Sexual Abuse

Kisi dost kay haan raat na guzarney dein. Khaas kar ghar mein bachey ikatthey na so'ein. Allah kay Nabi ney 10 saal ki umer kay ba'ad do afraad ko chahey larkey hun ya larkiyan, bhaee hun ya behnein, ek chadar mein soney sey mana farmaya hai. Jadeed ahl e ilm bhi iss baat ki sifarish kartey hain kay 9 saal kay ba'ad bachon kay bister alaehda hun. Iss kay elawa bachon ko iss sey bachney ki tarbiyat dii jaey kay ju'nhi koi unn kay peeshab, pakhaney ki jagah ko chu'ey ya inn ko apna zakar pakarney ko kahey to yeh na sirf inkaar kardein bul kay foran maan ya baap ko bataein. Isi tarah kay ek walid ney apney bachon ki iss tarah tarbiyat ki hui thi. Ek tutor ney unki choti bachi sey kaha kay woh iss ka zakar (penis) pakrey, bachi hath dhoney kay bahaney ander gaee aur saari baat apney walid ko bata di. Walid ney tutor ko la'anat malamat kii aur naukri sey farigh kardiya. Iss tarah bachi jinsi tashaddud (sexual abuse) sey mehfooz rahi.

    Humarey haan naukar, naukrani, humsaya, qareebi aziz, bachon aur bachiyon ko jinsi tor per abuse karney ki koshish kartey hain lekin agar bachon ki tarbiyat kar di jaey to woh iss jinsi abuse sey bach saktey hain. Merey ek naujawan client ko bachpan mein inn ki naukrani jinsi tor per istaemaal karti thi. Isi tarah meri ek naujawan shadeed nafsiyati mareeza ka jab nafsiyati tajziya kya gaya to ma'aloom hua kay 5 saal ki umer mein ek humsaya ney uss kay sath budkaari ki koshish ki. Woh shadeed khaufzada ho gaee aur bhaag aaee aur maan ko bataya. Iss tarah woh aa'enda kay liye bhi  mehfooz ho gaee. Iss tarah merey ek naujawan client sey uss kay sagey behnoee ney budfaeli ki aur dara dhamka kar bohut arsey tak karta raha hatta kay phir usko aadat parr gaee. Ta'hum iska elaj kiya ja sakta hai.