Massagin clitoris in first/wedding night

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 Dear Bro ,

 As already discussed that women/girls are very shy , afraid , nervoused so they need more attention and confidence. So by gently massaging them as part of foreplay will help them a lot for first night intercourse. Second thing its also evident from Hadees Mubarka that * dont act like animals in sex with your wives first prepare them.** So now you still worrying for the foreplay * clitorial massage** in simple its very nice to do especially on first night.

 People who are saying dont show much co-operation in initial days in my view thats lame , thats rubbish. Women are for the pleasure of men and men are for the pleasure of women. Then why this barrier??. These people will make the marital life for newly married couple as HELL. When a husband didnt found any co-operation from his wife what would be his reaction??. I am surprised by such suggestion.

One thing more I want to say is that you ask for our comments , thats my personal views so member no flaming please.

Allah Hafiz

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There are two different situations;

in one situation, the boy doesn't know anything that what he has to do on the first night of wedding, to please his wife and he did it in very formal, nervous and tense way.

in the other situation, the boy is well-versed with the basic sex education and he knows, what are the methods for gaining more pleasure and satisfaction in intercourse. he did it accordingly.

now tell me, whose wife will be more satisfied?

remember, sexual intercourse is not essentially successful in the first night. and in my opinion, only foreplay and just 1-2 try for penetration is more than enough for the newly wed couple (due to hectic wedding schedule, exertion, fatigue and shyness elements)

Re. khan_80

your reply is very nice and comprehensive. and replying you on the topic here as this thread is related to this topic.

One confustion here,  you said "just 1-2 try for penetration is enough for newly wed couple", does it mean discharge in vagina? no discharge? or discharge outside by masturbation? or this penetration try is just done to make both of them to feel confident kai they are able to do this, without any discharge? thanks

Agreed

Brother Faisee the two rply from member Saruzi and Khan_80 is i think better i am still not married so i dont have much information but i also heard that girls parent or close relative teach them not to cooperate in the intial days so if the boy tried too much to have sex he will become juru ka gullam but i think if husband & wife do sex with mutual desion its more better Also you know some time boy friend are asking if not do sex on first night your become failure never talk able to wife in high voice,,,,,, these all things in village places and uneducated families

Brother Saruzi your post is very nice.

Thanks