se soch soch ke khud ko halkan kar rahi ho, bilfarz apne koi tareeka ikhtiar kar bhi liya tu ye socho ke kal ho apke husband ko pata chul gaya tu ap logon ka rishta shuruwat main hi pareshanion ka shikar hojaye ga, pareshanian har kisi ki zindigi main hota hay lekin har haal main Allah ka shuker ada karna chahiye aur khush rehna chahiye Allah apne pyare bandon ka imtehan leta hay aur jo har haal main uska shuker ada kartey hain ALlah usko buhut nawazta hay. Kuch mamlon ko Allah ki babarkat zaat pe chor dena chahiye aap sochna choro aur namaz perha karo aur apne liye sukoon manga karo. |
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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:21st May 2009, 4:40am |
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koyal sis aysi bat nhe hy peyari koyal sis apka behad shukerya apna mujha itna wakt deya apna, behan ma namaz Allhamdulillah perhte hon, fajar mis hojate hy, bakya aukat ma Allah ka kerm hy Us ny toufeek di hy, raha bachy ki khuwahish ka sawal to bht si baten hyn jo ma foram py to nhe bataskti, par ap itna jan len k jab zindagi ma kabhe sukh na mila ho, neend mazeed bais-e-takleef ho, aur pal pal insan under he under khud ko katra katra merta dykhy to keya beet'ti hy wo to bas Allah he janta hy, raha mery hony waly husband ka sawal to wo mashaAllah Allhamdullilah mujha behad chaty hyn-bawajod mery halat jany huwy b.un sy ma na poch leya hy k ager naturally he nhe huwe olad to? to unho na kaha k koe bat nhe, ap jante hongen k ek normal fully sehat mand aurat k during n after pregnancy under depression chali jate hy, to ma to phr severe patient hon. sisters i my self studied psychology for 4 years, dats y mujha symptoms malum hyn mere mental contion k, aur ma na properly study keya hy, ager mere in mental state py ma pregnent huwe to Allah na kery ma shezofaranic b hosakti hon, jo k ek takreeban laelaj merz hy, kio k mery demagh ma ab mazeed jhatky khany ki sakat nhe hy, ma ek sall jst is waja sy chate hon k ma apni jismani aur zehni sehat bahal ker sakun, taka apna bachy k dil khol k bhar por tareqy sy istakbal kersakun, abhe ma katan nhe chate jabhe ma apna madad mag rahe hon:( mujha wakt chaheay behan:( shayad apko samajh na aey, balky mere to yahe dua hy k na he samajh aey apko coz samajhta wohe hy jis py pare ho:( aur Allah na kery kisi py b aysi pary k jeny ki tammna he merjaey:( bas apka mujhpy bara ehsan hopga ager ap mujha koe aysa nuskha ya totka bataden jo nuksan deh na ho aur ek sal tak ka mujha wakt mil jaey, apki behad mashkoor. apka jawab ka intizar rahyga:(
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:21st May 2009, 1:23pm |
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pome I understand your situation pome n i relly feel for u ALlah apko jald az jald sehat aur jismani aur zehni sukoon ata karey.
rahi baat pregnancy avoide karne ki tu bagher drugs ke jo tareekey hain wo buhut hi unreliable hain lekin phir bhi apko lagta hay ke aap try karna chahti ho tu pehli bat jo apko pata honi chahiye ke 14th day of ur period is your fertile period jismain sabse ziada chances hotay hain pregnancy ke is main 2 din ooper neechay kar lain total 5 days to be on a safer side, in dino intercourse na karen. Ye tareeka sirf unke liye sahi rehta hay jinke periods regular hon, doosra risk ye hay ke sperms 7 intercourse ke 7 din tak active rehte hain,
Doosra tarika hay apna body temperature lete rehna, fertile period main temperature slightly zada hota hay is tereh bhi intercourse avoid karke pregnancy se bacha ja sakta hay, lekin ye bhi risky hay kyunke bosy temperature kisi aur waja se bhi ooper nichey hosakta hay.
You can also use a diaphram after consulting a gyno as the size may vary, but with dis method u need to be taught how to insert.
In the end main yehi kahungi ke koshish karen ke aap apne husband ko mana lain kyunke agar unki razamandi shamil hogi tu aapke liye ziada asani hojaye gi |
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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd May 2009, 2:07am |
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koyal sis
sweet sis apka behad shukerya apna mujha reply keya, koyal sis i didnt get da 2nd method u wrote abt sperms activation, cud u plz make me understand it? 2ndly wat is diaphram? aur keya during intercourse ya husband ko pata to nhe chalyga? aur month ma total 11 days hoty hyn na to be on a safer side? i mean periods k 8th day to 18th day r supposed not to be for intercourse interms to escape pregnancy? aur i came 2 knw a daisi totka, ap iska bary ma apni raey dejeay plz,,,,,,
"adha pao methe dana, ek pao purani black gurh. dono k teen teen portions kerlen. then 1 portion 2 glass water ma pakaen, itna pakaen k wo 1 cup reh jaey, then nehar moo pelen. 3 days reguler kern. inshaAllah dates ajaengen"
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7344 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd May 2009, 8:56am |
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ok wa je wa kiya recipe ha..........kamal ha...........pome jee .......... |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:25th May 2009, 1:43pm |
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pome pome thats rubbish dont use any of these totkay, jisne duniya main aana hota hay chahay kuch bhi karlo wo aajata hay Allah ki raza ke agay kisi ka bas nahi chalta,
maine apko ye bataya tha ke apke period ke 12th se 16th day tak fertile period hota hay isme intercourse na kya jaye tu pregnancy ke chances kam hotay hain lekin ye sirf unke liye hay jinke periods regular hotay hain aur doosra ye ke sperms have a tendency to live upto 7 days iska matleb ke agar in dino ke 7 days pehle bhi intercourse kya hay tu hosakta hay ke koi sperm active ho aur pregnancy hojaye, lekin ap ye socho ke aap jo kar rahi ho wo aik tereh se dhoka hay aap apne hubby ko agar mana lo tu asani hogi nahi tu ye socho ke wo apke is tereh gaps pe suspicious hongey aur apka relationship kharab hoga
diaphram are woman condoms jo vagina main insert kya jata hay lekin ye ap shadi se pehle nahi use kar sakti kyunke iske liye apko pehle gyno kse checkup karwana parega jo apko tarika aur apka size bataye gi is doran u cud rupture ur hymen which is not at all gud for u, aur haan iske baray main apke hubby ko bilkul pata chal sakta hay
mera ye mashwara hay ke aap shaadi ke baad pregnancy avoid karne ke bajaye shadi ke date agay karwa lain takay aap apne aapko mentally prepare kar sakain |
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