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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:21st May 2009, 7:21am |
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 Birth Control: How To Avoid First Nit?
plz help me. i dont want pregnancy on my first nit, kindly guide me, mery husband chaty hyn but i dont, due to my very down health i cant afford it, plz give me any nuskha, regards,
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rukhsana |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 86 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 2:06am |
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@ pome best and safe method of birth control is using condom.so you should try to convince your husband for it.but if you fail to do so, then the option left is usage of tablets.greenstar tablets are easily available with method of use written on them.your husband wont even know that you are using tablets |
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 3:09am |
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Re: Birth Control: How To Avoid First Nit? This is un ethical to do birth control with out mutual understanding of Husband and Wife. Please avoid it to do so. Thanks. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd May 2009, 3:17am |
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yes agreed to Dr k k
wese bi start mein gap nahi dena chahiye
pehla bacha ho janay deyn
us k bad beshak 3-4-5 saal ka gap dey dijiye ga |
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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:24th May 2009, 4:17am |
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am extremely tensed plz help me ap sab ka bht shukerya apna wakt nekal k mujha reply keya, ma
behad tensed hon, mery hony waly husband mere problems nhe samajh rahy
hyn, ma keya kern kanhan jaun kuch samajh nhe ata, ma already
depression patient hon, ma na so parahe hon na kha parahe hon ise
tention ma, baraey meherbani mujha koe tareqa bataden nhe to ill
colaps, ma behad-o-hesab preshan hon, plzzzzz mere madad kern,
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rukhsana |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 86 Age:
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| Posted on:24th May 2009, 11:18pm |
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@ pome ab aap ka masala greenstar tablet course se hi hal hoga |
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tma_777 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Jan, 2009 Topic: 6 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2009, 1:41am |
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ap apni bat pe ghor krien miss ek male hone k nate me ap ko mashwara do ga k phli bar gape na dein. phla baby hone dien phr wakfa kr lien. me ne both se aise case deke hn jo phli br me hi medicine istamal krte hn to phr un ko bad me olad ni hoti.
dosri bt ye k islam me olad k lia hi shadi ka kaha gia h
husbnd se chup k tablet ya koi aise tarika jis se pregancy no ho ye both bra gunah h.is k lia husbnd k dil me ap ki ahmiyat khtm ho jai g.
ap apne husbnd ko khush rkien phla baby hone dien phr husbnd ko wakfe pe convince kr lien
ye yad rkein k jb ap ka baby ho ga ap ki ahmiyat husbnd k lia double ho jai g.
jo ap soch re hn ye islam me bilkul jaiz ni h. husbnd ki mrzi shamil ho to phr tek h. lkn mrzi khushi se ho. ye na ho k ap husbnd ko emotional black male kr k ye bt manwain to b is ka both gunah h. |
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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:28th May 2009, 6:47am |
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dear brother brother apna bilkul thek kaha, but keya islam ma ya thek hy zaberdasti kerna? jab k i dant wanna avoid it 4 fun, mery pas geniun waja hy, yahe to hota hy, jab k mery wo mujha be had o hisab chahty hyn but after all he z a man, koe kisi k under uther k to nhe samajh sakta na, kher apna mujha reply keya apka behad shukerya, pata nhe ma kis sy help lun samajh nhe ata, my world is getting even more darker, jst all alone i am, anyways, jab th jena to peryga,
thankx a million brother, |
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mna1978 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jan, 2009 Topic: 15 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:29th May 2009, 1:48am |
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pome Dear Sister I think you are over reacting....
Agar aap ko feel ho raha hai kay aap kay sath zabardasti ho rahy hai too aap shadi na karo... because... agar aik admi nay meri pasy deny hain... main us say pasy mangata hoon aur woo ya kahy key mery sath zabardasty ho rahy hai too koon ghalat hoo ga... Ab aap kahain ge kay pasy main aur shadi main faqar hai... Magar my dear sister baat haq ki hai... Ya aap kay husband ka haq hai...
Why you want to avoide pregnecy in the first place...(Due to your poor health)... aap nay ya kesy andaza lagaya kay aap ki sehat theek nhi hai... Kuhud ya kisi doctor nay kaha...
Mere Muzwara hai...
Talk to your husband... and visit a doc... if the doctor says that your are not fit for pregnency.. then i think your husband will not force... agar woo phir bhi bazid hoon to wo galty par hoon gay... Aur agar doctor says you are right then go for it.. ho sakta hai pregnency say aap ki sehat theek ho jayee...
Main aur mery wife last 1.5 years say pregnency kay leya try kar rahy hain... App ko keya pata kay ya kinti bary khusi hai... ya to un logon say pochnain jin kay haan uolaad nhi hai....
So visit a doc, apny honay waly husband ya ami kay sath... agar doc kahy kay you are fit then go for it...
ALLAH aap kay leya asaneyaan peda kary....
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pome |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2009 Topic: 4 Post: 21 Age:
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| Posted on:30th May 2009, 4:35am |
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brother mna1978 dear brother mna1978! firstly thnku so much dat u replied me. when its abt going to the doctor so i DID go to the, and i AM going under treatment still, am a patient of loss of cirvical curvature due to muscular spasam due to EXTREME depression n stress, as well as severe depression. what u gave the example of "pysa wali" i wud say, not only men have feeling,even women also have,epecially when its a case of love marriage. i do love him,even more than him as i proved it even being a girl (its a very long story).i bore A WOLD OF THINGS JUST FOR HIM. so jst thnk how cud i resist? i want to avoid pregnancy for a year coz they r reasons, on which the most important is my mental n physical health. and my doct said not to go for, i told him everything but he z not understanding it, this z my problem. dats y get to dhs forum to get help, i any1 cud,
regards, |
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mna1978 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jan, 2009 Topic: 15 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:30th May 2009, 5:04am |
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pome Dear Sister!!!!! first of all i want to say kay dil bara karain... pereshan hony say too kuch nhi hota...
Dosra aik baat aap nay ghalat understand ke.... It is not about feelings it is about Right
And both have rights, men and women, and right for one in duty for other,, even men is not allowed to wear a condom with out the permission of her wife as she also has the right to become mother
And if doctor has advised you to avoid pregnancy then i think your husband is wrong if he is not giving doctors advice a thought...
I will say that the only chance you have is to convince him, and also if possible take him to the doctor, and let the doc convince him...
If that is not possible... then you have two options...
One use some pills(advice from doctor) with out the permission of your husband... but i will say that if he finds out that will not be good for your marriage life...
Second is to Pray(or make sure) that you marriage is in the third half of your periods... means that your wedding night is after the day 14 of your periods(if your periods is of 28 days) then the chances of pregnancy are remote and mean while you will have time to convince your husband...
And a Very important Thing i want to mention is that As you are a Petain of depression
Never Never User Antidepressant, In Any Case... NEVER NEVER
Take a look at this site then you will know
cchr.org
Rest Good Luck and be happy... May ALLAH Solve all Your problems |
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