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khanimran |
Group: Members Joined: 19th May, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2008, 5:06am |
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 Enlarge Head Of My Brother and Sisters
Dear sir, Assalaam-u-alaikum I face a typical problem, that all the sons of my brothers and sisters have somewhat extra-sized heads. Though all of them are very cute, active and intelligent, but their heads creates a complex of inferiority in us. After a month I'm planning to marry (Insha'Allah) and I am afraid of it, even some times I think if a get a same baby I'll kill him soon after his birth. Please guide me how can I avoid it for my children or to which specialist I should consult in this regard. Khan Imran Ali Hyderabad India. |
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2008, 5:22am |
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khanimran w salam.
yeh to aak Qudarti baat hai es par kisi ka koi zoor nehin.lekin aap ki yeh baat mujhe passand nehin ayi if a get a same baby i will kill him soon after his birth.
jab aak insaan ko yeh baat passand nehin ayi to Allah ko to bilkul bhi nahin aye gi.aap tuba karo Allah se kyun ke aap ne bhut bara word bola hai.on se pocho jin ki ulaad he nehin hai.woh to bas yeh chahte hain ke on ko Allah bacha de dey chahe woh ladki ho ya ladka.chahe kala ho ya goora ya phir head ka size bhara ho.woh bas ulaad chahte hain.
on se pocho ja kar jin ke bachey abnormal hain.waqt ke sath woh bhare hote ja rahe hain young ho rahe hain on ke maa baap kya face kar rahe hain on se pocho ja kar.aap ko shukar karna chahein ke aap ke bahi aur behan ke bachey normal hai.na ke abnormal.
main aap ko ager yeh kahon ke ager aap ko Allah ulaad he na de to phir?kya aap nauzobilla Allah ko bhi bura bhala kaho ge?change ur think dear.Allah ki banayi hoi cheez ko bura nehin kehna chahein. |
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khanimran |
Group: Members Joined: 19th May, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2008, 6:20am |
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Explaination Thanks dear for the guidance. I really regret if it gives a wrong sence, but the intention behind the sentene was nothing but to show the extreme concern about the problem.
For each desease there is, indeed, a remedy; for that I am seeking the guidance from experts. |
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2008, 1:20pm |
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head size If the head size is larger than normal, it may be ur family trait, means in heredity. If the head size is not creating any problem, then why u are worried? veer has given u correct answer. plz think positively and keep faith on ALLAH. |
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khanimran |
Group: Members Joined: 19th May, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Sep 2008, 9:10am |
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I want the solution The problem doesn't exist in any of my cousin's children, neither paternal nor maternal. Not even in the family of one of my real paternal uncle, who married to my real maternal aunt, even we all brothers are allright.
None in my family is bothered about this problem except me. As I think, for each problem, Allah The-Almighty has kept a solution, and we must try our best to get the solution. And also, I do believe in perfectionism; all my belongings, from dresses to gadgets, are considered as a benchmark in and outside of my circle. I was taught that Allah is perfect/Beautiful (Jameel) and likes perfectionism, so I try my best to maintain this perfectionism.
I think, there would be deficiency in my father or mother, which resulted in this way. That's why I want to know, which specialist can handle this case.
So, I request you to help me in a very important turn of my life.
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khanimran |
Group: Members Joined: 19th May, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 19 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Sep 2008, 9:46pm |
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Is this website just for moral advices. Dear all,
Assalam-u-alaikum
I was posted a request with a hope that I'd get some guidance, rather I got mere moral preachings. I do agree that we must always be in the limits, but it doesn't mean that we ignore the intensity of real problem and just go on preaching values.
I expect a purely scientific reply, as this is a medical site primarily. |
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Oct 2008, 10:56pm |
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head size u are advised to consult endocrinologist to discuss this problem. |
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