Jis ki wajah sey jinsi khwahish aur tanau (erection) kam hojata hai aur woh mubaashirat (intercourse)  mein naakam hojata hai jab zehni  dabao ki wajah sey fard 1 or 2 bar mubaashirat (intercourse)  mein naakam rehta hai to phir sharmindagi ki wajah sey biwi kay pas nahi jata jis ki wajah sey naa sirf ghar ka mahool tense hojata hai balka fard mu'nhstaqil tor pe namardi ka shikar hojata hai halan kay jis tarhan ek do bar khansi anay sey fard ko TB nahi hojaati isi tarhan ek do bar tanau (erection) naa honay sey fard naa mard nahi ho jata. Baaz log mubaashirat (intercourse)  kay zariya apney zehni  dabao ko khatam kar leytai hain.

Nakami Ka Khauf (Fear Of Failure)

    Namardi ki ek ahem wajah nakami ka khuaf hota hai. Fard samajhta hai kay bachpan ki ghalat kariyon ki wajah sey woh jinsi tor per kamzor hai aur woh mubaashirat (intercourse) nahi kar sakta. Isey shadeed khauf hota hai kay woh pehli raat nakam ho jaey ga. Phir woh jaisa sochta hai waisa hi ho jata hai. Aksar naujawano'n ko khauf hota hai kay inn sey mubaashirat (intercourse) na hogi aur woh kamiyab na hongey. Chunancha woh nakam ho jatey hain. Bohut sey students exams kay khauf ki wajah sey bharpoor puri tayyari kay bawajood exams mein nakam ho jatey hain.

Tashweesh (Anxiety)

   Aaj ki duniya tashweesh (anxiety) ki duniya hai. Har fard kisi naa kisi tashweesh ya khatrat mein mubtila hai iss tashweesh ki wajah sey baaz auqat fard ko tanau (erection) nahi hota. Tanau (erection) naa honay sey fard khaufzada ho jata hai.