Duties of Wife: Donnot Look at Anyone Other Than Your Husband

Duties of Wife: Donnot Look at Anyone Other Than Your Husband

Dear lady!aap ko shaadi se pelhay kitni shaadi ki offers ayi hon gi.ye offers rich,educated,handsome men ki ho sakti han.jin se aap ne shaadi kernay ki wish bhi ki ho.aisi expectations shaadi se pelhay natural han.laikin ab aap ne apnay partner ko choose ker liya hai. aur aik sacred contract bhi sign kiya hai ke aap uss insaan ke saath apni baki ki pori life guzarain gi,phir aap past ko pori tara bhool jayain.aap ko apni past wishes aik teruf rakh daini chahiyain aur past offers ko bhi bhool jaana chahiay.apnay husband ke ilawa kisi aur admi ko aap ne nahi sochna aur un ke saath hi peace ko find kerna hai.ager aap ne phir bhi aisa kiya tu aap khud ko hi strained condition me daal dain gi.

Ab jab aap ne husband ke saath rahnay se agree ker liya hai,tu aap constantly doseray men ko kuin notice ker rahi han?tu aap un ko doseroon se kuin compare ker rahi han?aap ko khud ko permanently miserable state me dalnay aur mental arguish ke ilawa doseray men ki teruf dekh ker aur kya hasil ho ga?

Doseray men ko dekhnay aur un se husband ko compare kernay se,aap aik aisay man ko find kerain gi jis me wo faults tu nahi hon gay jo aap ke husband me han laikin aur doseray kitnay faults hon gay.apparently aap soochain gi wo kitna perfect hai kuin ke aap uss doseray insaan ki deficiencies se aware nahi han.aap apni marriage ko failure sumjhain gi,jis ka end disastrous ho ga.

"Mrs….,aik 18 saal ki woman ghar se bhaag gayi aur phir police se ussay arrest ker liya.police station me uss aurat ne kahaa ke marriage ke 3 saal bahd,wo gradually feel ker rahi thi ke wo husband se pyar nahi ker pa rahi.uss ne kahaa:"main apnay husband ka face doseray men se compare kerti rahti aur main chahti ke meri shaadi uss doseray insaan se ho".

Dear madam!ager aap everlasting marriage me interested han;ager aap mental distress nahi chahitien;aur ager aap normal life guzarna chahti han,tu selfish bunna chorain aur apni vain hopes ko chorr dain.doseray men ke liay complements mat kerain.apnay husband ke ilawa kisi aur man ko mat soochain.ye mat sochain:

"main wish kerti hoon meri shaadi aisi hoti;"

"meri wish hai mera husband es tara nazer atta…;"

"meri wish hai meray husband ki job es tara hotti..;"

"meri wish hai…," "meri wish hai…," "meri wish hai…,"

Aap khud ko aisi soochoon ka qaidi kuin bunnati ha?aap apni marriage ki foundation ko upset kuin kerti han?ager in me se koi wish saach ho bhi jaye tu aap ko kis tara patta chalay ga ke future me aap satisfied hon gi?kya aap sure hank e un so-called "faultless" men ki wives un se satisfy han?

Dear madam!ager ke husband ye suspect kerain ke aap kisi aur man me interest lay rahi han,wo dishearted hon gay aur aap me interest lose ker dain gay.aap kisi mard ke saath mazakh nahi ker saktien aur kisi doseray ki company bhi nahi rakh saktien.men itnay sensitive hotay hank e wo ye bhi nahi pasand kertay ke un ki wife kisi aur admi ki picture me bhi interest lay.

"Nabi (sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) ne fermaya:'wo married woman jo kisi aur admi ki teruf dekhay,uss per Allah ka sakht ghazub ho ga".